tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-90031449159472039602023-11-16T12:31:46.921+01:00BDSM-Life NewsletterThe BDSM-Life Newsletter is a newsletter for members of the BDSM-Life group in SecondLife.
The Newsletter is written by Cazzy Hax and Roni Scarmon so all enquiries should go to Cazzy or Roni.
We are also looking for people to write for the newsletter. If you are interested, please contact Cazzy or Roni. Thank you :)Constanza Amsterdamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03107085321702114984noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-7855952917820475542009-07-04T14:28:00.027+02:002009-07-06T12:16:15.439+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 6 July<h1>Final Issue of the Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. BDSM Life Closing<br />2. BDSM-Life Fiction Contest Winners<br />3. Adult Content - Age Verification<br />4. New Photo Contest<br />5. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />6. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. BDSM Life Closing</h3><br />It is with heavy heart that I must report the closing of the BDSM Life sim. I've whiled away many an hour there. There was never a dull moment! I could always find somebody to play with on one of the toys. I met all those with whom I regularly exchanged IMs there. It became, for me, synonymous with Second Life. <br /><br />Here's some last pictures of the good times we all had in the BDSM-Life Sim:<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9O46Mc-OI/AAAAAAAAAmE/N6Wd4bnHA8w/s1600-h/Grease+Party+1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 249px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9O46Mc-OI/AAAAAAAAAmE/N6Wd4bnHA8w/s400/Grease+Party+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354585221567936738" /></a><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9Op_jQ4TI/AAAAAAAAAl8/29rfjur3zcc/s1600-h/Auction+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 398px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9Op_jQ4TI/AAAAAAAAAl8/29rfjur3zcc/s400/Auction+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354584965307752754" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9P6RmidkI/AAAAAAAAAmM/Igak2ZyFWq8/s1600-h/school+kids_003.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 218px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9P6RmidkI/AAAAAAAAAmM/Igak2ZyFWq8/s400/school+kids_003.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354586344542860866" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9RC4JAiWI/AAAAAAAAAmk/45U4-dGQc7Q/s1600-h/Party+Pic+1_002.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 209px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9RC4JAiWI/AAAAAAAAAmk/45U4-dGQc7Q/s400/Party+Pic+1_002.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354587591838566754" /></a><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9Qn2VY_bI/AAAAAAAAAmc/ikeh2IQZ0-U/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_032.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9Qn2VY_bI/AAAAAAAAAmc/ikeh2IQZ0-U/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_032.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354587127497162162" /></a><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9QPSKQVsI/AAAAAAAAAmU/yAWBVmOdh8I/s1600-h/Grand+Opening+PArty.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sk9QPSKQVsI/AAAAAAAAAmU/yAWBVmOdh8I/s400/Grand+Opening+PArty.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5354586705469920962" /></a><br /><br />As Groucho sang, "Hello, I must be going!" :-) Good bye SL! Be sure to check out the new slapt me sim!<br /><h3>2. Fiction Contest Winners</h3><br />Thanks to everybody who submitted stories to the fiction contest. It was a pleasure reading all of the stories, and in an act of unabashed chicken-heartedness, I hereby declare it a tie. :-) That's right, these authors are all first place winners in my mind, or somewhere else on my anatomy anyway. :-)<br /><br />So here are their stories, in no particular order:<br /><br /><c>FIRST NIGHT OUT</c><br /><c>by minnie Jinx</c><br /><br />"Strip. Now."<br /><br />His words were demanding, insistent--but spoken in a voice so low I might never have caught them if every molecule in my body hadn't been zinging with hypersensitivity and anticipation.<br /><br />The heady, antiseptic vapors of rubbing alcohol and some other unidentifiable disinfectant permeated the large, open space of the darkened room. Low-wattage, recessed light bulbs in various shades of red and blue were scattered across the ceiling in seemingly random spurts, like stars across a low-hanging sky, casting soft circles of colored illumination onto the dark red carpeting.<br /><br />My heart was pounding, my fingers twisted in the soft cotton fabric of my dress, clenching it, clinging to it like my last bastion of sanity. Hell, maybe it was.<br /><br />I'd said I would do it. But now I didn't know if I could.<br /><br />My back was to most of the room, but I could feel the presence of others behind me--at least half a dozen curious, otherwise-unoccupied pairs of eyes at last glance. Just sitting. Lurking in the shadows. Watching. And at least half a dozen more huddled around the various pieces of equipment placed here and there throughout the room, gathered in small clusters, doing things that I hadn't yet fully grasped, my own embarrassment making me turn away before I had seen much more than brief flashes of bare skin. I tried to ignore the sounds. Thuds. Smacks. Moans.<br /><br />All these people. I hadn't expected so many. Strangers.<br /><br />All except One.<br /><br />I let out a slow breath, very aware of my Master's presence nearby. His gaze sliding over me had almost a physical weight to it. I heard Him shift beside me, felt the heat of His impatience radiating toward me, pushing against me, delving into me.<br /><br />I turned my head. There was a hard edge to His mouth, a possessive intensity to His stance that spurred a sudden rush of adrenaline in my body. I bit back the tiny gasp that tried to force its way up my throat. He nodded at me, still waiting, His large hands clasped together in the front of His body, a blanket spread out at His feet.<br /><br />I closed my eyes, releasing my hold on the already unzipped dress. A slight shake of my shoulders and the whole thing slithered down my body, caressing my hips along the way, the fabric pooling around my bare feet. My body began to shiver then, and not from the cold--a fine trembling that I couldn't seem to stop no matter how many cleansing breaths I took. Terror.<br /><br />I was naked beneath the dress. Completely. Not just naked to the eyes of strangers. Naked to Him. More naked to Him than I had ever been before, or so it felt, standing there, stripped of my every defense. Not just stripped of clothing. Stripped of every piece of physical and mental armor I had ever known. He had forbidden them all tonight. No makeup, no jewelry, no nail polish, no perfume. Even my hair was tied back with nothing more than a simple black band, pulled away from my face and braided down my back, offering no shield, no curtain to hide behind.<br /><br />I was completely exposed.<br /><br />When He had first given me the instructions for preparing for the night, I hadn't fully comprehended the implications. I had thought Him perhaps old-fashioned, maybe harboring a slight fetish for the innocent girl-next-door look. But now I realized. That wasn't it at all. There would be no pretenses, no walls between us tonight. He wanted to bare my soul.<br /><br />And just for a moment, it made me want to run screaming.<br /><br />"Goooood girl." His voice interrupted my thoughts--His words lilting and slightly drawn out, the way someone might speak to a skittish horse--His deep, rich baritone cutting through the escalating tension in my tall frame like warm chocolate sliding down my throat. He gestured to the blanket, His face softening for a moment as He looked at me, a hint of pride flashing in His eyes, the barest touch of a smile curving His lips. "Come."<br /><br />A core-deep warmth flared in my belly at His words and my heart seemed to swell--taking comfort in His praise, feeling His approval fill me, bolstering me with a renewed strength and resolve to continue. I scrambled over to Him, my elegance leaving much to be desired in my haste to kneel before Him on the blanket. But somehow, kneeling wasn't enough. I hesitated for a moment, then threw myself down on all fours, almost prostrate before Him. My body stopped trembling, realizing a certain sense of relief in my new lowered position, scooting closer to Him, lowering my head even more, almost cowering behind His legs.<br /><br />His fingertip brushed the underside of my chin, tipping my head up, pulling me up off my hands, forcing me to sit tall. I swallowed as He took a step back for a moment, leaving me open to the gaze of the room again, my head turning slightly, unable to stop my eyes from darting around from one set of strange eyes to the next, a fearful lump growing in my throat. But then He was back, pulling a chair over in front of me and sitting it in, facing me, my breasts level with His knees.<br /><br />He leaned forward, one elbow braced against His thigh, His free hand closing around the back of my neck, drawing me toward Him until His forehead was touching mine. I shivered as our skin touched, my eyes moving up to meet His, an odd mixture of calm and excitement rushing through me as He held me with His gaze.<br /><br />My temperature seemed to rise as I knelt motionless, drowning in the depths of that gaze, my body flaming with heat, not from embarrassment, but from desire. It wasn't a sexual desire, not entirely, not exactly, nothing as shallow as that. This desire had the flavor of sensuality smeared all over it, but its basic ingredient was the desire to serve. To please. In every way.<br /><br />The inner muscles of my pussy spasmed. My eyelids fluttered for a moment, and I let out a strangled cry. I felt a rush of wetness between my thighs, sticky juices leaking down the inside of my leg. On any other night, I might have been embarrassed, but somehow, I was beyond shame right at that moment. I was almost floating.<br /><br />"Beautiful." He exhaled the word softly, the warmth of His breath caressing my lips as He continued to cradle the back of my head in His hand.<br /><br />"Master," I whispered, my voice sounding high, thready, and distant to my own ears.<br /><br />He smiled--that cold, devilish smile that always warned of blessedly evil deeds to come. <br /><br />My toes curled beneath me as I stared into the darkness inside Him, but I didn't look away. God help me, it excited me.<br /><br />My cunt contracted again, harder this time, hungry. I tried to ignore it. It had been ten days since He had last allowed me an orgasm, and there was no end in sight to the current run of frustrated teasing. I was starting to learn not to anticipate. In truth--and this was the part that scared me --I was starting to learn to crave the frustration… learning to ride that wave of pulsating need and take my pleasure from it, even when it left me gasping on my knees, screaming for release.<br /><br />I could feel my pulse jumping, pressing against the small spot where our foreheads touched… or maybe it was His pulse. I could feel the blood pumping, a slight throbbing of something, some strange pleasure that I had never experienced before. The room seemed to expand at the edges of my peripheral vision, growing larger, vaster, darker… the strangers surrounding us sliding away, no longer pressing so close. It felt like we were alone.<br /><br />My desire grew with each passing second, all of my attention on Him, on pleasing Him, not moving from His arms, my eyes and ears attuned to the slightest command He might give, the smallest need He might have.<br /><br />After what seemed like an hour but may have only been five minutes, He half-turned in the chair and inclined His head toward the X-shaped metal frame behind Him. "Up." <br /><br />My body gave a little trembling sigh of relief at having something to do for Him, some tangible way to be of service. I pushed myself to my feet and stepped onto the small platform at the base of the St. Andrew's cross.<br /><br />It made a loud, obnoxious creaking sound beneath me. I winced, my focus faltering, the sound jarring me out of my peaceful trancelike state. The rest of the room began to crowd in at the edges of my consciousness. People whispering, chairs shifting. A woman moaning, the deep thud of leather tails striking bare flesh. Music in the background, the haunting choral strains of "Miserere Mei" drifting through the room, layering over all the other sounds.<br /><br />I could feel the heat of other people's bodies.<br /><br />Strangers. So close. Watching.<br /><br />Fuck, what was I doing?<br /><br />I let out a whimper and turned to face Him, uncertainty etched across my features, a hint of panic in my eyes. My gaze flicked toward the exit doorway, a reflex. I wanted to run.<br /><br />He stood and stepped into me, one foot on the platform, pressing against me, His body covering mine. I took a half-step backward, but then there was nowhere to go. His palms were flat on either side of my head, trapping me. The rough metal surface of the bondage cross was cold against my back, forcing my bare nipples into hardened peaks against the unyielding muscles of His chest.<br /><br />"Pleassse," I whispered, my hands clutching at His arms, another wave of panic rushing over me. The air was too hot; I felt like I was being smothered, my lungs tightening, straining, struggling.<br /><br />He shifted His weight, maneuvering His right thigh between my legs, pressing upward slightly, just enough to put very light pressure on my clit.<br /><br />I gasped, my eyes closing for a moment, then flying open again in surprise as His fingers fisted painfully tight in the hair at the nape of my neck, yanking my head back. I stared up at Him, panting, distracted, confused. His head lowered, his teeth closing in a slow, deliberate movement over my throat, holding gently over my windpipe for a long moment before dragging across the skin of my neck and settling at the soft indented space near my collarbone. I could feel His lips then, and His tongue, a hard suction against my skin, a persistent tugging that seemed to travel all the way through my body, deep down in my belly, tugging, tugging, tugging.<br /><br />I forgot where I was. I arched against Him and let out a wild sound that was half-scream and half-moan. "Masssster, pleassse." I think I may have let out a few choice curse words, but the blood was rushing in my ears, and I couldn't be sure.<br /><br />He lifted His head from my neck, relaxing His grip on my hair. If His thigh hadn't been snugged up between my legs at that moment I think I would have slid to the ground like so much boneless meat.<br /><br />"Please what, my little slut?" His eyes burned into me.<br /><br />I blinked, my chest rising and falling in great, shuddering waves, struggling to put together a rational sentence. "P-p-pleassse… please… ohhhhh g-god." I didn't want to ask for it. I knew from experience that asking for it would almost guarantee that I didn't get it. But I could see the familiar flame of sadistic desire in His eyes. He wanted me to ask. So I did. "Pleassse," I swallowed hard and took another breath. "Please M-masssster, m-may I cum?"<br /><br />His eyes darkened, but He didn't answer, His head dipping again, pressing a soft kiss to the throbbing spot on my neck. His hands moved over me, across me, lifting my arms one by one, fiddling with something over my head as He moved His thigh in a little sawing motion between my legs, the rough black denim creating a maddening friction against my clit.<br /><br />"Nnnnghhh." I grunted and thrashed against Him, my head tossing from side to side as I moved with feverish desperation, trying to still the circular pumping motion of my hips. I bit my lip to keep from pleading with Him again. The sharp metallic tang of blood filled my mouth. <br /><br />I was so lost in the sea of sensation that I barely noticed my hands had been cuffed to the cross over my head until He pulled back, creating a small gap between our bodies. His thigh was still between my legs, but that was the only part of Him touching me now. My eyes widened as I tried to lower my arms, to reach out to Him, and found that I could not.<br /><br />My body stiffened, still slick and shuddering with need, but it was a nervous need now. Sweat glistened on my bare flesh, the air against my damp skin chilling me. I looked down at the space between us, wanting to close the 5-inch gap, wanting to feel His chest against mine again.<br /><br />He tipped my head up toward His with a fingertip again, bending down, licking the little bruised spot where I'd bitten my lip, kissing me.<br /><br />I felt Him pulling His thigh back, and I tried to push my hips up toward Him, my legs tightening around Him, trying to keep His thigh between my legs.<br /><br />He growled and made a little "tsk" sound with His tongue against the roof of His mouth, His fingers coming up to pinch at the side of my breast, trapping my tender flesh between His thumb and the side of His forefinger, squeezing hard. "Let. Go. Now."<br /><br />I shrieked at the sharp pain and my legs opened, releasing His thigh. He pulled away. I stared up at Him, trembling, bereft.<br /><br />He grabbed my chin in one hand, chuckling in a low tone. "Eager little slut, aren't you?"<br /><br />Heat rushed to my cheeks. "Y-yes, M-massster. I'm… s-sorry, Master."<br /><br />His fingers trailed over my belly, sliding lower, tracing circles around my clit with His fingertip. "You will be."<br /><br />A tremor of fear went through my body at His words, and my hands wrapped around the chains leading from the cuffs, clinging to them like lifelines, as though they might be able to absorb whatever pains I might be forced to endure.<br /><br />He smiled, almost tenderly then. "But for now…" His hand slid smoothly over my cunt, palm cupping my pelvic bone, my swollen clit pressed tight against the heel of His hand as He plunged two fingers deep into my sex, curling them toward the front of my body.<br /><br />"A-annnghhh, no, no, nooo, god I can't, c-can't pleasssse." I shook my head and tried to plead with Him, taking shallow breaths, afraid to even hope for mercy now. My body stiffened, my muscles taut, jumping and twitching like live wires beneath the tingling buzz of His touch.<br /><br />He didn't move His body, His hand, or His fingers. He didn't do anything except keep holding me in that incredibly intimate, possessive manner, staring into my eyes.<br /><br />Time seemed to pause. Everything was still. Everything. Everything except me.<br /><br />Because despite my best attempts, my cunt muscles were pulsing, tightening and releasing around His fingers in little rhythmic waves, driving my arousal higher. He didn't even have to move. I was about to drive myself over the edge of the cliff. I screamed, more out of fear that I was about to fail Him than anything else.<br /><br />His fingers tightened around my chin, His pupils dilating, His voice husky, almost hoarse. "Cum for Me, bitch. Do it now." His fingers inside me curled just a bit more, pressing firmly against the inner wall of my cunt.<br /><br />I knew a brief instant of mental relief, and then I let go, tumbling headfirst into the deep, dark pool of desire. My cunt convulsed hard, my torso bowing outward in a tight arc as the heat in my body seemed to reach a boiling point and spill over, wrenching another long, high-pitched scream from my throat. "Masssssssssster! Annnghhh god yessss thank You…oh god oh god… annnghhhh..." I gasped as a second orgasm slammed into me almost before the first had stopped, my arms starting to shake from the tight grip I had on the chains at my wrists. My thighs quivered, my knees weak, little aftershocks still running up and down my spine. My face was wet. I blinked, surprised, and realized I was crying.<br /><br />He stepped into my body again, His hand still holding onto me, still inside me. His mouth descending upon mine as if to kiss me. I looked up, my eyes glazed and unfocused, starting to see little white spots dancing in front of me. I let out a soft breath, my voice barely a whisper against His lips. "Yourssss." And then I collapsed into a great, yawning darkness, my body slumping against Him, not quite unconscious, but not floating either. Suspended in a kind of limbo… waiting.<br /><br />I didn't have to wait for long.<br /><br />His fingers inside me twitched, just once, and His free arm wrapped around my waist, pulling me up tight against His body. I moaned, a slow rolling energy pouring off of His body and into me, then back, again and again. The hard length of Him bulged against the leg of His pants, pressing into my hip. <br /><br />His voice tickled my earlobe. "Don't tap out yet, little one. The night is just beginning."<br /><br /></hr><br /><br /><c>A Captive Comes Home</c><br /><c>by larae Magic</c><br /><br />The loud voices and noises proclaimed the warriors home coming. Adriana rose from her stool where she had been placing the final stitching of a new shirt for her Lord. The heavy wooden panels of the main door swung open as the warriors streamed through bringing with them their loud bantering and jesting of a hunt well done. A smile teased her soft pink lips as delicate fingers smoothed her long golden hair in place and she folded her hands before in anticipation of His noticing her.<br /><br />His tall form came through the doorway yet all she could see was His dark head amongst the press of warriors, females and slaves eager to unburden the triumph men of their hunting trophies. As the press parted she noticed an unusual knot about her Lord and what seemed to be a struggle…her head tilted to one side in quiet curiosity. Then dark eyes flared in startled surprise as He tugged forward a struggling red headed female by the chain attached to her throat. The woman reared back with a feral snarl, her teeth flashing as she cursed they who had her. Her Lord grasped the female by her long braid and tossed her to the center of the floor with a bellowed “YIELD”! Adriana was taken aback by the tone in His usually calm and controlled voice. It was then she saw the marks on His shoulder where the girl must have attacked Him. Her eyes flew to the female as she began to rise upwards.<br /><br />Adriana’s breath came in a soft gasp at the beauty of the proud woman who rose and straightened with a warrior prince’s dignity. She watched as her Lord called for the woman to be tied to the center column. The hall in an excited uproar as two of His warriors answered and grasped the foreign woman as she fought them with all her strength…even after she was lashed securely to the column. Adriana’s Lord stepped forward… looked the woman in her blazing sapphire eyes and commanded once more, “YIELD”. The hall went silent as she spat in His handsome face. The rip of her parting tunic echoed as He tore it from her back exposing the tanned smooth skin. His footsteps rang loudly as He crossed back to where He had been. The crack of the bull whip brought several startled cries…including her own as He flicked it outward its end curling upon the stone floor. His eyes hard and unflinching as He looked upon His beautiful new slave.<br /><br />Adriana’s heart beat hard as her own eyes fell to the proud warrioress. She knew that woman would never yield…could feel it in every fiber of her small frame.. knew this day would cost that proud woman her life before she would yield it to this conquerer.<br />Adriana stepped forward, one slow step after another till she stood before the captive and looked up into her hate filled eyes. “If you yield not, you may die. He is a good Lord, yield sister” <br /><br />The tied woman snarled in Adriana’s face and did not answer. But the look in those eyes confirmed what Adriana had already guessed. Adriana thought furiously fast on how to save this creature from death…or worse. Without looking from the warrioress she unfastened the gown from her own shoulders and moved to her back, placing herself between her Lord’s whip and the captive’s bare slender back.<br /><br />THWACK like a clap of thunder and fire sliced into her as His whip fell upon her creamy flesh. Adriana’s small hands clutched the other woman’s shoulders as she fell forward into her. Adriana’s voice begged with breathy pain…”please yield sister”<br /><br />“Never” she answered.<br /><br />Thrice more the whip fell on Adriana’s back, she felt the fire lick into her body as her knees threatened to give. The blood seeping from the last stripe as angry as could sense from her Lord for her interference in this. A sob broke from her pink lips as her forehead pressed into the bare back of her before her. “Please…” she begged the woman… was the only word she could get past her clenched teeth as the fire licked her twice more in punishment. The hall deadly silent…even the other warriors not moving an inch or saying a word.<br /><br />Hot tears fell onto the captive’s skin.<br /><br />“I YEILD” She called out… Adriana’s Lord moved forward to grasp the girl’s chin… her eyes bore into His with stormy wildness. “I yield…for her”. <br /><br />He smiled a strange smile. Looked to His chosen woman and proclaimed their fate.<br /><br /> “Adriana…train her well, or suffer her punishments.” Turned and walked away with His warriors.<br /><br />Adriana didn’t know how she managed to move, much less struggle the ties from the girl who was now her responsibility…but she did. The woman caught Adriana when she almost fell. Looked into her soft gentle eyes… “Why?”<br /><br />“He IS a good Lord, if a strict one. He would not have stopped until you yielded or died. I couldn’t let that happen… to either of you. You are sister, now.” In those words the captive saw the quiet gentle nobility of the other woman and nodded. She had yielded for this woman… and as she helped the smaller woman from the hall…she knew… she would give all she had to protect this small woman who had proclaimed them sisters…and learn what she needed to learn. <br /><br />“My name is Shria, I will learn… never will you know the whip for my actions again.” And as the days slid pass and Shria learned the ways of her Owner, Shria never broke that promice made to her new sister.<br /><br /></hr><br /><br /><c>Master's WHiney Kitten</c><br /><c>by Bastet Lyon</c><br /> She disrobed, slowly under his watchful eye, pants, top, bra, ..folding them neatly and placing them on the dresser. <br /> "wait!" master said suddenly, " get up on the bed for a sec and curl up, fetal ."<br /> she did as he asked, he reaching over pulling her hands in differently, looking at different angles. walking around a little. finally"OK", he said, "I need to take a shower, you make that bed." he walked into the master bath, and she still clad only in her victorias secret pink panities started to make that bed.<br />for a tall man, she knew enough not to tuck the bottom sheet in, this would displease master, moving to the masters side of the bed she pulled the blankies up and.... <br /> Crash.! the lamp tossled over and fell on the bulb completely shattering it. Kitten quickly jumped on the bed, hands and knees...<br /> " master?. it was an accident! please dont be angry." kitten looked up from the big bed at the strong handsome man who came out to see what had broken.<br /> "stay on that bed", shaking his head and grabbing the shop vac he quickly cleaned up her mess. replacing the light bulb and patting her on the ass. <br /> " comeon.. try to make the bed with out making a mess this time" master said back to her as he went into the master bath for his shower<br /> "ok." she said hopping up and quickly finishing just the way he liked it not tucked in at the bottom, his height made it uncomfortable if the coveers tucked in and she knew it. she wanted nothing more than to please this man, her friend, probably the closest friend she had. when she finished the bed she slipped off the panties and under the covers. "master?!", she called to the man in the shower. <br /> "yes?" he called out, almost mockingly having that WHAT-THE-FUCK-NOW-CHILD tone to his voice. <br /> "ummmm, can i turn on the fan? its hot!"<br /> " yes kitten, turn on the fan" he called back to her<br /> she hopped up from the bed tuning on the fan and jumping back in quickly.<br /> It seemed like forever befor he finished his shower, and kitten had drifted off to a fitful sleep. suddenly a strong grip on her wrist pulling it and applying a professional restraint, she relented her arm becoming quite wet at the prospect of what was to come.<br />fastening the right wrist with in the confines of the velcro restraint he took her left wrist and repeated the process, then indicated for her to turn. <br />"Fetal" he said to her in that I-mean-business tone.<br /> she assumed the position and master went to work securing her arms crossed across her chest, and tying the restraint under her thighs. smacking her ass and pushing her back he leaned up on her and shoved a clothin her mouth<br /> " you better not take that out of your mouth. do you understand me?" he said business like<br /> she nodded eyes full of fear and awe for this tall sexxy handsome man. he was totally in control now.<br /> he pushed her back on her back exposing her firm bubble ass and pussy. she bit down on the cloth as he laid his rock hard cock against her tiny pussy. he was huge and she was a little smaller in the vaginal area than the females he was used to domming.<br /> one shove and he was in, his throbbing member ripping into her tiny cunt, she yelped and bit down on the cloth. he pumped her twice and she yelped, shoving the gag into her mouth deeper he stopped the impalement and bending down near her ear whispered, " now why am i hearing that whining? i thought i told you i didnt want to hear this?>" giving the gag another deeper shove he withdrew his cock from her little love canal and pressed his massive cock against her little brown pucker hole. thinking twice he backed up and inserted a finger instead she heard him opening a package but couldnt see in the dark what he was doing suddenly she felt a burning in her ass he had inserted something in her, then another then another buring she didnt know what it was but she trusted him completely. A minute later he resumed his plunge getting her ass ready for his rock hard sausage. inserting one then two fingers, his big hands stretching her anus to accomodate his massive girth. he was, at times, kind.<br /> "mmmuph mupphhhhh ahhhkaahhahah", she cried the pain was exquisite<br />he looked up from his stretching, " now why the fuck am i hearing you?! you know how i feel about whining!" he used his other hand to shove the gag in deeper.<br />then with out another word he drew back and slammed his hot dick deep into her little brown butt.<br />" aahhhhhahhhgahhh" she cried out to deaf ears. over and over again he slammed his man meat into her ass as she struggled to reach her clit. "hahaha you have to try harder than that bitch", he teased her. slamming his cock into her ass knowing she wanted to rub her clit to relieve the pain. <br /> "ok ok " he said loosening her left hand up, continuing the slam in the ass<br />rubbing her clit with her left hand barely able to reach it, he and she both knew she loved the ass fucking but she had to be able to rub her clit to get off, looking at him with pleading eyes, she protested against the gag<br />" i been as nice as im gonna be slut", he said unrelenting his ass poundin, " you asked for this and now you got it, so live with it",<br />becoming defiant and angry she worked at her restraint and rmoved the left one then the right bitching at master under the gag.rubbing her clit roughly as soon as the rightone came off.<br />"ahhhhhhhmmmm cmmmnnnggg" she screamed against the gagg<br />"shut the fuck up" master said to her sternly smacking her impaled ass<br />"uck uuuuu im mmmmmcMMING AGGGGGGGNNNNN", she screamed into the gag<br />suddenly the gag was out of her mouth and a huge slab of man cock replaced it shoving it deeply down her throat fucking her mouth as he had her ass. gagging she tasted it. like cherries yum yum she thought he is a good and kind master. licking his cock she hungrily tasted her own ass off it. he grabbed her and flipped her back onto her back, resuming the assault on her ass<br />shoving the gag back into her mouth. <br />"ahhhhgahhhgahh" she screamed and whined into her gag. <br />"now why the fuck am i hearing you?!"he leaned forward leaving his throbbing cock in her ass shoving the cloth gag into her mouth even deeper.<br />"you are pissing me off bitch, you know how i feel about whining" he said sternly<br />"ahhh gahhh hahhh sh nonono no" she yelled against her gagg and lowering her legs he threw them up again around his waist<br />"did i say to lower your legs? i think not" he said as she attempted to lower them again<br />" rub that clit" he said as she rubbed herself roughly looking him in the eyes, her eyes pleading the pain suddenly incredible. he withdrew from her ass and entered her vagina pounding her relentlessly <br />"gum din me gum dimme" she muffled behind the gagg. he removing the huge member and placing it in her sore ass<br />suddenly she felt dizzy and nauseated, the pain in her ass unbearable suddenly she was afraid she would vomit, and grabbing the gag out of her mouth she uttered that word he had never heard her say in a situation like this before, but had gotten in trouble for not using before,... her safe word <br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Adult Content - Age Verification</h3><br /><br />Like it or not, you need to be age verified if you want to continue to enjoy the BDSM Life sim. One way to do so is to purchase Lindens. You can supply credit card information directly to LL or use Pay Pal, as I have done. An alternative is the Aristotle Integrity check process, which verifies driver's license, national ID card, or passport information for 157 nations. This removes anonymity somewhat, unfortunately, but that's the price we have to pay to access adult content, evidently.<br /><br />Visit the Aristotle website at <a href="http://integrity.aristotle.com/" target="aristotle">http://integrity.aristotle.com/</a>, if you like. It explains the process somewhat, but there is no way to get verified there. Instead, you must visit <a href="www.secondlife.com" target="secondlife">www.secondlife.com</a> and log in there using your SL avatar name and password. You'd think they'd make it available in world, but that would be too easy, I suppose. Anyway, once you log in you'll see an option for Age Verification in the list of links on the left hand side. Click that to open the page shown below and fill in the requested information. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s1600-h/SL+Age+Verification.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 310px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s400/SL+Age+Verification.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727723678071426" /></a>Time is running out to get age verified. DO so soon - we don't want to miss any of you in the BDSM Life sim!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br />The BDSM-Life sim is taking applications for next weekend's auction. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s1600-h/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s400/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339737455624793234" /></a>Please see the application form at the auction location in the BDSM Life sim.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest!</h3><br /><br />The following folks have already submitted their pictures for the new BDSM Life Photo Contest:<br /><br />Rosemary Baroque<br />Shirah Destiny<br />Larae Magic<br />Ellyssia Sexton (current female leader)<br />Slave Siamendes<br />Moria Thespian<br /><br />Mulder Edman (current male leader)<br /><br />It costs only $50L to enter your picture. First place wins $5000L! The contest runs until 1 August 2009. Enter now!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at this link <a href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" target='newsletter'>www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Constanza Amsterdam!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-68053004393523787562009-06-28T13:44:00.009+02:002009-06-29T12:20:22.351+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 24 June 29-July 5<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. slapt Opening!<br />2. BDSM-Life Fiction Contest<br />3. Adult Content - Age Verification<br />4. Dom/sub/switch Corner<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. New Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. slapt Opening - Lord Sullivan</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qAUB0d3I/AAAAAAAAAlE/ovfmvjpPhO0/s1600-h/Slapt+Home+Page.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 306px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qAUB0d3I/AAAAAAAAAlE/ovfmvjpPhO0/s320/Slapt+Home+Page.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349759592227436402" /></a><a href="http://www.slapt.me" target="slapt">http://www.slapt.me</a> opened its doors on the 18th June 2009 as a new Independent and inovative shopping experience for SL. Creating Values for both shoppers and merchants, in an honest and transparent enviroment. SLapt.me is Adult Merchant friendly.<br /> <br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qQNeAdCI/AAAAAAAAAlM/69-Ebjsc03A/s1600-h/SLAPT+Market.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 238px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qQNeAdCI/AAAAAAAAAlM/69-Ebjsc03A/s320/SLAPT+Market.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349759865344521250" /></a>slapt.me has simplified the interface used by the main shopping site in SL and will be offering an easy way to sell your SL products. slapt.me is dedicated to bringing new and creative ideas to the SL market place, both in your product offerings as well as in our marketing events and our forums. We will continue to develop our unique brand positioning for you our clients, to continually maintain and grow our solid brand recognition, and to adhere to high quality customer service standards. Because everyone wants to have fun everyday, slapt.me will continue to offer something for everyone with fun always in mind and we will never censor you or your products.<br /> <br />The initial launch will include a 'slapt Box' to be used in world to store the products for delivery and an easy to use listing system on the website and there are individual profiles for the Merchants with space for all the relevant information such as in world store locations and listings of all their products for sale.<br /> <br />The slapt.me team comprising of Constanza Amsterdam (Website), Kosta cela and Bykoff Sonste (Technical) will be working hard to bring some exciting new features to the system over the coming weeks, (details will be released on the slapt.me site as they happen) and between them they are committed to, as merchants themselves listening to what the customer wants from the slapt.me site and will shape it accordingly and they fully understand that the success of slapt.me will only happen with happy customers and merchants. They have all been in SL for some time with a good working knowledge of SL on both a business and social level.<br /> <br /><div style='text-align:center'><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4q1KvvqoI/AAAAAAAAAls/v29FhHcHYuo/s1600-h/SLAPT+Forum.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4q1KvvqoI/AAAAAAAAAls/v29FhHcHYuo/s200/SLAPT+Forum.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349760500268771970" /></a> <a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qvrOVOmI/AAAAAAAAAlk/FYuApU2QQDc/s1600-h/SLAPT+Wiki.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qvrOVOmI/AAAAAAAAAlk/FYuApU2QQDc/s200/SLAPT+Wiki.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349760405907782242" /></a></div><br />Currently the extra services available at the website are the forums and the wiki, the wiki is in service now, and is a separate sign up to the shop and forums. Further features such as a Linden dollar exchange and the abilitly to cash out via paypal will be added over the coming weeks.<br /> <br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4rc5VFe4I/AAAAAAAAAl0/Kg39F0mSps8/s1600-h/SLAPT+Terminal.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 170px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4rc5VFe4I/AAAAAAAAAl0/Kg39F0mSps8/s400/SLAPT+Terminal.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349761182788320130" /></a>slapt.me is housed on its own high speed dedicated server here in Amsterdam for reliability and will be upgraded as required to always deliver a fast, efficient and trouble free service.<br /> <br />slapt.me is looking to place its SLapt Terminals in world and is seeking placement spots for the terminals (6 Prims each). <br /> <br />If you are Interested in having a Terminal at your location can you please complete the form here at the slapt.me website:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.slapt.me/market/?act=terminalrequest" target="slapt">http://www.slapt.me/market/?act=terminalrequest</a><br /> <br />Please direct any questions regarding slapt.me to "Constanza Amsterdam".<br /><br /><h3>2. Fiction Contest</h3><br />Think you write great BDSM fiction? If so, consider entering the BDSM-Life Newsletter Fiction Contest. In addition to publishing the winning entries, the first place winner will receive $600L, second place will take $300L, and third is worth $100L.<br /><br />What are we looking for? We want something fresh and exciting, and obviously with a BDSM <i>slant</i>, of course! Although your submission may be inspired by SL events, please <u>do not submit verbatim chat logs</u>. And we would prefer stories that are well written and easily readable. I hate to be the typical schoolmarm, but poor spelling and missing punctuation can render the best story unreadable. Nor does our editing staff have the time to edit submissions for publication. So please try to make your writing as clean as possible if you want to be seriously considered, OK?<br /><br />The submission window closes June 30! Submitting entries to Roni Scarmon immediately. The winners will be announced July 7.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Adult Content - Age Verification</h3><br /><br />Like it or not, you need to be age verified if you want to continue to enjoy the BDSM Life sim. One way to do so is to purchase Lindens. You can supply credit card information directly to LL or use Pay Pal, as I have done. An alternative is the Aristotle Integrity check process, which verifies driver's license, national ID card, or passport information for 157 nations. This removes anonymity somewhat, unfortunately, but that's the price we have to pay to access adult content, evidently.<br /><br />Visit the Aristotle website at <a href="http://integrity.aristotle.com/" target="aristotle">http://integrity.aristotle.com/</a>, if you like. It explains the process somewhat, but there is no way to get verified there. Instead, you must visit <a href="www.secondlife.com" target="secondlife">www.secondlife.com</a> and log in there using your SL avatar name and password. You'd think they'd make it available in world, but that would be too easy, I suppose. Anyway, once you log in you'll see an option for Age Verification in the list of links on the left hand side. Click that to open the page shown below and fill in the requested information. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s1600-h/SL+Age+Verification.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 310px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s400/SL+Age+Verification.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727723678071426" /></a>Time is running out to get age verified. DO so soon - we don't want to miss any of you in the BDSM Life sim!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br />The BDSM-Life sim is taking applications for next weekend's auction. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s1600-h/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s400/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339737455624793234" /></a>Please see the application form at the auction location in the BDSM Life sim.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest!</h3><br /><br />The following folks have already submitted their pictures for the new BDSM Life Photo Contest:<br /><br />Larae Magic<br />Shirah Destiny<br />Rosemary Baroque<br />Mulder Edman<br /><br />It costs only $50L to enter your picture. First place wins $5000L! The contest runs until 1 August 2009. Enter now!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at this link <a href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" target='newsletter'>www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-19611496958424656892009-06-21T14:08:00.025+02:002009-06-22T12:24:10.644+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 23 June 21-June 28<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. slapt Opening!<br />2. BDSM-Life Fiction Contest<br />3. Adult Content - Age Verification<br />4. Dom/sub/switch Corner<br />5. The Hunt - Part 2 - Larae Magic<br />6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />7. New Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. slapt Opening - Lord Sullivan</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qAUB0d3I/AAAAAAAAAlE/ovfmvjpPhO0/s1600-h/Slapt+Home+Page.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 306px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qAUB0d3I/AAAAAAAAAlE/ovfmvjpPhO0/s320/Slapt+Home+Page.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349759592227436402" /></a><a href="http://www.slapt.me" target="slapt">http://www.slapt.me</a> opened its doors on the 18th June 2009 as a new Independent and inovative shopping experience for SL. Creating Values for both shoppers and merchants, in an honest and transparent enviroment. SLapt.me is Adult Merchant friendly.<br /> <br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qQNeAdCI/AAAAAAAAAlM/69-Ebjsc03A/s1600-h/SLAPT+Market.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 238px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qQNeAdCI/AAAAAAAAAlM/69-Ebjsc03A/s320/SLAPT+Market.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349759865344521250" /></a>slapt.me has simplified the interface used by the main shopping site in SL and will be offering an easy way to sell your SL products. slapt.me is dedicated to bringing new and creative ideas to the SL market place, both in your product offerings as well as in our marketing events and our forums. We will continue to develop our unique brand positioning for you our clients, to continually maintain and grow our solid brand recognition, and to adhere to high quality customer service standards. Because everyone wants to have fun everyday, slapt.me will continue to offer something for everyone with fun always in mind and we will never censor you or your products.<br /> <br />The initial launch will include a 'slapt Box' to be used in world to store the products for delivery and an easy to use listing system on the website and there are individual profiles for the Merchants with space for all the relevant information such as in world store locations and listings of all their products for sale.<br /> <br />The slapt.me team comprising of Constanza Amsterdam (Website), Kosta cela and Bykoff Sonste (Technical) will be working hard to bring some exciting new features to the system over the coming weeks, (details will be released on the slapt.me site as they happen) and between them they are committed to, as merchants themselves listening to what the customer wants from the slapt.me site and will shape it accordingly and they fully understand that the success of slapt.me will only happen with happy customers and merchants. They have all been in SL for some time with a good working knowledge of SL on both a business and social level.<br /> <br /><div style='text-align:center'><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4q1KvvqoI/AAAAAAAAAls/v29FhHcHYuo/s1600-h/SLAPT+Forum.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4q1KvvqoI/AAAAAAAAAls/v29FhHcHYuo/s200/SLAPT+Forum.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349760500268771970" /></a> <a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qvrOVOmI/AAAAAAAAAlk/FYuApU2QQDc/s1600-h/SLAPT+Wiki.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 148px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4qvrOVOmI/AAAAAAAAAlk/FYuApU2QQDc/s200/SLAPT+Wiki.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349760405907782242" /></a></div><br />Currently the extra services available at the website are the forums and the wiki, the wiki is in service now, and is a separate sign up to the shop and forums. Further features such as a Linden dollar exchange and the abilitly to cash out via paypal will be added over the coming weeks.<br /> <br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4rc5VFe4I/AAAAAAAAAl0/Kg39F0mSps8/s1600-h/SLAPT+Terminal.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 170px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sj4rc5VFe4I/AAAAAAAAAl0/Kg39F0mSps8/s400/SLAPT+Terminal.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349761182788320130" /></a>slapt.me is housed on its own high speed dedicated server here in Amsterdam for reliability and will be upgraded as required to always deliver a fast, efficient and trouble free service.<br /> <br />slapt.me is looking to place its SLapt Terminals in world and is seeking placement spots for the terminals (6 Prims each). <br /> <br />If you are Interested in having a Terminal at your location can you please complete the form here at the slapt.me website:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.slapt.me/market/?act=terminalrequest" target="slapt">http://www.slapt.me/market/?act=terminalrequest</a><br /> <br />Please direct any questions regarding slapt.me to "Constanza Amsterdam".<br /><br /><h3>2. Fiction Contest</h3><br />Think you write great BDSM fiction? If so, consider entering the BDSM-Life Newsletter Fiction Contest. In addition to publishing the winning entries, the first place winner will receive $600L, second place will take $300L, and third is worth $100L.<br /><br />What are we looking for? We want something fresh and exciting, and obviously with a BDSM <i>slant</i>, of course! Although your submission may be inspired by SL events, please <u>do not submit verbatim chat logs</u>. And we would prefer stories that are well written and easily readable. I hate to be the typical schoolmarm, but poor spelling and missing punctuation can render the best story unreadable. Nor does our editing staff have the time to edit submissions for publication. So please try to make your writing as clean as possible if you want to be seriously considered, OK?<br /><br />You may begin submitting contest entries to Roni Scarmon immediately. The submission window will be open until the end of June. The winners will be announced July 7.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Adult Content - Age Verification</h3><br /><br />Like it or not, you need to be age verified if you want to continue to enjoy the BDSM Life sim. One way to do so is to purchase Lindens. You can supply credit card information directly to LL or use Pay Pal, as I have done. An alternative is the Aristotle Integrity check process, which verifies driver's license, national ID card, or passport information for 157 nations. This removes anonymity somewhat, unfortunately, but that's the price we have to pay to access adult content, evidently.<br /><br />Visit the Aristotle website at <a href="http://integrity.aristotle.com/" target="aristotle">http://integrity.aristotle.com/</a>, if you like. It explains the process somewhat, but there is no way to get verified there. Instead, you must visit <a href="www.secondlife.com" target="secondlife">www.secondlife.com</a> and log in there using your SL avatar name and password. You'd think they'd make it available in world, but that would be too easy, I suppose. Anyway, once you log in you'll see an option for Age Verification in the list of links on the left hand side. Click that to open the page shown below and fill in the requested information. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s1600-h/SL+Age+Verification.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 310px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s400/SL+Age+Verification.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727723678071426" /></a>Time is running out to get age verified. DO so soon - we don't want to miss any of you in the BDSM Life sim!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. The Hunt - Part 2 - By Larae Magic</h3><br />The Hunt concludes<br /><br />Sunhalo had once more stumbled and fallen to her knees as she fled from the Man who would own her body, soul and even her tender heart if she didn’t flee further and escape. Her breath rasping past her lips she took several desperate gulps trying to calm her heart as she struggled to rise.<br /><br />A firm hand slid into her auburn curls and a scream tore from her lips as she was pulled around to face Him. The Praxis stood, calm…a smile widening upon His lips as He looked down into her wild amber eyes. There was only one word He spoke into the waiting silence broken only by her gasping sob of fear…”surrender”.<br /><br />Every emotion flooded her slender trembling form, from pure fear of loosing all of who she was to terror at the way every look from Him had spoke of being cherished. Her mind whirled… how could she give up freedom to kneel at His feet! In a swift move she twisted and sank her even white teeth into His arm. But He didn’t let go, other than a barely heard hiss of breath could she tell her bite was even registering. His fingers tightened and pulled the long tresses as the palm of His other hand carefully landed a calculated slap to the pale cheek of the girl He would Master. <br /><br />Tears sprang to her eyes, her teeth bit deeper and she tasted His blood. Another slap to her stinging cheek, harder and more demanding as His voice deepened with controlled command, “Surrender”. His eyes never left hers, ignoring the teeth that were sunk into His flesh. His fist tightened in her soft curls. His whole being pinpoint alert to every emotion flashing through her eyes, as they matched wills. Her teeth released with as the pressure along her scalp forced her to let go or risk her neck. <br /><br />Her heart was pounding in fear and emotions she didn’t know how to label as His will pushed against her. His fingers loosened just enough…and in a flash she twisted to run again. <br /><br />But He had her… with a tug of her hip length hair she whirled into His arms. A hard look upon His face and He knelt in place on one knee dragged her over the other and began to spank her with a force she hadn’t known even in childhood. She fought Him… till her rage turned to tears. His hand gentled and slid along her ass cheek and down her hip…her eyes closed as His fingers glided up her inner thigh to only flare open as His fingers slid into her moist heat and she fought once more. They struggled there… passions flared between them there… His hands sure, firm and demanding on her flesh until she was no longer crying in outrage and fear but in wanting of Him. Yet His hand did not cease… He continued the smart slaps to her rounded rump intermingling with the tender caresses between her thighs.<br /><br />She couldn’t think, couldn’t conceive of fighting more…”please”.<br /><br />Praxis’ voice raked over her…”Please, what girl” as His palm continued to fall upon her reddened ass. He knew she would have trouble sitting for several days as He had spared little in this test of wills.<br /><br />“Please, stop” she cried out… filled with pain and pleasure at His touch to the point her cries echoed through the forest.<br /><br />“SURRENDER” His voice commanded as He hauled her upright to look deep into her eyes.<br /><br />She stared into those eyes of the Man she had fled and ran from so desperately, she saw…He would own her, He would command her, yet… she also knew in His Mastery of Her…He would also cherish her.<br /><br />Two words she answered Him... and in that moment... knew a woman's peace..."I surrender".<br /><br />The End... for now.<br /><br />by larae Magic<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br />The BDSM-Life sim is taking applications for next weekend's auction. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s1600-h/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s400/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339737455624793234" /></a>Please see the application form at the auction location in the BDSM Life sim.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. New Photo Contest!</h3><br /><br />The following folks have already submitted their pictures for the new BDSM Life Photo Contest:<br /><br />Larae Magic<br />Shirah Destiny<br />Rosemary Baroque<br />Mulder Edman<br /><br />It costs only $50L to enter your picture. First place wins $5000L! The contest runs until 1 August 2009. Enter now!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br /><br />Look for a special article in next week's newsletter about an exciting new BDSM-Life service!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at this link <a href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" target='newsletter'>www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-807249920464848642009-05-25T16:11:00.026+02:002009-06-15T12:07:09.773+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 22 June 15 - June 21<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Midnight Express Mania<br />2. BDSM-Life Fiction Contest<br />3. Adult Content - Age Verification<br />4. Dom/sub/switch Corner<br />5. The Hunt - Part 1 - Larae Magic<br />6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />7. New Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Midnight Express Mania</h3><br />What boy doesn't like to play with trains now and then? ;-)<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT4auR3WdI/AAAAAAAAAkU/o9oSsAN7WdE/s1600-h/Midnight+Express+Me.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 146px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT4auR3WdI/AAAAAAAAAkU/o9oSsAN7WdE/s400/Midnight+Express+Me.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347171795578870226" /></a>Don't miss the hot new Midnight Express from Eye-Catcher's ever creative Constanza Amsterdam! This sexy silk set is the last train leaving town and it is routed straight to your man's heart!<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT4lfgEf0I/AAAAAAAAAkc/Mi_GBRjN1dk/s1600-h/Midnight+Express+Top.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 315px; height: 299px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT4lfgEf0I/AAAAAAAAAkc/Mi_GBRjN1dk/s400/Midnight+Express+Top.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347171980590481218" /></a>The Midnight Express' dual stroke locomotive is powered by a large pair of 500KW turbines concealed in a sleek, modern housing. The undercarriage is resizable, guaranteed to support the largest capacity loads. Triple redundancy in the linkage between cars ensures a smooth ride on the roughest tracks. Best of all, the hood can be easily removed by any qualified servicing mechanic for fine tuning and adjustment. ;-)<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT64lXlWpI/AAAAAAAAAkk/9SOl0lew3rA/s1600-h/Midnight+Express+Bottom.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 304px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjT64lXlWpI/AAAAAAAAAkk/9SOl0lew3rA/s400/Midnight+Express+Bottom.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347174507606268562" /></a>The caboose is similarly fashioned. A detachable silk train drapes all the way to the floor. Three silver warning lights flash automatically when the train is in motion. And a distinctive black heart logo is stenciled on the rear fender.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjUBujODdFI/AAAAAAAAAk0/b8JKD3_jlCU/s1600-h/Midnight+Express+HUD.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 90px; height: 288px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjUBujODdFI/AAAAAAAAAk0/b8JKD3_jlCU/s400/Midnight+Express+HUD.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347182031812129874" /></a>The train comes fully assembled but may be reconfigured as needed. Select from one of six timing options to ensure maximum performance. Detach casings and mounting brackets with a simple click. Automatic reassembly also provided. Custom lighting is supplied. And you can easily boot anyone who doesn't have their fare off the train. <br /><br />OK, so what does all this railery mean to the more literally minded? Simply this - these silks are HUD equipped! All your passenger - er - guy needs to do is click on the bra or skirt and you will be presented with the option of removing the item. The HUD menu contains an option to put them all back on with a single click. Block persistent pests with the blacklist option. Highlight your face. And you can choose from 6 different dances including the choo choo, i mean cha cha! lol<br /><br />Best of all, these silks sould be yours for free. Click the Midnight Mania poster in the Eye-Catcher store in the BDSM-Life sim to enter your name in the daily drawing for a chance to win a set!<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjUDLw27p5I/AAAAAAAAAk8/P0CEBn4idXs/s1600-h/Midnight+Mania.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 287px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SjUDLw27p5I/AAAAAAAAAk8/P0CEBn4idXs/s400/Midnight+Mania.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5347183633201080210" /></a><br /><br />Or visit Eye-Catcher and buy a set for only $500L! <br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Fiction Contest</h3><br />Think you write great BDSM fiction? If so, consider entering the BDSM-Life Newsletter Fiction Contest. In addition to publishing the winning entries, the first place winner will receive $600L, second place will take $300L, and third is worth $100L.<br /><br />What are we looking for? We want something fresh and exciting, and obviously with a BDSM <i>slant</i>, of course! Although your submission may be inspired by SL events, please <u>do not submit verbatim chat logs</u>. And we would prefer stories that are well written and easily readable. I hate to be the typical schoolmarm, but poor spelling and missing punctuation can render the best story unreadable. Nor does our editing staff have the time to edit submissions for publication. So please try to make your writing as clean as possible if you want to be seriously considered, OK?<br /><br />You may begin submitting contest entries to Roni Scarmon immediately. The submission window will be open until the end of June. The winners will be announced July 7.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Adult Content - Age Verification</h3><br /><br />Like it or not, you need to be age verified if you want to continue to enjoy the BDSM Life sim. One way to do so is to purchase Lindens. You can supply credit card information directly to LL or use Pay Pal, as I have done. An alternative is the Aristotle Integrity check process, which verifies driver's license, national ID card, or passport information for 157 nations. This removes anonymity somewhat, unfortunately, but that's the price we have to pay to access adult content, evidently.<br /><br />Visit the Aristotle website at <a href="http://integrity.aristotle.com/" target="aristotle">http://integrity.aristotle.com/</a>, if you like. It explains the process somewhat, but there is no way to get verified there. Instead, you must visit <a href="www.secondlife.com" target="secondlife">www.secondlife.com</a> and log in there using your SL avatar name and password. You'd think they'd make it available in world, but that would be too easy, I suppose. Anyway, once you log in you'll see an option for Age Verification in the list of links on the left hand side. Click that to open the page shown below and fill in the requested information. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s1600-h/SL+Age+Verification.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 310px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s400/SL+Age+Verification.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727723678071426" /></a>Time is running out to get age verified. DO so soon - we don't want to miss any of you in the BDSM Life sim!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. The Hunt - Part 1 - By Larae Magic</h3><br />The Hunt: part one.<br /><br />Praxis dropped from his mount to the ground in an almost silent crouch, sun darkened fingers reaching out to the earth to test the barely perceptable track. With a touch as light as a feather's caress he read the sign left by his prey. His dark head lifted, nostrils flaring as he drew in a deep breath... one word slid through his focused mind..."close". In a low stalk, soft leathers molded to his lean muscled form making not even a single trace of sound, he worked his way through the dense forest after what ran in obvious fear...careless in flight. His ears picked up the sound of the running... a deep masculine male smile spread over his face as he picked up his speed to pursue what he had spent the night in careful pursuit of.<br /><br />Sunhalo felt another branch snag her torn gown, snaring her tight... tears of fear and hurt trailed along her pale yet dirty cheeks. Small fingers grasped the tatters of the once glorious silver threaded midnight blue skirt, tugging hard. Her eyes darting in panic through the deep darkness of the thick trees...not seeing, but feeling along all her senses the One...who sought her. A whimper slipping past her parched lips as she fights the snarled dress held fast by the branch as if in direct aliance with HIM. "let me go!" she pulled with desperation and the fabric renders in a loud long tear to her round pale hip...but she was free. In a whirl of swishing fabric she turns and flees further into the cool darkening forest.<br /><br />His eyes watch her slender supple forn fight the grasp of the tree as his ears pick up the unmistable sound of tearing silk... the smile widens on his usually hard lips as he sees the smooth pale flesh exposed by the tattered swirling material...and knew...with out any doubt... she was his and would kneel in woman's softness at his feet. A nod... and he stepped in light a silent pursuit allowing her to run her wildness into fatigue. Dark eyes watching her and the surroundings carefully as he kept careful pace with her...the one who would soon...very soon... surrender.<br /><br />larae Magic<br /><br />To be continued…<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br />The BDSM-Life sim is taking applications for next weekend's auction. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s1600-h/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s400/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339737455624793234" /></a>Please see the application form at the auction location in the BDSM Life sim.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. New Photo Contest!</h3><br /><br />The following folks have already submitted their pictures for the new BDSM Life Photo Contest:<br /><br />Larae Magic<br />Rosemary Baroque<br />Mulder Edman<br /><br />It costs only $50L to enter your picture. First place wins $5000L! The contest runs until 1 August 2009. Enter now!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - Postponed until further notice<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br /><br />Look for a special article in next week's newsletter about an exciting new BDSM-Life service!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at this link <a href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" target='newsletter'>www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-85374094839259110292009-05-24T14:26:00.062+02:002009-05-25T14:59:59.017+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 19 May 25 - May 31<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Highlighted Shop - Think Kink<br />2. Adult Content - Age Verification<br />3. Domme/switch/sub Corner - Larae Magic<br />4. Eye-Catcher Releases TOKON Enabled Shoes<br />5. Tarl's Valentine story<br />6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />7. Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Highlighted Shop - Think Kink</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqEyqvmMtI/AAAAAAAAAjc/P5URDteAdkU/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Meet+and+Greet.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 399px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqEyqvmMtI/AAAAAAAAAjc/P5URDteAdkU/s400/Think+Kink+Meet+and+Greet.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339726314203394770" /></a>Lyssa Daehlie and Ilana Debevec were on-hand to meet and greet folks at their store in the BDSM-Life sim last Wednesday, May 20th. Rezzed copies of their merchandise were set up outside their shop for people to try. Best of all, they offered a 50% off sale to everybody who dropped by. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqEsnDjbsI/AAAAAAAAAjU/2rQ8EEwyMC4/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Meet+and+Greet+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 399px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqEsnDjbsI/AAAAAAAAAjU/2rQ8EEwyMC4/s400/Think+Kink+Meet+and+Greet+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339726210134142658" /></a>Soon the sim was nearly full. Think Kink had to set up a second vendor just to take all of the orders!<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Adult Content Age Verification</h3><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqF9Z7RycI/AAAAAAAAAjk/nN-fe-QrQK8/s1600-h/Protest.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 351px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqF9Z7RycI/AAAAAAAAAjk/nN-fe-QrQK8/s400/Protest.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727598179174850" /></a>Please consider taking your picture with the protest signs in BDSM-Life and posting them on the Flickr site at:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/we_are_adult_content/" target='Flickr'>Flickr Site</a><br /><br />You can also still vote on Jira at:<br /><br /><a href="http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/MISC-2727" Target="jira">Jira Vote Site</a><br /><br />But what do you do if all our protesting falls on deaf ears? We could boycott Second Life, of course - take our dollies and dishes and go elsewhere, so to speak. If enough people did this, the financial blow might be significant enough to LL to force reconsideration of the issue. And pigs may fly (certainly someday in SL anyway!)<br /><br />Unfortunately, of all the talk of alternative grids I have heard, I have yet to see such a place. If you're seriously considering a total shift to another engine, you'll be starting over in what, Entropia or World of Warcraft? All your SL dollies and dishes are useless elsewhere. Do we really want to give up everything we've done for ourselves here? Not this girl, thanks anyway!<br /><br />Like it or not, you need to be age verified if you want to continue to enjoy the BDSM Life sim. One way to do so is to purchase Lindens. You can supply credit card information directly to LL or use Pay Pal, as I have done. An alternative is the Aristotle Integrity check process, which verifies driver's license, national ID card, or passport information for 157 nations. This removes anonymity somewhat, unfortunately, but that's the price we have to pay to access adult content, evidently.<br /><br />Visit the Aristotle website at <a href="http://integrity.aristotle.com/" target="aristotle">http://integrity.aristotle.com/</a>, if you like. It explains the process somewhat, but there is no way to get verified there. Instead, you must visit <a href="www.secondlife.com" target="secondlife">www.secondlife.com</a> and log in there using your SL avatar name and password. You'd think they'd make it available in world, but that would be too easy, I suppose. Anyway, once you log in you'll see an option for Age Verification in the list of links on the left hand side. Click that to open the page shown below and fill in the requested information. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s1600-h/SL+Age+Verification.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 310px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqGEtci-oI/AAAAAAAAAjs/6kmzNynEIPk/s400/SL+Age+Verification.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339727723678071426" /></a>Time is running out to get age verified. DO so soon - we don't want to miss any of you in the BDSM Life sim!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. This Slave's Story - by Larae Magic</h3><br />Domme/switch/sub Corner<br /><br />There were people coming into the online “room” that had been empty and my home for months. I had only been away a week…the longest time away from that spot I had ever taken. I had slept my little avatar in the room that had been given me before everyone had pretty much abandoned the home. But generally … I did not mind the ghost home…it was safe, if silent. Not only was the home seeing people come and go…but it had become a Gorean Home once more. Something that frightened me to my very core, for this uncommon slave girl had not been accepted by the first Goreans I had met within that site, much less the years of my submissive time being told...NEVER go to Gor… it is not for you and they will tear you asunder. So that week as I watched from the sidelines as Masters, Mistresses and slaves of Gor began to arrive…panic began to settle within me.<br /><br />I had stayed away a couple days… arrived in the Home to several people in the gathering area. This horribly shy girl felt unreasonable fear clutch my heart. I silently watched for a few minutes the conversations between the occupants. Heart racing…tears literally on my cheeks…I begged the Master present if I might leave. Ready to hit the red button to escape…The Master instead of absently saying “yes girl” for what ever reason on that particular day at that exact moment….instead asked…”why do you want to leave, girl?” Absolute panic wrapped a strangle hold on me. Not only being denied escape, so that I could RUN away…but also, a question…I would HAVE to talk…to answer this Master’s direct query…I could not deny the direct question…or lie… My heart was beating so hard and it was perhaps one of the hardest things…but I answered…”that I was afraid with so many there and it being a Gorean Home… may I leave”. The Master answered NO and demanded to speak with me in private IM. Another something I did not do… yet that moment…I obeyed the command to give access to myself by this stranger…this Master…who was refusing to allow me to RUN!<br /><br />Over the course of the next months this Master became a very deep and close friend to me. When I felt the most alone and frightened… it was His voice on the other end of the phone… through the hours of the night whispering… “its alright baby” while I dozed fitfully. No demands… nothing forced… just a Man who honestly was there for a woman He felt care for. I will never forget those days…ever! For no other human reached out during that dark time… every day…no strings…no hidden agendas.<br /><br />But the runner in me slid into control. With the growing confusions and hurt of things I was going through combined with the utmost fear of the depth of feelings for this Master…I RAN…hard and as fast and far as I could. I told all I was NOT lifestyle… it was NOT for me, though I knew it was…just didn’t think I could survive within in…I ran…and ran and ran. I did everything I could to push this Man…my best friend away…drive Him away…anything I could. <br /><br />The results… an unending spiral of chaos and further darkness as life became nothing but pain. <br /><br />Then, on a day when the hurt within me was reaching levels I did not think I could withstand… His collar slapped about my throat and the world came to a screeching sudden stop. Everything fell into place…calm became my center with His words…SURRENDER GIRL, you are MY baby, MY slave”… and my… “yes Master”. The time since that day… has been wonderous, and filled with self realizations of who I am…the slave I am…and that it took this special, caring and strong Master to tame the running wild creature I was. He has always had my respect, now He has my Love…and my surrender and in that surrender I know… I am slave, of worth and treasured.<br /><br />larae Magic<br /><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter would like to thank Larae for sharing this experience with us. We are soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />__________________________________________<br /><h3>4. Eye-Catcher Releases TOKON Enabled Shoes</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqLoRGYoVI/AAAAAAAAAj0/HQIirt3kGBA/s1600-h/Tokon+Sign.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 202px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqLoRGYoVI/AAAAAAAAAj0/HQIirt3kGBA/s400/Tokon+Sign.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339733832102355282" /></a>Eye-Catcher just released their first Tokon enabled ballet fetish boots. Collars and restraints will follow soon! See <a href="http://sites.google.com/site/eyecatchersl/Home/news-section/fridaymay22th2009<br />" target="Eyecatcher">here</a> for more information!<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. Tarl's Valentine Story (part 1)</h3><br />Now this is a story about a girl wanting to give her Master a special surprise for Valentine.<br /><br />He will be home soon, the girl thought. Better finish getting ready, she glanced at the items she put forward so far with a impish smile.<br /><br />The floor in front of the fireplace was covered with gaily colored cushions. And from them a slender glossy black pole protruded in phallic splendor, festooned with a chains and cuffs and collar. Candles waited in profusion to be lit.<br /><br />Mmmm ... What else, she thought, Wrist cuffs ... check. Leg cuffs ... check. Gag? ... shit!<br /><br />She ran to the toybox in the bedroom and retrieved the cover ball gag. Hesitated, then grasped a black silken hood. <br /><br />I want to be really helpless tonight she thought.<br /><br />She could feel herself becoming damp already, just a little bit. <br /><br />Then she looked at herself in the mirror... Yuk!!! All rumpled and dusty from cleaning and re arranging<br /><br />Who should I be tonight she thought to herself, a barbarian princess, harem girl, intrepid explorer, jungle girl?<br /><br />She really wanted to be a fannigirl, but her Master Peter would not allow that.<br /><br />“Shit!!” she said aloud as the doorbell rang.<br /><br /> “Just what I needed,” she cursed, as she had little time and she did not want to get interrupted right now. She went down and opened the door and saw it was a flower delivery and signed for it happily, roses no less. She was getting gushy and had to remind herself she had lots to do.<br /><br />Outside Peter watched from the corner as she signed for the flowers. He could see she wasn't ready ... He waited. Finally the bathroom light came on. <br /><br />Soon, he thought. Another hour at most ...<br /><br />She jumped in the shower and sighed as the shower felt wonderful. The stress and tension from the cleaning and preparing was washing away from her body as it was replaced by anticipation. As she was drying her hair she watched herself in the mirror<br /><br />And she had a wicked idea, speaking out loud, “Yes that would be perfect.”<br /><br />She walked into her bedroom and laid out a short tartan plaid, pleated skirt, a short sleeve cotton blouse, and a pair of bobby socks. <br /><br />Hmmm cotton panties? Not!! she explained to the empty room.<br /><br />Smiling she pulled out a pair of small satin thongs that was a size to small. And thin spaghetti strings on the side. White of course, school girls look good in white. <br /><br />A bra maybe? she thought, and put on a underwire bra with demi cups. She smiled as her nipples would show nicely through the blouse. <br /><br />Hmmm if i use the triangle cup, he could tie my breast right over it she thought, if he wanted to. And a pair of canvas sneakers<br /><br />She made one more check in the mirror and unbuttoned another button and pushed her arms behind her back and smiled. Wow, Peter will love this cleavage<br /><br />From outside peter was watching the house as the bedroom was now dark, only a light flicker from the den. What was she doing? He decided he would give her another 20 minutes.<br /><br />She knelt next to the post, then had another thought. Here she was ready at last. First the gag... pulling it tightly then tighter still untill the ball was clearly outlined through the wide leather band that pressed against her face from nose to chin.<br /><br />The strap was tight against the nape of her neck below her ponytail. Hmmm what would Peter do with that, she wondered. She buckled the soft 2" wide leather collar just snug against her throat<br /><br />“God!” she said she was feeling helpless already and she only just started. Now the hard part, she thought.<br /><br />This part might not work. She tried kneeling and found that if she kneeled just right she could slip into the 2" dowel through the matching hole in the post. Then she slipped her arms over it and tried to pull her wrist in front. <br /><br />Hmmm better lower it a notch, she though and tried again, and she found it just doable. Now for the ankle cuffs. Nice and snug with the d-rings facing inwards. Then thumbcuffs to lock them behind the post. She kneeled upright and placed the spreader bar between her thighs and strapped the thigh cuffs tightly.<br /><br />Gawd...she could feel the tension on her inner thighs and a coldness through her damp panties. She reached up and clipped the back of her collar to the post.<br /><br />Could she do it? She tried the trick with her arms again and she found she could barely reach if she arched her back, and held her head up.<br /><br />She grabbed the wrist cuff and made then snug against her skin and clipped a second thumbcuff through one of the d-rings, was the direction correct? Yep she was growing more and more tingly as she thought what she would look like held cruelly against the post.<br /><br />Quickly girl, she thought, before you change your mind. And she pulled the black silk hood and snugged it down with the drawstring.<br /><br />She slipped her arms over the cross part and brought the alongside to the post and she found she had to arch her back even more then she thought.<br /><br />And finally she got the second thumbcuff hooked to the second d-ring and she was thinking, if I just could. Then she heard the clicks telling her the thumbcuff was locked and held her good against the post<br /><br />Outside the house Peter was slowly coming closer to the house.<br /><br />He eased the Jag into the garage ... Then hesitated. Would she be ready for me yet? What kind of a fix would she get herself into this time? Hmmm ... Better not wait too long. He locked up and headed for the door ...<br /><br />What was his gift for valentine? Would he like it?<br /><br />To be continued…<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br />Due to RL issues, last Saturday's Slave Auction was cancelled. We are taking applications for next weekend's auction. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s1600-h/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 242px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqO7LxdLJI/AAAAAAAAAkE/t9IcccBpGh4/s400/Slave+Auction+Location.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339737455624793234" /></a>Please see the application form at the auction location in the BDSM Life sim.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Photo Contest</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqMoTvAOeI/AAAAAAAAAj8/J5KQGshjrEk/s1600-h/photo+contest+leaders.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 218px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShqMoTvAOeI/AAAAAAAAAj8/J5KQGshjrEk/s400/photo+contest+leaders.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339734932321221090" /></a>We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? Here's the current leaders, Bastert Lyon and HB Yokosuka!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Aries (3)<br />Baby Anatra (80)<br />Kore Bravin (1)<br />Sharra Bravin (15)<br />Island Girl Biler (7)<br />Esha Bruun (306)<br />Shirah Destiny (149)<br />Koko Falworth (6)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Jojuu Jun (1)<br />Lisa Lowe (24)<br />Bastet Lyon (311 - current leader)<br />Larae Magic (1)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (39)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (55)<br />Mike Ayers (1)<br />Tarl Field (8)<br />Beast Moonites (72 - current leader)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br />Peter Woody (1)<br />HB Yokosuka (30)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest ends in just over one week, on June 1.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "in sl im neko, furry, vampire, dragon, human<br />looking for a female submissive/slave. who is single in both rl and sl. wants have slave and relationship in both rl and sl ."<br /><br />If you are interested in any of these folks, look for their full information cards in the new Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid! You may find much more information than what is listed above.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - Postponed until further notice<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br />Having BDSM-life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks on your profiles, will mean that you will get a lovely gift every week. This week's BDSM-Life gift was a Diamond Collar and the Eye-Catcher gift was a Shabby Bondage Bear! Click on the BDSM-Life Picks sign board every week at the landing point, and for Eye-Catcher, the Picks sign board is near the entrance, near the Lucky Chair. So, why don't you put BDSM-Life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks, put us on the map, and pick up some freebies for yourself! :-)<br /><br />Also, check out Eye-Catcher's new site at:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.eyecatcher.tk/" target ="Eye-Catcher">http://www.eyecatcher.tk/</a><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at this link <a href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" target='newsletter'>www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Constanza Amsterdam and Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-19658374973113212872009-05-16T22:47:00.033+02:002009-05-18T12:29:19.848+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 18 May 18 - May 24<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Highlighted Shop - Think Kink<br />2. BDSM-Life Victory Garden<br />3. Adult Content Change Protest<br />4. Domme/switch/sub Corner<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />9. In other news.....<br /><br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Highllghted Shop - Think Kink</h3><br /><br />Think Kink specializes in high quality scripted BDSM toys. Lyssa Daehlie and Ilana Debevec have a dazzling array of BDSM playthings, many of which will be on display in the common area outside their Think Kink store in the BDSM Life sim from May 18-24. The review below will give you some idea of what to expect but you simply must come by the sim to see these toys in action! <br /><br />To avoid repeating myself, let me first describe their common elements and then we'll delve into the differences that make each toy unique and worth collecting. Yes, they all come with custom animations and sound effects as you might expect with any SL toys. They are also typically modifiable so you can customize parts, like adding animations or changing textures. Beyond that, many of them are equipped with Chatterbox, which sends erotic chat messages during use. Look for the impressive multi-language feature in the more advanced versions of a few Think Kink playthings. Most of their toys are also RLV enabled, or equipped to interface with AutoZHAO, Lockmeister, Sensations, and Xcite enhancements to kick the experience up a notch for hard core lifestylers! The Graboid feature grabs other RLV users up to 90 meters away. Most of these toys may be shared with a group when desired, and hand out cuffs, too. And Think Kink provides plenty of detailed help in Notecards, offers technical support when needed, and provides free updates on many items in their line. All this for $99L-$349L in most cases!<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8m9EOjKnI/AAAAAAAAAhU/iGyypDPb2i4/s1600-h/think+kink+Allmans+Triangle.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 374px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8m9EOjKnI/AAAAAAAAAhU/iGyypDPb2i4/s400/think+kink+Allmans+Triangle.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336526914005969522" /></a>Allmans Triangle is an RLV enabled suspended bondage toy. It comes with some beautifully realistic "struggle" animations and chain noises. Uses ChameleonTEX to change the toy's appearance, allowing you to select from one of three different styles: Cabot, Dungeon, or Tech. The menu options can give your victim cuffs, strip their clothing, and lock them in. Allmans Triangle is only $199L!<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8nH2uvpyI/AAAAAAAAAhc/orQU-4A4xtM/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Lisa%27s+Delight+II.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 186px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8nH2uvpyI/AAAAAAAAAhc/orQU-4A4xtM/s400/Think+Kink+Lisa%27s+Delight+II.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336527099361470242" /></a>Lisa's Delight II is an inexpensive fuck toy with loads of features and a gratifying SL experience. The main menu contains all the great basic functions to be expected from dd Studios, notably free cuffs, strip, RLV HUD, Lock and AutoLock, + Graboid and Deny Orgasm for Xcite and Sensations users. The vibration and thrust menu uses all 12 buttons to activate the vibration speed as well as thrust for a little of the good old in-and-out! And the vibrator/thrust menu can be accessed by the victim. ChameleonTEX comes with 9 different textures to customize its appearance to your liking. Lisa's Delight II is just $199L<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8nXtW22DI/AAAAAAAAAhk/XZPD5pHAUZc/s1600-h/Think+Kink+The+Cell.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 273px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8nXtW22DI/AAAAAAAAAhk/XZPD5pHAUZc/s400/Think+Kink+The+Cell.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336527371723266098" /></a>Think Kink reached back to the basic foundations of BDSM to construct "The Cell". This particular model is called "Crystal Confinement", but there are 18 different models available to choose from, including Brushed Steel, Ammo Can, Cargo Container, Bars, Stoned, and Incubus, just to name a few. You're sure to find a style that matches your dungeon! It supports an array of RLV features including TP restrictions, no sitting, denied access to inventory, NCs and IM and lots more. Inside each cell is a multi-standard LEASH RING, Tested for Xcite Chain Anywhere, Amethyst, Dari's, M&S, AE and Marine's Real Restraint. You can attach more than one inmate to the same ring. A single cell, like the one shown here, is only L$99, with a double cell for L$199!<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8saJ2lQLI/AAAAAAAAAhs/I6cPxPngAOQ/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Hydrone.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 237px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8saJ2lQLI/AAAAAAAAAhs/I6cPxPngAOQ/s400/Think+Kink+Hydrone.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336532911290400946" /></a>The "Hydrone", inspired by the Zodiac sign of Cancer, the crab, is a toy for two! The first to sit is chained spread eagle. The second kneels between the legs of the first, while Chatterbox describes the action in 1 of 7 langauges. The "Hydrone's" owner menu will give your victim a set of cuffs, strip their clothing off, deny orgasms to enhanced attachments, and so much more than I have room to list here! The "Hydrone" is only $319L.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8sq4zMZKI/AAAAAAAAAh0/yaAVAdl2Ldo/s1600-h/Think+Kink+P3X-888.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 133px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8sq4zMZKI/AAAAAAAAAh0/yaAVAdl2Ldo/s400/Think+Kink+P3X-888.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336533198770562210" /></a><br />The PX3-888 is an awesome futuristic slave pole, that generates a force field to keep the sub in place. I could hear a faint electronic hum while locked inside it. It will deliver the RLV HUD to the prisoner, enforces mouselook, denies orgasms, can strip the prisoner and render them deaf or mute, and delivers English Chatterbox text. The P3X-888 is $319L.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8s4zXNdJI/AAAAAAAAAh8/zQDbV9gz9mg/s1600-h/think+kink+Valstret.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 281px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8s4zXNdJI/AAAAAAAAAh8/zQDbV9gz9mg/s400/think+kink+Valstret.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336533437829182610" /></a>The primary difference between the Valstret 2, on the left above, and Valstret 3 on the right, appears to be the base of the stocks. They otherwise appear to be equal in functionality and price. Valstret II, on the left above, are delightfully detailed stocks. They are equipped with the ChameleonTEX that lets you select from 9 different styles, including Egyptian, Chrome, Peking, and Dungeon just to name a few. The length of the cross bar is adjustable with the click of a button to accommodate avatars with longer or shorter arms. Other standard options are Lock, Strip, Get Cuffs Grab Victim, and Orgasm Deny. The Chatterbox is multi-lingual. Valstret 2 & 3 are both $319L.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8tDhbl0GI/AAAAAAAAAiE/ukof30zqspo/s1600-h/think+king+Daisy+Ichi.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 241px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8tDhbl0GI/AAAAAAAAAiE/ukof30zqspo/s400/think+king+Daisy+Ichi.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336533621994279010" /></a>Daisy Ichi is another fuck toy, with the primary difference being that your victim is on their hands and knees rather than sitting upright. Use ChameleonTEX to select frmo 9 different styles. Daisy Ichi is $349L.<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8u85oumzI/AAAAAAAAAiM/c0GyjT_YOLw/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Tarls+Scourge.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 227px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8u85oumzI/AAAAAAAAAiM/c0GyjT_YOLw/s400/Think+Kink+Tarls+Scourge.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336535707256003378" /></a>Tarl's Scourge is a top end slave pole that supplies both color changing cuffs AND a whip at the click of a button. Also provides the RLV HUD. Main menu also features Autolock and lock, Deny Orgasm, or select from five different poses for your victim to assume. Tarl's Scourge is $349L<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8xe_ecGJI/AAAAAAAAAiU/enjK_baN39c/s1600-h/Think+Kink+Y+me.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 329px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8xe_ecGJI/AAAAAAAAAiU/enjK_baN39c/s400/Think+Kink+Y+me.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336538491962267794" /></a>Y-Me? is the first of Think Kink's "Real Feel" line, designed after real life toys! Two custom animations may be applied to the victim. Strip them with the click of a button, grab an RLV enabled avatar from 90 meters away, and Deny Orgasms. The advanced ChamelonTEX script lets you change both the color of the knee pads and the style of the toy for 81 different combinations! Y me? is $349L.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8xtjiio_I/AAAAAAAAAic/HKSeYSW7rc0/s1600-h/THink+Kink+Recliner+Lap+Dance.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 354px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8xtjiio_I/AAAAAAAAAic/HKSeYSW7rc0/s400/THink+Kink+Recliner+Lap+Dance.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336538742161318898" /></a>If you think the "Passion" recliner is just your average swivel chair, you can sit on it and rotate (using the arrow keys)! lol Although it weighs in at a mere 6 prims, this stylish recliner is packed with features. Sure it has a nice cross legged sitting pose, but that's just where the fun starts! Invite an intimate friend to "Kick Back" after you are seated and they can choose from two different lap dances. Add more by simply dropping them into the contents tab and editing the animation note card. Don't like the style or color? Select from any of 23 different styles, including black with brass or chrome, denim, green, leopard print, or red, just to name a few. And if you don't like any of those, it's a snap to add your own style. Simple to understand directions are provided in a HELP note card available from the menu. Toggle user rights to permit or prohibit others from modifying the style or using the dances. It's also equipped with an update feature for free lifetime updates. The "Passion" Recliner is $799.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8yeEtWQlI/AAAAAAAAAik/oTo_NqLSgvE/s1600-h/Think+Kink.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 331px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg8yeEtWQlI/AAAAAAAAAik/oTo_NqLSgvE/s400/Think+Kink.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336539575698735698" /></a>Lyssa will be available to demonstrate their toys at their shop in the BDSM Life sim on Wednesday, May 20 from 10AM - 1PM SLT. They'll be available to answer questions and handing out freebies.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. BDSM-Life Victory Garden</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg844AwUeCI/AAAAAAAAAis/SpsCj1BVkpw/s1600-h/BDSM+Victory+Garden.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sg844AwUeCI/AAAAAAAAAis/SpsCj1BVkpw/s400/BDSM+Victory+Garden.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336546618383824930" /></a>I'm not too proud to admit that one of the things that originally kept me coming back to the BDSM Life sim back when I was a cash strapped newb, was the old raffle ball that randomly handed out 5 Lindens every 15 minutes. It was retired when the sim moved to the mainland, but not Consie's generosity to the less well endowed, financially speaking, anyway. Most recently, she planted a Victory Garden just outside of the Eye-Catcher Shop in the BDSM-Life sim. Anybody can harvest Lindens here. And those whose fortune has changed for the better may plant some instead. <br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Adult Content Change Protest</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SgbFi8pTaXI/AAAAAAAAAhM/gExFyj3d3uQ/s1600-h/Protest3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 397px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SgbFi8pTaXI/AAAAAAAAAhM/gExFyj3d3uQ/s400/Protest3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5334168012852521330" /></a>The BDSM Life sim, along with other adult sims, is sponsoring a protest site on Flickr, where SL members can express their concern about the proposed ratings changes and moves required. Join the protest by having your picture taken with the Shabby Bear near the landing point in the BDSM Sim or on this toy provided by Constanza to truly express your feelings about this.<br /><br />Once you have taken your picture and saved it to your hard drive (no need to upload it to SL), go here to open Flickr and upload your graphic:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/we_are_adult_content/" target="flickr">Flickr Site</a><br /><br />You must join the group in order to post a picture to it. Once you have uploaded your photo, you must also move it to the group for it to appear on the page. As of publication time, 45 photos had been posted. Please take a few minutes and post yours, too! Maybe together we can make a difference.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sga7ZIejK8I/AAAAAAAAAgk/uXYtSE6BAUE/s1600-h/Protest2.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5334156849113672642" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sga7ZIejK8I/AAAAAAAAAgk/uXYtSE6BAUE/s400/Protest2.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />This sign will open the jira site where you can cast a vote if you agree that that SL users deserve to have a voice in this issue:<br /><br /><a href="http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/MISC-2727" target="Jira vote">Vote here!</a><br /><br />Please note that because this is a Second Life blog, you must sign in using your SL name and password before you may vote.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br /><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol Click here to see past issues of the newsletter here for examples of what we are looking for.<br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br />Awaiting article from Hornet<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAHKL8_xlI/AAAAAAAAAjE/83xzbj6lKN4/s1600-h/auction_5-15_004.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 277px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAHKL8_xlI/AAAAAAAAAjE/83xzbj6lKN4/s400/auction_5-15_004.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336773430022751826" /></a><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAHD0ef7cI/AAAAAAAAAi8/ROJrg0GKyvg/s1600-h/auction_5-15_003.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 277px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAHD0ef7cI/AAAAAAAAAi8/ROJrg0GKyvg/s400/auction_5-15_003.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336773320641605058" /></a><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAG8GqtgcI/AAAAAAAAAi0/Yxduc69Bzs4/s1600-h/auction_5-15_001.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 277px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ShAG8GqtgcI/AAAAAAAAAi0/Yxduc69Bzs4/s400/auction_5-15_001.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336773188085711298" /></a><br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? Here's the current leaders, Bastert Lyon and HB Yokosuka!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Aries (3)<br />Baby Anatra (80)<br />Kore Bravin (1)<br />Sharra Bravin (15)<br />Island Girl Biler (7)<br />Esha Bruun (306)<br />Shirah Destiny (149)<br />Koko Falworth (6)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Jojuu Jun (1)<br />Lisa Lowe (24)<br />Bastet Lyon (311 - current leader)<br />Larae Magic (1)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (27)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (31)<br />Mike Ayers (1)<br />Tarl Field (8)<br />Beast Moonites (66 - current leader)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br />Peter Woody (1)<br />HB Yokosuka (30)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!! See the Dating Centre - ads are updated weekly.<br /><br />Sable Lassard says, "I'm a female submissive/slave, literate and creative, looking for an SL Master for an ongoing relationship. I have few SL limits, and an almost limitless appetite for being degraded, humiliated and generally treated poorly. I love to serve and to please my Dominants, and I enjoy the sensation of belonging to someone." Read more about Sable from her Note Card at the Dating Centre in the BDSM-Life sim.<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya says "Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what I am looking for, it says it far better than I can. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship."<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "i am 32 years old dom form the uk. im a search for a sub/slave who is sub/slave in rl. aged 20 to 40. who is single in sl and rl.and will start relationship in sl and then take it to rl."<br /><br />ZhenZhen Mizin writes, "I am a kind sensitive neko.. Subbie to my heart and am looking for the One to show her all there is to be a good and obedient girl to Him."<br /><br />If you are interested in any of these folks, look for their full information cards in the new Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid! You may find much more information than what is listed above.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br /><br />The BDSM-Life Newsletter is also accepting general advertisements. If you own a shop, have a service to offer, or you are looking to buy or sell something, place an ad in the newsletter. Please contact Roni Scarmon about details.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - Postponed until further notice<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. In other news......</h3><br /><br />Having BDSM-life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks on your profiles, will mean that you will get a lovely gift every week. This week's was Charm Diamond Collar! Click on the BDSM-Life Picks sign board every week at the landing point, and for Eye-Catcher, the Picks sign board is near the entrance, near the Lucky Chair. So, why don't you put BDSM-Life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks, put us on the map! :-)<br /><br /><a href="http://www.eyecatcher.tk/" target="Eye-Catcher">Click here to visit the Eye-Catcher web site</a><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at the website - www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Thomas Akers and Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-21693619498962621912009-05-11T12:11:00.002+02:002009-05-12T00:06:17.852+02:00D/s and how to make it more fun[12:56] Tarl Field: And its more of a relaxed class tonight as i want your input as well so we all can help people getting new ideas<br />[12:57] Tarl Field: i guess yogi felt he was in the wrong place<br />[12:58] Tarl Field: We can start it off slowly with a common problem in all relationships in bdsm.<br /><br />[12:59] Tarl Field: After a time it gets to a state of rutine your sub has learned what you wanted her to learn and its starting to feeling boring.<br />[12:59] Tarl Field: Before that happens you need to ask yourself what can we do to make it fun and exciting again<br />[13:00] Tarl Field: So does a sub always have to do things in a special way or can she add little ideas of her own to a session to spice it up a bit<br /><br />[13:00] Tarl Field: Welcome joan<br /><br />[13:00] Joan Randt: thanks<br />[13:01] Tarl Field: I know from myself i am a creature of habits<br />[13:01] Tarl Field: And i am sure others are as well.<br />[13:01] Tarl Field: BUt we as dominant have a responsability to challange our subs and they in turn must challange us<br />[13:02] Tarl Field: Which may sound strange to say that a sub must challange a dom<br /><br />[13:03] Tarl Field: Now i sdont mean the sub should be disrespectful<br />[13:03] Tarl Field: But sometimes a sub needs to be a bit of a brat to ignite that little extra spark in the dom...<br />[13:03] Baby Anatra: smiles big<br />[13:03] Anaxagoras McMillan: just subtile - smiles<br /><br />[13:04] Tarl Field: And we doms need to challange the girls by giving the some extra evil tasks<br />[13:04] Tarl Field: Maybe lioke taking them out for dinner but giving them a bob to keep them company under their clothes<br />[13:05] Tarl Field: and most girls know what i mean with b.o.b<br /><br />[13:05] Anaxagoras McMillan: lol<br /><br />[13:06] Tarl Field: So far any questions or remarks?<br /><br />[13:07] Jini Shearer: i am sorry but i dont know what a b.o.b is<br />[13:07] Anaxagoras McMillan: battery operated boyfriend<br /><br />[13:07] Anaxagoras McMillan: lol<br />[13:07] Tarl Field chuckles<br />[13:07] Jini Shearer: aaahh thank u<br />[13:08] Tarl Field: When is the biggest risk for a D/s relationship to get boring?<br />[13:08] Anaxagoras McMillan: hmmmmm<br />[13:08] Ivet Writer: good evening, Tarl<br />[13:08] Anaxagoras McMillan: i think it can become vanilia or less trilling<br />[13:09] Tarl Field: evening ivet<br />[13:09] Tarl Field: well thats the risk<br />[13:09] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Ivet Writer! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:10] Tarl Field: But what i mean is if the relationship gets so organised you kow that around the time the kids go to sleep they toys come out it gets boring as its get to be a rutine<br />[13:10] Tarl Field: But its not hard to make it fun again all you need is a bit of imagination<br /><br />[13:11] coralie Johin is Online<br />[13:11] Tarl Field: as i said planting a bob in your sub under a sexy dress and its a advantage if its radio controlled and nte wired<br />[13:11] Tarl Field: Or telling her to use no under wear under a short skirt/dress<br />[13:12] Anaxagoras McMillan smiles with a blush<br />[13:12] Tarl Field: Or if your having kids getting a babysiter and going out to the town and going to a hotel after and spending the night away from home with some bondage games<br />[13:13] Tarl Field: Or doing something as simple as blindfolding your sub and making her think your showing her off to the public but your not... grins<br />[13:13] Maria Vought: I think sms's throughout the day, building up to a scene, is also a good way to spice things up<br /><br />[13:13] Tarl Field: Maria thats one way<br /><br />[13:14] Tarl Field: Or sending your sub to work with something inside her unpowered so its just sitting there reminding her what will be when she gets home<br />[13:15] Tarl Field: If you live in a house it might be a bit to risky to leave a note on the door for her to strip down to her underwear and wait for you to open the door<br />[13:15] IRene Manatiso is Online<br />[13:15] Tarl Field: But it will spice things up<br /><br />[13:16] Tarl Field: Or doing shopping with your girl to something she dont expect<br />[13:16] Tarl Field: this works best if you have a garage<br />[13:16] Tarl Field: As you need to tie you girl up and lock her in the trunk of your car or in the nagage area if you have a stationwagon<br />[13:17] Tarl Field: bagage<br />[13:17] Tarl Field: The dangers with this is if you get in a accident or get pulled over by the cop<br />[13:17] BelleVie Moonites giggles at the thought of explaining that to the officer<br />[13:18] Anaxagoras McMillan: @<br />[13:18] Tarl Field: As many of you are thinking is how to explain it to the cops...<br />[13:18] Anaxagoras McMillan: ist all about trill and excitement, not?<br /><br />[13:18] Tarl Field: My advice is dont get stopped...lol<br />[13:18] Anaxagoras McMillan smiles<br />[13:18] Tarl Field: and also dont do it during a heatwave<br />[13:18] Master Frakture: Laughs, very good advice.<br />[13:18] BelleVie Moonites: lol....there is fun in the risk.<br />[13:19] Tarl Field: specially not if you have a sedan<br />[13:19] Tarl Field: well if you get pulled over the risk is for the dom if the sub wants to get even she might kick inside the trunk<br />[13:19] Tarl Field: so its exciting for both<br />[13:20] Tarl Field: Or why not roleplay plannign a day without interuptions and doing a robber captive scen<br />[13:20] Tarl Field: with the dom as the robber and the sub being the sexy housewife<br />[13:20] Tarl Field: getting bound and ravished... grins<br />[13:20] Anaxagoras McMillan: @<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: yes anax<br />[13:21] xXElBeReThXx Dragovar: se reparten caramelos ?<br />[13:21] Anaxagoras McMillan: or simply turn a relax evening in to lecture and hard questions<br />[13:21] Anaxagoras McMillan: makes me small<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: thats one thing you an do<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: can<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: or introdue a new training excersice<br />[13:22] Tarl Field: having the sub serve you drinks while she is restrained<br />[13:22] Tarl Field: Of course restrained so she has a fair chance of making it but it will be hard<br />[13:22] Tarl Field: tieing her hands in front connected to a crotchrope<br />[13:23] Tarl Field: which will pull the rope tight every time she has to reach for something<br />[13:23] Anaxagoras McMillan: oh my<br />[13:23] Tarl Field: and of course when she is kneeling she has to keep the rope extra tight to not drop the tray.-... grins evil<br />[13:24] Anaxagoras McMillan: your a sadist Sir :)<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: And if the sub learns to master it fast add som extra high heels<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: Baby and pink am i sadist?<br /><br />[13:25] Tarl Field: I been called evil and being pure evil but not a sadist but maybe i am<br />[13:25] Anaxagoras McMillan: was ment in funny way Sir<br />[13:25] Baby Anatra: smiles at Master can be very evil at times<br />[13:25] Tarl Field: I know dear dont worry.-... grins<br />[13:25] Tarl Field: Or if you want to use a evil way of punishing your girl<br />[13:26] Tarl Field: tie them into a tight hogtie<br /><br />[13:26] Tarl Field: tie three ropes from the bound girl to diffrent places and diffrent lengths<br />[13:26] Tarl Field: blindfold her and tell her she is free when she reaches your feet... grins<br /><br />[13:28] Tarl Field: that will make her work as if she dont make it in a set time she will have to spend the night like that<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: All you need is some evil ideas and the mental strength to do without thinking your to cruel to the girl you love<br /><br />[13:29] Tarl Field: Which after a tiome is not as easy as you think<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: Any questions so far<br />[13:30] Anaxagoras McMillan: no Sir<br />[13:31] Tarl Field: Any suggestions from the class what you can do... smiles<br /><br />[13:31] Anaxagoras McMillan: maybe yes<br />[13:32] Tarl Field: go on anax<br />[13:32] Koko Falworth: smiles at Sir Griff and alma<br /><br />[13:32] Anaxagoras McMillan: to learn protocols, nice things to use, and practisch a lot to master them, and so much you can use<br />[13:32] Alma Fiertze smiles and waves :)<br />[13:33] Anaxagoras McMillan: serving drinks, how to behave at different situations etc<br />[13:33] Tarl Field: correct anax<br />[13:33] Tarl Field: that is specially usefull if you have people that are in bdsm comes for a visit<br />[13:34] Anaxagoras McMillan: yes and little show off what i have learned :)<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: Also in normal situations set of rules is always good to use as the sub needs to adjust to not being to obvious that she is a sub<br />[13:34] Anaxagoras McMillan: and make my Master smile and feel proud<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: Thats a good statement from anax and it sums up the most things a sub wants.<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: She or he wants their owner to be proud of them and they want to please the person thats there owner<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: If a sub feels she is not being allowed to do those basic things she will feel worthless<br />[13:36] Tarl Field: And that is basically the same as your killing your sub<br />[13:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods<br />[13:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: @<br />[13:36] Tarl Field: anax<br />[13:36] Master Frakture: I agree wholeheartedly Tarl.<br />[13:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: one owner i had little over a year ago...<br />[13:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: thought having power means always tell no if i request<br />[13:37] BelleVie Moonites: thats abuse of power<br />[13:37] Anaxagoras McMillan: yea<br />[13:37] BelleVie Moonites quickly puts her hands over her mouth not meaning to interrupt<br />[13:37] Tarl Field: Now thats also a problem for some new dominants<br />[13:37] Anaxagoras McMillan: but always tell yes get boring to :)<br />[13:37] Tarl Field: A dom needs to remember to always listen to a sub as sometimes they do need to talk<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: outside the rules or roles as dom sub<br />[13:38] BelleVie Moonites wonders about that as Sir Tarl keeps his subs gagged.<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: If your rich you can have your girl as a full time sub<br />[13:38] Koko Falworth: Dominates are not mind readers? :-)<br />[13:39] Tarl Field: but most of us are not rich so a realistic way of finding time for the play is needed<br />[13:39] Alma Fiertze giggles<br />[13:41] Tarl Field: but you need som imagination and you can think up some fun things to do with out to much trouble<br />[13:42] Tarl Field: And you might wonder why baby is unrestrained and pink is locked up and gagged<br /><br />[13:42] Tarl Field: well baby is not as free as you think<br />[13:42] Tarl Field: Her restraints are locked on<br />[13:42] Tarl Field: and she has not held her keys since she submitted to me<br />[13:43] Tarl Field: and pink well she is a big brat so she is being kept this way to teach her a lesson<br /><br />[13:43] Tarl Field: But keeping a sub gagged will make them feel more helpless then any ropes can make them feel<br />[13:44] Tarl Field: But there are a few things to think of when it comes to gags.<br />[13:44] Tarl Field: One make sure they dont restricts breathing<br />[13:44] Tarl Field: Two never leave a sub alone when gagged<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: you can make them think they are alone if they are blindfolded and having earplugs in their ears<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: And if you want to use a layer gag start with a cleveage gag then add the packing then a scarf over the mouth to keep it in place<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: That way they wont choke<br /><br />[13:47] Tarl Field: any questions so far<br />[13:47] Anaxagoras McMillan: no Sir<br /><br />[13:48] Tarl Field: Any one that has anything they wanted to ask but never did ...<br />[13:49] Tarl Field: Alright as i dont have much more to add i thank you for coming<br />[13:49] Anaxagoras McMillan: thank you for the class Sir tarl<br />[13:49] Tarl Field: And i hope you had fun and got some more ideas of how to torment your subs<br />[13:49] John11011967 Karu: Good Talk thank you Tarl<br />[13:50] Maria Vought: thank you Sir Tarl<br />[13:50] anastasia Edenflower: thank you Sir Tarl<br />[13:50] Koko Falworth: thank you Sir Tarl<br />[13:50] Tarl Field grins and grabs baby and gags her and locks her wrist behind her back...<br />[13:50] John11011967 Karu: *Waves* Hi kadan<br /><br />[13:50] Kaddan Yue hi hon<br /><br />[13:50] Anaxagoras McMillan: smiles<br />[13:50] Tarl Field: not that she did anything bad but i like her gagged<br />[13:51] Tarl Field: *grab<br />[13:51] Tarl Field: And as i said gagging a sub makes them feel more helpless<br />[13:52] Tarl Field: And again thank you for coming<br /><br />[13:52] Tarl Field: i will clean the notecard up a bit then it will be posted in the group and on the website<br /><br />[13:52] Joan Randt: thanks<br />[13:53] Jini Shearer: thank u sir tarl<br />[13:53] Anaxagoras McMillan waves 'good evening to you Sir tarl and everyone"<br />[13:53] Maria Vought accepted your inventory offer.<br />[13:54] Tarl Field: Have a good eving and dont forget i have a mail box outside where you can drop notecards if you have questionsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-35584850822744646512009-05-03T13:43:00.030+02:002009-05-05T00:27:57.096+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 16 May 4 - May 10<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Adult Content Change Protest<br />2. Scarlet Letter Hunt<br />3. Domme/switch/sub Corner<br />4. Freebie Tree in BDSM Life<br />5. Naughty Story Two by Bastet Lyon<br />6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />7. Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br /><br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Adult Content Change Protest</h3><br />The BDSM Life sim, along with other adult sims, is sponsoring a protest site on Flickr, where SL memebrs can express their concern about the proposed ratings changes and moves required. Join the protest by hacing your picture taken with the Shabby Bear near the landing point in the BDSM Sim.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2EF9IWaMI/AAAAAAAAAfE/BXNbw7KDYXw/s1600-h/Protest.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 351px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2EF9IWaMI/AAAAAAAAAfE/BXNbw7KDYXw/s400/Protest.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331562771720333506" /></a><a href='http://www.flickr.com/groups/we_are_adult_content/' target='flickr'>Once you have taken your picture and saved it to your hard drive (no need to upload it to SL), click here to open Flickr and upload your graphic!</a><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Ewudbu8I/AAAAAAAAAfM/IfC6ia1dZNA/s1600-h/flickr.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Ewudbu8I/AAAAAAAAAfM/IfC6ia1dZNA/s400/flickr.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331563506516605890" /></a>You must join the group in order to post a picture to it. Once you have uploaded your photo, you must also move it to the group for it to appear on the page. As of publication time, 42 photos had been posted. Please take a few minutes and post yours, too! Maybe together we can make a difference. <br /><br /><a href='http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/MISC-2727' target='Adult Content Vote'>Click here to open a site where you can cast a vote if you agree that that SL users deserve to have a voice in this issue!</a><br /><br />Please note that because this is a Second Life blog, you must sign in using your SL name and password before you may vote.<br /><br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Scarlet Letter Hunt</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2GKkQoQpI/AAAAAAAAAfU/PNn8eK_K92s/s1600-h/Scarlet+Letter+Sign.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 316px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2GKkQoQpI/AAAAAAAAAfU/PNn8eK_K92s/s400/Scarlet+Letter+Sign.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331565049966772882" /></a>The Scarlet Letter Hunt, SL's adult-themed grid wide treasure hunt started Saturday April 18 and will run through May 18. You'll need a whole month because as I last heard anyway, 104 shops are participating in this massive orgy of freebies, including BDSM Life and Eye-Catcher. The hunt's organizers have said it's sure to please any taste.<br /><br />I have been involved in the hunt from day one, and I can tell you that it's an interesting hunt and can be very addictive! I have been hunting from 10pm till 6am - that's how addicting it can become! You've been warned!!<br /><br />With the Scarlet Letter Hunt, you can join the group, where you can ask for hints from various vendors and from other hunters, but direct directions or cheating is NOT allowed in this hunt. I am very grateful and thankful for this group, because it has helped me a lot in my hunt, and whenever I ask for hints, I get some awesome help from the organisers, the vendors and the other hunters. It is really worth it to join the group! Click on the Scarlet Hunt sign board to get a link to the group.<br /><br /><a jref='http://slurl.com/secondlife/Dewey/47/146/51' target='Scarlet Letter Hunt'>Start here!</a><br /><br /><a href='http://scarletletterhunt.blogspot.com/' target='Scarlet Letter Hunt'>Click here to See the Scarlet Letter Hunt web site for more information and updates</a><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Hc9ZFRaI/AAAAAAAAAfc/4hwlH2SZJhI/s1600-h/Scarlet+letter+hunt+example.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 274px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Hc9ZFRaI/AAAAAAAAAfc/4hwlH2SZJhI/s400/Scarlet+letter+hunt+example.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331566465462388130" /></a>And I CAN confirm for you that what you are looking for is a red letter A. The example above is from a carefully cropped picture of our very own BDSM Life sim's Scarlet Letter. But don't ask me where to find any letters. That would be cheating! See you on the trail!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Domme/switch/sub Corner</h3><br />The BDSM Life Newsletter is soliciting Domme/switch/sub Corner articles, fiction, SL photos, promos, haikus, and how-tos, too! lol <a href='http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/search/label/Newsletter' target='Newsletter'>Click here to see past issues of the newsletter here for examples of what we are looking for.</a><br /><br />If you have a unique perspective on the lifestyle, or would like to share an experience or fantasy with our readers, we want to hear from you! Please submit a Note Card to Roni Scarmon for consideration.<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Freebie Tree in BDSM Life</h3><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Kkf7lP5I/AAAAAAAAAfk/Fsk5odaqE34/s1600-h/freebie+tree+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 344px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2Kkf7lP5I/AAAAAAAAAfk/Fsk5odaqE34/s400/freebie+tree+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331569893527863186" /></a>A Freebie Tree has been planted in the BDSM Life sim. You will find it near the Landing Point. Beneath it have fallen the varicoloured fruits of the labor of your fellow BDSM Lifers, including body stockings, gags, silks, tattoos, toys, t-shirts, and more! I count 15 golden, green, red, and even black apples and I expect the harvest to grow as time passes. So, come pick some fruit! Or if you are inclined to leave a freebie of your own, please contact Constanza Amsterdam for a starter apple.<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. Naughty Story Two by Bastet Lyon</h3><br />naughty story two:<br /> " go on in ill be there in a minute", he swatted her ass as she toted her brief case and purse in the door. he stood talking to his neighbor, she hurried past not saying hi or stopping just opening the door and scooting in.<br /> she flopped her baggage on the floor by the couch and sat down next to it.<br /> taking her lap top out and hooking it up to the wireless. after about ahalf hour she was well into it, he on the other hand was standing over her, calling her name..."bas? bastet?" she could barely hear him she was so engrossed in what she was doing<br /> "what?!" she said, irritated. <br /> suddenly she found herself on her feet and running practically behind her master, he had a firm grip on her wrist and was taking long strides, he was pissed and she was sorry she hadnt paid better attention to this man she so adored...<br />before she knew what hit her she was face down over a small table in the kitchen<br />face turned to the side, ass up, dress yanked up around her waist and panties being yanked down just below her ass. <br /> she knew the futility of begging forgiveness, or trying to explain herself. at this point that would probably piss him off worse, she turned her head to try to see what he was up to, feeling wet already, she thought she probably did those naughty things subconsciously just to get him going.<br /> "you know how i love it when y ou say 'what' to me." he said half holding her down and messing with somethng she couldnt see with the other hand.<br /> "im sorry, please dont be too mad at me", she was a little frightend and a little turned on <br /> "Im not mad" he said letting up on her back for a second she heard him putting on a latex glove she knew at that point this was gonna be fun<br /> "you're not gonna say that to me again, though" he said entering her backside with a push of a finger<br /> "oh god". she said with a gasp, "oh god", she gasped again when the second finger went in her butt. her neck and back arched naturally toward the stimuli, although she loved it it was still a violation, and a bit of a shock.<br /> "i wont say it again i promise, i promise" she stuttered half heartedly. "oh god", <br /> "Yeah i know you wont", he said removing his fingers and replacing them with something else. <br /> she felt the cold liquid slowly going into her guts, and she knew at that point she was gonna spend a good long time going from her ass into her mouth, that was what he was prepping her for. <br /> "now hold that and dont lose one drop" he said as he withdrew the little bottle, slapping her on the ass for good measure<br /> "get your ass in there and lay on the couch for a while" he pulled her up by her hair and swatted her ass again sending her off <br />she trotted into the living room to lay on the couch like he had told her to do<br />following her, he positioned himself at her feet "open your knees" he slapped the insides of her thighs, as he bent her knees pushing them apart. deftly his experienced fingers found her clit, pulled the hood up with one finger and rubbing the little bulb with his thumb in a circle. <br />"oh god stop it" she moaned feeling the effects of the prep, "please master you will make me cum please dont."<br /> "you dont cum unless i say you do" he said to her firmlly, he knew he had her on the virge yet he ruthlessly massaged her little bulb<br /> "oh please oplease cani cum? pleasecanicomemasterpleasecan icome?" she asked so fast that he knew she wasnt gonna be able to stop it and half assed felt she may have already let it slip<br />"yes you can come now" he said smiling to himself<br /> "ahhhhhhaaaahh"she cried out"god im coming oh my god stop it"<br /> it at least had made her forget how uncomfortable she was with the prep still onboard... when she was finished he grabbed her arm and yanked her off the couch<br />dont you spill one drop of that get your ass inthere and push it all out then come to bed . <br /> "yessir", she said shaking and trotting off to the bathroom, releasing the prep and then quickly cleaning her self up, she scurried off to join him and slipped under the covers next to his warm body<br /> "you like to talk smart to master dont you subbe?" he said leaning up on one elbow and taking a long drag off a cigarette. the other arm slipped around her shoulders and his fingers found their way to her now exposed nipple.<br /> " no sir", she said half choking but dry and scratchy , she swallowed, "no i didnt do it on purpose sir" <br /> " here" he held her head up and helped her to sip from the bottle of water, if he was firm he was just as kind and caring that was what she loved about this man he was careful safe and cared about her comfort to a degree. <br />he leaned over and put out his cig and then flipped her in one move onto her stomach and positioned himself behind her, she felt the lube running down her ass crack, and his thumb entering her again pulling open the entry toher ass<br />then with a shove he half buried his emense cock into her, she gasped "oh god please"<br /> "humm? girl, you better be quiet"he reached around and shoved a cloth into her mouth to bite on and then grabbed her hair and arched her neck back shoving his humongous throbbing cock into her ass to the hilt, she sceamed against the cloth.<br />a few more thrusts and he withdrew from her ass and whipping her around he jumped off the bed and stood with his cock in her face and yanked the cloth from her mouth he had something else to go there and shoved his cock into her mouth and down her throat causing her to gag, she instictively grabbed it with her fist and held it massaging the shaft, he knocked her hand away and shoved the massive shaft down her throat almost gagging her she tried to respond but was unable to doanything but swallow and her guts wrenched he with drew from ehr mouth spun her around again and entered her ass againg wiht one shove<br />"oh god oh god" she cried out he gave two quick thrusts and then lay her down on her back and fucked her ass with her laying flat legs in the airand spread wide<br />"oh god im gonna cum" she cried out" oh my god im gonna cum" <br /> " go ahead rub it out babe" he cooed to her coaxing her orgasm and resttin his cock inside her at ujust the right spot."<br /> then before she was too far and begining to languish he quickly withdrew the massive throbbing member and positioned her on her hands and knees shoving the cock back into her mouth, this time letting her suck it and tounge it licking around the head the little underneath part that was so sensitive down the shaft back up and around the head again giving it the attention it needed he threw his head back and closed his eyes feeling on the verge he pulled her onto the floor and this time he entered her cunt, shoving in slowly and as an after thought he dripped some lube there as well remembering this woman had an incredibly tight pussy. shoving up to the next muscles he allowed her to relax each ring as he approached it. finally reaching the last set of rings he couldnt wait any longer and started to thrust into her hesitatingly at first then repeatedly and rhytmiclally his stiff and now throbbng cock ready to release its creamy load, <br />" oh please master come in me please come in me please come in me master please!" she begged as he thrust<br />" you want me to come in you?" he asked sounding a little surprized and having a hard time covering his nearing orgasm, <br />"oh yes please master come in me" she begged him again <br />grabbing her hair he pulled her neck back so that she was looking forward and not down <br /> " well okay then i will" , he pulled her hair harder and gasped in quickly as he screamed his orgasm into the night collapsing on top of his spent little slave. and there they remained for a few seconds till he lifted her to the bed tossing her on it<br /> "scoot over, your in my spot" , he said as he sat on the side of the bed trying to scoot in next to her, slowly she responded sliding over barely able to move,<br />he slid in next to her and covered them both and they slipped into a deep sleep there him spooning her naked flesh and smelling her skin. <br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2NVbX7QJI/AAAAAAAAAf0/bUJKV9rKevU/s1600-h/Slave+auction+5-2-2009+-+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2NVbX7QJI/AAAAAAAAAf0/bUJKV9rKevU/s400/Slave+auction+5-2-2009+-+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331572933141414034" /></a>Played out to another full sim, the BDSM Life Slave Auction took place again on Saturday. This week we had three girls up for auction, all very experienced and with a vast range of skills and fetishes. We had several new bidders, who all realised the value that was available when it comes to buying slaves at BDSM Life. Bidding was exciting and at certain stages tense as well. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2NwVs1LGI/AAAAAAAAAf8/IQG1wZ_FspQ/s1600-h/Slave+auction+5-2-2009+-+4.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sf2NwVs1LGI/AAAAAAAAAf8/IQG1wZ_FspQ/s400/Slave+auction+5-2-2009+-+4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5331573395474951266" /></a>We managed to send the slave girls away to three homes and they have all commenced their contracts.<br /><br />BDSM Life Slave Auctions continues to go from strength to strength as more experienced slaves sign up and as more Masters and Mistresses become aware of the excellent value that can be seen by buying at BDSM Life.<br /><br />Our auction is held every Saturday at 3.00pm SLT, I look forward to seeing you at our next one where you can see for yourself the quality of the auction we run.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Photo Contest</h3><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Aries (3)<br />Baby Anatra (80)<br />Kore Bravin (1)<br />Sharra Bravin (9)<br />Island Girl Biler (6)<br />Esha Bruun (210)<br />Koko Falworth (6)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Jojuu Jun (1)<br />Lisa Lowe (24)<br />Bastet Lyon (213 - current leader)<br />Larae Magic (1)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (27)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (13)<br />Mike Ayers (1)<br />Tarl Field (8)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br />Peter Woody (1)<br />HB Yokosuka (30 - current leader)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Sable Lassard says, "I'm a female submissive/slave, literate and creative, looking for an SL Master for an ongoing relationship. I have few SL limits, and an almost limitless appetite for being degraded, humiliated and generally treated poorly. I love to serve and to please my Dominants, and I enjoy the sensation of belonging to someone." Read more about Sable from her Note Card at the Dating Centre in the BDSM-Life sim.<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya says "Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what I am looking for, it says it far better than I can. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship."<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "i am 32 years old dom form the uk. im a search for a sub/slave who is sub/slave in rl. aged 20 to 40. who is single in sl and rl.and will start relationship in sl and then take it to rl."<br /><br />Zion McBride writes, "I am an experienced, bisexual female slave/submissive currently seeking a new mistress or master. I'm located in the USA, GMT -7 time zone and an usually available evenings and weekends. Please see my picks for rmore information."<br /><br />If you are interested in any of these folks, look for their full information cards in the new Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid! You may find much more information than what is listed above.<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter. What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - Post poned until further notice<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Discipline<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club with Cazzy Hax as hostess<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br /><br />Having BDSM-life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks on your profiles, will mean that you will get a lovely and generous gift every week. Click on the BDSM-Life Picks sign board every week at the landing point, and for Eye-Catcher, the Picks sign board is near the entrance, near the Lucky Chair. So, why don't you put BDSM-Life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks, put us on the map! :-)<br /><br /><a href='http://www.eyecatcher.tk' targetr='Eye-Catcher'>Click here to visit the Eye-Catcher web site!</a><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at the website - www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Hornet Lefevre, Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-36052413787417423932009-05-02T15:06:00.001+02:002009-05-02T15:08:29.476+02:00Discipline 2009/04/30[13:03] Tarl Field: Okay for a simple reason i hold the classes in a easy going way.,.. smiles<br />[13:03] Tarl Field: if you have questions dont be afraid to ask<br /><br />[13:04] Tarl Field: Last class was about dominans<br />[13:04] Tarl Field: now dominance and discipline has some diffrences but they are related in some ways<br />[13:05] Tarl Field: Hi Talon<br />[13:05] Tarl Field: discipline is the more correcting side of bdsm.<br />[13:05] Talon Tunwarm: hello Sir Tarl'<br /><br />[13:05] Tarl Field: Now discipline should be used to help the submissive to learn when they make mistakes<br />[13:06] Tarl Field: What are the risk with using discipline without a mistake being done?<br /><br />[13:07] Tarl Field: One and the biggest is that the submissive can be confused and also think that she or he has failed their dom<br /><br />[13:09] Tarl Field: Which is a good way of loosing and destroying a sub<br />[13:09] Talon Tunwarm: sub would need to know whats discipline and whats play<br /><br />[13:09] Tarl Field: True Talon<br />[13:09] Ellyssia Sexton: Greetings Master<br /><br />[13:10] Tarl Field: A tip is that discipline should only be used to train them and make sure they need the correction<br /><br />[13:10] Tarl Field: Now it sounds like discipline is easy to grasp and it is and also not<br />[13:11] Tarl Field: The easy part is that you most use it to correct the subs behavior by spanking, whips or isolation<br /><br />[13:11] Tarl Field: How ever here is where the hard part comes in<br />[13:11] Talon Tunwarm shakes at the word isolation<br />[13:11] Tarl Field: If a new sub is under training<br />[13:12] Tarl Field: And makes one mistake during a task thats new to her.<br /><br />[13:12] Tarl Field: Any ideas for a suitable punichment or action to deal with it?<br />[13:13] Bastet Lyon raises her hand<br />[13:14] Tarl Field: Bastet<br />[13:14] Bastet Lyon: my sl partner my dom will withdraw from me, he wont give me any attention at all. i hate that.<br />[13:14] Talon Tunwarm: that is the worst<br />[13:14] Bastet Lyon: its physically painless but gets the point across<br />[13:14] Tarl Field: Thats not a good way of handeling it in my eyes<br />[13:15] Eddison Sizemore: No point in issuing a punishment if you don''t first explain exactly what they did wrong<br />[13:15] Tarl Field: And since this is her first task i would recommend a light spanking and a firm correction and walking her through how to do the task<br />[13:16] Talon Tunwarm: may like the spanking.......?<br />[13:16] Tarl Field: she might but then i would make sure the spanking would be less then pleasurable<br /><br />[13:18] Tarl Field: Now if you have two subs doing the same task and the other is a experience sub should i punish the more experienced hard then the new sub?<br /><br />[13:18] Talon Tunwarm: yes?<br />[13:18] Tarl Field: any other comments?<br />[13:19] Tarl Field: remember how i would deal with the new sub...smiles<br /><br />[13:20] Tarl Field: The more experienced sub would recive a more firm spanking/whipping<br />[13:20] Sammi Loire: mmmm<br />[13:20] Sammi Loire: agrees<br />[13:20] Talon Tunwarm: let the new sub teach? kind of degrading punishment for the experince and lets the new sub reteach him/her self<br /><br />[13:20] Tarl Field: Maybe even a time tied and on display with a note of her error<br />[13:20] Tarl Field: Talon i like that idea... grins<br />[13:20] Talon Tunwarm smiles<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: A mental correction usually hits more home then force...<br />[13:21] Sammi Loire: yes<br />[13:21] Tarl Field: As most subs hate to fail in their tasks<br />[13:22] Titler Of Doom: has not been set, Ellyssia Sexton will be stuck with the current title for a while longer.<br />[13:22] Tarl Field: Okay any questions so far?<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: Okay then<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: Let see it in practical way<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: scen is as follows<br />[13:25] Sammi Loire: listens carefully<br />[13:25] Tarl Field: A experienced sub is serving a visitng dom a cup of coffe and as a added difficult level i have not told her how the dom wants his coffe. And i usually have my coffe black<br /><br />[13:26] Tarl Field: And she enters the room and remember she forgot to bring the cream with her into the room on the tray<br />[13:27] Tarl Field: She solves the situation by excusing the lack of cream with that she dropped the cream can in the kitchen<br />[13:27] Sammi Loire: sniggers<br />[13:27] Tarl Field: Now<br />[13:27] Sammi Loire: :)<br />[13:27] Tarl Field: What is a good way of handle this situation?<br />[13:27] Talon Tunwarm: sub shouldnt lie to excuse them self<br />[13:27] Tarl Field: Both a submissive angle and a dom angle please<br />[13:28] Tarl Field: Agree Talon<br />[13:28] Sammi Loire: the sub shudnt tell lies<br />[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: this sub, would admit his fault as soon as possible<br />[13:28] Tarl Field: How ever i cant know that untill i check the kitchen.<br />[13:28] Sammi Loire: shud ask to go get the cream?<br />[13:29] Sammi Loire: or if the Dom neededit?<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: Your both rights<br />[13:29] Eddison Sizemore: an experienced sub would have asked the visitor before hand on how it should be served<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: And as i dont know if its true or not i will chooce to belive her correct?<br />[13:29] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers, agreeing with Talon** this girl would have admitted her error and ask Your permission to retrieve the missing cream,Sir<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: thank you eddison<br />[13:29] Sammi Loire: well maybe not allowed to talk tothe Dom<br />[13:30] Tarl Field: sammi good point<br />[13:30] Sammi Loire: so cant ask<br />[13:30] Sammi Loire: smiles<br />[13:30] Tarl Field: But even a sub can ask permission to check how a visitor wants their coffe..<br />[13:30] Talon Tunwarm: ask to speak?<br />[13:31] Tarl Field: If i restrict her to much she cant serve me the correct way<br />[13:31] Lilystarre Darkstone listens quietly<br />[13:32] Tarl Field: To use discipline you need to give the subs the tools to complete the task, if you make it impossible the sub will finally give up.<br />[13:32] Sammi Loire: mmm true<br /><br />[13:33] Tarl Field: And if the sub is gagged a good way is to set down the tray and slowly pull out of the room and try and find a new package of cream as the can is broken<br />[13:33] Talon Tunwarm: or get the can out of the frig, since you never dropped it......<br />[13:34] Sammi Loire: giggles<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: How ever if i after the visit finds that the girl has lied to me to hide her mistake i would have punished her more severly then if she had said she dropped the can and did not tell me<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: Thats also a way... grins<br />[13:34] Lilystarre Darkstone nods softly<br />[13:34] Talon Tunwarm smiles<br />[13:34] Sammi Loire: mmmm<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: But in any case she is busted for lieing<br />[13:34] Tarl Field: Dont you agree<br />[13:35] Talon Tunwarm: yes Sir Tarl<br />[13:35] Sammi Loire: i never lie<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: I am sure you dont sammi<br />[13:35] Sammi Loire: :)<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: But this is a simple example<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: Any questions so far?<br />[13:36] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers* yes Sir -- the sub might be in trouble for forgetting the cream, but she compounded her error by lieing, so yes,, a more severe punishment would be at Hand<br />[13:36] Tarl Field: so what can you as a sub learn from this example<br />[13:36] Tarl Field: One admit you forgot the cream<br />[13:36] Tarl Field: or lie and fail your dom even more?<br />[13:36] Sammi Loire: dont lie<br />[13:37] Sammi Loire: think ahead<br />[13:37] Talon Tunwarm: better to correct the mistake than tring to cover it up...this boy thinks<br />[13:37] Tarl Field: Okay lets turn it around.<br />[13:37] Tarl Field: Just for the fun of it<br />[13:37] Lilystarre Darkstone: nods softly* admit an error and don't hide the facts with untruths<br />[13:38] Sammi Loire: looks forward to being a Dom<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: How would the situation unfold if i as the dom promised to bring home some items on my way home from work as the sub was restrained in a way that she could not drive and she said she dropped the can to cover up for her doms mistake<br /><br />[13:39] Talon Tunwarm looks puzzled<br />[13:39] Sammi Loire: cant the Dom just say he's out of cream?<br />[13:39] Tarl Field: True<br />[13:40] Tarl Field: And talon for the sake of what i said if i have the sub wearing leg irons and wrist shackles connected to a belt with chains long enough so she can clean the house and so on<br />[13:40] Tarl Field: It would be a bit hard for her to go out and get cream right?<br />[13:41] Sammi Loire: yes<br />[13:41] Sammi Loire: impossible<br />[13:41] Tarl Field: so the second situation is the sub lies to cover that i was out of cream.<br />[13:41] Lilystarre Darkstone: yes Sir,,,<br />[13:41] Talon Tunwarm: this boy would not say" sorry, but master forgot the cream"<br />[13:41] Tarl Field: what should i punish her for?<br />[13:42] Tarl Field: If any punishment should be given?<br />[13:42] Lilystarre Darkstone: for standing up to defend You,embarrassing You before Your Friend,Sir<br />[13:43] Sammi Loire: well she wud say she dropped it<br />[13:43] Talon Tunwarm: still lieing<br />[13:43] Sammi Loire: i mean she wudnt include the dom<br />[13:43] Lilystarre Darkstone: this girl believes that an explanation, if any, should be given by You,the Dom,Sir<br />[13:43] Tarl Field: I should punish her for lieing but then again she did it to try and cover for the household not having cream at home<br />[13:44] Sammi Loire: i dont think she wud have to lie<br />[13:44] Tarl Field: now i shown two situations and none of them are black and white when it comes to discipline<br />[13:44] Sammi Loire: no Sir<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: which is my point when and if you should apply it is very much up to you and the dom<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: Me personal i would punish her for lieing<br />[13:45] Tarl Field: even if it was to cover for me<br />[13:45] Sammi Loire: yes<br />[13:45] Sammi Loire: shudnt lie<br />[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: agree<br />[13:46] Sammi Loire: its the easy path<br />[13:46] Tarl Field: I would rather have her saying that she is sorry for not bringing the cream as we were out of it<br />[13:46] Sammi Loire: mmmm<br />[13:46] Tarl Field: And then she could ask if milk would be a accepted subtitute<br />[13:46] Talon Tunwarm: admit it as soon as possible<br />[13:46] Tarl Field: if it was wished<br />[13:48] Tarl Field: But as with everything trust and safety comes before anything<br />[13:48] Sammi Loire: yes :)<br />[13:48] Lilystarre Darkstone: nods softly* yes Sir<br />[13:49] Tarl Field: what i am saying every situation has a wrong and a right way and usually they dont alwasy look the same depending if your the sub or the dom<br />[13:49] Sammi Loire: thats true Sir<br />[13:49] Sammi Loire: but somethings r always wrong<br />[13:50] Tarl Field: very true<br />[13:50] Tarl Field: lies destroy the trust<br />[13:50] Tarl Field: And without trust you have nothing<br />[13:50] Sammi Loire: nods<br />[13:51] Talon Tunwarm: agree, even if the sub is lieing to someone else<br />[13:51] Sammi Loire: cos not life or death anyway<br />[13:51] Sammi Loire: just cream<br />[13:51] Tarl Field: But remember to always be true and if for some reason you cant finish the task if its something thats missing or the task is to hard try your best and if say cream is missing work around it and offer something in its place<br />[13:52] Tarl Field: IN this example yes<br />[13:52] Lilystarre Darkstone: be creative, in other words,,soft laugh<br />[13:53] Tarl Field: True lily<br />[13:53] Tarl Field: Any questions<br />[13:54] Lilystarre Darkstone: she would have made as light of it as she could, maybe joking that "Oour cow was ill" ,,,and laugh it off,while working around the missing cream<br />[13:54] Talon Tunwarm: how about 2 subs?<br />[13:54] Tarl Field: Also a way to handle it<br />[13:54] Tarl Field: hmmm<br />[13:55] Tarl Field: Now thats a answer i dont know how to give talon since i would guess the more dominant sub would take control but that would make that sub a switch<br />[13:55] Talon Tunwarm: punishment for a sub not telling on the other?<br />[13:56] Talon Tunwarm: or head sub<br />[13:56] Sammi Loire: wud it Sir?<br />[13:56] Tarl Field: hmmmm<br />[13:56] Sammi Loire: thought a switch was different<br />[13:56] Talon Tunwarm: only the dom can give punishment...right?<br />[13:56] Sammi Loire: what is a switch Sir?<br /><br />[13:57] Tarl Field: if you have a more experienced sub and a new sub i would trust the older sub to help the new to learn faster and alos accept the new subs punishment as her own as well<br />[13:57] Sammi Loire: wow<br />[13:57] Tarl Field: sammi a switch is a person that is both dominant and submissive depending on their mood and needs<br />[13:57] Sammi Loire: ah ty Sir<br />[13:58] Tarl Field: And with that i think is a good idea to wrap this class up... smiles<br /><br />[13:58] Talon Tunwarm: one subs mistake would fall on both subs?<br />[13:58] Sammi Loire: yes i agree with that<br />[13:59] Tarl Field: Talon if i put the more experienced one in charge of the new girls training yes<br />[13:59] Talon Tunwarm: okay, thank You Sir Tarl<br />[13:59] Tarl Field: And thank you for coming<br />[14:00] Sammi Loire: ty Sir<br />[14:00] Ellyssia Sexton: ty Sir<br />[14:00] Sammi Loire: enjoyed it<br />[14:00] Tarl Field: Pleasure to have you hear<br />[14:00] Tarl Field: here<br />[14:00] Talon Tunwarm: thank You Sir Tarl for the class<br /><br />[14:00] Sammi Loire: like scenarios<br />[14:00] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers* thank You,Tarl Sir<br /><br />[14:01] Lilystarre Darkstone accepted your inventory offer.<br />[14:01] Tarl Field: your welcome<br /><br />[14:02] Talon Tunwarm looks over at Sammi and hands Her his leash with a smile<br /><br />[14:04] Sammi Loire: lol<br />[14:04] Sammi Loire: hhahahaahahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-7156687432626184962009-04-25T16:56:00.031+02:002009-04-28T17:53:30.045+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 15 Apr 27 - May 3<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Adult Content Change - Lord Sullivan<br />2. Scarlet Letter Hunt<br />3. Puppyplay by Happy Hawkeye<br />4. Pick Offer from Eye-Catcher<br />5. Naughty Story by Bastet Lyon<br />6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />7. Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br /><br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Adult Content Change - Lord Sullivan</h3><br /><br />As many of you are aware or maybe not, LL is planning to segregate Adult content to a new continent called "Ursula" in June/July 2009 which will mean that to access Adult Content all avatars will have to either be verifed with "Payment info Used", "Payment info on file" or verified via Aristotle, LL 3rd party verification service or have purchased via xstreet and have payment info on file there.<br /><br />This is to bring it to your attention and calls for your support as LL is failing to notify the population as a whole which we think is unfair. The links below will lead you to ongoing discussions in the forums and we call for your support in spreading the word as LL seems unable to do so.<br /><br />This change will affect everyone in one way or another and is to in depth to explain it all here. So please take the time to browse the links below.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogs.secondlife.com/community/community/blog/2009/04/21/update--upcoming-changes-for-adult-content" target="Adult Content">https://blogs.secondlife.com/community/community/blog/2009/04/21/update--upcoming-changes-for-adult-content</a><br /><br />More information can be found here:<br /><a href="https://support.secondlife.com/ics/support/default.asp?deptID=4417&task=knowledge&questionID=6010" target="About Maturity Ratings">About Maturity Ratings</a><br /><br /><a href="https://support.secondlife.com/ics/support/default.asp?deptID=4417&task=knowledge&questionID=6032" target="Adult-oriented content controls FAQ">Adult-oriented content controls FAQ</a><br /><br /><a href="https://blogs.secondlife.com/community/community/blog/2009/04/21/update--upcoming-changes-for-adult-content" target="Blog post with provisional dates">Blog post with provisional dates</a><br /><br /><a href="http://forums.secondlife.com/showthread.php?t=314444&page=1&pp=15" target="long thread">There is a forum thread where you can post your questions for a LL representative to answer</a> warning - this is a *very* long thread.<br /><br /><a href="http://wiki.secondlife.com/wiki/Adult_Content" target="There is a summary of the key points">Here is a summary of the key points and links in the second life wiki</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.slapt.me/wiki/index.php/Main_Page" target="mirror">And here's a non LL mirror site - just to make sure none of the information is lost</a><br /><br /><a href="http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/SVC-205" target="check it out and vote">Rather than making us move, LL should be implementing this</a> check it out and vote<br /><br />If you have your own land there is a freebie note card giver and toy on Xstreet. This is a freebie notecard giver that will let you spread the word about the proposed changes to accounts and accessing content in Second Life.<br /><br /><a href="https://uncensored.xstreetsl.com/modules.php?name=Marketplace&file=item&ItemID=1416611" target="Market Place">https://uncensored.xstreetsl.com/modules.php?name=Marketplace&file=item&ItemID=1416611</a><br /><br />What they haven't done actually tell people inworld or in any language other than English.<br /><br />So, set this up in your shop, club or anywhere that you have permission to build and help us spread the word.<br /><br />You don't have to run a business to be affected by the proposed changes, in one way or another we'll all be affected.<br /><br />If you are affected or wish to support us, take a picture of you and the toy and post it to the flickr group here: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/we_are_adult_content/" target="flicker">http://www.flickr.com/groups/we_are_adult_content/</a> If the item is a little racy for you but you still want to show your support with a picture, take a pic of you beside the box it comes in or contact "Couldbe Yue" inworld and she will drop you one of the other protest pics over.<br /><br />That way both LL and the rest of the world (read media) can see just how many people are affected and not happy that their concerns are being ignored.<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Scarlet Letter Hunt</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRa3aILXuI/AAAAAAAAAe8/CIrLYcCpjco/s1600-h/Scarlet+Letter+Sign.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 316px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRa3aILXuI/AAAAAAAAAe8/CIrLYcCpjco/s400/Scarlet+Letter+Sign.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328984167039065826" border="0" /></a>The Scarlet Letter Hunt, SL's adult-themed grid wide treasure hunt started last Saturday April 18 and will run through May 18. You'll need a whole month because as I last heard anyway, 104 shops are participating in this massive orgy of freebies, including BDSM Life and Eye-Catcher. The hunt's organizers have said it's sure to please any taste.<br /><br />I have been involved in the hunt from day one, and I can tell you that it's an interesting hunt and can be very addictive! I have been hunting from 10pm till 6am - that's how addicting it can become! You've been warned!!<br /><br />With the Scarlet Letter Hunt, you can join the group, where you can ask for hints from various vendors and from other hunters, but direct directions or cheating is NOT allowed in this hunt. I am very grateful and thankful for this group, because it has helped me a lot in my hunt, and whenever I ask for hints, I get some awesome help from the organisers, the vendors and the other hunters. It is really worth it to join the group! Click on the Scarlet Hunt sign board to get a link to the group.<br /><br /><a href="http://slurl.com/secondlife/Dewey/47/146/51" target="Scarlet Letter Hunt Start">Click here to get the starting point</a><br /><br />See the Scarlet Letter Hunt at this address for more information and updates:<br /><br /><a href="http://scarletletterhunt.blogspot.com/" target="Scarlet Letter Hunt">Click here to open the Scarlet Letter Hunt main page</a><br /><br />And I CAN confirm for you that what you are looking for is a red letter A. But don't ask me where to find any clues. That would be cheating! See you on the trail!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Puppyplay by Happy Hawkeye</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRX5TnK8zI/AAAAAAAAAec/ayL4RojwRRQ/s1600-h/Happy+%26+Pascale.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 318px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRX5TnK8zI/AAAAAAAAAec/ayL4RojwRRQ/s400/Happy+%26+Pascale.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328980901114868530" border="0" /></a>Puppyplay is in RL bdsm not very popular. I really dont see why. It creates a special bond between sub and Dominant. With very little stuff / tools its easy to create a great roleplay, if you can even call it play. For some people its very real.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRYUO8VC7I/AAAAAAAAAek/89n09cplOyU/s1600-h/pascale+doggy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 395px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRYUO8VC7I/AAAAAAAAAek/89n09cplOyU/s400/pascale+doggy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328981363717901234" border="0" /></a>In general: the sub changes to a puppy/dog and loses its ability to speak and walk. Only crawl, bark and whine, growl and such are allowed. So puppyplay is used to dehumanise and / or humiliate. Because the puppy isn t allowed to speak, and interacts with body language and sounds, a very strong bond is formed between Dominant and sub, because they have to pay really good attention to each other. The gear that can be used is buttplug with tail, paws and muzzle. And of course puppy collar and leash. Except for the collar the stuff is hard to get.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRYv6jf2JI/AAAAAAAAAes/7q5QmmbHfnA/s1600-h/dana+doggy.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 398px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRYv6jf2JI/AAAAAAAAAes/7q5QmmbHfnA/s400/dana+doggy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328981839281379474" border="0" /></a>In SL its different. Stuff like muzzle, paws, a puppy hud and skins are fully available. Puppy play in sl is quite common. I have 2 girls that fully play a role as puppy in SL. One only uses the animation hud, and keeps her human form/skin, the other has a muzzle, paws, tail and puppy tongue. She also uses the hud. As in RL too, the bond is very strong. I control the moves and plays they do, command them , whistle them, feed them . I have wicker beds, a kennel, a dog house, bowls, dog cookies etc. Balls to play with.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRZeCBpLBI/AAAAAAAAAe0/GW9kHTPNL2A/s1600-h/Pascale+Doghouse.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 398px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRZeCBpLBI/AAAAAAAAAe0/GW9kHTPNL2A/s400/Pascale+Doghouse.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328982631560850450" border="0" /></a>The stuff is for sale at some shops in sl:<br /><a href="http://slurl.com/secondlife/Odessa%20Graceful/45/221/21" target="puppyplay">K9 CREATIONS puppyplay</a><br /><a href="http://slurl.com/secondlife/Boncarus/15/136/65" target="puppyplay">Z. Design</a><br /><br />I like puppyplay very much, if the sub is dedicated it creates a real bond. Dependance, created by cutting the chat and IM by the use of RLV. Like a dog allowing them to listen, but nothing more. Using only the hud to communicate with the outside. Growl, whine, sniff, whoof. For me it really is completely different then performing normal D/s play.<br /><br />If you have any questions, you can always IM me.<br /><br />Regards, Happy Hawkeye.<br /><br />If you are interested in writing an article about your experiences for us, or want to use something from your blog for our newsletter, please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Pick Offer from Eye-Catcher</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRUsktZE4I/AAAAAAAAAeU/xc7YrPpmOkE/s1600-h/Pick+Offer+from+Eye-Catcher.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 398px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SfRUsktZE4I/AAAAAAAAAeU/xc7YrPpmOkE/s400/Pick+Offer+from+Eye-Catcher.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5328977383831180162" border="0" /></a>Constanza Amsterdam has a new offer for anybody who frequents her Eye-Catcher Store in the BDSM Life Sim. Just include Eye-Catcher in your SL Picks and you'll receive special offers each month. This month you'll receive a shabby bear and paddle. Jsut look forthe Free graphic shown here to sign up today!<br /><br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. Naughty Story by Bastet Lyon</h3><br /><br /> he found his beloved kitten, napping so peacefully on her couch. she looks rather sweet there, he thought to himself as he quietly squatted down in front of her. she stirred a little when he slipped his hand into her purple checked dress, and under her bra, finding her nipple and squeezing gently, rolling between his thumb and forefinger. he leaned over her and kissed her neck just below her left ear, never letting off the pressure from her now hard nipple.<br /> "ummmm?", she moaned quietly, insstinctively turning to her pleasure, and her eyes fluttered open. seeing it was master she smiled. His head still at her neck by her ear he whispers sofly, "good afternoon kitten", he kissed her neck twice more and gave her shoulder a gentle bite, "you have five minutes i want you on the bed, no clothes legs spread, understand?"<br /> "um ,yes..." she said seductively, and she pushed him away sitting up using his arm for levarage. "there you go" he assisted her with a little push as she pulled her self off the couch, standing up and dropping her jacket where she once had been sleeping and walking off toward their room, stopping only briefly to pee, sheremoved the rest of her clothes while on the pot and then wiped her self with a baby cloth and hurried off to the bed,<br /> she lay on top of the quilt wondering what he would do to her. the anticipation was always the worst and the best, he didnt make her wait long. suddenly he appeared like out of nowhere she hadnt heard him come in, his stealth was unsettleing. "over here, hands and knees", he said as he stood naked on the side of the bed, his cock rock hard and throbbing. she crawled across the bed to him and before she could look up he had her long blonde hair in his fist shoving her open mouth down on his cock. she almost gagged, but resisted the urge licking his cock from the top to the bottom then sucking her way back up the shaft rolling the head around in her mouth with her tongue when she reached it down the shaft again this time all the way gagging and back up the shaft, she licked down the side and back to his balls sucking each one into her mouth and rolling it around before attending its twin, she slid the now wet ball out of her mouth and licked her way to his asshole where she inserted the tip of her tongue several times, while she held his cock in her fist massaging it up and down up and down as her tongue flicked in and out of his asshole. K"oh my god woman!" he shuddered and grabbed her arm<br />"turn over" he ordered as he pulled her by the arm, afraid he would spend him self then, he applied a generous amount of lube to his cock and fingered her pussy long enough to loosen her enough for entry, she had an incredibly tight cunt, and he knew if he didnt cool it a minute two thrusts would be about it. and he didnt want thiat he had plans this was not going to be a quickie.<br /> he pressed the tip of his cock to her pink meat and gave a slow gentle push, steady pressure stopping when he felt the muscle groups tighteen giving each ring a chance to relax he would push on to the next till he was buried deep in her, waiting a moment he leaned forward and asked quietly, "kitten, are you doing okay?" only until she nodded her affirmation did he begin his thrusts slow and steady at first, he worked his cock in and out, demanding that she rub it out";you better have that hand on that clit rubbing it out kitten", he smacked her on her ass and it made a loud cracking noise, just to put emphisis on who is the boss and who had better be minding him . she nodded affirmations, so he could see she was compliant he turned her on her side holding one leg up on his shoulder and the otehr around his waist, pulling out and pausing he lay down on the bed next to her letting her catch her breath, he lubed up her asshole and slipped his index finger in up to the knuckle he worked her ass with one then two fingers and finally three, she shuddered and began to beg him "master master! please please can i come? " she was urgent sounding... he could tell she was not going to be able to not come.<br />not yet kitten, not yet... "pleaseeeeeeeeeeeoh god!!", she couldnt stop it the orgasm flooded over her and she tensed up on his hand, he could feel the waves of muscle contractions as they washed over her body, "what did i say kitten? " he relinquished his displeasure because secretly he was feeling the opposite her pleasure was his too, "oh go ahead" he whispered to her fingers slipping in and out of her ass, he knew this thing would get her off like nothing else, later he would truss her up like a christmas turkey, leaving her to beg his forgiveness for disobeying him and coming before he gave the okay, but that too pleased him, poor little kitten she is damned if she do and damned if she dont he thought,<br /> suddenly he was behind her and two thrusts later his cock was buried to the hilt in her ass<br /> unlike her pussy he knew he had to get in fast or it was more tortureous<br /> she let out a yelp and a cry when he didso<br /> but three thrusts into her ass and she was coming again, he could feel the muscles tighten around his pounding cock, suddenly he withdrew from her throwing limp body up on the bed, he reached down and grabbed a harness, one she had never seen before, buckled the leather strap around her ankles and then crossing them over the top of her tummy and fastening them to the opposite wrist with hand cuffs, once those were in place he slid his cock into her little brown button again pulling it out twice to put it in her mouth finally he turned his now sweat drenched subbe over stabbing at her cunt with his cock, "oh master PLEASE PLWEASE come PLEASE PLEASE MASTER COME IN ME COME IN MY PUSSY PLEASE!",<br />he could tell at this point the poor kitten was at her limit and her begging him to come made it im possible not to, he felt the pressure building rapidly with each thrust and her pleas for relief and suddenly.....( to be continued) unless it doesnt make you hot, in that case i wont bother lol...<br /><br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br />It was another exciting enjoyable auction on Saturday. We had a virtual full sim in attendance to see Sedesta and Ashendi be auctioned. I think it is fair to say that bidding was not as phrenetic as usual, and it did take a little while to get going, but there was no doubt that those present saw the experience of Sedesta first hand. Sedesta certainly attracted the true Masters and Mistresses as bidding reached a healthy level. Bidding was again somewhat quieter for Ashendi, and I think it is fair to say that the winning Mistress picked up this lovely, experienced slave for a fantastic bargain.<br /><br />Without doubt, BDSM Life is attracting quality, experienced slaves who wish to be auctioned. This means that the Masters and Mistresses who do attend get the advantage of picking up a bargain. Do not miss out on this opportunity. Word is spreading fast of the quality on offer at the BDSM Life Slave Auctions, and I urge you all to come along next week and see for yourself what sort of bargains you can pick up.<br /><br />I'll see you there!<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Aries (2)<br />Baby Anatra (80)<br />Kore Bravin (1)<br />Sharra Bravin (8)<br />Island Girl Biler (6)<br />Esha Bruun (114 - current leader)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (27)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (13)<br />Tarl Field (8)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br />Peter Woody (1)<br />HB Yokosuka (30 current leader)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya says "Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at <a class="linkification-ext" href="http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html" title="Linkification: http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html">http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html</a> to understand what I am looking for, it says it far better than I can. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship."<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "i am 32 years old dom form the uk. im a search for a sub/slave who is sub/slave in rl. aged 20 to 40. who is single in sl and rl.<br />and will start relationship in sl and then take it to rl."<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the new Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - How to plan a play session (e.g. safety, limits, etc)<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1:30PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Discipline<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club with Cazzy Hax as hostess<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br /><br />The newsletter staff heard rumours that Eye-Catcher and BDSM Life will be participating in a treasure hunt! See the next issue of BDSM Life newsletter for more information.<br /><br />Having BDSM-life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks on your profiles, will mean that you will get a lovely and genours gift every week. Click on the BDSM-Life Picks sign board every week at the landing point, and for Eye-Catcher, the Picks sign board is near the entrance, near the Lucky Chair. So, why don't you put BDSM-Life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks, put us on the map! :-)<br /><br /><a href="http://www.eyecatcher.tk/" target="Eye-Catcher">Check out the Eye-Catcher website Consie has been working on!</a><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at the website - <a class="linkification-ext" href="http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com" title="Linkification: http://www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com">www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com</a> in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: <a class="linkification-ext" href="http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/" title="Linkification: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/">http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/</a><br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Happy Hawkeye, Roni ScarmonAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-40121793717482526652009-04-19T14:03:00.019+02:002009-04-21T00:25:29.055+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 14 Apr 20 - 26<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Scarlet Letter Hunt<br />2. Bondage Awards Results Being Tallied<br />3. DragonStory by Tarl Part 2<br />4. Cazzy's journey - the beginning<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />9. In other news.....<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3><span style="font-weight: bold;">1. Sc</span><font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font><span style="font-weight: bold;">rlet Letter Hunt</span></h3><br /><br />The Sc<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>rlet Letter Hunt, SL's <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>dult-themed grid wide tre<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>sure hunt st<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>rted S<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>turd<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>y <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">A</font>pril 18 <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>nd will run through M<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>y 18. You'll need <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font> whole month bec<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>use 94 shops <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>re p<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>rticip<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ting in this m<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ssive orgy of freebies, including BDSM Life and Eye-C<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">a</span>tcher.. The hunt's org<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>nizers h<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ve s<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>id it's sure to ple<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>se any t<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ste.<br /><br />I h<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">a</span>ve been involved in the hunt from d<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">a</span>y one, and I c<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>n tell you that it's <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>n interesting hunt and c<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>n be very <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>ddictive! I h<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>ve been hunting from 10pm till 6am - that's how <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>ddicting it can become! You've been w<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>rned!!<br /><br />With the Sc<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>rlet Letter Hunt, you c<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>n join the group, where you c<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>n ask for hints from v<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>rious vendors and from other hunters, but direct directions or che<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>ting is NOT <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>llowed in this hunt. I am very gr<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>teful and th<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>nkful for this group, bec<span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>use it have helped me a lot in my hunt, <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>nd whenever I ask for hints, I get some <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">a</span>wesome help from the organisers, the vendors and the other hunters. It is really worth it to join the group! Click on the Scarlet Hunt sign board to get a link to the group.<br /><br />St<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>rt <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>t this loc<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>tion:<br /><br /><br /><br />See the Sc<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>rlet Letter Hunt <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>t this <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ddress for more inform<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>tion <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>nd upd<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>tes:<br /><br /><a href="http://scarletletterhunt.blogspot.com/" target="new">Click here to open the Scarlet Letter Hunt main page</a><br /><br /><font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">A</font>nd I C<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">A</font>N confirm for you th<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>t wh<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>t you <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>re looking for is <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font> red letter <font style="font-weight: bold; font-size: larger; color: red;">A</font>. But don't <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>sk me where to find <font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ny clues. Th<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>t would be che<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>ting! See you on the tr<font style="font-weight: bold; color: red;">a</font>il!<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Bondage Awards Results Being Tallied</h3><br /><br />Voting for the 2009 Bondage Awa<span style="font-family: georgia;">rds has closed. A week of double-checking is required before the winners will be known. Results were posted Sunday, April 19th. We're proud to say that BDSM Life came in 10th place. You can see it <a href='http://www.bondageawards.com/hall_of_fame.asp' target='Bondage Awards'>here</a></span><br /><br />Thanks to everybody who voted for BDSM-Life.com for your support. And next year we'll place even higher!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. DragonStory (by Tarl Field)</h3><br /><br />Part Two (contuined from the <a href="http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/2009/04/weekly-kinky-newsletter-issue-13-apr-13.html">last issue</a>):<br /><br />He sees that the big dragon is not a danger to them, and so he lays his chest on the side of the dragon, feeling very nervous but not scared as she was not being threatening and then she suddenly pushes him back so he falls over slightly knocking his head on the rock, but it was not a rock at all, it was an egg in which the small dragon hatched out of. He looks at it and suddenly understands what the dragon wanted to know. The dragon was trying to ask, “Who hatched the egg?” and he tries to explain that they thought it was a rock and took shelter behind it. <br /><br />The big dragon looks at the hatched egg, and then gently pushes the girls out in the large part and almost like a warm dagger through butter frees the girls from their chains. Now after a while it dawns on the man, whom the dragon is talking to them by thoughts, and so he tries to think his answers and it works! And he thinks the whole story to why they are there and the big dragon suddenly rushes out a thought so strong that it knocks the man over and the thought is simple. The big dragon tells the man in thoughts; “Go to your town and care for my baby, I will return” and so he obeys the dragon. Actually, the man could not believe that the big dragon could do it alone, but he does as he is asked.<br /><br />When they have made their way, as the girls can walk freely now they run to the city, the people notice the small dragon in one of the soldiers’ arms and they get frightened and step back from the soldiers and the girls, staring as they walk toward the city.<br /><br />As they arrive at the gates of the city, they are not allowed to go into the city because of the baby dragon and so they have to wait outside. But it takes a week and during that week the baby dragon has learned to chase rats and other small animals. The soldiers and the girls looked after the baby dragon, while they wait for the mother to return. One day, there was a dark cloud over the city and the group looked up to see a group of dragons, flying over them. One dragon, almost blinding the light across the city and the group, dives down and lands very gracefully and walks towards the group with the baby dragon. They see that it is the baby dragon’s mother and they could not believe it as the big dragon is not black anymore, she is almost golden.<br /><br />The man, who was holding the baby dragon stepped forward, and handed it over to the big dragon. In return, the big golden dragon roared; “Thank you for your help with my baby and in return to show goodwill, we will help you fight your enemies”<br /><br />And so the day becomes night, and the dragons which was circling in the sky, flew down and landed, there were 20 dragons in total, including the big golden dragon. Eight of the dragons have already chosen the riders, but the rest of dragons did not have riders, and so they stepped forward and asked the soldiers to join them, and become their riders. The soldiers agreed and the girls made saddles for the dragons to wear and to carry the riders. Now all the dragons have their riders, but the girls are alone, so the soldiers and the dragons decide to take the girls along with them.<br /><br />The dragons took to the skies and they flew to battle.<br /><br />What happened next was something that the soldiers and the girls swore never to tell anyone, but the battle was won, and they return, losing one dragon and one soldier. Later, as the dragon died, another dragon was born.<br /><br />The big golden dragon stepped forward to ask the soldiers and girls for one more favour, to help look after her baby dragon, and to teach it how to fly. The group agreed and they took the baby dragon, as the dragons flew away. It took years for the group to teach the baby dragon, and he grew slowly, learnt to how to use his wings, and one day, he finally had the power to fly to the skies, leaving the group behind. <br /><br />They did not see the baby dragon, which was not a baby anymore, for days, weeks and years.<br /><br />But it is told all over the city that the dragons, along with the baby dragon, have circled over the city, in silence, looking over the city, with the group of soldiers and girls making home in the city. They look to the skies, occasionally, wondering what have happened to the dragons, and whether if they will see them again………..<br /><br />The End………….?<br /><br />______________________________________________<br /><h3>4. Cazzy's journey - the beginning (by Cazzy Hax)</h3><br /><br />I cheated a little bit, and copied & pasted from my blog, thought this might be interesting to you folks to see how I started out at the beginning. Hope you enjoy!<br /><br />(2007)<br />I have been thinking about what being a submissive means to me.<br /><br />Before posting this in my blog, I have been thinking about it very seriously. And I feel that this is what being a submissive means to me.<br /><br />I believe that I am a naturally submissive who have a desire to please and to serve her Dom in most of the aspects of everyday life. However, I do not know if I could serve in a domestic way, i.e. doing the housework, doing the ironing and doing the washing as I am useless at the housework *laughs* but IF a Dom requires for me to do the housework, I suppose we will have to come to a compromise where I might be best in areas of housework, and might get someone in to do other areas, but this is just my view, who knows, this might change within time and if I am in a D/s relationship, in which that I am not.<br /><br />I feel that I would like to be lead and guided by a Dom in the bedroom and outside the bedroom, i.e. domestic serves as such as making breakfast (within limits! I am not good at cooking); organising his everyday schedules, etc. I am a very organised person (at times) and could help the Dom in the office, if he does require it and I would like to do little tasks and assignments for him. I dream of this everyday and I hope to find a Dom who is suitable, who likes to look after his little submissive, have a desire for spankings (not for punishments *grins*), to explore and push my limitations, but at the same time, encourages me to achieve my dreams and to be more confident (I am shy in real life, when meeting new faces for the first time.)<br /><br />In my life, I am an ambitious person, who wants to achieve her dreams in the terms of my working life, I am a tutor, and I hope to become a lecturer at university in the future. And I hope to find a Dom who won’t stop me in achieving my dreams, however I do have dreams to travel so hopefully the Dom will travel with me.<br /><br />So, my first thought. Who knows, this could change within time.<br /><br />(2009)<br /><br />2 years later, it have been a journey of self-exploring, and looking deeply into myself, and like most of you know already, I am not a submissive, but a switch, and is loving it. I always say this: A journey is best travelled, when you learn new things, explore things and realise and find new things about yourself, and that your journey will never end.........<br /><br />Thank you.<br /><br />If you are interested in writing an article about your experiences for us, or want to use something from your blog for our newsletter, please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br />We weren't able to have an auction last saturday as RL got in the way. But please be assured that normal service will be resumed next Saturday. BDSM Life Slave Auctions will be back once again offering the very best slaves who are committed to the cause. We already have two outstanding applicants ready to go to auction, both of whom are experienced in both RL and SL and are totally committed to their roles as slaves looking for Masters and Mistresses<br /><br />We start as usual at 3.00pm SLT and I look forward to seeing you all there.<br /><br />BDSM Life brings the very best slaves to auction, and offers them in the most exciting and enjoyable auction atmosphere in SL<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Aries (1)<br />Baby Anatra (74)<br />Kore Bravin (1)<br />Sharra Bravin (8)<br />Island Girl Bravin (6)<br />Esha Bruun (102 - current leader)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (27)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (13 - current leader)<br />Tarl Field (7)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Aeonflux Llewellyn writes "Hello, this girl has a good imagination and is highly literate. She appreciates seduction and romance but can respond eagerly to other approaches as well. This girl is wired to please and wants to make you feel like she has been longing and aching for you and only you forever. after that pleasing you in what ever way you want is what she wants too. come, let this girl make you feel like the most special person she has ever been with. Her hard limits are scat, animals, kids, blood, and extreme pain. If it turns you on, she can get into most anything else. Please give her a chance to serve you, sir."<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya says "Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what I am looking for, it says it far better than I can. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship."<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "i am 32 years old dom form the uk. im a search for a sub/slave who is sub/slave in rl. aged 20 to 40. who is single in sl and rl.<br />and will start relationship in sl and then take it to rl."<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the new Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - BDSM toys and how to use them (RL & SL)<br /><br />Tuesday<br />12PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Dominance<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club with Cazzy Hax as hostess<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. In other news......</h3><br /><br />The newsletter staff heard rumours that Eye-Catcher and BDSM Life will be participating in a treasure hunt! See the next issue of BDSM Life newsletter for more information.<br /><br />Having BDSM-life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks on your profiles, will mean that you will get a lovely and genours gift every week. Click on the BDSM-Life Picks sign board every week at the landing point, and for Eye-Catcher, the Picks sign board is near the entrance, near the Lucky Chair. So, why don't you put BDSM-Life and Eye-Catcher in your Picks, put us on the map! :-)<br /><br />Check out the <a href="http://www.eyecatcher.tk/" target='Eye-Catcher'>Eye-Catcher website</a> Consie has been working on!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at the website - www.bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon<br />Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and Tarl Feild<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-52596331991961219792009-04-19T13:52:00.001+02:002009-04-19T13:55:21.172+02:00Dominance - April 16, 2009[2009/04/16 13:00] Tarl Field: Okay lets get started... smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:01] Tarl Field: Todays subject is dominance which can be physical and mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:01] Tarl Field: I personally prefer a mix of the two<br /><br />[2009/04/16 13:01] Tarl Field: To my help to demonstrate the physical part i have my girl melinda which is physically restrained<br />[2009/04/16 13:01] Tarl Field: Or had as she seemed to crash<br />[2009/04/16 13:02] Dionysos Ulrik: their goes youre dominance ...<br />[2009/04/16 13:02] Dionysos Ulrik smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:02] Tarl Field: Any way the physical dominance is when you touch or restrain your sub with phyical strenght or physical restraints like rope or cuffs<br />[2009/04/16 13:02] Dionysos Ulrik: we cant beat the evil harse Masters of sl<br />[2009/04/16 13:02] Tarl Field: wb melinda)<br />[2009/04/16 13:03] Melinda Waffle nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Tarl Field: Now besides how she is restrained what other ways of physical restraints can you think off<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Dionysos Ulrik: blindfold<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Lilystarre Darkstone: leather cuffs,Sir ,,,<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Bastet Lyon: gag<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Zeldan Blackburn: suspend<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Tarl Field: all good<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Dionysos Ulrik: ear mufflers<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Tarl Field: ahh suspension is always fun<br />[2009/04/16 13:04] Lilystarre Darkstone: traditional hand cuffs as well<br />[2009/04/16 13:05] Tarl Field: ahh but make sure the handcuffs are doublelocked<br />[2009/04/16 13:05] Tarl Field: so they dont cut of the bloodflow by mistake<br />[2009/04/16 13:05] Lilystarre Darkstone: ahh,, yes Sir *smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:05] Zeldan Blackburn: in rl pinch test<br />[2009/04/16 13:05] Zeldan Blackburn: the back of the hand<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Tarl Field: Zelda thats a very correct and fast way to know<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Tarl Field: But if your restrained as melinda is i cant check her hands<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Zeldan Blackburn: nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Tarl Field: I would have to ask her if her hands are going numb<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding softly as she listens<br />[2009/04/16 13:06] Tarl Field: And trust she will tell me the truth<br />[2009/04/16 13:07] Tarl Field: Even if she is helpless in her restraint she can always get my attention and signal that she needs a brake<br />[2009/04/16 13:07] Tarl Field: break<br />[2009/04/16 13:08] Tarl Field: And as she does so i can do a few things. I can release her directly, or tease her by playing stupid and not understanding but that demands a lot of trust and a very good knowledge about how melinda works as a sub...<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Tarl Field: And she knows very well that as my girl she has no rights as a sub...<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Tarl Field: But in one way she has the total power<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Tarl Field: Why?<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Dionysos Ulrik: safeword<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Tarl Field: true<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Dionysos Ulrik: she decides how far you take her in the end<br />[2009/04/16 13:09] Lilystarre Darkstone: her submission itself,Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:10] Tarl Field: both of you are right<br />[2009/04/16 13:10] Tarl Field: I can conrol her totally within the limits we agreed on when we started...<br />[2009/04/16 13:10] Lilystarre Darkstone smiles** because without giving You the gift of her submission, You cannot Dominate to begin with,Sir,, *soft soft smile<br />[2009/04/16 13:11] Tarl Field removes melindas gag but whispers that she is not allowed to speak<br />[2009/04/16 13:11] Tarl Field: very true<br />[2009/04/16 13:11] Tarl Field: And one of the biggest gifts you can recive is just that her submission<br />[2009/04/16 13:11] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:11] Tarl Field: But with that comes a lot of trust that i wont miss use her trust<br />[2009/04/16 13:12] Lilystarre Darkstone: ,,,, and it is a gift Sir (something that "wanna be" Doms tend to over look *smiles*<br />[2009/04/16 13:12] Tarl Field: now as you saw i ungagged her and told her not to speak<br />[2009/04/16 13:12] Tarl Field: thats a mental dominantion<br />[2009/04/16 13:13] Tarl Field: She could have said thank you Master and then be silent but she knows what i expect of her<br />[2009/04/16 13:14] Tarl Field: Now to return to the physical dominance a part from the restraints she is wearing i can hold her hair and make her kneel and even restrain her more<br />[2009/04/16 13:14] Tarl Field: But would she remain in one place even if she was not restrained and only ordered to wait laying spread out in the bed.<br />[2009/04/16 13:14] Tarl Field: And melinda you may speak now...<br />[2009/04/16 13:15] Melinda Waffle: thx master<br />[2009/04/16 13:15] Melinda Waffle: hi all<br />[2009/04/16 13:15] Lovlee Destiny: **smiles**<br />[2009/04/16 13:15] Dionysos Ulrik smiles to melinda<br />[2009/04/16 13:15] Tarl Field: so which do you think effects a submissive the most a physical dominantion or a mental?<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Dionysos Ulrik: mental in the end<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Lovlee Destiny: mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] STEFANY Stipe bows head "the mental sir"<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers,agreeing* the mental aspect Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Tarl Field: It would seam all are going for the mental side<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] nova Coba: Depends on where you are playing RL or SL and the players.<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Killian Sandalwood: mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:16] Tarl Field: Nova in both aspects.... smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Tarl Field: Why do you think the mental part is so important<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Lovlee Destiny: because mental is completly bu choice<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Killian Sandalwood: but depends on how slave is conditioned<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] STEFANY Stipe: mental is pure commitment sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Zeldan Blackburn: nods but mental depends on complete honesty from the sub they have to let you inside their head<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Tarl Field: A very good point Killian<br />[2009/04/16 13:17] Lovlee Destiny: physical u are constricted... mental is aompletly by desire<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Tarl Field: And very true<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Dionysos Ulrik: in cufs you have no choice to stay in that posiotion . mental cuffs you are youre own prisioner and guard<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Tarl Field: The trust most be complete in a bdsm relationship<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Tarl Field: Now for an example<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers* nodding as she agrees* t's a matter of committment and devotion,Sir --again, much Trust is at issue as well<br />[2009/04/16 13:18] Tarl Field: I tell melinda to lay in bed dressed in say her bodystocking<br />[2009/04/16 13:19] Killian Sandalwood: but some of that desire comes from how the Dom has conditioned the slave<br />[2009/04/16 13:19] Tarl Field: BUt she hears something that would indicate say a waterleak.<br />[2009/04/16 13:19] Tarl Field: should she go up and check and call for help or fix it herself and lay back and wait.<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Lilystarre Darkstone: she should wait,Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Tarl Field: and tell me what happend when i come home<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Dionysos Ulrik: call for help i supose<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Kaddan Yue: call for help it might endanger her<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] STEFANY Stipe: call for help sir?<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] nova Coba: No I would take care of it, and take my punishment when master came home.<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Lovlee Destiny: depends on the relationship and knowing the Dom it would be a personal choice<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Tarl Field: Actually thats up to every dominant to decied how he or she wants their sub<br />[2009/04/16 13:20] Killian Sandalwood: try to please you by fixing then wait and tell you when you arive home<br />[2009/04/16 13:21] Tarl Field: I think melinda knows me well enough to answer how i would want her to act<br />[2009/04/16 13:21] Melinda Waffle: i think i should have a look<br />[2009/04/16 13:21] Melinda Waffle: some things are more important<br />[2009/04/16 13:21] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers* were it herself, she would make an effort to reach You,say by phone to alert You to the situation and to see what You have her do,,Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:21] Tarl Field: lily thats also a way to do it<br />[2009/04/16 13:22] Tarl Field: As you contact the dom to inform whats happend and asking instructions...<br />[2009/04/16 13:22] Tarl Field: Both ways would have been allowed under me<br />[2009/04/16 13:22] Lilystarre Darkstone nods softly,thoughtfully* yes SIr<br />[2009/04/16 13:22] Tarl Field: As a waterleak can grow big in a short time if your unlucky<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Tarl Field: And of course if the house caught on fire i would not expect her to wait in the flames<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Lovlee Destiny: **smiles**<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Melinda Waffle: omg<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Dionysos Ulrik: now is a waterleak something that dont happen likey . but the doorbel or so . is to be ignored i find<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Ge Hermans: at least the waterleak will come in handy when its on fire<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Tarl Field: well melinda some might expect their subs to wait no matter what<br />[2009/04/16 13:23] Melinda Waffle: Dont meet trouble halfway master<br />[2009/04/16 13:24] Tarl Field: No melinda knowing you as i do i know you would try and put the fire out...<br />[2009/04/16 13:24] Melinda Waffle nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:24] Melinda Waffle: but better no fire at all<br />[2009/04/16 13:24] Melinda Waffle: and no water leak<br />[2009/04/16 13:24] Tarl Field: But thats the point dominance is not just commanding and obeying<br />[2009/04/16 13:25] Tarl Field: You need to adjust to the sub you have..<br />[2009/04/16 13:25] Killian Sandalwood: that is so very true<br />[2009/04/16 13:25] Dionysos Ulrik: its always about the variables, things that you dont aspect<br />[2009/04/16 13:25] Tarl Field: Now just for fun would you call it a mental dominantion to make a sub to say wear a short skirt without underwear<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Lilystarre Darkstone nods softly* yes,,, and being prepared for contingencies as well *soft smile<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Dionysos Ulrik: in a way yes<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Lilystarre Darkstone: in a manner of speaking, yes Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Lovlee Destiny: I think that would be...<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Lovlee Destiny: she is trying to please you<br />[2009/04/16 13:26] Killian Sandalwood: if she is the shy type to expose her body in public --- yes<br />[2009/04/16 13:27] Lilystarre Darkstone: or she has been issued a directive,prohibiting the wearing of underwear,,,<br />[2009/04/16 13:27] Tarl Field: Your all correct.... smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda Waffle: sorry all rl calls for me<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Tarl Field: its amental control as she can choose to ignore it and i would accept that under some set oif events....<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda Waffle: whish you all a good lesson<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Dionysos Ulrik: take care melinda<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda gives Tarl a sweet kiss.<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda Waffle: mmmmmmmmmm<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Tarl Field: take care my girl<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda Waffle: thx master<br />[2009/04/16 13:28] Melinda Waffle: take care also<br />[2009/04/16 13:29] Lovlee Destiny: bye melinda<br />[2009/04/16 13:29] Melinda Waffle waves<br />[2009/04/16 13:30] Tarl Field: Now as you see she has to leave and i accept that and release er even if i could have kept her locked up.<br />[2009/04/16 13:30] Tarl Field: I know the most important restraint is not visable<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] Tarl Field: Its inside her and around her heart...<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] Melinda Waffle waves again<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] Melinda Waffle: bye all<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] Dionysos Ulrik: bye melinda<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] Lilystarre Darkstone: ... her desire to serve *soft smile<br />[2009/04/16 13:31] STEFANY Stipe: gb melinda<br />[2009/04/16 13:32] Tarl Field: And if you have any questions so far let me know<br />[2009/04/16 13:32] Dionysos Ulrik shakes his head<br />[2009/04/16 13:32] Lovlee Destiny: **smiles**<br />[2009/04/16 13:33] Tarl Field: Let me ask you this which is the most important part in dominance<br />[2009/04/16 13:33] Tarl Field: Physical or mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:33] Lilystarre Darkstone softly shakes her head,her eyes shimmering softly<br />[2009/04/16 13:33] Lovlee Destiny: mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] Bastet Lyon: mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] STEFANY Stipe: mental sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] Dionysos Ulrik: mental as well<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] STEFANY Stipe: mental involves more trust and commitment sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] Lovlee Destiny: Mental is pure desire to please...<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] Lilystarre Darkstone: she would think the mental,Sir -- nodding,agreeing*<br />[2009/04/16 13:34] Tarl Field: Agree so why is there a physical aspect to it if it seems like the mental part is the most important part<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Dionysos Ulrik: sometimes to focus more one a certain bodypart<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Killian Sandalwood: physical re-enforces the mental<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] nova Coba: It doubles the input to the brain.<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] STEFANY Stipe: the psycial ties in with the mental..without mental there is no psycial sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Lilystarre Darkstone: as a physical reminder, Sir,,,of the sub/slaves place<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Lovlee Destiny: Physical is outward proof to every one,<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Leesa Back: the physical to a submissive / slave can be used to enforce the mental.<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Tarl Field: two good points<br />[2009/04/16 13:35] Dionysos Ulrik: it helps a sub also to concetrate better<br />[2009/04/16 13:36] Tarl Field: without mental there is no physical and the physical is a proof to the outside world<br />[2009/04/16 13:36] Tarl Field: Lets break the first one down<br />[2009/04/16 13:36] Sylestra Parkin is Online<br />[2009/04/16 13:36] Tarl Field: For things to become physical you need trust and not just the trust you feel for a girlfriend or boyfriend<br />[2009/04/16 13:37] Tarl Field: But a much deeper trust as you willb e laying your life in the hand of some one else<br />[2009/04/16 13:37] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:37] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding as she listens<br />[2009/04/16 13:37] Tarl Field: And thats the mental part allowing some one to take control of you mentally<br />[2009/04/16 13:38] Tarl Field: And once you reach the stage that you trust each other fully you can start playing in the physical area...<br />[2009/04/16 13:38] Lilystarre Darkstone lifts her hand, a little shyly,,,<br />[2009/04/16 13:38] Tarl Field: Lily?<br />[2009/04/16 13:39] Dionysos Ulrik looks to lily if she was asking for a toiletbreak<br />[2009/04/16 13:40] Lilystarre Darkstone smiles,whispers* she agrees and understands that Your belief is mental trust preceeds physical trust,,, -- for this reason, one of her most strident and hard limits states that for no reason,shall she be bound in any fashion during a "first Meet" scene,,,<br />[2009/04/16 13:40] Tarl Field: Lily a very good rule actually<br />[2009/04/16 13:40] Lilystarre Darkstone: very very importrant to her own sense of safety, Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:41] Tarl Field: It might surprise you lily that i usually dont tie some one up in a club unless i know them a little before hand...<br />[2009/04/16 13:41] Lilystarre Darkstone: and if He (the Dom) objects,,well,,, He knows where the door is SIr (respectfully, of course**<br />[2009/04/16 13:41] Bastet Lyon: i second lilys rule<br />[2009/04/16 13:41] Bastet Lyon: one i follow stricktly<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Lilystarre Darkstone: ohh yes Sir,, *nods softly* she has RL Friends who play regularly in such a club ,,, and He would agree with You Sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Tarl Field: Actually lily if a dom cant accept your rule you have no need to tell them to get lost in a nice manner how ever it looks better if you do...<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Lilystarre Darkstone smiles to Bastet** thank You,,, smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Bastet Lyon: be safe first<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Bastet Lyon: that is number one rule<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:42] Tarl Field: Thats why the saying in bdsm goes safe, sane and consentual<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Killian Sandalwood: SSC<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Tarl Field: How ever if you know the girl you can scare them a little<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Lilystarre Darkstone whispers* she wanted to ask You Sir ,,, are You familiar with RACK?<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Tarl Field: Risk assesment<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Tarl Field: i forget the rest<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Killian Sandalwood: risk accepted consentual kink<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Lilystarre Darkstone: yes,,, Consentual Kink,,she thinks<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Bastet Lyon: actually before i allow my self to be dommed i watch him carefully for a good while to see how his decisio making and his responsibility levels are<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Lilystarre Darkstone: laughing soflty<br />[2009/04/16 13:43] Tarl Field: right<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Tarl Field: But they do mean basically the same<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Bastet Lyon: does he anger easily<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Bastet Lyon: how does he prioritize<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Killian Sandalwood: the second being a bit more edge than the first<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Bastet Lyon: does he get jealous that sort of thing<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Lilystarre Darkstone listens quietly to Bastet ,, nodding<br />[2009/04/16 13:44] Tarl Field: A good way of doing things bastet<br />[2009/04/16 13:45] Tarl Field: How ever we al know that sometimes we just feel a natural trust even after a short meeting<br />[2009/04/16 13:45] Tarl Field: It cant be explained its just there sometimes<br />[2009/04/16 13:45] Lilystarre Darkstone smiles softly, nodding with memory<br />[2009/04/16 13:45] Bastet Lyon: true the "gut" feeling<br />[2009/04/16 13:45] Dionysos Ulrik: thats a nice thing . but you can also be tricked at that by the other party<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Tarl Field: How ever doing it that way does pose some intresting questions<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Bastet Lyon: thats my first cue then i start the observing<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Adenah Handayani is Offline<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Bastet Lyon: i always follow my rules to keep me safe<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Bastet Lyon: gut feelings or not<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Tarl Field: If you get a gut feeling you need to build that on facts before doing something more serious...<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Dionysos Ulrik: very wise bastet<br />[2009/04/16 13:46] Lovlee Destiny: gut feelings can be misleading soetimes.... ;(<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Bastet Lyon: agreed<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Lovlee Destiny: like a kick in the gut<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Lovlee Destiny: **smiles**<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Tarl Field: Som dominants are very good at showing a very nice outer side<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Tarl Field: some<br />[2009/04/16 13:47] Tarl Field: Sorry think i got sidetracked into safety as always<br />[2009/04/16 13:48] nova Coba raises hand<br />[2009/04/16 13:48] Tarl Field: No matter if your the dom or the sub in a dominant relationship safety always comes first<br />[2009/04/16 13:48] Tarl Field: Nova?<br />[2009/04/16 13:48] nova Coba: I have Sir witnesses at private play parties some very tough slaves take some high levels of pain play (the triple zipper witnesses still in my mind.) Obviously for those players pain is an important part of the play.<br />[2009/04/16 13:48] Lovlee Destiny: Some tend me be quite loving and caring a generous, then when u wear the collar then get sidetracked, and u seem to be less important.. what do u do then?<br />[2009/04/16 13:49] Tarl Field: True for some pain is their wau of getting the release of the endorfines that makes them feel good<br />[2009/04/16 13:49] Tarl Field: Now when it comes to pain its a paradox<br />[2009/04/16 13:50] Dionysos Ulrik: i believe a lot of parties and clubs are more about lust then the beauty that submission can be for e D<br />[2009/04/16 13:50] Dionysos Ulrik: e=a<br />[2009/04/16 13:50] Tarl Field: Pain will release adranelin and endorfines which is the body´s chemicals to make you feel good...<br />[2009/04/16 13:50] Tarl Field: dion i agree<br />[2009/04/16 13:51] Tarl Field: In the club its about showing of your sub...<br />[2009/04/16 13:52] Tarl Field: But a club is also a good way to get to know a dom if he or she is a member in that club<br />[2009/04/16 13:52] Bastet Lyon: to me it seems like a power play between the doms<br />[2009/04/16 13:52] Tarl Field: As you will get a lot of info about the person from his or her friends<br />[2009/04/16 13:52] Dionysos Ulrik nods and sighs<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] Tarl Field: i will tell you about what happend to me when i went to a club with my girlfriend at that time<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] Lilystarre Darkstone: perhaps as well from that One's sub/slave as well<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] Lilystarre Darkstone: smiles<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] STEFANY Stipe raises hand quietly<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] Tarl Field: I went with her and gave a our common friend a ride to the party<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] Tarl Field: Stefany?<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] STEFANY Stipe: when it comes to something your master wants you to do but ur not comfortable with but you want to please him..<br />[2009/04/16 13:53] STEFANY Stipe: what should you do?<br />[2009/04/16 13:54] Tarl Field: Stefany can you give me a more exact example?<br />[2009/04/16 13:54] STEFANY Stipe: like walking around outside fully naked sir<br />[2009/04/16 13:56] Tarl Field: well thats not so bad the big problem with that is that one: you will risk getting arrested, two if you feel its to much for you remember this if your dom truelly cares you can get him or her to understand and respect it. How ever you might get a spanking for not doing as told...<br />[2009/04/16 13:56] STEFANY Stipe: understood sir ...thank you<br />[2009/04/16 13:56] Dionysos Ulrik: back to youre story pleae Tarl<br />[2009/04/16 13:56] Tarl Field: Now since i came with two girls some doms looked at me with envy<br />[2009/04/16 13:57] Tarl Field: But iw as there to go with my gf and i also acted as a safetrope for our friend<br />[2009/04/16 13:57] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/16 13:57] Tarl Field: She was visitng the club for the first time<br />[2009/04/16 13:58] Tarl Field: So of course i wanted her to have fun without getting hazzeled by other single doms<br />[2009/04/16 13:58] Tarl Field: Now here is the fun part i some how ended up being 2 other subs safetylines<br />[2009/04/16 13:58] Tarl Field: and one of those subs was a guy...lol<br />[2009/04/16 13:58] Lovlee Destiny: **smiles**<br />[2009/04/16 13:58] nova Coba: :) Not umcommon<br />[2009/04/16 13:59] Dionysos Ulrik: first time in a club can be scary . even for a D<br />[2009/04/16 13:59] Sammi Loire is Online<br />[2009/04/16 13:59] Tarl Field: Now i am not into guys but he asked in a way that i could not say no and tiold him i would be his help if he needed it<br />[2009/04/16 14:00] Tarl Field: Now this was a good club and all respected each other but i would have interacted to stop anything that would risk hurting the one i was protecting<br />[2009/04/16 14:00] Tarl Field: Although the girl thatw as with me and my gf was not all that happy with me... grins<br />[2009/04/16 14:00] nova Coba: TY for the clas<br />[2009/04/16 14:00] Tarl Field: But that was her own fault she asked me to lace her corset tightly...laugh<br />[2009/04/16 14:01] Dionysos Ulrik grins<br />[2009/04/16 14:01] Tarl Field: And your welcome nova<br />[2009/04/16 14:01] Tarl Field: And thank you all for coming<br />[2009/04/16 14:01] Dionysos Ulrik: thank you Tarl . i love these classes<br />[2009/04/16 14:01] Tarl Field: this will be posted when its cleaned upAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-23191200734770482009-04-12T14:14:00.028+02:002009-04-14T23:32:44.179+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 13 Apr 13 - 19<h1>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h1><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Highlighted Store - Eye-Catcher Fashion Show<br />2. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting<br />3. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />4. Story by Tarl<br />5. Domme/sub/switch Corner<br />6. Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />9. In other news.....<br />__________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Store Highlight - Eye-Catcher Fashion Show</h3><br /><br />The Eye-Catcher Fashion Show held on Saturday, April 12 was a HUGE success. Turn out was phenomenal - the sim was packed with people. Qudex Coronet was on hand to introduce each of the models and describe the clothes worn. Cybercat Bekkers was present to take photographs for Spank magazine. He graciously agreed to provide the BDSM Life Newsletter team with copies, which may be seen below.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHc7q0_cuI/AAAAAAAAAcs/PG2kjTqK6PI/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_004.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHc7q0_cuI/AAAAAAAAAcs/PG2kjTqK6PI/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_004.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323779152195580642" border="0" /></a>Constanza Amsterdam, proprietor of Eye-Catcher and owner of the BDSM-Life sim introduced the show.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHe2BqJQVI/AAAAAAAAAc0/F5ldoYKvEp0/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_007.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHe2BqJQVI/AAAAAAAAAc0/F5ldoYKvEp0/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_007.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323781254268141906" border="0" /></a>First on the runway was delicious Deanna McBride dressed in Eye-Catcher's pretty pink Mariposa Silks and matching fetish ballet boots, (available separately). Mariposa means butterfly in Spanish, and you can quickly see why these silks FORM Eye-Catcher’s Mariposa collection. Each of the pieces features an ornate butterfly. Mariposa silks are available in a variety of colors: lavender, red, white, black, yellow, and pink.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHhtKe44cI/AAAAAAAAAc8/qa4JsOXszmM/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_009.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHhtKe44cI/AAAAAAAAAc8/qa4JsOXszmM/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_009.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323784400552911298" border="0" /></a>Next came the alluring Angelzinz Serpente, modeling Eye-Catcher's sensational Scorpio Zodiac silks. There are twelve versions of the Zodiac silks, of course, each in a different color and adorned with a unique horoscope symbol. Zodiac silks make the perfect birthday gift!<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHiOn-5HKI/AAAAAAAAAdE/ALWNpMQQmdA/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_014.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHiOn-5HKI/AAAAAAAAAdE/ALWNpMQQmdA/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_014.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323784975407455394" border="0" /></a>Next on the runway was the beautiful Bastet Lyon in Consie's gorgeous Black Rahana silks. These are available in 5 shimmering colors: white, yellow, black, red and pink. The Rahana Silks are adorned with gold chains, but the same silks are also available with silver chains in the Rilana collection. Both sets come with the Eye-catcher HUD, including dances, highlights, blacklist, and awesome stripper feature. The selected item is torn off in an animated flourish and tossed into the air, where it gently floats to the ground!<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHi-fJQVOI/AAAAAAAAAdM/hhJbVQRDRY4/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_015.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHi-fJQVOI/AAAAAAAAAdM/hhJbVQRDRY4/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_015.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323785797668721890" border="0" /></a>Next came the marvellous Moria Thespian, in an eye-popping set of Eye-Catcher's Isis Silks. These silks feature a unique Egyptian symbol, keeping in theme with the new BDSM Life sim decor. Isis Silks are available in 10 stunning colors.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHjcIUomVI/AAAAAAAAAdU/grN9YIVx69c/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_019.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHjcIUomVI/AAAAAAAAAdU/grN9YIVx69c/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_019.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323786306938509650" border="0" /></a>Moving next to latex, naughty Nova Kiranov wore Constanza Amsterdam's awesome Alena skirt and corset, one of several new outfits from Eye-Catcher. These are transferable so they may be purchased as a gift for that special girl in your life.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHj7VFNdHI/AAAAAAAAAdc/Bj91ecRHCvA/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_022.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHj7VFNdHI/AAAAAAAAAdc/Bj91ecRHCvA/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_022.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323786842939421810" border="0" /></a>Next on the runway was the adorable Amandy Netizen in Eye-Catcher's alluring Azah latex outfit and ballet boots. She wore the baby blue version, but these are also available in gold, green, white, blue, pink, silver, purple, and red.<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHkUuyxboI/AAAAAAAAAdk/mToqyBAB7hY/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_026.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHkUuyxboI/AAAAAAAAAdk/mToqyBAB7hY/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_026.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323787279338139266" border="0" /></a>Yours truly then took the runway, cleaning up in a lusty latex French Maid costume and black ballet slippers. This set comes with the skirt, top, nylon stocking, and cap. Also included is the feather duster, sure to tickle your fancy!<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHkvHVXZ5I/AAAAAAAAAds/n0TCM7Pz-6s/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_029.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHkvHVXZ5I/AAAAAAAAAds/n0TCM7Pz-6s/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_029.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323787732602283922" border="0" /></a>Last but certainly not least, Moria appeared again to debut Consie's brand sparkling new Midnight Express Silks, fresh off the loom! These beautiful new silks come in three luscious colors, black, pink, and green.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHlKN6KehI/AAAAAAAAAd0/EtnlL-p65p0/s1600-h/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_032.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 278px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeHlKN6KehI/AAAAAAAAAd0/EtnlL-p65p0/s400/Eyecatcher+Fashion+Show_032.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323788198223706642" border="0" /></a>Many thanks to Cybercat Bekkers for the awesome photos, Qudex Coronet for doing a great job on the mic as always, to all of teh lovely models, and to everybody who attended! You are all what makes BDSM Life sim a great place to be!<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting</h3><br /><br />Voting for the 2009 Bondage Awards has closed. A week of double-checking is required before the winners will b known. Results will be posted Sunday, April 19th.<br /><br />Thanks to everybody who voted for BDSM-Life.com for your support<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Tarl's Story</h3><br /><br />Dragon Story by Tarl Field<br />Part One:<br />Now this begins when the men in the world were true to their words and ladies were true ladies.<br /><br />In a small town a man waved good bye to the girl he loved to stand by his king defending the land and he did not want to go but he had promised his Lord to protect the land and since he had honor he stood by his word. The road was actually well kept and the nature was grand with big trees and field with corn and wheat. The man joined a army of the soldiers who marched fast to keep the city safe. Now they did not get to the battle field because they were attacked by the enemies fierce fighting dragons. These were dragons trained only to bring destruction and terror, but some of the men survived the attack and made it to the inn down the road and found it partly burnt down...and they heard screams for help inside, and they started to clear the burnt wood away and found a hatch in the ground and got it opened. Inside the cellar, the men found 4 girls chained up and locked to the walls. They managed to break the chains to the walls and sent the guy that left his girl in the city to get them back safely and the others stay a bit behind to cover their back as the girls could not walk very fast. So they had to find a place to hide and they knew of a cave which were nearby but had heard that it held dangers beyond the brave men's bravery. But they had no choice but to enter the cave, and so they went inside, only to find it empty expect for a big rock in the back of the cave.<br /><br />The men started to build a big fire as it was very cold outside and the girls did not have much clothes on and once the fire was alighted, the girls gathered around the fire, as it grew bigger and warmer. So the men, that rescued the girls, had to feed them the warm food they prepared as the chains were too strong to break. The men also kept the girls warm, by laying down as closer to the girls, as they could to get extra warmth.<br /><br />In the middle of the night, the cave started to shake and the rock was shaking and the men and the girls woke up, and ran further inside as they heard a loud crash and all was silent for a long time maybe just second but it felt like hours. Suddenly they heard a a loud scream of some animal. One of the men went to look, he ran back white as a sheet, whispering in dread, "They found us" and told the rest of the group that there was a huge dragon in the back of the cave. The man who left his girl behind, stood up and walked to the back of the cave, turned a corner and found a small dragon, like a baby. He picked the small dragon up, and the group heard echoes of laughs, as the man walked back, not looking behind him.<br /><br />The girls shivered, their faces white as a sheet, pointed to something behind him, while the rest of the men stood up, their hands like fists, held them up. The man with the small dragon was asking what's wrong, when he turns around only to face the biggest dragon he has ever seen.<br /><br />The dragon was very big, even beyond the fighting dragons' standards. The dragon was totally black with a strange shimmering gold touch to the rim of each scale. Her eyes were hard to describe but they did capture you.<br /><br />Now the man who was holding the baby dragon in his arms was frozen in place in pure fright. The big dragon lower its head coming really close, nudging the warrior almost gently to snap him out of his shock, and the man snaps out of it almost dropping the baby but manages to catch it. He takes a blanket out of his bag, and lays the baby dragon gently on the blanket.<br /><br />The man looks at the big dragon and realized that the big dragon was trying to tell him something.<br /><br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. Domme/sub/switch Corner</h3><br /><br />Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIU7fJiYzI/AAAAAAAAAd8/B7DnT2INzfA/s1600-h/slave+auction+-4-11-09.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 231px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIU7fJiYzI/AAAAAAAAAd8/B7DnT2INzfA/s400/slave+auction+-4-11-09.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323840721711686450" border="0" /></a>Although it was brief, we had another very exciting and enjoyable auction on Saturday. Sedesta was our slave on auction, and having attracted a large amount of interest in her previous auction, good things were expected for this auction. We were not disappointed as bidding was quickly raised to a price well above the norm for a slave, and into the region expected for the experienced individual that Sedesta is. Bidding finished and both slave and Mistress went away happy with the way everything went.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIVFpU9NbI/AAAAAAAAAeE/U76jv4UaV6s/s1600-h/slave+auction+002+-+4-11-09+2.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 231px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIVFpU9NbI/AAAAAAAAAeE/U76jv4UaV6s/s400/slave+auction+002+-+4-11-09+2.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323840896242628018" border="0" /></a>We are always looking for more slaves to auction and would encourage anyone interested to either contact me for an application form or visit BDSM-Life and click on the barrel at the landing zone where application forms are stored. I look forward to hearing form any interested applicants.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIVRQ6EvWI/AAAAAAAAAeM/ThZea5fHbfY/s1600-h/slave+auction+-+4-11-09+3.png"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 231px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SeIVRQ6EvWI/AAAAAAAAAeM/ThZea5fHbfY/s400/slave+auction+-+4-11-09+3.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323841095845854562" border="0" /></a>The next auction is at 3.00pm SLT on Saturday 18th April. I look forwrad to seeing you all there.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Anya Ariea (1)<br />Baby Anatra (68)<br />Sharra Bravin (8)<br />Esha Bruun (84 - current leader)<br />Lynn Hamer (48)<br />Cazzy Hax (66)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (27)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Aker (13 - current leader)<br />Tarl Field (7)<br />Corvan Nansen (7)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Aeonflux Llewellyn writes "Hello, this girl has a good imagination and is highly literate. She appreciates seduction and romance but can respond eagerly to other approaches as well. This girl is wired to please and wants to make you feel like she has been longing and aching for you and only you forever. after that pleasing you in what ever way you want is what she wants too. come, let this girl make you feel like the most special person she has ever been with. Her hard limits are scat, animals, kids, blood, and extreme pain. If it turns you on, she can get into most anything else. Please give her a chance to serve you, sir."<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya says "Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what I am looking for, it says it far better than I can. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship."<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "i am 32 years old dom form the uk. im a search for a sub/slave who is sub/slave in rl. aged 20 to 40. who is single in sl and rl.<br />and will start relationship in sl and then take it to rl."<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax - BDSM toys and how to use them (RL & SL)*cancelled*<br /><br />Tuesday<br />1PM - Storytelling with Tarl Field<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Dominance<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Party in the Club with Cazzy Hax as hostess (a theme to be announced during the week, keep an eye out for this space.....)<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life Class with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br />9. In other news......<br /><br />The newsletter staff heard rumours that Eye-Catcher and BDSM Life will be particpating in a treasure hunt! See the next issue of BDSM Life newsletter for more information.<br /><br />Check out the Eye-Catcher web site Consie has been working on!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Cybercat Bekkers, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon<br />Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and Tarl Feild<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-23667390033927230282009-04-11T01:04:00.001+02:002009-04-11T01:05:41.284+02:00Bondage and Safety - April 9, 2009[2009/04/09 12:03] Tarl Field: Okay the subject is bondage and safety.<br />[2009/04/09 12:04] Tarl Field: So lets start with the more fun topic bondage<br />[2009/04/09 12:04] Jan Levee: ...<br />[2009/04/09 12:04] Jan Levee mumbles "..."<br />[2009/04/09 12:04] Tarl Field: Bondage is not limited to using just rope or cuffs you can use almost any material to restraint someone with.<br />[2009/04/09 12:05] Tarl Field: For the more odd bondage item i heard about is actually a armbind made out of 3 pair of pantyhose... grins<br />[2009/04/09 12:06] Tarl Field: When i first heard it was very unsure if it was true but it works as i tested it on a friend and she could not get out and since the other leg was pulled over her head she was semi blind as well<br />[2009/04/09 12:06] Tarl Field: Thats just one way. Satin sashes works as well if you want to restrain any one.<br />[2009/04/09 12:06] Dionysos Ulrik makes a note of that<br />[2009/04/09 12:06] Tarl Field: And the nylonarmbinder you can increas the number of layers to make it harder<br />[2009/04/09 12:07] Tarl Field: Now what other material can you use?<br />[2009/04/09 12:07] Tarl Field: Beside rope and cuffs<br />[2009/04/09 12:07] Dionysos Ulrik: duck tape<br />[2009/04/09 12:07] Tarl Field: Thats one and also a soft thing like bandages<br />[2009/04/09 12:07] Dionysos Ulrik: cling fole<br />[2009/04/09 12:08] Tarl Field: Now cling foil or film you have to be carefull with for a few reason<br />[2009/04/09 12:08] Tarl Field: One it can cause the body to overheat<br />[2009/04/09 12:08] Tarl Field: Two it might compress your arms and legs making it hard for the blood to flow freely<br />[2009/04/09 12:09] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/09 12:09] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding softly as she listens quietly<br />[2009/04/09 12:09] Tarl Field: And if you want to wrapp their heads make sure you make holes for them to breaththroug at each layer<br />[2009/04/09 12:10] Susanne Rugani: and be careful with duck tape and eyebrows ;)<br />[2009/04/09 12:10] Dionysos Ulrik grins<br />[2009/04/09 12:10] Tarl Field: And the bandages can also cause blood flow problems if its wrapped to tight<br />[2009/04/09 12:10] Tarl Field: Ohh yes ductape and hair dont mix...lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:10] Dionysos Ulrik: hard core wax job :)<br />[2009/04/09 12:11] Tarl Field: In deed<br />[2009/04/09 12:12] Tarl Field: And ofcourse you have the expansive leather and latex restraints to use but most of us cant afford those expensive bodybags and so on... smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:13] Tarl Field: Now if a sub is flexible enough to get their elbows touching behind their back what should you think off.<br />[2009/04/09 12:14] Dionysos Ulrik: that the blood stream issint vut off<br />[2009/04/09 12:14] Dionysos Ulrik: cut<br />[2009/04/09 12:14] Tarl Field: Bloodflow as their veins an be blocked in the shoulder area<br />[2009/04/09 12:15] Susanne Rugani: oh really?<br />[2009/04/09 12:15] Tarl Field: And of course the hands...<br />[2009/04/09 12:15] Tarl Field: Yes as you pull the elbows together behind your back you stretch and press the skin and muscles in the front and that can block blood flowe<br />[2009/04/09 12:17] Dionysos Ulrik: is this the same with leggs ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:17] Tarl Field: And if you want to tie a crotchrope on your sub for a longer period of time. Make sure there is a thin layer proventing shaffing... smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:17] Tarl Field: if you bend the legs in a hogtie be carefull with the teansion on the rop above the knees<br />[2009/04/09 12:17] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/09 12:17] Tarl Field: Any questions so far?<br />[2009/04/09 12:18] Dionysos Ulrik: no not yet realy<br />[2009/04/09 12:18] Dionysos Ulrik: just one . what time does the demo sub commes in ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:18] Dionysos Ulrik smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:18] Lilystarre Darkstone: a soft shake of her head*whispers* no Sir, not at this time *soft smile<br />[2009/04/09 12:19] Tarl Field: sadly i have no models at my bidding this night<br />[2009/04/09 12:19] Tarl Field: What i talked about so far is physical bondage<br />[2009/04/09 12:19] Tarl Field: There is something called mental bondage which might sound funny<br />[2009/04/09 12:20] Tarl Field: But its rather simple..<br />[2009/04/09 12:20] Tarl Field: If you order your sub to say kneeling in the hall way waiting for you to come home in a outfit you want them to wear thats a form of control and there for a mental bondage<br />[2009/04/09 12:21] Tarl Field: Now what other forms of mental bondage can you think off<br />[2009/04/09 12:21] Dionysos Ulrik: restrictions<br />[2009/04/09 12:21] Tarl Field: Good anything else<br />[2009/04/09 12:22] Lilystarre Darkstone: *lifts a hands,shyly,,,whispers** would having your sub kneel in a corner,"straight up on her knees",qualify, Sir?<br />[2009/04/09 12:22] Tarl Field: It would...<br />[2009/04/09 12:22] Tarl Field: As your ordered to stay on one spot without any physical bindings..<br />[2009/04/09 12:22] Leila Chieng: or simply don't allow your sub to speak<br />[2009/04/09 12:22] Dionysos Ulrik: not beeing alowed ta talk<br />[2009/04/09 12:23] Leila Chieng smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:23] Tarl Field: The talking is a good example...<br />[2009/04/09 12:23] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding softly,,whispers* yes Sir ,,,, thank You<br />[2009/04/09 12:23] Tarl Field: Works extra good if the sub never stops talking...lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:23] Dionysos Ulrik nods and smiles thinking of his donald duck sub<br />[2009/04/09 12:24] Tarl Field: And you can combine the two if your real evil say locking their hands in front with cuffs but leaving they keys where they can see them..<br />[2009/04/09 12:24] Tarl Field: And saying that they are not allowed to use the keys<br />[2009/04/09 12:24] Lilystarre Darkstone: nods softly as she listens ,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:25] Dionysos Ulrik: letting her kneel with 2 glasses of water filled to the egde .... and forbid to make a drop .....<br />[2009/04/09 12:25] Tarl Field: And of course as always if you gag your sub make sure they are never alone<br />[2009/04/09 12:25] Tarl Field: Dion thats a evil idea i like it<br />[2009/04/09 12:26] Dionysos Ulrik: its gets better when you pleausre her .. they fault every time :)<br />[2009/04/09 12:26] Tarl Field: As i said a evil idea<br />[2009/04/09 12:26] Susanne Rugani: lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:26] Dionysos Ulrik nods and hides his horns<br />[2009/04/09 12:26] Tarl Field: But you need to give them a chance to complete their tasks or they might feel as failures<br />[2009/04/09 12:27] Tarl Field: Its a balance act as with any thing you need to balance it out or the sub might feel they failed you<br />[2009/04/09 12:27] Dionysos Ulrik: not always . but you are right<br />[2009/04/09 12:27] Tarl Field: And thats something every sub hates to feel<br />[2009/04/09 12:28] Tarl Field: So which form of bondage requiers the most supervision<br />[2009/04/09 12:28] Tarl Field: A normal tied to the bed... or a strict hogtie<br />[2009/04/09 12:28] Dionysos Ulrik: breathing<br />[2009/04/09 12:28] Dionysos Ulrik: oh a hogtie<br />[2009/04/09 12:28] Tarl Field: Breathing is a dangerous play as it can cause braindamages<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Dionysos Ulrik: even with a gag it can be dangerous when not beeing watched<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Tarl Field: exactly<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Lilystarre Darkstone: *softly* she would think that both would require supervision,Sir, as something could go wrong in both instances ,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Leila Chieng: every physical bondage should be supervised<br />[2009/04/09 12:29] Dionysos Ulrik: one more then the other i think<br />[2009/04/09 12:30] Tarl Field: As a friend told me use a cleave gag first then pack other material over that as the cleavage gag will stop the packing from getting down the throat<br />[2009/04/09 12:30] Susanne Rugani: everything where you stand. if you faint you will hang around for a while if no one is there.<br />[2009/04/09 12:30] Dionysos Ulrik: i got this solved with my camera . that i can see from the other room on my screen . when i leave her alone for some time<br />[2009/04/09 12:31] Tarl Field: Your both correct but the first thats tied to the bed will handle better if you need to go to the kitchen to fix something to drink<br />[2009/04/09 12:31] Tarl Field: Thats one way<br />[2009/04/09 12:31] Tarl Field: Any way of keeping track of your subs safety is good<br />[2009/04/09 12:31] Dionysos Ulrik: but that doenst mean you can leave her to long alone<br />[2009/04/09 12:31] Lilystarre Darkstone: softly* excuse this girl,Sir,,, but what is a cleavage gag? she is not familiar,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:32] Tarl Field: if you take a scarf and just fold it up and tie it betwen your lips and pull it hard it will cleve your lips hence the name clevegag<br />[2009/04/09 12:32] Arn Lannock is Online<br />[2009/04/09 12:32] Lilystarre Darkstone: ahhh,,, thank You,Sir *soft smile*<br />[2009/04/09 12:33] Tarl Field: your welcome<br />[2009/04/09 12:33] Tarl Field: And there is one type of bondage that you need to be extra carefull with. And thats breastbondage<br />[2009/04/09 12:34] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding as she listens attentively<br />[2009/04/09 12:34] Tarl Field: Specially if your sub happens to have implants<br />[2009/04/09 12:34] Tarl Field: But even in normal case you need to be carefull and make sure you can untie the thin cord...<br />[2009/04/09 12:34] Dionysos Ulrik grins when he sees in his mind implants shooting across the room<br />[2009/04/09 12:35] Tarl Field: The danger that a implant might burst or start leaking is small but how ever they are there<br />[2009/04/09 12:35] Tarl Field: But a tight breastbondage that makes their breast and nipples extra sensative is fun<br />[2009/04/09 12:35] Tarl Field: Although i doubt the sub might agree all the time...lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Dionysos Ulrik smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Lilystarre Darkstone: smiles softly,eyes darkening slightly<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Tarl Field: Now Nippleclamps you should be carefull with as they will cut of the blood flow to the nipple<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Tarl Field: Some one told me 5 to 10 min max...<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Dionysos Ulrik: it also depends on the kind of bite it has<br />[2009/04/09 12:36] Tarl Field: But that depends on which clamps and how tightly they are applied<br />[2009/04/09 12:37] Lilystarre Darkstone: *softly* she has heard 3-5 minutes,Sir ,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:37] Dionysos Ulrik: when you can adjust it you can put them on a long time<br />[2009/04/09 12:37] Lilystarre Darkstone: what of a "zipper",Sir? for a time limit?<br />[2009/04/09 12:38] Tarl Field: zipper thats something i have not heard about please explain<br />[2009/04/09 12:38] Dionysos Ulrik: a row of clothing clambs<br />[2009/04/09 12:38] Anaxagoras McMillan is Online<br />[2009/04/09 12:38] Tarl Field: Ahhhh now i follow<br />[2009/04/09 12:38] Dionysos Ulrik: there you ahve on Tarl i just gave you<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Dionysos Ulrik: one<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Tarl Field: samething there be carefull with the time but if they sit in the skin it can be longer..<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Dionysos Ulrik gave you Clothespin Zipper.<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Lilystarre Darkstone: *softly* a zipper,Sir, is composed of ... *nods to Sir Dion,whispers* along a cord or string,,, they are simultaneously "ripped" off -- sighs<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Tarl Field: Now i really know what your meaning lily<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Tarl Field: Still be carefull of how long they stay on<br />[2009/04/09 12:39] Lilystarre Darkstone: smiles softly*<br />[2009/04/09 12:40] Dionysos Ulrik: you explained a better then me lily . thank you<br />[2009/04/09 12:40] Tarl Field: Every thing is based on how much the body can take<br />[2009/04/09 12:40] Tarl Field: With training the sub can learn to stand more and more<br />[2009/04/09 12:40] Tarl Field: But a body always has a limit<br />[2009/04/09 12:40] Lilystarre Darkstone smiles over to Sir Dion,whispers* You are most welcome,Sir,,, t'is her pleasure *smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:41] Tarl Field: And with gags always remember this if the sub is the least amount of cold i dont recommend a gag<br />[2009/04/09 12:41] Lilystarre Darkstone: *eyes shimmer,,whispers* oh,Sir?<br />[2009/04/09 12:41] Dionysos Ulrik: i got a question about that ..... is it true the the skin gets "thicker" when it get "used" more ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:41] Tarl Field: well a cold usually makes it hard to breath through the nose correct<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Tarl Field: Dion in a way yes<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Lilystarre Darkstone: ahh,,, having a cold,,, yes Sir ,,that is correct --<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Tarl Field: But it dont get thicker physically<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Dionysos Ulrik: every part of the body ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Tarl Field: After a time the body starts reading the pain signal as less and less<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Tarl Field: which is a risk at it self<br />[2009/04/09 12:42] Lilystarre Darkstone: she misunderstood You to mean that is the sub's body was cold,,,*warm smile<br />[2009/04/09 12:43] Tarl Field: Ahhh no i meant the illness cold... smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:43] Dionysos Ulrik: this has to do with nervus i gues ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:43] Clairin Chronowire is Offline<br />[2009/04/09 12:43] Lilystarre Darkstone: laughing softly* yes Sir<br />[2009/04/09 12:43] Tarl Field: correct dion<br />[2009/04/09 12:44] Tarl Field: Its like some martial arts they train to reprogram the body to not react on the pain and in time the body dont feel the pain and can contiune to fight<br />[2009/04/09 12:44] Tarl Field: Same thing apply to pain in time the body will handle higher and higher levels<br />[2009/04/09 12:44] Lilystarre Darkstone: nodding thoughtfully**<br />[2009/04/09 12:44] Dionysos Ulrik: is it a good idea to test this out on a new sub with like say . a needle . to get a understading how "thick "her skin is ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:44] Tarl Field: That when you have to be really alert to read the signs so you dont hurt your sub badly<br />[2009/04/09 12:45] Tarl Field: I dont know needles hurt even if your thick skinned..laugh<br />[2009/04/09 12:45] Dionysos Ulrik: or how sensivtive<br />[2009/04/09 12:45] Lilystarre Darkstone: ,,, this is where safe words would come in,Sir?<br />[2009/04/09 12:45] Tarl Field: exactly<br />[2009/04/09 12:45] Tarl Field: or a safe humming if your gagged<br />[2009/04/09 12:46] Dionysos Ulrik: i let my sub hold a set of keys in her hand when she hads her gag / she drops them as a safeword<br />[2009/04/09 12:46] Tarl Field: that works as well<br />[2009/04/09 12:46] Tarl Field: As long as you have a word/hum/sign that means stop i have a problem its all good<br />[2009/04/09 12:46] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/09 12:47] Lilystarre Darkstone: * nods nods* this is something that she has heard as well, Sir Dion -- smiles softly<br />[2009/04/09 12:47] Tarl Field: Dont ever forget that safety is the most important thing<br />[2009/04/09 12:48] Tarl Field: Okay i am leaving the floor open for questions...<br />[2009/04/09 12:48] Dionysos Ulrik: safety is the number one in every kind of play<br />[2009/04/09 12:48] Dionysos Ulrik: upside down hanging .. how long is still safe without a safeword ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:49] Tarl Field: Well i would say when the sub gets light headed or getting to turn red in her face you might give them a break so 10-20 min<br />[2009/04/09 12:49] Dionysos Ulrik: i mean that she doenst use it ..... but i can imaging that the blood to the head will cause damage<br />[2009/04/09 12:49] Dionysos Ulrik nods . ok thank you<br />[2009/04/09 12:49] Tarl Field: not damage but the body is not built to pump blood that way<br />[2009/04/09 12:50] Tarl Field: I am a safety nut but i also learn bdsm and bondage aspecially by my own mistakes<br />[2009/04/09 12:50] Dionysos Ulrik: i have on more . whats the deal with water bondage ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:50] Tarl Field: Thats a more dangerous form<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Tarl Field: you tie the sub up and throw them in a pool and let the try and get out under water<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Tarl Field: As you can tell its a dangerous game<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Tarl Field: ONe: The rope swell in water.<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Dionysos Ulrik: when you use high presure water on her body it can cut her as well i gues<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Dionysos Ulrik waits<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Tarl Field: Two its harder to untie a knot under water due to one..<br />[2009/04/09 12:51] Lilystarre Darkstone: listens ,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:52] Tarl Field: And underwater if you need to breath you cant..<br />[2009/04/09 12:52] Tarl Field: so water bondage is not something i recommend<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Dionysos Ulrik: when she is under water<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Dionysos Ulrik: and its a lot harder to chekc on youre sub wel beeing<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Tarl Field: exactly<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Tarl Field: and a nomral human can hold their breath around 60 second if they remain calm<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Lilystarre Darkstone: might this be done more safely, in say, a bath tub? monitoring might be easier ,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:53] Tarl Field: If they panic it will be much shorter<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Tarl Field: well still you nedd to make sure your master never leaves you<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Dionysos Ulrik: a glass see through thank would be best i gues<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Dionysos Ulrik: tank<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Tarl Field: well you have a problem how will you reach your sub in the tank<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Dionysos Ulrik nods<br />[2009/04/09 12:54] Dionysos Ulrik: call baywatch<br />[2009/04/09 12:55] Tarl Field: well it may be to late when they come<br />[2009/04/09 12:55] Lilystarre Darkstone: ohhh yes,Sir,,, thank You<br />[2009/04/09 12:55] Dionysos Ulrik: you are right<br />[2009/04/09 12:55] Tarl Field: Seriously be very carefull around water if you do bondage<br />[2009/04/09 12:55] Dionysos Ulrik: i have never tried i just heard of it<br />[2009/04/09 12:56] Fredrik McGinnis is Offline<br />[2009/04/09 12:56] Tarl Field: I tried it on a beach by floating my sub while she was tied up but i never let her go so she sank under water<br />[2009/04/09 12:56] Tarl Field: she was stressed enough from floating tied up<br />[2009/04/09 12:56] Dionysos Ulrik: i can imaging that very well<br />[2009/04/09 12:56] Lilystarre Darkstone: she too can imagine, Sir ,,,,<br />[2009/04/09 12:57] Dionysos Ulrik smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:57] Tarl Field: Plus if you carry a bound girl into the water at a public beach well how long do you think it takes the cops to show up... grins<br />[2009/04/09 12:57] Lilystarre Darkstone: laughing softly* You do have a point,Sir<br />[2009/04/09 12:57] Tarl Field: I know as i been pulled over by the police suspected of kidnapping<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Fredrik McGinnis is Online<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Dionysos Ulrik: and that wassent part of the rp ?<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Dionysos Ulrik smiles<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Susanne Rugani: lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Lilystarre Darkstone: swallows her laughter -- whispers* ohh my<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Tarl Field: All because we dumped a friend into the trunk and drove around a corned and let her out but no one saw her being let out...lol<br />[2009/04/09 12:58] Dionysos Ulrik: ahahahah<br />[2009/04/09 12:59] Dionysos Ulrik: we have that every year with the new students<br />[2009/04/09 12:59] Tarl Field: Its not fun to be stopped by 4 copcars with all the cops being about 6"4<br />[2009/04/09 12:59] Tarl Field: I was lucky to get oof with a warning....lol<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Tarl Field: But to end this class remember play fun, consecsual and safe<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Tarl Field: So you can play many more days<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Leila Chieng smiles<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Tarl Field: And thanks for coming<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Dionysos Ulrik: beeing pulled over with in the back seat 2 tied up subs and a trunk full of "play" gear is a good story as well<br />[2009/04/09 13:00] Dionysos Ulrik: thank you for youre time Tarl<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Tarl Field: Next weel it will be dominance and it might be a t a later time so check the noties<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Tarl Field: week<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Dionysos Ulrik: same time Tarl ?<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Tarl Field: Trying to match the time so it fit the states a bit better<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Lilystarre Darkstone: softly* thank You,Sir ... t'was an intersting class<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Tarl Field: Might be 1 or 2 hours later<br />[2009/04/09 13:01] Dionysos Ulrik: oh ok no problem<br />[2009/04/09 13:02] Susanne Rugani: thanks tarl!<br />[2009/04/09 13:02] Leila Chieng: Thank you for the lesson<br />[2009/04/09 13:02] Jan Levee: Thank you Sir<br />[2009/04/09 13:02] Tarl Field: Your all welcomeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-87430965751061966462009-04-06T03:17:00.029+02:002009-04-08T02:59:09.120+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 12 Apr 6-Apr 12Newsletter for BDSM-Life!<br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. BDSM Life Changes<br />2. Highlighted Store - Eye-Catcher<br />3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting<br />4. Domme/sub/switch Corner<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br /><br />___________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. BDSM Life Changes</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sdspy49QqvI/AAAAAAAAAck/LrdgEcwt46w/s1600-h/BDSM+Life+Model.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sdspy49QqvI/AAAAAAAAAck/LrdgEcwt46w/s400/BDSM+Life+Model.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321893338927901426" /></a><br /><br />Kosta and Constanza have been working on this model of the BDSM Sim. It has been placed near the landing point in the Sim. It is TP enabled and will help visitors find their way around the sim!<br /><br />And Two new dungeons will be made available soon in the BDSM Sim. These may be rented. Pricing has yet to be decided by Consie and Lord, but is expected to be reasonable.<br />___________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Store Highlight - Eye-Catcher Fashion Show</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZFJrgnsI/AAAAAAAAAb8/gn87hERYNbQ/s1600-h/Zodiac+-+Virgo.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 154px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZFJrgnsI/AAAAAAAAAb8/gn87hERYNbQ/s400/Zodiac+-+Virgo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321382379747581634" border="0"></a>Constanza Amsterdam, creator of Eye-Catcher Silks and Shoes as well as owner of our beloved BDSM sim, has graciously agreed to be our highlighted store this week. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZmHPF_5I/AAAAAAAAAcE/Ef5582rXAtk/s1600-h/Dragon+fly+-+standing.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZmHPF_5I/AAAAAAAAAcE/Ef5582rXAtk/s400/Dragon+fly+-+standing.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321382946027208594" border="0"></a><br />These are just a few of the awesome silk creations Consie has in her store in BDSM Life and XLStreet!<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlYtETOLcI/AAAAAAAAAb0/H-3xk3OssoE/s1600-h/Stillettos+Pink+%26+Silver+Heels.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 321px; height: 245px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlYtETOLcI/AAAAAAAAAb0/H-3xk3OssoE/s400/Stillettos+Pink+%26+Silver+Heels.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321381965986672066" border="0"></a>Eye-Catcher makes more than shoes and silks, although those will be on display at two fashion shows planned during the week. The first will be Wednesday, April 8 at 12 PM SLT, and again at 12 PM SLT on Saturday, April 11. <br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZFJrgnsI/AAAAAAAAAb8/gn87hERYNbQ/s1600-h/Zodiac+-+Virgo.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 154px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdlZFJrgnsI/AAAAAAAAAb8/gn87hERYNbQ/s400/Zodiac+-+Virgo.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321382379747581634" border="0"></a>Here are a few of Consie's silk and shoe creations, reviewed on Roewan Kline's Silks of Second LIfe blog by yours truly.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdsnbXRl0NI/AAAAAAAAAcU/ctT5sBDMqDM/s1600-h/Your+BDSM+Life.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 399px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdsnbXRl0NI/AAAAAAAAAcU/ctT5sBDMqDM/s400/Your+BDSM+Life.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321890735726121170" /></a>Consie will also be showing off her new "Your BDSM Life" product line. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdsoJGQECDI/AAAAAAAAAcc/FWnj8JcYVHg/s1600-h/Eye-Catcher.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 256px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/SdsoJGQECDI/AAAAAAAAAcc/FWnj8JcYVHg/s400/Eye-Catcher.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5321891521430292530" /></a>Come meet her both days and see hew fabulous creations! Hope to see you there!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.eyecatcher.tk/" target="Eye Catcher">And why not check out Eye-Catcher's great new website!</a><br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting</h3><br /><br />We need your help in this years Bondage Awards and we hope that you will help BDSM-Life.com from today 29th March 2009 until 11th April. You will need to click the banner for the Bondage awards first, these banners are at the top of EVERY Page on the site.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.bondageawards.com" target="new">http://www.bondageawards.com</a><br /><br />Once there you will need to go to the top of the bondage awards site and select VOTING<br /><br />Then go to the section "Best Free Website" and select BDSM-Life.com from the dropdown menu under "Best FREE website" then once done go to the bottom of the page and click the button "Click here to submit your Vote"<br /><br />You can do this once a day and we ask your support to do this every day for us and help us win this year.<br /><br />We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.<br /><br />Thanks for your support<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/sub/switch Corner</h3><br /><br />Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br />Played out in front of crowded stands, BDSM Life had two slaves up for auction last Saturday and a very successful auction it was.<br /><br />We started with a very new but extremely obedient slave, Emmi, who attracted the interest of a few Masters who wanted to be first to use this new slave. Things moved up a gear or three when sedesta came to the cross and bidding was soon frenzied as it became clear that sedesta's skills and experience were attracting significant interest. the successful bidder fought off three worthy challenges before winning the auction and paying the second highest amount for a slave that has been auctioned at BDSM Life.<br /><br />The reputation for the BDSM Life Slave Auction is continually growing. We are getting better and better applicants and attendances at our auctions are growing as well. There is always room for more bidders and I would welcome you to attend and see why the BDSM Life Slave Auction is attracting all this attention.<br /><br />I look forward to seeing you all next week<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Baby Anatra (18)<br />Esha Bruun (60)<br />Lynn Hamer (36)<br />Cazzy Hax (66 - Current leader)<br />Cahill McCallen (36)<br />Ellyssia Sexton (21)<br /><br />Males:<br />Thomas Akers (6)<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……! Entry is only $50L, and votes cost $10L each or $50L for 6!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to June 1..<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Timelord Aeon says "in sl im neko, furry, vampire, dragon, human<br />looking for a female submissive/slave. who is single in both rl and sl. wants have slave and relationship in both rl and sl ."<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM till ? - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax<br /><br />Wednesday<br />12PM till ? PM - Eye-Catcher Fashion Show<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Bondage and Safety<br /><br />Saturday<br />12PM till 2 PM - Eye-Catcher Fashion Show<br /><br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Restrained Life<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. In other news......</h3><br /><br />The newsletter staff heard rumors that Eye-Catcher and BDSM Life will be particpating in a treasure hunt! See the next issue of BDSM Life newsletter for more information.<br /><br /><br />Check out the Eye-Catcher web site Consie has been working on!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)<br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people<br />Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-70978213421451252732009-03-29T23:13:00.037+02:002009-03-30T00:21:39.057+02:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 11 Mar 30-Apr 5Newsletter for BDSM-Life!<br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair <br />2. Highlighted Store - Buy Master a Gift<br />3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting<br />4. Switch Corner - Cazzy<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. Grease Party<br />7. Photo Contest<br />8. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />9. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />10. In other news.....<br /><br />___________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair (by Constanza Amsterdam)</h3><br /><br />Monday, 22 March at 8:00PM SLT, the clothing fair was closed with a big BAM!<br /><br />What an awesome week it was with so much to do. The great part of this week was not only that we raised a lot of lindens for Relay For Life but also that so many designers have been working together and helping each other so we could raise even more for the Relay For Life Foundation.<br /><br />And yes also this fair has been a great marketing tool for Eye-Catcher to put it self on the map.<br /><br />I am happy to tell that Eye-Catcher raised 16,212L$ in total for Relay For Life. The total raised money by the Relay's Raiders was 4,479,532L$ and the total campaign raised 10,706,849L$ so far this year.<br /><br />I am so proud of everyone and i want to thank all the customers of Eye-Catcher for their support during the event and before.<br /><br />Please do note that Relay in itself is not closed. To quote HaroldThe Burrel: “Clothing Fair is just a beginning event for the charitable fund drive that runs through July 19th.”<br /><br />So you may still find kiosks and vendors around SL where you can donate funds to Relay For Life.<br />____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Store Highlight - Buy Master a Gift</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_laT0iA-I/AAAAAAAAAZ8/iE4b5UbtKE8/s1600-h/Lectrici+1.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_laT0iA-I/AAAAAAAAAZ8/iE4b5UbtKE8/s400/Lectrici+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318721925107811298" /></a>I met with Lectrici Vlodovic, owner of Buy Master a Gift, early Sunday morning at his kiosk in BDSM life. As he demonstrated some of his eclectic collection of creations, he explained his design philosophy to me. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_nC4_k44I/AAAAAAAAAaE/dOrvFY0-SYI/s1600-h/Bondage+moon+1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 282px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_nC4_k44I/AAAAAAAAAaE/dOrvFY0-SYI/s400/Bondage+moon+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318723721792643970" /></a>"well I'm fairly new to sl and enjoy seeing how things work. When I first joined I was not impressed with the lack of mens clothes available....", " Lectrici said, "....at least BDSM themed, unless you were a sub. So in learning and playing around I made a few basic t shirts with a BDSM theme."<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_naL_l9rI/AAAAAAAAAaM/67ECh-M96bA/s1600-h/Whip+Girl.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 303px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_naL_l9rI/AAAAAAAAAaM/67ECh-M96bA/s400/Whip+Girl.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318724122029979314" /></a>After being approached by several people who wanted copies, he thought there might be a business opportunity in quality men's clothing. Not only has Lectrici filled a void in clothing, but his creations are soem of the most reasonably priced clothes out there, at least compared to women's clothing anyway. All of his t-shirts are only $50L each. He has so many other t shirts available it's impossible to show them all here, so just drop by Buy Master a Gift and browse the catalog!<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_orrGhbVI/AAAAAAAAAaU/fVucb6c4IQU/s1600-h/black+and+mesh+shoes+boxed.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 215px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_orrGhbVI/AAAAAAAAAaU/fVucb6c4IQU/s320/black+and+mesh+shoes+boxed.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318725521949945170" /></a>In addition to t-shirts, Lectrici sells these awesome black and mesh shoes. He soon plans to have several other colors available!<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_p_uUbQBI/AAAAAAAAAak/INFXvaZ9t0g/s1600-h/Sideboard+lamp+and+divider+PREFERRED.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 327px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_p_uUbQBI/AAAAAAAAAak/INFXvaZ9t0g/s400/Sideboard+lamp+and+divider+PREFERRED.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318726965922578450" /></a>Lectrici next branched out into scripted furniture. Here's a picture of one of his erotic room dividers. Several different pictures are available to choose from. He should have a couple of them displayed in front of his kiosk starting Monday morning! He also created this nice side board and lamp, which lights up.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_rD-yRt-I/AAAAAAAAAas/ksUeDJZM58Y/s1600-h/BDSM+Bench.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 357px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_rD-yRt-I/AAAAAAAAAas/ksUeDJZM58Y/s400/BDSM+Bench.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318728138573854690" /></a>This is his new BDSM bench. Lectrici was kind enough to shoot this picture with me to demonstrate the animation. It uses lockguard cuffs to chain the slave to the bench. For only $100L it's a steal!<br /><br/><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_raDzlxrI/AAAAAAAAAa0/OS-2DWYObFU/s1600-h/Naught+School+Desk+0.jpg"><img style="margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 114px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_raDzlxrI/AAAAAAAAAa0/OS-2DWYObFU/s200/Naught+School+Desk+0.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318728517878662834" /></a> <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_zLc3KynI/AAAAAAAAAbs/UL1R7k-0fAo/s1600-h/Naught+School+Desk+2.jpg"><img style="margin:0px auto 10px; cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 98px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_zLc3KynI/AAAAAAAAAbs/UL1R7k-0fAo/s200/Naught+School+Desk+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318737062999542386" /></a> <a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_zHIcM4jI/AAAAAAAAAbk/iCCvtP8lX9o/s1600-h/Naught+School+Desk+1.jpg"><img style="margin:0px auto 10px; cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 168px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_zHIcM4jI/AAAAAAAAAbk/iCCvtP8lX9o/s200/Naught+School+Desk+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318736988798247474" /></a>And this is Lectrici's newest creation, a work in progress, his Naughty School Desk. It's equi[ped with several sit animations and the lid flips up to display a set of Teacher's choice whips should some incorrigable student be in need of a little discipline! He is offering it for half price to any BDSM Life member wearing their BDSM-Life title who makes a purchase at his store at his meet and greet session.<br /><br />So, come meet Lectrici Vlodovic, on Saturday, April 4, 12 PM SLT, at his kiosk in the BDSM Life sim, near the Lecture Room. He will rez some of his awesome creations on the common area outside his shop so you can try them for yourself. And pick up one of his free t-shirts for your Master!<br /><br />Hope to see you there!<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting</h3><br /><br />We need your help in this years Bondage Awards and we hope that you will help BDSM-Life.com from today 29th March 2009 until 11th April. You will need to click the banner for the Bondage awards first, these banners are at the top of EVERY Page on the site.<br /><br />http://www.bondageawards.com<br /><br />Once there you will need to go to the top of the bondage awards site and select VOTING<br /><br />Then go to the section "Best Free Website" and select BDSM-Life.com from the dropdown menu under "Best FREE website" then once done go to the bottom of the page and click the button "Click here to submit your Vote"<br /><br />You can do this once a day and we ask your support to do this every day for us and help us win this year.<br /><br />We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.<br /><br />Thanks for your support<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Switch Corner (by Cazzy Hax)</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_wbKHXn7I/AAAAAAAAAbM/X5eq4ORMhNE/s1600-h/Cazzy.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 183px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_wbKHXn7I/AAAAAAAAAbM/X5eq4ORMhNE/s200/Cazzy.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318734034310242226" /></a>What is a switch? The label ‘switch’ means different things to different people, depending on how they live their lifestyles. Some people might be 50% dominant, 50% submissive, others might be 80% dominant, 20% submissive, and other people might be different, but for this article, I am writing from MY perspective, my own thoughts and opinions on what being a switch means to me. <br /><br />I am a switch, which does not mean that I am undecided in what I want, far from it! I love being a switch, because it allows me to enjoy being on the Top as well as being on the bottom. It allows me to explore many aspects of BDSM in both roles, and it means a big deal to me, it is a role that I am comfortable with in myself. It is a journey, where there is no end, and I will learn new things everyday, both about myself and what kind of activities I like. I am mostly Domme, occasionally like to be on the bottom. I love being on the bottom, but most of the time, I do like to be on the Top, to be one in the control. I like to be flexible and if I am on the bottom occasionally it means that I will know what it will be like in the sub’s shoes as such and it will help me be a better Domme, I believe in that. <br /><br />I love being tied up and is a bit of a pain-slut, and if I was a Domme all the time, I would miss that, and it will make me miserable, therefore will lead to that I will become a bad Domme, that will lead to my submissives being not happy in the relationship at all. Being a switch makes me feel comfortable with myself and makes me happy. <br /><br />So that’s what being a switch means to me!<br /><br />Thank you for reading! <br /><br />Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br />BDSM Life is without doubt becoming the place to obtain the very best slaves at the very best prices. As the auction grows in popularity with both Slaves and Masters and Mistresses, it is becoming the place to be at 3.00pm SLT every Saturday.<br /><br />I look forward to seeing you there next week for what promises to be another exciting and rewarding auction.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Grease Party</h3><br /><br />What with the change of date to Fridays at noon SLT, I've missed most of the recent parties at the Hard Restraint Cafe. Mother nature dumped a blizzard on the Rocky Mountain front range last Thursday though, and being snow bound for the day, I was able to attend. <br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_x-6PdoXI/AAAAAAAAAbU/IwrYUEDAFF8/s1600-h/Grease+Party+1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 249px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_x-6PdoXI/AAAAAAAAAbU/IwrYUEDAFF8/s400/Grease+Party+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318735748036141426" /></a>The theme was Grease, with the ladies vying for Pink Ladies and the men as T Birds. $1000L was on the contest board.<br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_yKpBRXkI/AAAAAAAAAbc/4bU4APPAWtE/s1600-h/Grease+Party+2.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 257px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/Sc_yKpBRXkI/AAAAAAAAAbc/4bU4APPAWtE/s400/Grease+Party+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318735949571644994" /></a><br />Cazzy and I went shopping before hand to find appropriate costumes. She, Consie and I all wore Pink Ladies jackets.<br /><br />WIth only one male contestant, the top prize of $700L went to Robyn Rossman. On the female side, I am embarrassed to say that I walked away with $100L having earned NO votes at all. Ellyssia Sexton took second place, and Chas Seetan ran away with first!<br /><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Sandylou Aboma<br />Baby Anatra (current leader)<br />Kore Bravin<br />Esha Bruun<br />Kathyrn123 Constaintine<br />Charlene Denimore<br />IsisRea Diavolo<br />Kendra Docherty<br />Diane Foxdale<br />Cazzy Hax<br />HansVan Hoorenbeek<br />Scarelt Lacombe<br />Luna Lafleur<br />Zibber Lemon<br />Natalie Nightfire<br />Melinda Renfold<br />Roxy Ricantaur<br />Lilliana Roux<br />Serpentina Skute<br />PrincessAril666 Violet<br /><br />Males:<br /><br />Kodi Diesel<br />Tarl Field (current leader)<br />Bunderwahl Guise<br />Askalon Hax<br />HansVan Hoorenbeek<br />Douglass McDonnell<br />Terry888 Melson<br />rm1982 Moonites<br />Dorian Sabra<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to March.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Monday<br />12PM till ? - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax<br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject to be determined<br />Friday<br />12PM till 3 PM - Party and Dance the evening away at the Hard Restraint Cafe in BDSM life - Hosted by BDSM Life's own Constanza Amsterdam (in Cazzy's absence), and featuring Star DJ (unless his evil titler has been changed before then) Qudex Coronet<br /><br />Saturday<br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Subject to be determined<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>10. In other news......</h3><br /><br /><a href='http://www.eyecatcher.tk'>Check out the Eye-Catcher web site Consie has been working on!</a><br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><a href='http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/'>Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at in case you have missed them.</a><br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-) <br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people<br />Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-41689512271007923492009-03-22T12:40:00.055+01:002009-03-23T23:47:55.125+01:00Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue Mar 22-Mar 28<h3>Newsletter for BDSM-Life!</h3><br /><br />In this newsletter:<br /><br />1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair<br />2. Highlighted Store - Princess Reform School<br />3. Bondage Awards<br />4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner<br />5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions<br />6. Photo Contest<br />7. Classifieds and Personal Ads<br />8. Events @ BDSM-Life<br />9. In other news.....<br />____________________________________________<br /><br /><br /><h3>1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZKYSLGNtI/AAAAAAAAAY8/tdHYnexKdpA/s1600-h/Fair+1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 228px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZKYSLGNtI/AAAAAAAAAY8/tdHYnexKdpA/s400/Fair+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316018191213147858" /></a>March 23rd was the last day of the Relay for Life Clothing Fair. 170+ vendors spread out over 9 sims raised almost $4 million Lindens to fund cancer research. During the week, there were treasure hunts, live entertainment, music, fashion shows galore and auctions.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZKd7iWSAI/AAAAAAAAAZE/uJbiSypZ6hU/s1600-h/Fair+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZKd7iWSAI/AAAAAAAAAZE/uJbiSypZ6hU/s400/Fair+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316018288215869442" /></a>Constanza Amsterdam spent weeks preparing for the event, creating 300 unique fashion items including special RLF silks. She temporarily ran a shop out of RLF sim 4 during the week of the event.<br /><br />Your support was greatly appreciated. We look forward to seing you at the 2010 Relay for Life!<br />____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>2. Store Highlight - Princess Reform School</h3><br /><br />Cazzy, Hornet and I had the great pleasure of meeting Professor Sadovyncha last Wednesday evening. He is the Headmaster of Princess Reform School, which sells school role playing toys and other stuff. The Professor is something of a Second Life renaissance man, having built, scripted, and animated all of PRS's merchandise. Playing with his toys was like being back in high school again, but a lot more fun!<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYkOMixuHI/AAAAAAAAAXk/RAe_YtVBQjM/s1600-h/Chalk+Board.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 184px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYkOMixuHI/AAAAAAAAAXk/RAe_YtVBQjM/s400/Chalk+Board.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315976236461308018" /></a>Here I am in detention, as always! lol The school desk is a must for any naughty schoolgirl's learning environment. Stocked with 11 unique animations, and complete with a poseball for Teacher (disguised as a pink pencil box), it has all you need to show that you're "Hot for Teacher"! It also comes with two spankies the student may activate to let out a yelp or gasp when being spanked. The school desk sells for $500L normally, but the good Professor has marked it down to only $200L in his BDSM-Life store.<br /><br />Sometimes writing punishment lines is the best thing for a naughty schoolgirl! The chalkboard comes with a pose ball where a she may be foprced to stand stand and write out her punishment over and over again. Click the blackboard to change the text displayed. The chalkboard is only $200L.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYtsnEl_gI/AAAAAAAAAYM/JTDXvJmFBoY/s1600-h/Teacher%27s+desk.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 236px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYtsnEl_gI/AAAAAAAAAYM/JTDXvJmFBoY/s400/Teacher%27s+desk.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315986654583193090" /></a>PRS's teacher's desk may be used for so much more than grading papers! Guaranteed to get the teacher's attention with six fantastic animations: wiggle, bend over, fuck, fuck slow, and fuck fast 1 & 2. The Teacher's desk and student stool combined are $200L. <br /><br />But the best deal on the school room collection is to buy the boxed set. You get eveything listed above PLUS a punishment pose ball, classroom set, copiable school desk so you can fill a classroom, and other accessories. The school box set is a bargain at $999L!<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY1BrotA7I/AAAAAAAAAYU/Y5M0wuBze20/s1600-h/Locker+room+set.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 398px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY1BrotA7I/AAAAAAAAAYU/Y5M0wuBze20/s400/Locker+room+set.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315994713167037362" /></a>In addition to the classroom set, the Professor has constructed a locker room and shower area where students can earn physical education credits. lol Six delicious animations can be viewed by clicking the lockers after sitting. The bench and showers have several poses. And there're towels to snap at bare tushes and a funny "Ouch!" animation is provided for the victim. The locker room and shower set is only $600L. <br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYmc04cNzI/AAAAAAAAAX0/AMHSYD5YHdQ/s1600-h/Humbling+Post.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 334px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYmc04cNzI/AAAAAAAAAX0/AMHSYD5YHdQ/s400/Humbling+Post.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315978686831015730" /></a><br />Leaving the classroom, Professor Sadovyncha demonstrates to Cazzy his whip and humbling post. The whip is made of 6 prims, three in the handle and three jointed connections. The overhead snapping animation is activate by clicking the mouse, and comses with a very realistic over head animation. It also makes a very satisfying crack! The whip is only $100L.<br /><br />The Humbling Post does not require Lockmeister restraints, but wear a set before attaching to the post to see a chain between the post and slave. The Whipping post comes with 12 of the Professor's amazing animations including; loose bind (which Cazzy is demonstrating in the picutre above), suck & fucked, of course, plus wiggle ass, puppy beg, masturbate, and several others that just have to be seen to be believed. The Humbling Post is $500L.<br /><br /><div style='text-align:center'><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYsX45RWEI/AAAAAAAAAYE/oIifjU1uwE4/s1600-h/Prof+Chair+and+Cushion+Spank+3.jpg"><img style="margin:0px auto 10px; cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 171px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYsX45RWEI/AAAAAAAAAYE/oIifjU1uwE4/s200/Prof+Chair+and+Cushion+Spank+3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315985199078660162" /></a> <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYsSOlAb_I/AAAAAAAAAX8/QIKNKmgfVDI/s1600-h/Prof+Chair+and+Cushion+Spank+2.jpg"><img style="margin:0px auto 10px; cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 181px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScYsSOlAb_I/AAAAAAAAAX8/QIKNKmgfVDI/s200/Prof+Chair+and+Cushion+Spank+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5315985101820030962" /></a></div><br />Princess Reform School sells an eclectic collection of other unique goodies that simply have to be seen to be believed! Neko avis will love the Neko Crack set, complete with goldfish bowl and animations for only $100L. The RPS switch suit with the Professor's patented "mixed messages" belt is a hoot, for $200L. Get the sexy shower set with male and female poseballs containing 9 interactive animations each, soap and bubbles, and climactic sound effects for $300L. The Blush Gem is an animation override with bashful sit, stand and walk animations for the shy sub. It's just $100L! PRS has so many other unique products there just isn't enough time or room to mentione them all here.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZK0clidkI/AAAAAAAAAZM/7cfQZqE-Ml0/s1600-h/Store+photo.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 254px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZK0clidkI/AAAAAAAAAZM/7cfQZqE-Ml0/s400/Store+photo.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316018675044742722" /></a><br />So, come meet Professor Sadovyncha, on Wednesday, March 25, from 4 to 6 PM SLT, at his store in the BDSM Life sim. He will rez some of his awesome creations on the common area outside his shop so you can try them for yourself. And the Professor will be handing out free PRS Whore Gags to everyone who drops by on Wednesday. Hope to see you there!<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>3. Bondage Awards Update</h3><br /><br />Voting in stage one of the Bondage Awards has closed. Over 22,000 votes were recorded during the week the polls were open, 9,000 more than last year! <br /><br />Votes will be tallied for the next week. Then those nominees who received 10 or more votes will be listed as candidates for stage two. BDSM-Life will surely be listed as one of the Free Web Sites, as I must have voted 10 times all by myself, at least! <br /><br />Stage two voting begins at midnight on March 29th. Be sure to return to the Bondage Awards site then to express your support for BDSM-Life. Vote early and vote often! lol<br /><br /><a href='http://www.bondageawards.com/' target='Bondage Awards'>Click here to open the Bondage Awards main page</a><br /> <br /><a href='http://www.BDSM-Life.com' target='Bondage Awards'>Click here to visit the BDSM-Life web site and create yoru free profile</a><br /><br />Well, what are you waiting for? Sign up now and meet all the great folks who are just waiting to meet you!<br /><br />We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.<br /><br />Thanks for your support!!!<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner</h3><br /><br />Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY9iZrq29I/AAAAAAAAAYc/1igCVlNkBkQ/s1600-h/Slave+1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 170px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY9iZrq29I/AAAAAAAAAYc/1igCVlNkBkQ/s400/Slave+1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316004071376346066" /></a>With yet another full sim in attendance, there was a distinctly european feel to this weeks auction at BDSM Life. There were two slaves up for auction both speaking French as their main language. The allure of the accent was obviously great, for after a quiet start to proceedings, bidding soon built up with several Masters expressing interest in what were obviously well trained and experienced girls. Bidding peaked during the second auction as it became clear that this girl was very much "wanted" by two Masters in particular. Bids came in thick and fast to the point were no sooner had I acknowledged one bid, then the counter bid was placed.<br /><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY-De4-iVI/AAAAAAAAAYk/tA-k5_xFBx4/s1600-h/Slave+2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 309px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScY-De4-iVI/AAAAAAAAAYk/tA-k5_xFBx4/s400/Slave+2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316004639710021970" /></a>It was an exciting auction albeit with only two girls up for auction. The two successful Masters went away very contented with their respective new slaves behind them to enjoy their contracts.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZEmy5qDPI/AAAAAAAAAYs/7MSJ8_D5XEU/s1600-h/slave+3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 348px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZEmy5qDPI/AAAAAAAAAYs/7MSJ8_D5XEU/s400/slave+3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316011843446770930" /></a>BDSM Life is without doubt becoming the place to obtain the very best slaves at the very best prices. As the auction grows in popularity with both Slaves and Masters and Mistresses, it is becoming the place to be at 3.00pm SLT every Saturday.<br /><br />I look forward to seeing you there next week for what promises to be another exciting and rewarding auction.<br /><br />Hornet Lefevre<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>6. Photo Contest</h3><br /><br />We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!<br /><br />Females:<br /><br />Sandylou Aboma<br />Baby Anatra (current leader)<br />Kore Bravin<br />Esha Bruun<br />Kathyrn123 Constaintine<br />Charlene Denimore<br />IsisRea Diavolo<br />Kendra Docherty<br />Diane Foxdale<br />Cazzy Hax<br />HansVan Hoorenbeek<br />Scarelt Lacombe<br />Luna Lafleur<br />Zibber Lemon<br />Natalie Nightfire<br />Melinda Renfold<br />Roxy Ricantaur<br />Lilliana Roux<br />Serpentina Skute<br />PrincessAril666 Violet<br /><br />Males:<br /><br />Kodi Diesel<br />Tarl Field (current leader)<br />Bunderwahl Guise<br />Askalon Hax<br />HansVan Hoorenbeek<br />Douglass McDonnell<br />Terry888 Melson<br />rm1982 Moonites<br />Dorian Sabra<br /><br />So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to March.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>7. Classified and Personal Ads</h3><br /><br />At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!<br /><br />Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.<br /><br />Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.<br /><br />If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!<br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>8. Events @ BDSM-Life</h3><br /><br />Thursday<br />12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject: Sadism<br /><br />Saturday<br />11AM till 3 PM SLT - New BDSM-Life Grand Opening OParty<br />3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie<br /><br />Sunday<br />12pm till 3 pm SLT - Basic real restraint, rlv folder, and which viewer might suit each person, and tips and tricks with Tarl Field<br /><br />Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.<br /><br />We will update the blog website during the week for events.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />______________________________________________<br /><br /><h3>9. In other news......</h3><br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZGXkVc7VI/AAAAAAAAAY0/rz75yHNgEzY/s1600-h/Bargain+Shop.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ADNuphzK6qA/ScZGXkVc7VI/AAAAAAAAAY0/rz75yHNgEzY/s400/Bargain+Shop.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316013780862037330" /></a>We have a Bargain Shop right here at BDSM-Life, where you can buy some nice silks, clothes or skins at a very cheap price! Why don't you come along and have a look!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/ in case you have missed them.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-) <br /><br />Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!<br /><br />Thank you!<br />_______________________________________________<br />Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people<br />Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-20950435995937716292009-03-20T15:42:00.002+01:002009-03-20T15:46:58.951+01:00Relay for Life dance event at BDSM-LifeToday's dance event will be completely for Relay For Life. (20th March, Friday)<br /><br />The Event starts at 12:00 PM SLT with Live DJ Qudex<br /><br />In the club we will have 4 vendors with 1 RFL Silks for Female and 1 for male, one special maid's outfit in latex and one nice paddle for the Dom/mes to use on their submissives. All profit of those to will go to Relay For Life.<br /><br />Also we will have a donation box.<br /><br />Come along and let us see how much your care to find a cure for this awful sickness and support RFL as from 12:00PM SLT.<br /><br />Hope to see you there!<br /><br /> http://slurl.com/secondlife/Hamchorom/31/226/803Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-88684810783693703862009-03-13T22:03:00.000+01:002009-03-13T22:04:22.052+01:00BDSM-Life Manager Meeting Transcript[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Ok .... let start this and get it over with :P<br />[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Welcome all off you to the BDSM-Life meeting<br />[13:00] Lapa Vella: thanks Cons. and hello too ppl arount<br />[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: before asking questions, please let me finish....... afterwards i have time for questions. :)<br />[13:00] Professor Sadovnycha is Online<br />[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As some off you know or heard, LL is going to change some off the adult content policies in SL<br />[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: What does this mean?<br />[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As far as clear now, LL will have a rating with 3 flags: PG, Mature and Adult<br />[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: What they define under Mature and Adult is not known yet<br />[13:02] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Roni Scarmon! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: So the only thing we can do in that case is wait and see what happends<br />[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: However.......<br />[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: Due to the nature of our sim.... we will be rated as Adult<br />[13:03] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.<br />[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants everyone rated as Adult to move to a seperate continent.... Adult continent<br />[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: and that is something we dont want<br />[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam takes a breath......lol<br />[13:04] Wynter Thei: lol breathe consi breathe<br />[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: Lord and i have discussed all options all day<br />[13:04] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.<br />[13:04] Lapa Vella: im not see problem... why you upset?<br />[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: and we are keeping a close eye on any changes made during today to the blogs, forums and everything is else<br />[13:05] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Talon Tunwarm! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: We have decided that BDSM-Life as it is now, cant stay here... so we are going to make it smaller........<br />[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: with just a meeting area, my mainshop and that is it<br />[13:05] Roni Scarmon: :-(<br />[13:06] Talon Tunwarm kicks Sammi's chair as he trys to sit down<br />[13:06] Tarl Field: i am sorry to hear that<br />[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: Landprices will drop like the econimy in the US is at the moment<br />[13:06] Blake Kohime is Online<br />[13:06] Sammi Loire: ooo talon<br />[13:06] Talon Tunwarm: lol<br />[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: and we cant afford that<br />[13:06] Sammi Loire: lol<br />[13:06] Roni Scarmon: lol<br />[13:06] Sammi Loire: moves it forward<br />[13:06] Talon Tunwarm leans over and plays with Sammi's hair<br />[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: So we are going to keep half a sim<br />[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: with my store, a small meeting area, the slave auction and lecture room<br />[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: also Tarls shop will stay<br />[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: the rest will all be gonne<br />[13:07] Roni Scarmon: No more cafe?<br />[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: Adult content Roni... we cant<br />[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: We would love to keep everything as it is<br />[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me we do.....<br />[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: But LL is seeing it different<br />[13:08] Tarl Field: why not have a normal dance club?<br />[13:08] Keelar Shelman: The slave auction could be defined adult also...<br />[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: It will also mean: that people without age verification or payment info will not be allowed on our sim anymore<br />[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: or any other Mature/Adult flagged land<br />[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We have no clue on what will be flagged as Adult and what will be Mature<br />[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We do know that...... sex lands with equipments is flagged as Adult<br />[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: anything with sex or violence will be classed as adult<br />[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: So i guess you can all see what is going to happen in SL<br />[13:10] Blake Kohime is Offline<br />[13:10] Roni Scarmon: If BDSM will be labelled adult or mature what's the issue with moving tothe adult continent?<br />[13:10] Talon Tunwarm: yep, will need to make an account<br />[13:10] Roni Scarmon: More $L?<br />[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: Roni? what you think about money?<br />[13:11] Lapa Vella thinks can send all info about RL to LidenLab... but not wish write it in her profiles<br />[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: We simply cant afford to move and buy another land<br />[13:11] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Robyn Rossman! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:11] Roni Scarmon: I understand. Didn't realize it would cost even more than this.<br />[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: not only that..... a lot of people wont be able to come to BDSM-Life because they have eighter a free account or didnt varify age<br />[13:11] Fluf Fredriksson: Don't know how true it is, but LL were offering to assist relocations ...<br />[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: Fluf me and Lord have been in SL long enough to know they wont<br />[13:12] Tarl Field: for a price i am sure they will help<br />[13:12] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Thomas Aker! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:12] Kodi Diesel: But wouldnt the name alone classify it as adult, or would the name change as well, i may have missed that<br />[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: ok let me give you an example:<br />[13:12] Fluf Fredriksson: And free accounts can age verify .. I did my alt today<br />[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants all Adult content on 1 continent<br />[13:13] Wynter Thei: Be Right Back!! ツ<br />[13:13] Zeldan Blackburn: does payment info not automatically verify age<br />[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: that comes with: Lag........ even more then now..... people not able to go to BDSM-Life because of free accounts or not age varified....<br />[13:13] Keelar Shelman: whats the idea of having all adult content on one place?<br />[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not worth the hasstle<br />[13:14] Lasynda Shichiroji is Online<br />[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar... we believe and a lot of other people to that LL wants to merge the Teen grid with this grid<br />[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: What about a group to buy into the new continent<br />[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Bring in 900 USD and we can Zeldan<br />[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: ooooooo<br />[13:14] Chyenne Devin is Online<br />[13:14] Keelar Shelman: great...SL a kiddies place<br />[13:14] Talon Tunwarm: lol<br />[13:14] Roni Scarmon: Is that 900 to move or 900/month?<br />[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: 10 folk at 90?<br />[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: 900 to pay to buy land and then 195 USD tier each month<br />[13:15] Roni Scarmon: So same price as now AFTER move?<br />[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: we dont know Roni<br />[13:16] Constanza Amsterdam: it wouldnt surprice me if LL makes the Adult continent more exspansive<br />[13:16] Roni Scarmon: I could come up with $90. But is that the issue or are you concerned about losing business if you are located on the adult continent.<br />[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: We have a free sex area Roni, we have been for a year. I am online most the day... the only people i see here regulair i can count on 1 hand<br />[13:17] Tarl Field: The real issue here is that ll wants to make money and buy forcing adult content to move to anotherserver they will make money on new land and so on<br />[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: So is it worth to move a complete sim to an Adult continent for us? No<br />[13:17] Keelar Shelman: one continent means also one computer cluster...would be easier to make login into that harder if they want to<br />[13:17] Roni Scarmon: OK. Just trying to understand teh scope of teh problem.<br />[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not only us Roni<br />[13:18] Tarl Field: and your right consie the number of people coming here often is not high<br />[13:18] Roni Scarmon: Sex isn't paying the bills apparently. So this will not be BDSM any more after the change then.<br />[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: look for example at Strokerz... he has to devide his shop into 2........ or better yet... 3 as he has PG, Mature and Adult stuff for sale<br />[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: I can have my shop on Adult.........<br />[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: but i cant have BDSM-Life on mature<br />[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: so do we have 2 seperate sims?<br />[13:19] Tarl Field: well my store need to be on a adult as the outfit i make shows the nipples and sex...sigh<br />[13:19] Roni Scarmon: Sounds like even more $L ot me.<br />[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Nah... we rather downscale... make a nice meeting area where we can talk and meet up and have some fun<br />[13:19] Roni Scarmon: PG fun<br />[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Kaddan<br />[13:20] Kaddan Yue: hello<br />[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: indeed Roni... PG/Mature fun<br />[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Which will maybe even attracked more people in the sim......lol<br />[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Gemini<br />[13:20] Kaddan Yue: ggunleash<br />[13:20] Gemeni Giha: hello Constanza<br />[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: and Hey Leesa<br />[13:21] Kaddan Yue: lbunleash<br />[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: I know this all comes as a shock<br />[13:21] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Kaddan Yue! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me... we werent to happy with this new nice policy<br />[13:21] Roni Scarmon: TO you most of all I'm sure!<br />[13:21] Robyn Rossman: SorryIsnt this all in disscussion stage with LL constanza<br />[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: No Robyn, they let you think it is<br />[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: Same happend with the Gambling a few years ago<br />[13:22] Zeldan Blackburn: Constanza is correct that they want to link with teens<br />[13:22] Robyn Rossman: Ok just thats how I read the blog<br />[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: and they want to start implementing it within 6 weeks already<br />[13:22] Fluf Fredriksson: No gambling was rolled out without warning .. this time they haev put up forum posts for discussion and invited comment<br />[13:22] Leesa Back: lbnadu1<br />[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: Not true Fluf.... it started with a similair discussing and was implemented within 6 weeks aswell<br />[13:23] Roni Scarmon: Got a link to the forum? I wouldn't mind expressing my opinion!<br />[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: http://forums.secondlife.com/showthread.php?t=311510<br />[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: When you read the forum, please also pay attention to the Lindens..... they dont even know what is going to happen<br />[13:24] Tarl Field: sounds like sl want to be a pg play area...<br />[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: some say we have to move, others say we dont<br />[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: but as we know LL.... we quess we have to<br />[13:25] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lilliana Roux! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:25] Keelar Shelman: what i dont understand.....kids wont bring money into SL, at least not as much as adult do. But on the other hand, many adults will leave if that happens<br />[13:25] Keelar Shelman: isnt LL just giving themselves the money drop?<br />[13:25] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar.... SL is a company who has made biljons of residents like us....<br />[13:26] Robyn Rossman: Well I think there is a big problem with under age kids getting into places like this<br />[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: the intention of LL with SL was purly to build a 3D internet and we have been the testbunnies<br />[13:26] Kaddan Yue: Which is LL's fault<br />[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: LL has been out of touch with its residents since 2 years already<br />[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: they wont listen<br />[13:27] Fluf Fredriksson: I'm with Robyn .. age verification is actually a good thing .. perhaps being badly roleld out .. but a good thing in theory<br />[13:27] Kaddan Yue: This is a done deal<br />[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and they are clueless<br />[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: people will leave my home is in a mature area<br />[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: it is Kaddan<br />[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: they would kick me out too<br />[13:27] Deanna McBride is Online<br />[13:27] Roni Scarmon: My home is HERE!<br />[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: smiles<br />[13:27] Kaddan Yue: They should not have closed the Teen Grid<br />[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and a part will stay Roni<br />[13:27] Talon Tunwarm: love this place<br />[13:28] Thomas Aker: were not all lucky as you Roni<br />[13:28] Kaddan Yue: now they are making thier issue ours<br />[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: So true<br />[13:28] Roni Scarmon: B*st*rds! <----PG swearing<br />[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: lol<br />[13:28] Sammi Loire: lol hahaah<br />[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: lol<br />[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: I hope you all can understand our action to this<br />[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: we stay but smaller<br />[13:28] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Bobby Triellis! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: loads will leave now again<br />[13:28] Kaddan Yue: very true<br />[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: bdsm...is a four letter word now?<br />[13:28] Kodi Diesel: I had hearda rumor they were trying to pg the whole thing to make it ripe to sell, harder with adult content<br />[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: this my guess will be the downfall of SL<br />[13:29] Tarl Field: and consie if you want to stay my shop cant stay as its rated adult on xstreetsl<br />[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: we believe so to Kodi... our guess today was that SL will be sold<br />[13:29] Talon Tunwarm: will be a downfall for awhile, but with new people coming in....<br />[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: Tarl, dont worry for now<br />[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: not if they cant find sex talon<br />[13:30] Tarl Field: new people=teenagers<br />[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: sex sells.... in any world<br />[13:30] Thomas Aker: so we cant do slave auctions?<br />[13:30] Talon Tunwarm: so true<br />[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: if it is not here... people will leave... believe me<br />[13:30] Tarl Field: i am not worried but xstreet forced my items to adult as they show the nipples<br />[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: For now we continue the auctions Thomas<br />[13:30] Keelar Shelman: another rumor says they are trying to create an open standard for 3d environments<br />[13:30] Keelar Shelman: maybe another SL will pop up then...but thats a long shot<br />[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: Like i said Keelas... SL was intented as a 3d internet envorment<br />[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: we were just test bunnies<br />[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: and i know people who are working on that one Keelar ;)<br />[13:32] Constanza Amsterdam: So lets make this a great PG meeting area with likeminded people<br />[13:32] Keelar Shelman: Working on it until L comes and buys them off?<br />[13:32] Tarl Field: guess i will make the bodystockings opaque and sell them as velour catsuits<br />[13:32] Roni Scarmon: lololol<br />[13:33] Blake Rembrandt is Online<br />[13:33] Roni Scarmon: Oh doo doo!<br />[13:33] Kodi Diesel: *grin*<br />[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar, they wont be able to as the owner wont let LL buy it....lol<br />[13:33] Sammi Loire: hhahahahhahh<br />[13:33] Kaddan Yue: I see that for private sims we just have to flag it correct<br />[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: He is so damn anti LL... that will never happen<br />[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan, island are lucky<br />[13:34] Kaddan Yue: good<br />[13:34] Thomas Aker: boy and i thought the TV Sencers were bad<br />[13:34] Kaddan Yue: okay so they want more people to buy private islands<br />[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: this is all due to the fact that LL wants to merge the tengrid<br />[13:34] Kaddan Yue: LL always has hiden agenda's<br />[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: so true Kaddan<br />[13:35] Roni Scarmon: Teen grid is probably not paying for itself<br />[13:35] Kaddan Yue: they want sim sales to boost<br />[13:35] Constanza Amsterdam: it is even this bad, that i am quiting as SecondLife Mentor<br />[13:35] Kaddan Yue: well it's pretty much closed<br />[13:35] Tarl Field: All it comes down it is the americans double standards about sex and voilence and crap. No offence meant to people thats not hypocrits<br />[13:35] Kaddan Yue: has been for about a month<br />[13:35] John11011967 Karu is Online<br />[13:35] Roni Scarmon: SO true Tarl!<br />[13:35] Roni Scarmon: We a bunch of prudes over here<br />[13:35] Thomas Aker: theres a show og LL thinking teen is not paying so they make SL a kiddy grid hmmmmmm......<br />[13:36] Constanza Amsterdam: thank god i live in Holland<br />[13:36] Talon Tunwarm: only can have sex with animales in america...lol<br />[13:36] Kaddan Yue: that is not nice<br />[13:36] Kaddan Yue: all of us don't think like that<br />[13:36] Thomas Aker: naaaa thats Mexico<br />[13:36] Kitty Armband by *Sterremare Designs whispers: You look great wearing me, Islandgirl Biler.<br />[13:36] Fluf Fredriksson: When are you planning on shrinking down the sim then? Constanza?<br />[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: ASAP<br />[13:37] Fluf Fredriksson: k<br />[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: the new months tier has been paid<br />[13:37] Kaddan Yue: okay so we loss shops<br />[13:37] Tarl Field: so with in 4 weeks then<br />[13:37] Roni Scarmon: I cansee the eadline on the BDSM Newsletter....if there was a newsletter.<br />[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: So a PG BDSM-Life will remain and so is my store<br />[13:37] Thomas Aker: guess my idea for nude Sub sky diving contest just went out the window<br />[13:38] Roni Scarmon: lol<br />[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: lol<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: i need to make all the bodystockings opaque<br />[13:38] Silkie Muir: ahhhh. These was an item on the forums about nudity<br />[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: We have to do that fast then Thomas<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: which destroys the idea i had with them<br />[13:38] Roni Scarmon: And crotched!<br />[13:38] Bobby Triellis: And a Mature BDSM?<br />[13:38] Thomas Aker: unless you sell them underground Tarl<br />[13:38] Silkie Muir: Mudity that is not sex related is ok for mature<br />[13:38] Tarl Field: they have never been crotchless roni...laugh<br />[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: without heavy sex yes Bobby, we cant have any sex related stuff here<br />[13:39] Silkie Muir: so unless you are having sex while you skydive, its fine according to the linden that posted it<br />[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: but naked we can as we will flag it as mature<br />[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: lmfao<br />[13:39] Happy Hawkeye is Offline<br />[13:39] Roni Scarmon: Mature=nudity & adult=sex?<br />[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: Dark Den will not be flagged as Adult<br />[13:39] Kaddan Yue: why<br />[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: No sex Kaddan<br />[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: lol<br />[13:40] Kaddan Yue: lol<br />[13:40] Silkie Muir: basically and mass murder is probably ok in PG but should be ok in Mature so long as you aren't naked while you do it<br />[13:40] Kaddan Yue: oh then I am a man<br />[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: they are so out of touch<br />[13:40] Roni Scarmon: lol<br />[13:40] Talon Tunwarm: just kidnap and torture<br />[13:40] Thomas Aker: we need to collar LL<br />[13:40] Tarl Field: if sl is 18 + why do they allow kid avatars?<br />[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: ok no sex stuff here then<br />[13:40] Roni Scarmon: Sigh<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: we keep it Mature in a PG style...... but half the land as we have now<br />[13:41] Kaddan Yue: wait<br />[13:41] Talon Tunwarm: bondage is okay?<br />[13:41] Kaddan Yue: does that mean Bull has to close<br />[13:41] Robyn Rossman: Tarl it LL double standards thats why<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: not sex then Talon<br />[13:41] Silkie Muir: probably not<br />[13:41] Tarl Field: if they rate things her as mature what is my classes they are treatign a adutl subject as bdsm...<br />[13:41] Roni Scarmon: Only if you're not enjoyign it<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: YES KADDAN<br />[13:41] John11011967 Karu: wow<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: i was waiting for that<br />[13:41] Kaddan Yue: Great<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: whahahahahah<br />[13:41] John11011967 Karu: hwehehehehe<br />[13:41] Kaddan Yue: sorry<br />[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: lol<br />[13:42] Thomas Aker: hmmm no chance of renting a place in the "adult area" and set up the toys there like the Dungen we had on the island?<br />[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: We will see Thomas.... for now... we dont know<br />[13:42] Talon Tunwarm: bondage toys okay, as long they dont have sex balls?<br />[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: They are not even sure if Gor will be flagged as Adult as it is not explicit sexsual<br />[13:43] Kaddan Yue: So if I had a private Island<br />[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan<br />[13:43] Kaddan Yue: and invited you to have your auctions I could do this<br />[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: Yes Kaddan as long as your land is flagged rightly<br />[13:43] Kaddan Yue: yes it would be<br />[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: but if Gor can stay on Mature<br />[13:43] Tarl Field: excuse me..lol<br />[13:43] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.<br />[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: So will auctions<br />[13:43] Thomas Aker: this is going to be hard on us managers to tell our visiters to stay dressed and no funny stuff<br />[13:43] Tarl Field: gor is 99% about sex...lol<br />[13:44] Kaddan Yue: so that is offer I lend to you<br />[13:44] Constanza Amsterdam: Thank you Kaddan :)<br />[13:44] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.<br />[13:44] Talon Tunwarm: if you need to join a group to visit an island, that would be okay?<br />[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Not if its not flagged Talon<br />[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: okay<br />[13:45] Roni Scarmon: An alternative could be paying for group membership to purchase and maintain land. It wouldn't be "Free" any more, of course.<br />[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Landowners will have to flag land not groups<br />[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: 1L to join would be close<br />[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: i see<br />[13:46] Constanza Amsterdam: So i hope you all understand our way to go and will keep supporting us<br />[13:46] Talon Tunwarm: will do<br />[13:47] Roni Scarmon: Of course<br />[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: if you have any suggestions... please let me know<br />[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: and questions are welcome to<br />[13:47] Thomas Aker: as allways<br />[13:47] Tarl Field: consie i wont disappere<br />[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: We will be working closly with Kaddan and Sir John<br />[13:47] John11011967 Karu: *Smiles*<br />[13:47] Kaddan Yue: excellent<br />[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: For sex... go to Kaddan... oeps<br />[13:47] Thomas Aker: do I have to remove the Collar Ceremoney ?<br />[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: for chitchat... come here<br />[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: No Thomas<br />[13:48] Thomas Aker: yaaa<br />[13:48] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lapa Vella! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: :)<br />[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: any other questions?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-29263340867477715652009-03-08T07:20:00.000+01:002009-03-09T03:45:43.625+01:00Bondage Class - Mar 8 2009[2009/03/05 12:04] Tarl Field: Well lets get started....<br />[2009/03/05 12:04] ciline Panthar smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:04] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:04] Tarl Field: Most people when they hear the word bondage they think its something that would make a women less worthy.<br />[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: Which is the case with all things in bdsm<br />[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: But bondage to me means a loving agreement betwen two adults<br />[2009/03/05 12:05] Teaser Zamani: nods :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: And even if i would call melinda a slut...<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] des Belgar: safe bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: @<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] Tarl Field: She knows its not meant in a evil or demeaning way<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] Tarl Field: yes anax<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: what has calling slut to do with bondage Sir?<br />[2009/03/05 12:06] Melinda Waffle nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:07] Tarl Field: actually it has something to do with bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:07] Garble Translator: FetishSarah Rae said: a<br />[2009/03/05 12:07] des Belgar: Tarl is saying even the words during it maybe harsh but not actual harmfull<br />[2009/03/05 12:07] des Belgar: well i think anyway :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:07] ciline Panthar nods...<br />[2009/03/05 12:08] Tarl Field: exactly just as the physical bondage can be uncomfortable its never meant to do any real harm<br />[2009/03/05 12:08] Tarl Field: But lets start with the more mental bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:09] Tarl Field: So what do i mean by mental bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:09] des Belgar: submission is a form of bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:09] Wild Abbot: how a sub should/must behave<br />[2009/03/05 12:09] Tarl Field: To me its as simple as ordering melinda to wear what i want or maybe ordering her to lay spread eagle in the bed untill i come home<br />[2009/03/05 12:10] Tarl Field: No ropes to hold but her own will to obey the command of her master<br />[2009/03/05 12:10] Teaser Zamani: hi dark :) it worked :) (sorry to interrupt tarl)<br />[2009/03/05 12:11] Tarl Field: no worry teaser<br />[2009/03/05 12:11] Tarl Field: So which do you think is the harder to do. being bound spread eagle with ropes or being mentally ordered to lay there without ropes holding you in place<br />[2009/03/05 12:12] Teaser Zamani: depends moments..interactions...how realtion really is... etc :) (to me)<br />[2009/03/05 12:12] Wild Abbot: the ladder<br />[2009/03/05 12:12] FetishSarah Rae: the ladder<br />[2009/03/05 12:12] Tarl Field: I see all agree to the later about the mental command<br />[2009/03/05 12:12] Tarl Field: Why is that?<br />[2009/03/05 12:13] Wild Abbot: if tied cannot move but control without a rope is will<br />[2009/03/05 12:13] FetishSarah Rae: i think, when you are bound, you have no choice<br />[2009/03/05 12:14] Teaser Zamani: is it true than... if u need a rope (seems weird to me) its an agreement, no ? well its diff for everyone also :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:14] Anaxagoras McMillan: mmmmm yes, inner fight between wanting to stand up, and not want to disapoint<br />[2009/03/05 12:14] Tarl Field: teaser what i want to come to is that mental bondage can be just as real and harsh as the physical<br />[2009/03/05 12:14] des Belgar: of course<br />[2009/03/05 12:14] Teaser Zamani: exactly Tarl... was my point hehe<br />[2009/03/05 12:15] ciline Panthar: Very true Sir.<br />[2009/03/05 12:15] Tarl Field: Also there is another aspect of the mental bondage it is more rewarding for the sub as she has to fight mentaly not to stand up as one of you said.<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] des Belgar: a true submissive gives there heart to do what they Dom/me desires and mental control hurts them just as much because of that<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: I would not say hurt<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: But your right des it demands just as much of them as the physical if not more<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] des Belgar: depends i think some would hurt if they stood<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: But the reward is bigger as well<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] Teaser Zamani: nods@Tarl:)<br />[2009/03/05 12:16] ciline Panthar nods in agreement<br />[2009/03/05 12:17] Tarl Field: Ohh you mean that way des in that case your very correct<br />[2009/03/05 12:17] des Belgar: i can just say from anaxa<br />[2009/03/05 12:17] des Belgar: if she lets me down she hurts more than any whip could hurt her<br />[2009/03/05 12:17] Tarl Field: very true<br />[2009/03/05 12:17] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:18] Tarl Field: Because if a sub fails in the mental bondage they feel they failed themself<br />[2009/03/05 12:18] ciline Panthar sighs softly and nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:18] Tarl Field: welcome pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:18] Anaxagoras McMillan: hi Pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:18] Teaser Zamani: hi Pamela<br />[2009/03/05 12:19] des Belgar: hi pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:19] ciline Panthar: Hi Pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:19] Pamela McNally: hi cline nice to meet you here<br />[2009/03/05 12:19] ciline Panthar grins "Thank you"<br />[2009/03/05 12:20] Domi Galli: Hi all<br />[2009/03/05 12:20] Wild Abbot: Hi Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:20] Tarl Field: Okay besides that a sub will be e´xtra hard on themself with mental bondage...what else should we dominant take into thinking when we give amental command to a sub to stay in a special way<br />[2009/03/05 12:21] Tarl Field: The time aspect<br />[2009/03/05 12:21] Wild Abbot: how uncoferable it would be. like how long<br />[2009/03/05 12:21] Anaxagoras McMillan: mmmmm give a book so its not boring to wait?<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: Dont force them to hold a position overly long<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: lol<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: also must be aware of any reasons medical they shouldnt<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: anax how will you read if your ordered into a spread eagle<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: bad back etc<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] Pamela McNally: hi des<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] Anaxagoras McMillan: ill find a way<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: anaxa reads when im on the job .. lol says a lot for me<br />[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: smiles hi pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Tarl Field: i would like to see that...lol<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Anaxagoras McMillan: lol<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: lol<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Teaser Zamani: lools<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: hi Anax<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] ciline Panthar: LOL sounds familar Anaxa<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: hi Mel<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Tarl Field: but seriously in mental bondage you need to be more aware if the safety and the subs limitations<br />[2009/03/05 12:23] Teaser Zamani: yes<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally: aye<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Wild Abbot nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Tarl Field: And as always safety comes first...<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally listens<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Melinda Waffle looks to Pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:25] Pamela McNally: hi Tarl Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:25] Tarl Field: And to go over to the physical part is easy just look at melinda<br />[2009/03/05 12:25] des Belgar: looks :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:25] Pamela McNally looks and smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:25] ciline Panthar looks and shivers with antisipation<br />[2009/03/05 12:26] Pamela McNally blushes too<br />[2009/03/05 12:26] des Belgar: i would have to say those heels must hurt:)<br />[2009/03/05 12:26] Tarl Field: i bet they does but melinda cant complain<br />[2009/03/05 12:26] des Belgar: she has to trust<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] Tarl Field: and as she cant do anything about her situation she is totally needed on me to keep her safe<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] Tarl Field: Yes and trust is very important even in mental bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] Pamela McNally: yes des trust in SL is as important as it is in rl<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] Teaser Zamani: absoooolutely :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] des Belgar: agreed pam<br />[2009/03/05 12:27] ciline Panthar: Often harder as well<br />[2009/03/05 12:28] Tarl Field: but in physial bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:29] Tarl Field: you need to pay more attention becuse the restraint or ropes will put preasure on the body and might cause bloodflow to not be at the optimal levels<br />[2009/03/05 12:29] Tarl Field: And to be tied in one position to long will cause cramps<br />[2009/03/05 12:29] Pamela McNally nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:30] Teaser Zamani: yes<br />[2009/03/05 12:30] Anaxagoras McMillan: specialy kneeling, looks innocent, but not in RL when kneeling long<br />[2009/03/05 12:30] Tarl Field: And always remember a gag will cause the haw to cramp up as well<br />[2009/03/05 12:30] ciline Panthar nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Tarl Field: jaw<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Pamela McNally: i agree<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Teaser Zamani: y<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Anaxagoras McMillan: ciline gets cramps from talking Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] des Belgar: i agree anaxa<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] ciline Panthar snickers<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Teaser Zamani: lols<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] ciline Panthar: Just I sis?<br />[2009/03/05 12:31] Anaxagoras McMillan: i only have one IM active<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] Tarl Field: i think both ciline and anax gets cramps from talking so maybe a gag would help them from cramping up<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: LOL I know sis<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] Teaser Zamani: tarl loooool<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] Pamela McNally: lol<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: Yes Sir Tarl<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] Anaxagoras McMillan: grins<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline pokes you back<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] des Belgar: behave you 2<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: OMG I didnt do that<br />[2009/03/05 12:32] Pamela McNally loves gags too but knows if she is gagged she can't contribute to the lecture<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] des Belgar: or bondage will be on the menu<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] Anaxagoras McMillan: yes Master<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] Pamela McNally giggles at des<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] Domi Galli: il faudrait que tu consulyes leur journal régulièrement. Mais tu ne le trouveras pas en papeterie<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] ciline Panthar blushes "yes Sir"<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] Domi Galli: hmm, excuse me :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:33] Teaser Zamani: domi tu parle francais la looool<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Tarl Field: well des we both know if you want to tie them up and gag them thats your choice even if they have been good girls<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] ciline Panthar: Mmm<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Pamela McNally loves bondage foirm both sides equally<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Domi Galli: oui; un epu. Juste un conseil pour un ami en difficultés<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] ciline Panthar winks at Anaxa<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Domi Galli: excuse moi<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Tarl Field: and as pam is tied up as well she knows how helpless ropes or in her case scarfs make her feel<br />[2009/03/05 12:34] Anaxagoras McMillan: both your left and right side, Pam?<br />[2009/03/05 12:35] Teaser Zamani: de rien ... bien sure... pkoi :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally: i am a Switch in SL and in RL Anax<br />[2009/03/05 12:35] Anaxagoras McMillan: oh i see<br />[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally: 44 years experience<br />[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally smiles to Tarl<br />[2009/03/05 12:36] Pamela McNally: this is a protottype Tarl Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:36] Pamela McNally: the full set will be available in the near future<br />[2009/03/05 12:36] Tarl Field: so what you should watch out for in physical bondage is preasurepoints and to make sure you dont tie your sub to tightly and cause the bloodflow to become dangerously low...<br />[2009/03/05 12:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: spam!<br />[2009/03/05 12:37] Pamela McNally: very true Tarl Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:37] Pamela McNally: sorry Anax<br />[2009/03/05 12:37] Tarl Field: so if you do short bondage sessions you can tie them in more extreme postions...<br />[2009/03/05 12:37] Anaxagoras McMillan: drools<br />[2009/03/05 12:37] Teaser Zamani: while staying together u mean? right :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:38] Teaser Zamani: keeping an eye<br />[2009/03/05 12:38] Tarl Field: for longer term i recommend something thats equally secure but that will not require the extreme position<br />[2009/03/05 12:38] Pamela McNally nods but loves long term stuff as she is used to bein tied comfy for 3 hours<br />[2009/03/05 12:38] Tarl Field: Of course never leave your sub unguarded<br />[2009/03/05 12:39] Pamela McNally: nods<br />[2009/03/05 12:40] des Belgar: never ever ever<br />[2009/03/05 12:40] Pamela McNally: not even inb SL<br />[2009/03/05 12:40] Tarl Field: well in sl its no physical danger<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] ciline Panthar: Even If they have claws SIr?<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] Tarl Field: but sometimes it can be fun to make the sub try and find you on a sim... smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] Pamela McNally: nods but in SL Tarl Sir i play here lijke i do in rl<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] Teaser Zamani: thats wha ti sortoff ment tarl :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] Teaser Zamani: part of the rp.<br />[2009/03/05 12:41] Pamela McNally smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:42] Tarl Field: exactly<br />[2009/03/05 12:43] Tarl Field: okay what other things then preasure points and blood flow should you look after whent hey are tied with ropes ...<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Wild Abbot: medical and not to be unattended<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Pamela McNally: you look for poossible rope burns numbmenss<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Teaser Zamani: prevening water or a cellphone (but really ) loool<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Pamela McNally: as in nerve damage<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Teaser Zamani: prevenTing<br />[2009/03/05 12:44] Tarl Field: very true<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] FetishSarah Rae: excuse me, i have to leave. thank you... bye<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] Tarl Field: And if they are gagged you must never leave them alone as they can choke on some gags<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] Teaser Zamani: see u sarah.<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] Tarl Field: bye sarah<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] Teaser Zamani: yes Tarl...<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] Pamela McNally: k Sarahyou be well be safe<br />[2009/03/05 12:45] ciline Panthar: And possibly dryness of throat and mouth SIr?<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: i know pam likes layering gags<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: yes cline is what i ment with preventing water :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] ciline Panthar grins at Teaser<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: you could solve the dryness by using a wet cloth...<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: 'gg'<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: But that demands that the sub is used to getting moister that way<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: does that work while being gagged tarl?<br />[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: exactly...<br />[2009/03/05 12:47] Tarl Field: the sub can press the cloth with her tongue and get some water<br />[2009/03/05 12:47] Teaser Zamani: yes<br />[2009/03/05 12:48] Tarl Field: how ever when you do layers you must be extra carefull<br />[2009/03/05 12:48] Tarl Field: as the layers takes longer time to remove<br />[2009/03/05 12:48] Pamela McNally: aye<br />[2009/03/05 12:49] Tarl Field: so any one here that want to tell me what a layered gag can be made off<br />[2009/03/05 12:50] Wild Abbot: more than one gag being put on same place?<br />[2009/03/05 12:50] Tarl Field: true<br />[2009/03/05 12:50] Tarl Field: One way is using one or two pairs on the subs underwear<br />[2009/03/05 12:51] des Belgar: smiles<br />[2009/03/05 12:51] Pamela McNally: when i am gagged in rl my gf uses quick release knots when i am gagged in layers and every 1/2 hour i get some water through a straw as my gf holds the glass<br />[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: and then using a scarf to tie it in place in the mouth<br />[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: and maybe another scarf over that<br />[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: And you can do it as pam said<br />[2009/03/05 12:52] ciline Panthar: A straw works nice SIr<br />[2009/03/05 12:52] Pamela McNally: the packing shouldn't go in 1st<br />[2009/03/05 12:52] Pamela McNally: you wanna use a cleave gag then the packing then the over the mouth scarf gag<br />[2009/03/05 12:53] Tarl Field: thats one way of doing it...<br />[2009/03/05 12:53] Tarl Field: sometimes a gag with the mouth filled is more fun but that also demands more alertness from the dom<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] Anaxagoras McMillan: yes<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] Anaxagoras McMillan: might drool on Master clothes :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] ciline Panthar giggles<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] Tarl Field: Remember bondage is always about safety first<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] Teaser Zamani: nods@Tarl :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:54] ciline Panthar: Especially if they are flashing sis?<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Tarl Field: Als there are som leathe bodybags out there that you can put your girl inside and that will make them helpless for a long period of times..<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Yasmin Heartsdale is Offline<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Teaser Zamani: ps : or for 'your men' ;o)<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Teaser Zamani: grinz<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Pamela McNally: phone<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Anaxagoras McMillan: nice for a nap!<br />[2009/03/05 12:55] Tarl Field: well anax it will be nap where you cant move much,...<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] Teaser Zamani: tarl roooofl<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] Tarl Field: as they are tight and can be made tighter by using the straps sewn in to them... grins<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] Anaxagoras McMillan: smirks, i dont need to move when i nap :)<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: Much like the insane bind?<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: Sir?<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] Tarl Field: yes ciline<br />[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: staight jackets...Sorry SIr I forgot the word<br />[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: So any questions so far...<br />[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: straightjackets works as well<br />[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: even if they allow more movement<br />[2009/03/05 12:58] Anaxagoras McMillan: no question Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:58] ciline Panthar: No Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:58] Wild Abbot: No Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:59] Tarl Field: Okay any questions in general that do not have to do with bondage<br />[2009/03/05 12:59] Anaxagoras McMillan: request Sir<br />[2009/03/05 12:59] Tarl Field: anax?<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] Anaxagoras McMillan: would you like to do a class about limits/ no limits<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] ciline Panthar: Very good sis....<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] Tarl Field: i will read about it and then i can do a class on it yes<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] des Belgar: smiles<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] Wild Abbot: Sir may I speak?<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] des Belgar: anaxa thats like bolting the door after the horse has gone<br />[2009/03/05 13:00] Tarl Field: i know what you mean anax but i would need more info to do a good lecture on it<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Tarl Field: of course wild<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Teaser Zamani: thats wise Tarl.<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Wild Abbot: I have boughht some things and they come out in a box what's with that?<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Wild Abbot: how do i open them Sir?<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Anaxagoras McMillan: not my intention Master<br />[2009/03/05 13:01] Tarl Field: well the box is because most vendors need a box to give you all the items<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: oh ok<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Tarl Field: and you simple place the box on the ground and then right click it and choose open and then you can copy it to the inventory<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: ok thanks alot Sir<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Teaser Zamani: Wild make sure u do that on a sim where u can rezz y box :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: yes<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] Tarl Field: of course teaser a good point<br />[2009/03/05 13:02] ciline Panthar smiles and nods at sis<br />[2009/03/05 13:03] Teaser Zamani: we are so used to it that we forget to mention :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:04] Tarl Field: well thats also a point if i forget something as i am used to doing bdsm a long time let me know because things that i do by automatic thinking might not be clear to you<br />[2009/03/05 13:05] ciline Panthar smiles<br />[2009/03/05 13:05] Tarl Field: i see bdsm in oe way which is not meant that its the only true way. You all have to go your own way and if my lectures help you to make less mistakes i am happy<br />[2009/03/05 13:05] Teaser Zamani: :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: thats all whats it about, share<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] ciline Panthar smiles up at SIr des thinking of what she wrote<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: learn from others<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] Pamela McNally: back<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] Tarl Field: even if me and des seems to think a like we still see diffrently on some things.. and it should be that way<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] ciline Panthar: Very much so sis ....and being true to whom you are<br />[2009/03/05 13:06] Pamela McNally: i swear i am gonna disconnect my phone<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: and always remember no mater how long you done bdsm each new relationship is as startign over in square one...<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] des Belgar: of course tarl you would never catch me in soo much black :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: lol<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] ciline Panthar: Yes Sir Tarl because we as subs are all different<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: des i just like dark colors<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] des Belgar: see we dont think alike always :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] ciline Panthar: Mmmmm black tis my fav color<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: that might be why my drill sergant hated me in the army...lol<br />[2009/03/05 13:07] Teaser Zamani: :o)<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: lmao ciline hate to correct you black isnt a color<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] Teaser Zamani: tarlrooooofl<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: LOL Sir....<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] Tarl Field: but thats another story<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] Teaser Zamani: des = true :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar kisses ciline on the head<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] Pamela McNally: aye and me being 50% Doominant and 50%subby i love both sides and am equally good at both<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: Well I perfer it Sir<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: and then leans down and gives anaxa a huge kiss on her cheek<br />[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: *prefer<br />[2009/03/05 13:09] Anaxagoras McMillan smiles looks at her Master<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: if you dont have any more questions at this time i will end this lecture<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Teaser Zamani: thank you Tarl:)<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Pamela McNally: brb need to let doggies out<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: Thank you for coming<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] des Belgar: thank you Tarl again<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Wild Abbot: thank you Sir<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Anaxagoras McMillan: thank you for your time, great lecture Sir<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] ciline Panthar smiles "Thank you SIr Tarl and tis a pleasure to meet you."<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Teaser Zamani: see u soon, nice to meet you all :)<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Pamela McNally frowns as shje wasn't able to contribute to the discussion like she could<br />[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: Its always fun to try and teach so people can have fun within safety<br />[2009/03/05 13:11] Tarl Field: pam you will make it up next time... smilesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-28810354954150025042009-02-19T23:16:00.000+01:002009-02-19T23:17:16.318+01:00Open Collar Class - Tarl Field - 2/15.2009[11:51] Athaliah Opus watches the lag.. and wonders if we did kill the sim.<br />[11:54] Dylana Wetherby: having lag; is this the class pls?<br />[11:54] Tarl Field: correct this is the class<br />[11:56] Dylana Wetherby: oh, boy..<br />[11:56] Lynette Steamweaver: Do we need to be in RLV?<br />[11:56] Tarl Field: nope...<br />[11:56] Lynette Steamweaver: alright<br />[11:57] Ray McKeenan: I have yet to get that to work.<br />[11:57] Tarl Field: okay i can cover the rlv shortly as well this class<br />[11:58] Ray McKeenan: Thanks<br />[12:01] Tarl Field is Offline<br />[12:01] Athaliah Opus: And we lost the Teacher.<br />[12:01] Melinda Waffle: ouch... teacher crashed<br />[12:01] hibit Spad: lol<br />[12:02] Achron Timeless: so if no one can TP in...<br />[12:02] Melinda Waffle: you will have to do the class athy :)<br />[12:02] Athaliah Opus: Welcome, we will wait to see more people trickle in and see if our teacher will be able to get back.<br />[12:03] Baby Anatra: sir crashed<br />[12:03] Melinda Waffle: true<br />[12:03] hibit Spad: I think this sim is pretty close to maxed out<br />[12:04] Athaliah Opus nods.<br />[12:04] Achron Timeless: and I just about crashed right then<br />[12:05] Athaliah Opus smiles and looks around the room. First off. I just want to say Thank you all for believing in OpenCollar. This group started as a small group of friends who wanted to ?<br />make submission free in SL.<br />[12:05] Baby Anatra: sir is trying to get back in now<br />[12:06] Athaliah Opus: We have additional information on the wiki, which is located at http://opencollar.wikidot.com/start There's the basic how to set up the collar with examples quick guide which is useful for those not familer with collars.<br />[12:07] Baby Anatra: sir can get in the sim is full<br />[12:08] Athaliah Opus nods and understands. "Thank you baby"<br />[12:08] Baby Anatra: yw<br />[12:09] Athaliah Opus: Also, we are starting to get a small staff of "helpslaves" and others that like to help in the OpenCollar Chatter and R&D group. If you have questions, the Chatter group is the first place to go after the wiki.<br />[12:12] Athaliah Opus taps her foot and waits for the teacher.<br />[12:12] Athaliah Opus: Looking over the speed of the sim, it might be a bit awkward to show you how the collar works, as it might be a bit difficult for everyone to see what is happening.<br />[12:12] Baby Anatra: he trying to get back in<br />[12:13] Ray McKeenan: Will class notes be posted on the wiki later?<br />[12:13] Melinda Waffle: ok, he is at least online again<br />[12:13] Athaliah Opus: Yes Ray, all class notes will be on the wiki and in a few locations later.<br />[12:14] Marissa Mistwallow: Who's the teacher?<br />[12:14] Melinda Waffle: Tarl Filed<br />[12:14] Rogue Joubert: will there be a list of locations?<br />[12:14] Melinda Waffle: He crashed and has problems getting back<br />[12:14] Athaliah Opus: While we wait, why don't we take a few quiestions.<br />[12:15] Athaliah Opus: Rogue, which locations?<br />[12:15] Lynette Steamweaver: IS there a way that a sub with a locked collar can get rid of an owner in the case of an 'emergency'?<br />[12:15] Rogue Joubert: you said there would be locations for the class notes...where will those locations be<br />[12:15] Marissa Mistwallow: Lynette: Yes, there's a runaway command.<br />[12:15] Athaliah Opus: Yes Lynette, you can use the "runaway" command.<br />[12:16] Marissa Mistwallow: There has been talk of adding an option to disable it, but so far it cannot be disabled.<br />[12:17] VictoriaRose Amat: Is there a way to remove spy and listener scripts from the collar?<br />[12:17] Athaliah Opus nods. "And always, you can go to the code list, and put in requests, suggestions and bug reports. That is located at http://code.google.com/p/opencollar/issues/list<br />[12:17] Marissa Mistwallow: the spy script won't open any listeners if the spy features are turned off, but yes, you can just delete the script<br />[12:17] Ray McKeenan nods "Good. How does one get the RLV to work? I have it installed as told with the download, but I can't get it to work in here. What am I missing?<br />[12:17] Achron Timeless: wb Tarl<br />[12:17] Melinda Waffle: wb Sir<br />[12:17] Marissa Mistwallow: And if you remove the listener script, the collar won't work at all!<br />[12:18] Tarl Field: finally made it<br />[12:18] Ellyssia Sexton: wb Sir<br />[12:18] Tarl Field: sorry for the delay<br />[12:18] Baby Anatra: WEEEE<br />[12:18] Lynette Steamweaver "welcome back Techer person"<br />[12:18] Baby Anatra: WB sIR<br />[12:18] VictoriaRose Amat: and the collar will work without those two scipts?<br />[12:18] Tarl Field: Shall i take that question athy<br />[12:18] BelleVie Moonites: Nice to see you, Sir.<br />[12:18] Tarl Field: about the rlv<br />[12:19] Athaliah Opus: In case of anyone likes to know, Merissa is usally found at the OpenCollar HQ and is one of the scriptors that works on OpenCollar and is a great one to quiz on the more scripting type of questions.<br />[12:19] Marissa Mistwallow: Well I wouldn't say I'm *usually* at hq...<br />[12:19] Athaliah Opus: Welcome back Tarl. We were just taking a few questions while waiting. Feel free to start when the current questions are cleared up.<br />[12:19] Tarl Field: Rlv installition<br />[12:19] Tarl Field: ONlöy copy and and paste restrainedlife.exe<br />[12:20] Tarl Field: not the xml file<br />[12:20] Athaliah Opus giggles and hands the class to Tarl Sir.<br />[12:20] Ray McKeenan: I did everything the readme said to do.<br />[12:20] Tarl Field: that should work and remember the rlv is not avalible for the releasecandidate<br />[12:20] Melinda Waffle: it is<br />[12:20] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[12:20] Tarl Field: thats the point read me tell you to copy all<br />[12:20] Melinda Waffle: sorry to interrupt<br />[12:20] Tarl Field: Only copy the restrainedlife<br />[12:21] Tarl Field: Thanks athy<br />[12:21] Ray McKeenan: Oh, well I did that already<br />[12:21] Achron Timeless: ok, what if we went ahead and copied the xml file, will there be any problems?<br />[12:21] Tarl Field: as i found out the xml is not needed<br />[12:21] Melinda Waffle: and of course you should start restraindlife.exe instead of secondlife.exe<br />[12:23] Lynette Steamweaver: hehe thank you<br />[12:23] Tarl Field: i hope i am still here<br />[12:23] Trinity Vanmoer: you're welcome ;)<br />[12:23] Tarl Field: sl is being veru laggy<br />[12:24] Melinda Waffle: ray has gone...<br />[12:24] Tarl Field: Okay lets start with the simple things how you start after wearing the collar<br />[12:24] Melinda Waffle: maybe starting the right exe now<br />[12:24] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[12:25] Lynette Steamweaver: can the collar be put on any attachment point?<br />[12:25] Tarl Field: if you choose so yes<br />[12:25] Marissa Mistwallow: yes. As long as you can make it look good there ;)<br />[12:26] Marissa Mistwallow: but if it's below your head, you have to be careful with float text showing up inside your body.<br />[12:26] IM: Marissa Mistwallow: that sounds like a fantastic idea!<br />[12:26] Athaliah Opus giggles. "If it was possible to make it with OpenCollar scripts, it was made. From belts to naughty bits to piercings.<br />[12:26] Melinda Waffle: Teacher crashed again<br />[12:27] Baby Anatra: ON NO<br />[12:27] Athaliah Opus: Oh no.<br />[12:27] Thomas Aker: he will brb<br />[12:27] xam Ock: (( Sim is full ))<br />[12:27] Melinda Waffle: Btw... i am wearing an Open collar earring... so no problem<br />[12:27] Achron Timeless: so in theory I could stick the scripts in damn near anything and it'll work?<br />[12:27] Athaliah Opus: I even have a ring to wear with the scripts.<br />[12:28] Dylana Wetherby: where can we get open collar piercings?<br />[12:28] Lynette Steamweaver: prim hair with open collar scripts : D<br />[12:28] Marissa Mistwallow: I had opencollar scripts in my hair for a while, just to try it<br />[12:28] Achron Timeless: now there's an idea, I'm running out of attachment points<br />[12:28] Marissa Mistwallow: I got tired of having the opencollar menu come up every time I tried to use mouselook.<br />[12:29] Athaliah Opus: We had a few designers release them in the OpenCollar group. But from now on, anyone can release things to the OpenCollar chatter group for other group members.<br />[12:30] Athaliah Opus: Let me look and see who was the designer that did that for you later.<br />[12:30] Athaliah Opus: Catch me in IM after the class for that.<br />[12:30] Dylana Wetherby: ta, I will!<br />[12:30] nathen Ghost: hi all<br />[12:31] nathen Ghost: greetings miss Dylana<br />[12:31] Thomas Aker: greatings Nathen have a seat<br />[12:31] Athaliah Opus: Ok. so RLV features are a fun part of the collar, but its not a required requirement for it. It just adds additional features to it.<br />[12:31] Dylana Wetherby: greetings, Nathen.<br />[12:31] Athaliah Opus: Have a seat Nathen, it will take a few to rez.<br />[12:31] Lynette Steamweaver: RLV is fun^^<br />[12:32] Athaliah Opus: Yes, RLV is great fun. For those that don't know, its the Restrained life viewer.<br />[12:33] xam Ock: Why the open collar menu becomes ineffective after 30 sec?<br />[12:33] Athaliah Opus: It adds additional features to your SL, like making things fun like not being able to unlock things and being locked into postions or kept in one location. There's a ?<br />ton of features added to the collar, and you can find them out by exploring the RLV button on the collar. If your not in RLV ,that button will not let you turn it on.<br />[12:34] Marissa Mistwallow: xam: Because the script stops the listener to save resources.<br />[12:34] Marissa Mistwallow: There's an item on the bug tracker about increasing that limit, so feel free to weigh in.<br />[12:34] Athaliah Opus: That is a current suggestion request. If you feel you want it longer, feel free to add to the code list why you think it needed to be made longer.<br />[12:35] Athaliah Opus: Honestly, a lot of the suggestions that are requested are good ones and are usually added in the next release, depending on the complexity of adding it. But as the ?<br />collar is getting more feature fillled, it will come to a point where something might be better added by your own scripts or we can make a sub project.<br />[12:36] Athaliah Opus: Just like the Cuffs, that is a good subproject that is currently being worked on, it will use the same color setting and textures as the collar.<br />[12:36] Marissa Mistwallow: well in this case it's just a matter of adjusting a constant.<br />[12:36] Achron Timeless: cuffs?<br />[12:36] Rogue Joubert: will updates be sent to us or we have to go to pick up the new updates?<br />[12:37] Athaliah Opus: Currently they are in the alpha stage, but look for cuffs that have a bit more features in the future.<br />[12:37] Marissa Mistwallow whispers: Rogue: Updates are sent to you.<br />[12:37] Athaliah Opus: Updates are sent two ways depending on how the collar designer made it. In place, where its sent to you when you put it on.<br />[12:37] Rogue Joubert: Thank you Marissa<br />[12:37] Marissa Mistwallow: In the form of an updating sphere. You rez your collar and then the sphere updates the scripts.<br />[12:37] Ray McKeenan sits in another chair after coming back from a crash.<br />[12:37] Athaliah Opus: And the other where an updater is sent out.<br />[12:37] One Ferraris: hello My Queen Lu Stand and me have only one prob , to use the RLV folder for clothes , dont work , what we do wrong<br />[12:37] One's translator: hello My Queen Lu Stand and me have only one sample, to use the RLV folder for clothes, dont work, what we do wrong<br />[12:38] Marissa Mistwallow: okay, Athaliah is right. But the official collar does use the updater method.<br />[12:38] Marissa Mistwallow: some send an entire replacement collar.<br />[12:38] mir Homewood: I have the clothes option working on my rlv if you want to im me i can explain how i did it One:)<br />[12:39] Rogue Joubert: so in the future you will be having cuffs?<br />[12:39] Athaliah Opus: The maker of the RLV, marine. (She is a goddess for making it available to everyone) She has a blog in which she tells how to set up the #RLV folder.<br />[12:40] Athaliah Opus: http://realrestraint.blogspot.com/2008/08/objects-sharing-tutorial.html might help you with troubleshooting the RLV folder. If not we can try and help you to troubleshoot it later.<br />[12:40] Athaliah Opus: Yes Rogue, they are in alpha right now. They have been released in the past as simple cuffs with little scripting.<br />[12:40] Rogue Joubert: Thank you<br />[12:41] Achron Timeless: will these cuffs be compatible with any existing cuff system? lockmeister, lockguard..<br />[12:41] Athaliah Opus smiles. "Thanks mir for helping."<br />[12:41] Athaliah Opus: yes, they already work with the lockmeister and lockguard, that is what the previous ones were able to do.<br />[12:42] xam Ock: Hope they will add !xcite too<br />[12:42] Lynette Steamweaver: oooh me too<br />[12:43] Athaliah Opus: Thats something that would be up to !xcite as they do not allow their scripts to be given away in free objects per their licencse.<br />[12:43] Lynette Steamweaver: damn<br />[12:44] xam Ock: !xcite chain anywhere is free as far as I know<br />[12:44] Athaliah Opus: It would be a conflict of the OpenSource licence to include it as they use closed information in their scripts. Its clearly set out in their partner information.<br />[12:44] Marissa Mistwallow: By the way, OpenCollar currently supports LockMeister but not LockGuard.<br />[12:44] Lynette Steamweaver: Aprille Shepherd: There are 81,200 on SL...a new Record as far as I know.<br />Don't think I have seen that in 3 years.<br />It's a good thing...but may also cause issues with bandwidth and use.<br />[12:44] Athaliah Opus: Thanks for correcting me Marissa, I don't know everything.<br />[12:45] Ray McKeenan: Thats to bad<br />[12:45] Marissa Mistwallow: There's an issue on the tracker for LockGuard support. It will probably show up soon, don't worry.<br />[12:45] Marissa Mistwallow: http://code.google.com/p/opencollar/issues/detail?id=182<br />[12:45] Athaliah Opus smiles. ;) I do know a lot, but the best thing is that I know who to send you to for what type of questions and help troubleshoot things.<br />[12:47] Athaliah Opus: Ok, is there features that people are curious about first? I was planning on showing off the badwords feature but I am curious if there was another was was wanted.<br />[12:49] Athaliah Opus: The badwords feature is where you set a word with simple matching. I have mine set up so that everytime I say one word, I get placed into an animation. Mine is underground, which hides me from view. And if you ever make a mistake and your trying your hardest to type out a penance phrase, it might take a few times to get it right. With a creative owner, you can have the collar wearer wagging their rear like a dog, or the default of being shocked and throwing a tantrum.<br />[12:50] Athaliah Opus: Its all up to the owner to set what they would like done. I know one person that set up the penance phrase as "My Master is God of the world and humblily beg at His feet for forgiveness" to one that had it set at "Uncle".<br />[12:50] Rogue Joubert: ah...btw that position underground.....how do you undo it.....I had my pet underground and didnt know how to undo it?<br />[12:51] Marissa Mistwallow: use the command "release"<br />[12:51] Marissa Mistwallow: it ends animations.<br />[12:51] Athaliah Opus: Ahh, Rogue, the collar wearer would need to type out the penance phrase. Its set by default to "Pet is very sorry for her mistake".<br />[12:51] Rogue Joubert: ok thank you<br />[12:51] Athaliah Opus: Also release does kill the animation.<br />[12:52] Rogue Joubert: yea I know I can do that but dont you have to click on the collar first? I couldnt get to the collar cause they were underground<br />[12:52] Marissa Mistwallow: just type "xxrelease", where xx is the sub's initials.<br />[12:52] Marissa Mistwallow: so for me, it would be "mmrelease".<br />[12:52] Rogue Joubert: ok thank you<br />[12:52] Achron Timeless: initials and menu, like atmenu for me will bring up the menu as well<br />[12:52] Athaliah Opus: Also, there is a few ways to get the collar menu up. Just type the prefix and the comman menu<br />[12:53] Athaliah Opus: er command "menu"<br />[12:53] Marissa Mistwallow: And the guide you can get from the opencollar has a nearly complete list of commands, if you like reading.<br />[12:53] Rogue Joubert: so then when you want to do any command you can use the initals in chat right?<br />[12:53] Athaliah Opus: A third way is to use an owner's hud. which you can get in the group notices.<br />[12:53] Lynette Steamweaver: lasmenu<br />[12:53] Athaliah Opus: Correct.<br />[12:53] Lynette Steamweaver: lsmenu<br />[12:53] Rogue Joubert: thank you<br />[12:54] Athaliah Opus: Another useful thing if you don't want people to see that your typing "aomenu" all the time, is channels. The defult is 1, but you can set the collar to use another. So you can type "/9aomenu" and that would send the command to the 9 channel and have the menu not show in open chat.<br />[12:55] Athaliah Opus: But to do that, you need to tell the collar first to listen to that channel by using the channel command.<br />[12:55] Athaliah Opus: Does that make sense?<br />[12:56] Athaliah Opus: Some fun things, the hug, subhug and kiss commands. The owner can command the collar wearer to hug/subhug/kiss another at their whim.<br />[12:57] Athaliah Opus: So If I was on Baby's collar as an owner, I could command her to hug Marissa by typing the command "bahug mar"<br />[12:58] Athaliah Opus: Just need a few letters of the name for it to ask the person. Don't worry it will tell you if it can't tell who to to hug.<br />[12:58] Melinda Waffle: want to show athy?<br />[12:58] Athaliah Opus: It will then ask the person to be hugged if they want to be hugged, with a "yes or "no".<br />[12:58] Athaliah Opus: Sure.<br />[12:59] Melinda Waffle: moment<br />[12:59] Athaliah Opus: I'm sure that Tarl had a lot of things to show off like this using you two. ;)<br />[12:59] Melinda Waffle: lol<br />[12:59] Athaliah Opus: mwhug mar<br />[12:59] Melinda Waffle: ok athy...you are secowner now<br />[13:00] Earring Large Silver Hoop - left ear: Marissa Mistwallow did not accept your hug.<br />[13:00] Melinda gives Marissa a big hug.<br />[13:00] Melinda Waffle: mmmmmmm<br />[13:00] mir Homewood: whenever i try to hug it says the person can not be found, i am typing the whole name is that wrong?<br />[13:00] Melinda Waffle: and no way to avoid it<br />[13:00] Marissa Mistwallow giggles, because she is hugging a mist ball<br />[13:00] Marissa Mistwallow: Ah, thank you. Now I can see you.<br />[13:00] Melinda Waffle: yw<br />[13:01] Melinda Waffle: and thx for the hug<br />[13:01] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:01] Athaliah Opus: mir, we can troubleshoot why its not working with you afterwards if you'd like. But it could be that the collar just does not see the person nearby.<br />[13:01] mir Homewood: thank you<br />[13:01] Marissa Mistwallow smiles<br />[13:01] Lynette Steamweaver: does the person to be hugged have to be in a range of say 20M or 10M?<br />[13:01] Athaliah Opus: Also, you can add extra poses to the collars. Just drop in the pose and use it like a command.<br />[13:02] Lynette Steamweaver: how do you add the posses and the commands?<br />[13:02] Athaliah Opus: The poses you just dropthe collar on the group and drag and drop them inside the collar.<br />[13:02] Rogue Joubert: just drop the poses into the collar in the content tab?<br />[13:03] Marissa Mistwallow: yes, that's it.<br />[13:03] Baby Anatra: i will see you all taters have to get going<br />[13:03] Rogue Joubert: and then to use them you use their initials and the name of the pose?<br />[13:03] Athaliah Opus: yes. Then the command is the name of the pose. So if you drop the pose "bunnyhop" just type the prefix and the command. So for me it would be "aobunnyhop"<br />[13:03] Melinda Waffle: cu sissy<br />[13:03] Lynette Steamweaver: ooooh cool<br />[13:03] Athaliah Opus: Bye baby, say hi to Tarl when he gets back for me.<br />[13:04] Baby Anatra: i sure will<br />[13:04] Rogue Joubert: LOL Athaliah you and I are on the same wave length ;)<br />[13:04] Thomas Aker: be well Baby<br />[13:04] Athaliah Opus: The last thing that I want to talk about is the sub AO. Its a Zhao2 Animation override which has been modified to work with the collar. So if the owner tells the collar wearer to kneel, you kneel.<br />[13:05] Athaliah Opus: With some of the AOs, you have to run to click them off when a command is given. This makes it so you can have them work together. And you can use them with all of the colllars, so you can wear a glow collar one day and the steel collar the next and not have to change things.<br />[13:06] Athaliah Opus: We also have a pony and crawl notecards set up in it as well for when needed. ;). <br />[13:07] Melinda Waffle: but this one i wont show right now<br />[13:07] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:07] Athaliah Opus: If your familer with editing AOs, its is the same to add your own custom stands and animations. I don't recommend it for those that don't have some experiance with setting up AOs unless they are patiant.<br />[13:07] mir Homewood: where do we get the Zhao2 animation override and does it work for male subs<br />[13:08] Athaliah Opus: Its at the HQ and in the multivendors around the grid. The picture looks like two white dots, and its a HUD to put on your screen, just like every other AO out there.<br />[13:08] Athaliah Opus: Yes, there is even a male notecard with some simple male anims in it.<br />[13:08] mir Homewood: thank you<br />[13:08] Athaliah Opus: So your male subs won't look too feminine. ;)<br />[13:09] Achron Timeless: unless desired of course ^.^<br />[13:09] mir Homewood: i know i hate swaying too much when i walk<br />[13:09] Athaliah Opus: of course!<br />[13:09] Athaliah Opus: Ok, what other areas did I miss? (waits for questions)<br />[13:09] Athaliah Opus: mwcutie<br />[13:09] Melinda Waffle: lol<br />[13:09] Athaliah Opus: Sorry, had to show off my favorite pose. ;)<br />[13:10] Melinda Waffle: maybe owner system?<br />[13:10] Rogue Joubert: yea but that may not be a bad thing LOL<br />[13:10] Athaliah Opus: Do you mean the Owner Hud melinda?<br />[13:10] Ray McKeenan: I would like to hear about the owner hud.<br />[13:10] Melinda Waffle: no... owners and secowners<br />[13:10] Melinda Waffle: or did i miss something<br />[13:10] Melinda Waffle: mwrelease<br />[13:10] Melinda Waffle: as i am still the owner i can release myself<br />[13:11] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:11] Athaliah Opus points out to you htat melinda is wearing an AO.. as she stood back up, or released herself.<br />[13:12] VictoriaRose Amat: can you make yourself a second owner while you still own the collar<br />[13:12] Athaliah Opus: In OpenCollar you can only have one owner. multiple second owners.. Or you can have a group set with secowner permissions. Personally I have my collar set up with me as the owner and others with second owner, but that is because I am weird and have to troubleshoot things.<br />[13:12] Athaliah Opus: Yes, you can set yourself secondowner when you first get it, while you have owner permissions and then set the owner to another.<br />[13:13] VictoriaRose Amat: great thank you<br />[13:13] Athaliah Opus: But the new owner, can always go and remove the sec owners, very easy to do.<br />[13:13] VictoriaRose Amat: ok understood<br />[13:13] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Dylana Wetherby! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.<br />[13:13] Melinda Waffle: i usually let my subs to be secowner<br />[13:13] Melinda Waffle: so they can use the poses<br />[13:13] Athaliah Opus: And onto that, we have a new feature with the 3.101 release called OpenAccess. Where anyone in the room can have limited funtions on the collar as long as its set open by the owner..<br />[13:14] VictoriaRose Amat: generous of you<br />[13:14] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:14] Melinda Waffle: but owner always tops secowner<br />[13:14] Marissa Mistwallow: but then they can also turn off rlv restrictions!<br />[13:15] Athaliah Opus: I have mine set up for that a lot at HQ.. I have found out that there is a large amout of owners that like to use wildcards to leash... I find this out by them getting ?<br />an extra, Me!<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: really... never mentioned<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: lol... happens<br />[13:15] Athaliah Opus: Marissa, it depends on if they are set as Owner or second owner if they can turn off RLV funtions.<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: i thougt so also<br />[13:15] Marissa Mistwallow: By the way, the command for that is "*grab"<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: only owners are able<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: secowners not<br />[13:15] Melinda Waffle: but not sure about<br />[13:16] Melinda Waffle: maybe try it out athy<br />[13:16] Melinda Waffle: *grab<br />[13:16] Melinda Waffle: noone with opened collar in here<br />[13:16] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:16] OpenCollar - 3.101: Open access set.<br />[13:17] Athaliah Opus: Try again. OpenAccess only with me as my owner on the collar<br />[13:17] Melinda Waffle: *grab<br />[13:17] Melinda Waffle: *unleash<br />[13:17] Marissa Mistwallow: I just set openaccess, so it should work now<br />[13:18] Melinda Waffle: *grab<br />[13:18] Rogue Joubert: so that is openaccess where anyone can grab and unleash<br />[13:18] Athaliah Opus: yes, and if they have RLV on.. a lot more.<br />[13:18] Rogue Joubert: ok<br />[13:18] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:18] Melinda Waffle: seems not to work marissa<br />[13:18] Rogue Joubert: and they dont have to be listed as seond owners<br />[13:19] Melinda Waffle: aounleash<br />[13:19] Athaliah Opus: Correct Rogue.<br />[13:19] Athaliah Opus: Ok, any more questions?<br />[13:19] Ellyssia Sexton: i got a question about rlv if i am out in public can anyone undress me if they are capable?<br />[13:20] Marissa Mistwallow: mmmenu<br />[13:20] Marissa Mistwallow: I don't think my collar is even working!<br />[13:20] Athaliah Opus: Yes they can, if you have them set in your collar, or if you have OpenAccess set. They cannot touch your collar if not.<br />[13:20] Marissa Mistwallow: oh, it is, it's just being very laggy<br />[13:20] Melinda Waffle: or if wearing an auto accept relais<br />[13:20] Athaliah Opus nods to marissa, as it might not be because of the lag.<br />[13:20] Ray McKeenan: I crashed just when the teacher was talking about the RLV and installing it right. What did I miss?<br />[13:21] Ellyssia Sexton: ok so only my Master can than<br />[13:21] Athaliah Opus: Hi Ray. We will post this on the wiki for later.<br />[13:21] Dylana Wetherby: me, too!<br />[13:21] Dylana Wetherby: yay!<br />[13:21] Ray McKeenan: Ok, good. Thank you.<br />[13:22] Athaliah Opus: And next time I think we are going to have to figure out a way to have it at several locations at once, or just make it all by notecards because of the intrest.<br />[13:22] Ray McKeenan: I nearly lagged out trying to get in here.<br />[13:22] Athaliah Opus: But I do believe that I will be having a Owner Hud class soon, as it is something that a lot of people are intrested in because of the force TP feature that is possible ?<br />with RLV.<br />[13:23] Melinda Waffle: its great<br />[13:23] Melinda Waffle smiles<br />[13:24] Athaliah Opus: Sorry about that. Underestimated the response as I didn't want to send too many notices about it to the group. Obviously a lot of people wanted to know more.<br />[13:25] Athaliah Opus: So, no more questions except for the ones after the classs. If you do have more questions, check the wiki first, then the Chatter group for questions. And if not. come ?<br />to the HQs and look for someone with the tags over their heads to help. And if that fails. I can help by IMs.<br />[13:25] Melinda Waffle: so will i... as far as i can<br />[13:25] mir Homewood: thanks so much for the invaluable information today!<br />[13:25] Athaliah Opus smiles.<br />[13:26] Lillith Surtees: ty very much athalia and all the other helpfull misses :)<br />[13:26] Rogue Joubert: yes thank you'<br />[13:26] Thomas Aker: ty Melinda<br />[13:26] Melinda Waffle: yw<br />[13:26] Athaliah Opus: I'm sure that Tarl had a lovely class planned out, but due to SL issues, things happens. Glad that I was here as well for backup, and that we didn't have to cancel.<br />[13:26] Mandy Karu: Yes thank you so much<br />[13:27] Athaliah Opus laughs as she finds herself in someones lap. "Time to turn off OpenAccess, I think.. "<br />[13:27] Melinda Waffle: seems now it gets funny<br />[13:27] Athaliah Opus: aorelease<br />[13:27] Ray McKeenan: Yea, I'm glad for that,<br />[13:27] Trinity Vanmoer: :)<br />[13:27] Athaliah Opus: aounleash<br />[13:27] Trinity Vanmoer: ahh - the power of scripting :)<br />[13:27] Dylana Wetherby: ty so very much!<br />[13:27] Athaliah Opus laughs. "habit there. ;_)<br />[13:28] Athaliah Opus is going to go afk for 2 minutes to grab the text of the log.<br />[13:29] Lillith Surtees: bye @ all, have a nice week :)<br />[13:29] Athaliah Opus: Class is over. I've always wanted to say that!<br /><br /><br />Also, there is one piece of information. I forgot to mention that the collar wearer is always able to stop any anims or restictions at any time by using the safeword command. Its set to the word "safeword" by default, and does inform the owner when used.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-89423682510691120272009-02-12T13:02:00.004+01:002009-02-12T13:04:19.702+01:00February's Comic<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjR9n3o_Mrvg92DlOHVwUaGsYb-9pR1z67XEpZUgIomNtss90K3U4tSmqs0QvxjngBCt04WSadIMZc1We_y2B5iOmKU5fA0M3Kvi0nDXftFX8XrjHHS0zzOI9bfwCFuNg3sOQyVJxnhynE/s1600-h/Latex+station+comic+feb.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 100px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjR9n3o_Mrvg92DlOHVwUaGsYb-9pR1z67XEpZUgIomNtss90K3U4tSmqs0QvxjngBCt04WSadIMZc1We_y2B5iOmKU5fA0M3Kvi0nDXftFX8XrjHHS0zzOI9bfwCFuNg3sOQyVJxnhynE/s400/Latex+station+comic+feb.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301880503581613730" border="0" /></a>Constanza Amsterdamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03107085321702114984noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-76866656236219648852009-01-22T19:42:00.005+01:002009-02-24T11:43:30.675+01:00Updated - EventsThursday (22nd Jan) - BDSM class, exploring bondage, physical, mental and safety both in rl and sl by Tarl Feild. Time: 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room<br /><br /><br /><br />Friday (23rd Jan) - Real Restraint class, by Tarl Feild. Time: 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room<br /><br /><br /><br />Saturday (24th Jan) - A school themed dance party! Contests are: Best for Schoolgirl/schoolboy; Best for teachers. Time: 12pm - 3pm SLT @ Hard Restraint Cafe. DJ Wild is spinning the tunes! Best BDSM Club in SL!<br /><br /><br /><br />Monday (26th Jan) - BDSM Open Discussion, by Cazzy Hax. Topic to be discussed is what are labels in BDSM and what they mean to you. Time: 12.30pm SLT @ Hard Restraint Cafe.<br /><br /><br /><br /><strong><em>If you have any idea or suggestions for a new event or a new class, please send a notecard to Constanza Amsterdam in-world. Thank you!</em></strong>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-59627103419815097072009-01-20T16:42:00.007+01:002009-02-24T11:42:35.701+01:00<div align="left">Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 3 – 12th January to 18th January 2009</div><div align="left">for BDSM-Life<br /></div><div align="left">Welcome to the Weekly Kinky Newsletter for BDSM-Life!<br /></div><div align="left">In this newsletter:<br /></div><div align="left">1. Last Saturday's party</div><div align="left">2. Photo Contest</div><div align="left">3. Stores' Spotlight</div><div align="left">4. Personal Ads </div><div align="left">5. Events @ BDSM-Life</div><div align="left">6. In other news...</div><div align="left">_______________________________________________<br /></div><strong></strong><div align="left"><strong>1. Last Saturday's class by Roni Scarmon</strong></div><div align="left"><br />The theme of BDSM-Life's Saturday party in the Hard Restraint Cafe last week was Best in Silks or Latex. Constanza Amsterdam generously donated the contest prizes from Eye-Catcher's original collection of silks and shoes. Our beautiful and sexy hostess was Cazzy who was wearing the Eye-Catcher's mint green Zodiac Libra Silks, once again pulled things off without a hitch, unlike my attempt to host a certain Christmas party which will never be mentioned again. All in all, it was a rousing success (or should that be arousing?)</div><div align="left"><br />Qudex Coronet spun platters, or MP3s, or whatever it is he does to keep the tunes going. Most of the BDSM regulars were also in attendance, but they are referenced below by first name only to protect the innocent (as if any of us are innocent!)<br /></div><div align="left"><u>Winners for Best in Latex:<br /></u></div><u></u><div align="left">Tarl, dressed smartly in a white latex toga, took first place, maintaining his amazing record breaking winning streak dating all the way back to 1974. He requested a pair of Eye-Catcher's new fetish ballet boots, although he refused to model them, claiming they were for Melinda, instead. In second place was Chastity, who received a pair of Eye-Catcher's sexy new Zodiac Capricorn Silks. Athaliah came in third place, claiming a pair of the new ballet boots in blue for herself. </div><div align="left"><br /><u>Winners for Best in Silks:<br /></u></div><u></u><div align="left">Given the number of ties in the Silks category, voters were clearly as divided about the silk wearers as American voters in the last several Presidential elections. </div><div align="left"><br />There was a three way tie for first place, between Baby, Kore, and Shiva. Baby, wearing a beautiful set of white Solstice silks, won Eye-Catcher's pink Rahana silks. Kore, dressed in stunning red Solange Goddess Silks, took a set of the Zodiac Scorpio silks as her prize, and Shiva, wearing Fannie Parkins stunning chain silks (!), won a multi-color pack of Eye-Catcher's Mariposa collection. </div><div align="left"><br />A two way tie for second place included Amandy and Roni. Amandy, dressed in sexy set of green Analise Seafoam silks, claimed Zodiac Scorpio silks as her prize. Roni, in an apparent attempt to influence the judges, wore a set of the Zodiac Virgo silks already, and forfeit her prize choice as a result. Zibber Lemon took third place in Analise's Gossamer Silks, and won a pair of the red ballet boots.<br /></div><div align="left">Congratulations to all of the winners! Be sure to see the pictures below. And I hope to see you all again at the next BDSM party!<br /><br /></div><div align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293409805092974114" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; width: 424px; height: 186px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMsIDY6b8kUI9-hyOXXvoP0e9TS5IepZp6VJdP7ev-nWJePXhVJ2_KUew3pZAePfNg91f9pIsN8mCY-1ZfapueWLgo99cuwJ0Q0BOEyTHMKUU74dtiWEw4KdE7GCfR77IGAlnJU0VC0cY/s320/002.jpg" border="0" /><em>Whips came out at one point but rumors of a rumble were quickly quashed </em></div><div align="center"><em>and violence was virtually avoided. </em></div><div align="center"><br /><br /></div><div align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293407550955772098" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; width: 320px; height: 184px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOkjxA1XEvB8Q8TKRqdcGnMzv-ZzHhWjYajhLetDrm7CmagPq7GcSjfJfZOCGnOzNxH_K0g6bHIeZBEyJMJi_xFZYUgT69HfLZjOtU4XmWSRzE-SityoFQh9vebTD5gkcRF_Kzaon6CPs/s320/010.jpg" border="0" /> <em>Consie in her Zodiac Aquarius silk and matching ballet boots and Shiva in chain silks are dancing up a storm here! </em></div><div align="center"><em></em><br /><br /></div><div align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293409813006257186" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; width: 441px; height: 219px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpyfvVBt2dal2z22iLivl3lDJc5XDEOu2yVUIZufZiCU4b2uEXzkJcaJpHAww2f33ClDJURitWB7Z6NPQoPT27DBKU_I7b5_BeTTwE1vKESMfnTNGeAGfSgNndAUE8DIadG7DmgYIbJI0/s320/012.jpg" border="0" /><em>It's easy to see in this photo how Kore captured first place!</em><br /><br /></div><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293407558388523922" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; width: 382px; height: 180px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjrZP630qbebG0143DXIsXAED4P85ofeLSL_frDgWF8IZC6BL5mG8BReEhxzFCu2Rev1QrzhQLfQQmzHE-pjVUXnnyCydIBULOTuW2X9gIzDjWwQML30YzZZztPwaZ-_TA8rvCfFQU3Xwc/s320/016.jpg" border="0" /> <p align="center"> <em>Amandy amazed all as always from her pole! </em><br /><br /></p><em></em><p align="center"><br /></p><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293407562357341650" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; width: 366px; height: 206px; text-align: center;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhEt43twqLZSoXHyJ0SDGgqTVv40jehFvmno0QATy_gGyoOCAjlEoWWO8KRvsYu2_xs3I4xX2P3IZc1godPfWbBVxsr8zvmE4kbPSjo88JWuM-Y9V1NkmHywCTl1dyno9aAJIeazwidjeo/s320/005.jpg" border="0" /> <p align="center"> <em>And here's Hornet and yours truly, spinning away on our heads!</em><br /><br /><br /><br /></p><p align="left"><em>_______________________________________________</em><br /><br /><strong>2. Photo Contest</strong></p>We still have plenty of spaces on both boards for people to enter!<br /><br />$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!<br /><br />Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest!<br /><br />And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?<br /><br />The Photo Contest will run from now to March.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><strong></strong><br /><br /><strong>3. Stores' Spotlight</strong><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXh_1PngJlCPzIennrxhn05v9H83t9G0Fnber25ajHJGGOtsR4j2CXUpBTa9T5zeTVy2Q4_gXNSXroyVVzaePv_tvoSYwtGUqhuYHQ4oDRFW_1WgFWxe0NbgncAoFR6TXiqcObptjwQ_A/s1600-h/Open+Collar.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293411025294344482" style="margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; float: left; width: 316px; height: 189px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXh_1PngJlCPzIennrxhn05v9H83t9G0Fnber25ajHJGGOtsR4j2CXUpBTa9T5zeTVy2Q4_gXNSXroyVVzaePv_tvoSYwtGUqhuYHQ4oDRFW_1WgFWxe0NbgncAoFR6TXiqcObptjwQ_A/s320/Open+Collar.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br />A new stall opening at BDSM-Life is Open Collar.<br />OpenCollar provides a free, high quality BDSM collar with open source scripts. There are some sexy collars you can give to your submissive and they will be proud to wear your collar. :-)<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />And a new jewellery store opening called Alyssa Bijoux have just opened with<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFckpFzLvicuAQ6KWEc5cvTev2aNwz8Saq6djCuigkA1Oqyo7k_sxkm9gjKcCwwkAYuby7Y4TlNiarStor-o8OnsWCSAJZkF9TI8ehbKKvr3un7cGdAYQI_-h3BVmLuSn7eg8k0bHX4_0/s1600-h/Alyssa+Bijoux.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5293411379803842450" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 221px; height: 155px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFckpFzLvicuAQ6KWEc5cvTev2aNwz8Saq6djCuigkA1Oqyo7k_sxkm9gjKcCwwkAYuby7Y4TlNiarStor-o8OnsWCSAJZkF9TI8ehbKKvr3un7cGdAYQI_-h3BVmLuSn7eg8k0bHX4_0/s320/Alyssa+Bijoux.jpg" border="0" /></a> a attractive, different and beautiful jewellery and offers a bit of something for everyone. At BDSM-Life, there is a range of different necklaces, from 'pet' to 'kajura', there is something for every submissive to have a necklace which means something special to them. But if you do not want to have a 'kinky' necklace, they also offer conventional necklaces to the more daring body piercing. However if you do not find something you wanted, you can IM Alyssa as she does do custom work.<br /><br />______________________________________________<br /><strong></strong><br /><strong>4. Personal Ads</strong><br /><br />We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.<br /><br />Please either IM or send a notecard to Cazzy Hax to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.<br /><br />What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master! _______________________________________________<br /><br /><strong>5. Events @ BDSM-Life</strong><br /><br />There are several of events happening at BDSM-Life.<br /><br />Tuesday – no events<br />Wednesday - no events<br /><br />Thursday - BDSM class by Tarl Field Time: 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room*<br /><br />Friday - Real Restraints class by Tarl Field. Time 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room*<br /><br />Saturday - Dance event - ususally will have a theme and will have two contests for best costumes. DJ Quadex will be spinning the discs! Time 12pm - 3pm @ Hard Restraint Cafe*<br /><br /><strong><em>The BDSM-Life slave auctions will be back, and bigger for the better! It will be back on January 31st Saturday @ 3pm SLT. More details coming in the next issue!</em></strong><br /><br />*We will update the blog website during the week for events. Thank you.<br /><br />If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam.<br />If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.<br />_______________________________________________<br /><strong></strong><br /><strong>6. In other news.......</strong><br /><br />Some exciting news.......in the next two issues, you will see some exciitng things happening in the newsletter and at BDSM-Life. There will be a competition for the readers of BDSM-Life, and in place of Stores' Spotlight, there will be a new feature for the stores! :-) So, watch this space!<br />_______________________________________________<br /><br />The next issue will be next week. In the next issue, an article on the BDSM-Life slave auctions and what you can expect from it. We will also explain about some new features coming up for the newsletter. :-) Keep an eye out!<br /><br />Past issues are at <a href="http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/">http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/</a> in case if you have missed the last issues of the newsletter.<br /><br />We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-) Spread the word!<br /><br />We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter!<br />And any comments!<br />Send a notecard to Cazzy Hax!<br />Thank you!<br /><br />Blog: <a href="http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/">http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/</a><br />Pictures by Cazzy Hax and Roni Scarmon<br />Words by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam and Roni Scarmon<br />Copyright @ BDSM-LifeUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9003144915947203960.post-18646178103619101052009-01-14T13:09:00.005+01:002009-02-24T11:43:50.213+01:00Events & news *updated 17/1/09*<strong>Events @ BDSM-Life</strong><br /><br />Thursday 15th January - a BDSM class, topic is Submission and Domination, by Tarl Field. Starts at 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room<br /><br />Friday 16th January - a Real Restraint class, topic is rlv folder and the rlv viewer, by Tarl Field. Starts at 12pm SLT @ Lecture Room<br /><br /><strong>Saturday 17th January</strong> - a fun party at Hard Restraint club. Silks & Shoes By Eye-Catcher is sponsoring this event! Enter the contest for Best in Silks and you will get a chance to win her Sexy and great looking outfits. Many promotional items to give-away too! Do not miss this event! Live DJ Qudex is spinning his tunes as the sexy dancers dazzel you into dancing.<br />Contest starts at 12pm and ends at 3pm SLT<br /><br /><strong>Other news....</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />BDSM-Life have a new store opening this week: AlleyCat Studio. More details in the next issue.<br /><br />We welcome any ideas or suggestions, please send a notecard to Cazzy Hax, in-world.<br /><br />We also welcome any comments! :-)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0