Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 11 Mar 30-Apr 5

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Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue Mar 22-Mar 28

Newsletter for BDSM-Life!

In this newsletter:

1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair
2. Highlighted Store - Princess Reform School
3. Bondage Awards
4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner
5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions
6. Photo Contest
7. Classifieds and Personal Ads
8. Events @ BDSM-Life
9. In other news.....
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1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair

March 23rd was the last day of the Relay for Life Clothing Fair. 170+ vendors spread out over 9 sims raised almost $4 million Lindens to fund cancer research. During the week, there were treasure hunts, live entertainment, music, fashion shows galore and auctions.

Constanza Amsterdam spent weeks preparing for the event, creating 300 unique fashion items including special RLF silks. She temporarily ran a shop out of RLF sim 4 during the week of the event.

Your support was greatly appreciated. We look forward to seing you at the 2010 Relay for Life!
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2. Store Highlight - Princess Reform School

Cazzy, Hornet and I had the great pleasure of meeting Professor Sadovyncha last Wednesday evening. He is the Headmaster of Princess Reform School, which sells school role playing toys and other stuff. The Professor is something of a Second Life renaissance man, having built, scripted, and animated all of PRS's merchandise. Playing with his toys was like being back in high school again, but a lot more fun!

Here I am in detention, as always! lol The school desk is a must for any naughty schoolgirl's learning environment. Stocked with 11 unique animations, and complete with a poseball for Teacher (disguised as a pink pencil box), it has all you need to show that you're "Hot for Teacher"! It also comes with two spankies the student may activate to let out a yelp or gasp when being spanked. The school desk sells for $500L normally, but the good Professor has marked it down to only $200L in his BDSM-Life store.

Sometimes writing punishment lines is the best thing for a naughty schoolgirl! The chalkboard comes with a pose ball where a she may be foprced to stand stand and write out her punishment over and over again. Click the blackboard to change the text displayed. The chalkboard is only $200L.

PRS's teacher's desk may be used for so much more than grading papers! Guaranteed to get the teacher's attention with six fantastic animations: wiggle, bend over, fuck, fuck slow, and fuck fast 1 & 2. The Teacher's desk and student stool combined are $200L.

But the best deal on the school room collection is to buy the boxed set. You get eveything listed above PLUS a punishment pose ball, classroom set, copiable school desk so you can fill a classroom, and other accessories. The school box set is a bargain at $999L!

In addition to the classroom set, the Professor has constructed a locker room and shower area where students can earn physical education credits. lol Six delicious animations can be viewed by clicking the lockers after sitting. The bench and showers have several poses. And there're towels to snap at bare tushes and a funny "Ouch!" animation is provided for the victim. The locker room and shower set is only $600L.


Leaving the classroom, Professor Sadovyncha demonstrates to Cazzy his whip and humbling post. The whip is made of 6 prims, three in the handle and three jointed connections. The overhead snapping animation is activate by clicking the mouse, and comses with a very realistic over head animation. It also makes a very satisfying crack! The whip is only $100L.

The Humbling Post does not require Lockmeister restraints, but wear a set before attaching to the post to see a chain between the post and slave. The Whipping post comes with 12 of the Professor's amazing animations including; loose bind (which Cazzy is demonstrating in the picutre above), suck & fucked, of course, plus wiggle ass, puppy beg, masturbate, and several others that just have to be seen to be believed. The Humbling Post is $500L.

   

Princess Reform School sells an eclectic collection of other unique goodies that simply have to be seen to be believed! Neko avis will love the Neko Crack set, complete with goldfish bowl and animations for only $100L. The RPS switch suit with the Professor's patented "mixed messages" belt is a hoot, for $200L. Get the sexy shower set with male and female poseballs containing 9 interactive animations each, soap and bubbles, and climactic sound effects for $300L. The Blush Gem is an animation override with bashful sit, stand and walk animations for the shy sub. It's just $100L! PRS has so many other unique products there just isn't enough time or room to mentione them all here.


So, come meet Professor Sadovyncha, on Wednesday, March 25, from 4 to 6 PM SLT, at his store in the BDSM Life sim. He will rez some of his awesome creations on the common area outside his shop so you can try them for yourself. And the Professor will be handing out free PRS Whore Gags to everyone who drops by on Wednesday. Hope to see you there!
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3. Bondage Awards Update

Voting in stage one of the Bondage Awards has closed. Over 22,000 votes were recorded during the week the polls were open, 9,000 more than last year!

Votes will be tallied for the next week. Then those nominees who received 10 or more votes will be listed as candidates for stage two. BDSM-Life will surely be listed as one of the Free Web Sites, as I must have voted 10 times all by myself, at least!

Stage two voting begins at midnight on March 29th. Be sure to return to the Bondage Awards site then to express your support for BDSM-Life. Vote early and vote often! lol

Click here to open the Bondage Awards main page

Click here to visit the BDSM-Life web site and create yoru free profile

Well, what are you waiting for? Sign up now and meet all the great folks who are just waiting to meet you!

We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.

Thanks for your support!!!
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4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner

Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.
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5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)

With yet another full sim in attendance, there was a distinctly european feel to this weeks auction at BDSM Life. There were two slaves up for auction both speaking French as their main language. The allure of the accent was obviously great, for after a quiet start to proceedings, bidding soon built up with several Masters expressing interest in what were obviously well trained and experienced girls. Bidding peaked during the second auction as it became clear that this girl was very much "wanted" by two Masters in particular. Bids came in thick and fast to the point were no sooner had I acknowledged one bid, then the counter bid was placed.

It was an exciting auction albeit with only two girls up for auction. The two successful Masters went away very contented with their respective new slaves behind them to enjoy their contracts.

BDSM Life is without doubt becoming the place to obtain the very best slaves at the very best prices. As the auction grows in popularity with both Slaves and Masters and Mistresses, it is becoming the place to be at 3.00pm SLT every Saturday.

I look forward to seeing you there next week for what promises to be another exciting and rewarding auction.

Hornet Lefevre
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6. Photo Contest

We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!

Females:

Sandylou Aboma
Baby Anatra (current leader)
Kore Bravin
Esha Bruun
Kathyrn123 Constaintine
Charlene Denimore
IsisRea Diavolo
Kendra Docherty
Diane Foxdale
Cazzy Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Scarelt Lacombe
Luna Lafleur
Zibber Lemon
Natalie Nightfire
Melinda Renfold
Roxy Ricantaur
Lilliana Roux
Serpentina Skute
PrincessAril666 Violet

Males:

Kodi Diesel
Tarl Field (current leader)
Bunderwahl Guise
Askalon Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Douglass McDonnell
Terry888 Melson
rm1982 Moonites
Dorian Sabra

So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*

$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!

Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?

The Photo Contest will run from now to March.
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7. Classified and Personal Ads

At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!

Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.

Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.

If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!

We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.

Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.

What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!
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8. Events @ BDSM-Life

Thursday
12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject: Sadism

Saturday
11AM till 3 PM SLT - New BDSM-Life Grand Opening OParty
3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie

Sunday
12pm till 3 pm SLT - Basic real restraint, rlv folder, and which viewer might suit each person, and tips and tricks with Tarl Field

Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.

We will update the blog website during the week for events.

If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.
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9. In other news......

We have a Bargain Shop right here at BDSM-Life, where you can buy some nice silks, clothes or skins at a very cheap price! Why don't you come along and have a look!
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Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/ in case you have missed them.

We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)

Spread the word!

We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!

Thank you!
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Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/

Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people
Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon
Copyright @ BDSM-Life

Relay for Life dance event at BDSM-Life

Today's dance event will be completely for Relay For Life. (20th March, Friday)

The Event starts at 12:00 PM SLT with Live DJ Qudex

In the club we will have 4 vendors with 1 RFL Silks for Female and 1 for male, one special maid's outfit in latex and one nice paddle for the Dom/mes to use on their submissives. All profit of those to will go to Relay For Life.

Also we will have a donation box.

Come along and let us see how much your care to find a cure for this awful sickness and support RFL as from 12:00PM SLT.

Hope to see you there!

http://slurl.com/secondlife/Hamchorom/31/226/803

BDSM-Life Manager Meeting Transcript

[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Ok .... let start this and get it over with :P
[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Welcome all off you to the BDSM-Life meeting
[13:00] Lapa Vella: thanks Cons. and hello too ppl arount
[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: before asking questions, please let me finish....... afterwards i have time for questions. :)
[13:00] Professor Sadovnycha is Online
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As some off you know or heard, LL is going to change some off the adult content policies in SL
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: What does this mean?
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As far as clear now, LL will have a rating with 3 flags: PG, Mature and Adult
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: What they define under Mature and Adult is not known yet
[13:02] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Roni Scarmon! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: So the only thing we can do in that case is wait and see what happends
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: However.......
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: Due to the nature of our sim.... we will be rated as Adult
[13:03] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants everyone rated as Adult to move to a seperate continent.... Adult continent
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: and that is something we dont want
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam takes a breath......lol
[13:04] Wynter Thei: lol breathe consi breathe
[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: Lord and i have discussed all options all day
[13:04] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.
[13:04] Lapa Vella: im not see problem... why you upset?
[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: and we are keeping a close eye on any changes made during today to the blogs, forums and everything is else
[13:05] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Talon Tunwarm! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: We have decided that BDSM-Life as it is now, cant stay here... so we are going to make it smaller........
[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: with just a meeting area, my mainshop and that is it
[13:05] Roni Scarmon: :-(
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm kicks Sammi's chair as he trys to sit down
[13:06] Tarl Field: i am sorry to hear that
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: Landprices will drop like the econimy in the US is at the moment
[13:06] Blake Kohime is Online
[13:06] Sammi Loire: ooo talon
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: and we cant afford that
[13:06] Sammi Loire: lol
[13:06] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:06] Sammi Loire: moves it forward
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm leans over and plays with Sammi's hair
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: So we are going to keep half a sim
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: with my store, a small meeting area, the slave auction and lecture room
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: also Tarls shop will stay
[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: the rest will all be gonne
[13:07] Roni Scarmon: No more cafe?
[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: Adult content Roni... we cant
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: We would love to keep everything as it is
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me we do.....
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: But LL is seeing it different
[13:08] Tarl Field: why not have a normal dance club?
[13:08] Keelar Shelman: The slave auction could be defined adult also...
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: It will also mean: that people without age verification or payment info will not be allowed on our sim anymore
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: or any other Mature/Adult flagged land
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We have no clue on what will be flagged as Adult and what will be Mature
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We do know that...... sex lands with equipments is flagged as Adult
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: anything with sex or violence will be classed as adult
[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: So i guess you can all see what is going to happen in SL
[13:10] Blake Kohime is Offline
[13:10] Roni Scarmon: If BDSM will be labelled adult or mature what's the issue with moving tothe adult continent?
[13:10] Talon Tunwarm: yep, will need to make an account
[13:10] Roni Scarmon: More $L?
[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: Roni? what you think about money?
[13:11] Lapa Vella thinks can send all info about RL to LidenLab... but not wish write it in her profiles
[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: We simply cant afford to move and buy another land
[13:11] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Robyn Rossman! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:11] Roni Scarmon: I understand. Didn't realize it would cost even more than this.
[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: not only that..... a lot of people wont be able to come to BDSM-Life because they have eighter a free account or didnt varify age
[13:11] Fluf Fredriksson: Don't know how true it is, but LL were offering to assist relocations ...
[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: Fluf me and Lord have been in SL long enough to know they wont
[13:12] Tarl Field: for a price i am sure they will help
[13:12] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Thomas Aker! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:12] Kodi Diesel: But wouldnt the name alone classify it as adult, or would the name change as well, i may have missed that
[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: ok let me give you an example:
[13:12] Fluf Fredriksson: And free accounts can age verify .. I did my alt today
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants all Adult content on 1 continent
[13:13] Wynter Thei: Be Right Back!! ツ
[13:13] Zeldan Blackburn: does payment info not automatically verify age
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: that comes with: Lag........ even more then now..... people not able to go to BDSM-Life because of free accounts or not age varified....
[13:13] Keelar Shelman: whats the idea of having all adult content on one place?
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not worth the hasstle
[13:14] Lasynda Shichiroji is Online
[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar... we believe and a lot of other people to that LL wants to merge the Teen grid with this grid
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: What about a group to buy into the new continent
[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Bring in 900 USD and we can Zeldan
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: ooooooo
[13:14] Chyenne Devin is Online
[13:14] Keelar Shelman: great...SL a kiddies place
[13:14] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:14] Roni Scarmon: Is that 900 to move or 900/month?
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: 10 folk at 90?
[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: 900 to pay to buy land and then 195 USD tier each month
[13:15] Roni Scarmon: So same price as now AFTER move?
[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: we dont know Roni
[13:16] Constanza Amsterdam: it wouldnt surprice me if LL makes the Adult continent more exspansive
[13:16] Roni Scarmon: I could come up with $90. But is that the issue or are you concerned about losing business if you are located on the adult continent.
[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: We have a free sex area Roni, we have been for a year. I am online most the day... the only people i see here regulair i can count on 1 hand
[13:17] Tarl Field: The real issue here is that ll wants to make money and buy forcing adult content to move to anotherserver they will make money on new land and so on
[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: So is it worth to move a complete sim to an Adult continent for us? No
[13:17] Keelar Shelman: one continent means also one computer cluster...would be easier to make login into that harder if they want to
[13:17] Roni Scarmon: OK. Just trying to understand teh scope of teh problem.
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not only us Roni
[13:18] Tarl Field: and your right consie the number of people coming here often is not high
[13:18] Roni Scarmon: Sex isn't paying the bills apparently. So this will not be BDSM any more after the change then.
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: look for example at Strokerz... he has to devide his shop into 2........ or better yet... 3 as he has PG, Mature and Adult stuff for sale
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: I can have my shop on Adult.........
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: but i cant have BDSM-Life on mature
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: so do we have 2 seperate sims?
[13:19] Tarl Field: well my store need to be on a adult as the outfit i make shows the nipples and sex...sigh
[13:19] Roni Scarmon: Sounds like even more $L ot me.
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Nah... we rather downscale... make a nice meeting area where we can talk and meet up and have some fun
[13:19] Roni Scarmon: PG fun
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Kaddan
[13:20] Kaddan Yue: hello
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: indeed Roni... PG/Mature fun
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Which will maybe even attracked more people in the sim......lol
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Gemini
[13:20] Kaddan Yue: ggunleash
[13:20] Gemeni Giha: hello Constanza
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: and Hey Leesa
[13:21] Kaddan Yue: lbunleash
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: I know this all comes as a shock
[13:21] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Kaddan Yue! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me... we werent to happy with this new nice policy
[13:21] Roni Scarmon: TO you most of all I'm sure!
[13:21] Robyn Rossman: SorryIsnt this all in disscussion stage with LL constanza
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: No Robyn, they let you think it is
[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: Same happend with the Gambling a few years ago
[13:22] Zeldan Blackburn: Constanza is correct that they want to link with teens
[13:22] Robyn Rossman: Ok just thats how I read the blog
[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: and they want to start implementing it within 6 weeks already
[13:22] Fluf Fredriksson: No gambling was rolled out without warning .. this time they haev put up forum posts for discussion and invited comment
[13:22] Leesa Back: lbnadu1
[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: Not true Fluf.... it started with a similair discussing and was implemented within 6 weeks aswell
[13:23] Roni Scarmon: Got a link to the forum? I wouldn't mind expressing my opinion!
[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: http://forums.secondlife.com/showthread.php?t=311510
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: When you read the forum, please also pay attention to the Lindens..... they dont even know what is going to happen
[13:24] Tarl Field: sounds like sl want to be a pg play area...
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: some say we have to move, others say we dont
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: but as we know LL.... we quess we have to
[13:25] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lilliana Roux! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:25] Keelar Shelman: what i dont understand.....kids wont bring money into SL, at least not as much as adult do. But on the other hand, many adults will leave if that happens
[13:25] Keelar Shelman: isnt LL just giving themselves the money drop?
[13:25] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar.... SL is a company who has made biljons of residents like us....
[13:26] Robyn Rossman: Well I think there is a big problem with under age kids getting into places like this
[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: the intention of LL with SL was purly to build a 3D internet and we have been the testbunnies
[13:26] Kaddan Yue: Which is LL's fault
[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: LL has been out of touch with its residents since 2 years already
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: they wont listen
[13:27] Fluf Fredriksson: I'm with Robyn .. age verification is actually a good thing .. perhaps being badly roleld out .. but a good thing in theory
[13:27] Kaddan Yue: This is a done deal
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and they are clueless
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: people will leave my home is in a mature area
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: it is Kaddan
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: they would kick me out too
[13:27] Deanna McBride is Online
[13:27] Roni Scarmon: My home is HERE!
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: smiles
[13:27] Kaddan Yue: They should not have closed the Teen Grid
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and a part will stay Roni
[13:27] Talon Tunwarm: love this place
[13:28] Thomas Aker: were not all lucky as you Roni
[13:28] Kaddan Yue: now they are making thier issue ours
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: So true
[13:28] Roni Scarmon: B*st*rds! <----PG swearing
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:28] Sammi Loire: lol hahaah
[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: I hope you all can understand our action to this
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: we stay but smaller
[13:28] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Bobby Triellis! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: loads will leave now again
[13:28] Kaddan Yue: very true
[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: bdsm...is a four letter word now?
[13:28] Kodi Diesel: I had hearda rumor they were trying to pg the whole thing to make it ripe to sell, harder with adult content
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: this my guess will be the downfall of SL
[13:29] Tarl Field: and consie if you want to stay my shop cant stay as its rated adult on xstreetsl
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: we believe so to Kodi... our guess today was that SL will be sold
[13:29] Talon Tunwarm: will be a downfall for awhile, but with new people coming in....
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: Tarl, dont worry for now
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: not if they cant find sex talon
[13:30] Tarl Field: new people=teenagers
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: sex sells.... in any world
[13:30] Thomas Aker: so we cant do slave auctions?
[13:30] Talon Tunwarm: so true
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: if it is not here... people will leave... believe me
[13:30] Tarl Field: i am not worried but xstreet forced my items to adult as they show the nipples
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: For now we continue the auctions Thomas
[13:30] Keelar Shelman: another rumor says they are trying to create an open standard for 3d environments
[13:30] Keelar Shelman: maybe another SL will pop up then...but thats a long shot
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: Like i said Keelas... SL was intented as a 3d internet envorment
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: we were just test bunnies
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: and i know people who are working on that one Keelar ;)
[13:32] Constanza Amsterdam: So lets make this a great PG meeting area with likeminded people
[13:32] Keelar Shelman: Working on it until L comes and buys them off?
[13:32] Tarl Field: guess i will make the bodystockings opaque and sell them as velour catsuits
[13:32] Roni Scarmon: lololol
[13:33] Blake Rembrandt is Online
[13:33] Roni Scarmon: Oh doo doo!
[13:33] Kodi Diesel: *grin*
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar, they wont be able to as the owner wont let LL buy it....lol
[13:33] Sammi Loire: hhahahahhahh
[13:33] Kaddan Yue: I see that for private sims we just have to flag it correct
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: He is so damn anti LL... that will never happen
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan, island are lucky
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: good
[13:34] Thomas Aker: boy and i thought the TV Sencers were bad
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: okay so they want more people to buy private islands
[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: this is all due to the fact that LL wants to merge the tengrid
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: LL always has hiden agenda's
[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: so true Kaddan
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: Teen grid is probably not paying for itself
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: they want sim sales to boost
[13:35] Constanza Amsterdam: it is even this bad, that i am quiting as SecondLife Mentor
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: well it's pretty much closed
[13:35] Tarl Field: All it comes down it is the americans double standards about sex and voilence and crap. No offence meant to people thats not hypocrits
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: has been for about a month
[13:35] John11011967 Karu is Online
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: SO true Tarl!
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: We a bunch of prudes over here
[13:35] Thomas Aker: theres a show og LL thinking teen is not paying so they make SL a kiddy grid hmmmmmm......
[13:36] Constanza Amsterdam: thank god i live in Holland
[13:36] Talon Tunwarm: only can have sex with animales in america...lol
[13:36] Kaddan Yue: that is not nice
[13:36] Kaddan Yue: all of us don't think like that
[13:36] Thomas Aker: naaaa thats Mexico
[13:36] Kitty Armband by *Sterremare Designs whispers: You look great wearing me, Islandgirl Biler.
[13:36] Fluf Fredriksson: When are you planning on shrinking down the sim then? Constanza?
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: ASAP
[13:37] Fluf Fredriksson: k
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: the new months tier has been paid
[13:37] Kaddan Yue: okay so we loss shops
[13:37] Tarl Field: so with in 4 weeks then
[13:37] Roni Scarmon: I cansee the eadline on the BDSM Newsletter....if there was a newsletter.
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: So a PG BDSM-Life will remain and so is my store
[13:37] Thomas Aker: guess my idea for nude Sub sky diving contest just went out the window
[13:38] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:38] Tarl Field: i need to make all the bodystockings opaque
[13:38] Silkie Muir: ahhhh. These was an item on the forums about nudity
[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: We have to do that fast then Thomas
[13:38] Tarl Field: which destroys the idea i had with them
[13:38] Roni Scarmon: And crotched!
[13:38] Bobby Triellis: And a Mature BDSM?
[13:38] Thomas Aker: unless you sell them underground Tarl
[13:38] Silkie Muir: Mudity that is not sex related is ok for mature
[13:38] Tarl Field: they have never been crotchless roni...laugh
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: without heavy sex yes Bobby, we cant have any sex related stuff here
[13:39] Silkie Muir: so unless you are having sex while you skydive, its fine according to the linden that posted it
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: but naked we can as we will flag it as mature
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: lmfao
[13:39] Happy Hawkeye is Offline
[13:39] Roni Scarmon: Mature=nudity & adult=sex?
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: Dark Den will not be flagged as Adult
[13:39] Kaddan Yue: why
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: No sex Kaddan
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:40] Kaddan Yue: lol
[13:40] Silkie Muir: basically and mass murder is probably ok in PG but should be ok in Mature so long as you aren't naked while you do it
[13:40] Kaddan Yue: oh then I am a man
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: they are so out of touch
[13:40] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:40] Talon Tunwarm: just kidnap and torture
[13:40] Thomas Aker: we need to collar LL
[13:40] Tarl Field: if sl is 18 + why do they allow kid avatars?
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: ok no sex stuff here then
[13:40] Roni Scarmon: Sigh
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: we keep it Mature in a PG style...... but half the land as we have now
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: wait
[13:41] Talon Tunwarm: bondage is okay?
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: does that mean Bull has to close
[13:41] Robyn Rossman: Tarl it LL double standards thats why
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: not sex then Talon
[13:41] Silkie Muir: probably not
[13:41] Tarl Field: if they rate things her as mature what is my classes they are treatign a adutl subject as bdsm...
[13:41] Roni Scarmon: Only if you're not enjoyign it
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: YES KADDAN
[13:41] John11011967 Karu: wow
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: i was waiting for that
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: Great
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: whahahahahah
[13:41] John11011967 Karu: hwehehehehe
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: sorry
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:42] Thomas Aker: hmmm no chance of renting a place in the "adult area" and set up the toys there like the Dungen we had on the island?
[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: We will see Thomas.... for now... we dont know
[13:42] Talon Tunwarm: bondage toys okay, as long they dont have sex balls?
[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: They are not even sure if Gor will be flagged as Adult as it is not explicit sexsual
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: So if I had a private Island
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: and invited you to have your auctions I could do this
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: Yes Kaddan as long as your land is flagged rightly
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: yes it would be
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: but if Gor can stay on Mature
[13:43] Tarl Field: excuse me..lol
[13:43] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: So will auctions
[13:43] Thomas Aker: this is going to be hard on us managers to tell our visiters to stay dressed and no funny stuff
[13:43] Tarl Field: gor is 99% about sex...lol
[13:44] Kaddan Yue: so that is offer I lend to you
[13:44] Constanza Amsterdam: Thank you Kaddan :)
[13:44] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.
[13:44] Talon Tunwarm: if you need to join a group to visit an island, that would be okay?
[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Not if its not flagged Talon
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: okay
[13:45] Roni Scarmon: An alternative could be paying for group membership to purchase and maintain land. It wouldn't be "Free" any more, of course.
[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Landowners will have to flag land not groups
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: 1L to join would be close
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: i see
[13:46] Constanza Amsterdam: So i hope you all understand our way to go and will keep supporting us
[13:46] Talon Tunwarm: will do
[13:47] Roni Scarmon: Of course
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: if you have any suggestions... please let me know
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: and questions are welcome to
[13:47] Thomas Aker: as allways
[13:47] Tarl Field: consie i wont disappere
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: We will be working closly with Kaddan and Sir John
[13:47] John11011967 Karu: *Smiles*
[13:47] Kaddan Yue: excellent
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: For sex... go to Kaddan... oeps
[13:47] Thomas Aker: do I have to remove the Collar Ceremoney ?
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: for chitchat... come here
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: No Thomas
[13:48] Thomas Aker: yaaa
[13:48] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lapa Vella! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: :)
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: any other questions?

Bondage Class - Mar 8 2009

[2009/03/05 12:04] Tarl Field: Well lets get started....
[2009/03/05 12:04] ciline Panthar smiles
[2009/03/05 12:04] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods
[2009/03/05 12:04] Tarl Field: Most people when they hear the word bondage they think its something that would make a women less worthy.
[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: Which is the case with all things in bdsm
[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: But bondage to me means a loving agreement betwen two adults
[2009/03/05 12:05] Teaser Zamani: nods :)
[2009/03/05 12:05] Tarl Field: And even if i would call melinda a slut...
[2009/03/05 12:06] des Belgar: safe bondage
[2009/03/05 12:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: @
[2009/03/05 12:06] Tarl Field: She knows its not meant in a evil or demeaning way
[2009/03/05 12:06] Tarl Field: yes anax
[2009/03/05 12:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: what has calling slut to do with bondage Sir?
[2009/03/05 12:06] Melinda Waffle nods
[2009/03/05 12:07] Tarl Field: actually it has something to do with bondage
[2009/03/05 12:07] Garble Translator: FetishSarah Rae said: a
[2009/03/05 12:07] des Belgar: Tarl is saying even the words during it maybe harsh but not actual harmfull
[2009/03/05 12:07] des Belgar: well i think anyway :)
[2009/03/05 12:07] ciline Panthar nods...
[2009/03/05 12:08] Tarl Field: exactly just as the physical bondage can be uncomfortable its never meant to do any real harm
[2009/03/05 12:08] Tarl Field: But lets start with the more mental bondage
[2009/03/05 12:09] Tarl Field: So what do i mean by mental bondage
[2009/03/05 12:09] des Belgar: submission is a form of bondage
[2009/03/05 12:09] Wild Abbot: how a sub should/must behave
[2009/03/05 12:09] Tarl Field: To me its as simple as ordering melinda to wear what i want or maybe ordering her to lay spread eagle in the bed untill i come home
[2009/03/05 12:10] Tarl Field: No ropes to hold but her own will to obey the command of her master
[2009/03/05 12:10] Teaser Zamani: hi dark :) it worked :) (sorry to interrupt tarl)
[2009/03/05 12:11] Tarl Field: no worry teaser
[2009/03/05 12:11] Tarl Field: So which do you think is the harder to do. being bound spread eagle with ropes or being mentally ordered to lay there without ropes holding you in place
[2009/03/05 12:12] Teaser Zamani: depends moments..interactions...how realtion really is... etc :) (to me)
[2009/03/05 12:12] Wild Abbot: the ladder
[2009/03/05 12:12] FetishSarah Rae: the ladder
[2009/03/05 12:12] Tarl Field: I see all agree to the later about the mental command
[2009/03/05 12:12] Tarl Field: Why is that?
[2009/03/05 12:13] Wild Abbot: if tied cannot move but control without a rope is will
[2009/03/05 12:13] FetishSarah Rae: i think, when you are bound, you have no choice
[2009/03/05 12:14] Teaser Zamani: is it true than... if u need a rope (seems weird to me) its an agreement, no ? well its diff for everyone also :)
[2009/03/05 12:14] Anaxagoras McMillan: mmmmm yes, inner fight between wanting to stand up, and not want to disapoint
[2009/03/05 12:14] Tarl Field: teaser what i want to come to is that mental bondage can be just as real and harsh as the physical
[2009/03/05 12:14] des Belgar: of course
[2009/03/05 12:14] Teaser Zamani: exactly Tarl... was my point hehe
[2009/03/05 12:15] ciline Panthar: Very true Sir.
[2009/03/05 12:15] Tarl Field: Also there is another aspect of the mental bondage it is more rewarding for the sub as she has to fight mentaly not to stand up as one of you said.
[2009/03/05 12:16] des Belgar: a true submissive gives there heart to do what they Dom/me desires and mental control hurts them just as much because of that
[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: I would not say hurt
[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: But your right des it demands just as much of them as the physical if not more
[2009/03/05 12:16] des Belgar: depends i think some would hurt if they stood
[2009/03/05 12:16] Tarl Field: But the reward is bigger as well
[2009/03/05 12:16] Teaser Zamani: nods@Tarl:)
[2009/03/05 12:16] ciline Panthar nods in agreement
[2009/03/05 12:17] Tarl Field: Ohh you mean that way des in that case your very correct
[2009/03/05 12:17] des Belgar: i can just say from anaxa
[2009/03/05 12:17] des Belgar: if she lets me down she hurts more than any whip could hurt her
[2009/03/05 12:17] Tarl Field: very true
[2009/03/05 12:17] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods
[2009/03/05 12:18] Tarl Field: Because if a sub fails in the mental bondage they feel they failed themself
[2009/03/05 12:18] ciline Panthar sighs softly and nods
[2009/03/05 12:18] Tarl Field: welcome pam
[2009/03/05 12:18] Anaxagoras McMillan: hi Pam
[2009/03/05 12:18] Teaser Zamani: hi Pamela
[2009/03/05 12:19] des Belgar: hi pam
[2009/03/05 12:19] ciline Panthar: Hi Pam
[2009/03/05 12:19] Pamela McNally: hi cline nice to meet you here
[2009/03/05 12:19] ciline Panthar grins "Thank you"
[2009/03/05 12:20] Domi Galli: Hi all
[2009/03/05 12:20] Wild Abbot: Hi Sir
[2009/03/05 12:20] Tarl Field: Okay besides that a sub will be e´xtra hard on themself with mental bondage...what else should we dominant take into thinking when we give amental command to a sub to stay in a special way
[2009/03/05 12:21] Tarl Field: The time aspect
[2009/03/05 12:21] Wild Abbot: how uncoferable it would be. like how long
[2009/03/05 12:21] Anaxagoras McMillan: mmmmm give a book so its not boring to wait?
[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: Dont force them to hold a position overly long
[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: lol
[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: also must be aware of any reasons medical they shouldnt
[2009/03/05 12:22] Tarl Field: anax how will you read if your ordered into a spread eagle
[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: bad back etc
[2009/03/05 12:22] Pamela McNally: hi des
[2009/03/05 12:22] Anaxagoras McMillan: ill find a way
[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: anaxa reads when im on the job .. lol says a lot for me
[2009/03/05 12:22] des Belgar: smiles hi pam
[2009/03/05 12:23] Tarl Field: i would like to see that...lol
[2009/03/05 12:23] Anaxagoras McMillan: lol
[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: lol
[2009/03/05 12:23] Teaser Zamani: lools
[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: hi Anax
[2009/03/05 12:23] ciline Panthar: LOL sounds familar Anaxa
[2009/03/05 12:23] Pamela McNally: hi Mel
[2009/03/05 12:23] Tarl Field: but seriously in mental bondage you need to be more aware if the safety and the subs limitations
[2009/03/05 12:23] Teaser Zamani: yes
[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally: aye
[2009/03/05 12:24] Wild Abbot nods
[2009/03/05 12:24] Tarl Field: And as always safety comes first...
[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally listens
[2009/03/05 12:24] Melinda Waffle looks to Pam
[2009/03/05 12:24] Pamela McNally smiles
[2009/03/05 12:25] Pamela McNally: hi Tarl Sir
[2009/03/05 12:25] Tarl Field: And to go over to the physical part is easy just look at melinda
[2009/03/05 12:25] des Belgar: looks :)
[2009/03/05 12:25] Pamela McNally looks and smiles
[2009/03/05 12:25] ciline Panthar looks and shivers with antisipation
[2009/03/05 12:26] Pamela McNally blushes too
[2009/03/05 12:26] des Belgar: i would have to say those heels must hurt:)
[2009/03/05 12:26] Tarl Field: i bet they does but melinda cant complain
[2009/03/05 12:26] des Belgar: she has to trust
[2009/03/05 12:27] Tarl Field: and as she cant do anything about her situation she is totally needed on me to keep her safe
[2009/03/05 12:27] Tarl Field: Yes and trust is very important even in mental bondage
[2009/03/05 12:27] Pamela McNally: yes des trust in SL is as important as it is in rl
[2009/03/05 12:27] Teaser Zamani: absoooolutely :)
[2009/03/05 12:27] des Belgar: agreed pam
[2009/03/05 12:27] ciline Panthar: Often harder as well
[2009/03/05 12:28] Tarl Field: but in physial bondage
[2009/03/05 12:29] Tarl Field: you need to pay more attention becuse the restraint or ropes will put preasure on the body and might cause bloodflow to not be at the optimal levels
[2009/03/05 12:29] Tarl Field: And to be tied in one position to long will cause cramps
[2009/03/05 12:29] Pamela McNally nods
[2009/03/05 12:30] Teaser Zamani: yes
[2009/03/05 12:30] Anaxagoras McMillan: specialy kneeling, looks innocent, but not in RL when kneeling long
[2009/03/05 12:30] Tarl Field: And always remember a gag will cause the haw to cramp up as well
[2009/03/05 12:30] ciline Panthar nods
[2009/03/05 12:31] Tarl Field: jaw
[2009/03/05 12:31] Pamela McNally: i agree
[2009/03/05 12:31] Teaser Zamani: y
[2009/03/05 12:31] Anaxagoras McMillan: ciline gets cramps from talking Sir
[2009/03/05 12:31] des Belgar: i agree anaxa
[2009/03/05 12:31] ciline Panthar snickers
[2009/03/05 12:31] Teaser Zamani: lols
[2009/03/05 12:31] ciline Panthar: Just I sis?
[2009/03/05 12:31] Anaxagoras McMillan: i only have one IM active
[2009/03/05 12:32] Tarl Field: i think both ciline and anax gets cramps from talking so maybe a gag would help them from cramping up
[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: LOL I know sis
[2009/03/05 12:32] Teaser Zamani: tarl loooool
[2009/03/05 12:32] Pamela McNally: lol
[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: Yes Sir Tarl
[2009/03/05 12:32] Anaxagoras McMillan: grins
[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline pokes you back
[2009/03/05 12:32] des Belgar: behave you 2
[2009/03/05 12:32] ciline Panthar: OMG I didnt do that
[2009/03/05 12:32] Pamela McNally loves gags too but knows if she is gagged she can't contribute to the lecture
[2009/03/05 12:33] des Belgar: or bondage will be on the menu
[2009/03/05 12:33] Anaxagoras McMillan: yes Master
[2009/03/05 12:33] Pamela McNally giggles at des
[2009/03/05 12:33] Domi Galli: il faudrait que tu consulyes leur journal régulièrement. Mais tu ne le trouveras pas en papeterie
[2009/03/05 12:33] ciline Panthar blushes "yes Sir"
[2009/03/05 12:33] Domi Galli: hmm, excuse me :)
[2009/03/05 12:33] Teaser Zamani: domi tu parle francais la looool
[2009/03/05 12:34] Tarl Field: well des we both know if you want to tie them up and gag them thats your choice even if they have been good girls
[2009/03/05 12:34] ciline Panthar: Mmm
[2009/03/05 12:34] Pamela McNally loves bondage foirm both sides equally
[2009/03/05 12:34] Domi Galli: oui; un epu. Juste un conseil pour un ami en difficultés
[2009/03/05 12:34] ciline Panthar winks at Anaxa
[2009/03/05 12:34] Domi Galli: excuse moi
[2009/03/05 12:34] Tarl Field: and as pam is tied up as well she knows how helpless ropes or in her case scarfs make her feel
[2009/03/05 12:34] Anaxagoras McMillan: both your left and right side, Pam?
[2009/03/05 12:35] Teaser Zamani: de rien ... bien sure... pkoi :)
[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally: i am a Switch in SL and in RL Anax
[2009/03/05 12:35] Anaxagoras McMillan: oh i see
[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally: 44 years experience
[2009/03/05 12:35] Pamela McNally smiles to Tarl
[2009/03/05 12:36] Pamela McNally: this is a protottype Tarl Sir
[2009/03/05 12:36] Pamela McNally: the full set will be available in the near future
[2009/03/05 12:36] Tarl Field: so what you should watch out for in physical bondage is preasurepoints and to make sure you dont tie your sub to tightly and cause the bloodflow to become dangerously low...
[2009/03/05 12:36] Anaxagoras McMillan: spam!
[2009/03/05 12:37] Pamela McNally: very true Tarl Sir
[2009/03/05 12:37] Pamela McNally: sorry Anax
[2009/03/05 12:37] Tarl Field: so if you do short bondage sessions you can tie them in more extreme postions...
[2009/03/05 12:37] Anaxagoras McMillan: drools
[2009/03/05 12:37] Teaser Zamani: while staying together u mean? right :)
[2009/03/05 12:38] Teaser Zamani: keeping an eye
[2009/03/05 12:38] Tarl Field: for longer term i recommend something thats equally secure but that will not require the extreme position
[2009/03/05 12:38] Pamela McNally nods but loves long term stuff as she is used to bein tied comfy for 3 hours
[2009/03/05 12:38] Tarl Field: Of course never leave your sub unguarded
[2009/03/05 12:39] Pamela McNally: nods
[2009/03/05 12:40] des Belgar: never ever ever
[2009/03/05 12:40] Pamela McNally: not even inb SL
[2009/03/05 12:40] Tarl Field: well in sl its no physical danger
[2009/03/05 12:41] ciline Panthar: Even If they have claws SIr?
[2009/03/05 12:41] Tarl Field: but sometimes it can be fun to make the sub try and find you on a sim... smiles
[2009/03/05 12:41] Pamela McNally: nods but in SL Tarl Sir i play here lijke i do in rl
[2009/03/05 12:41] Teaser Zamani: thats wha ti sortoff ment tarl :)
[2009/03/05 12:41] Teaser Zamani: part of the rp.
[2009/03/05 12:41] Pamela McNally smiles
[2009/03/05 12:42] Tarl Field: exactly
[2009/03/05 12:43] Tarl Field: okay what other things then preasure points and blood flow should you look after whent hey are tied with ropes ...
[2009/03/05 12:44] Wild Abbot: medical and not to be unattended
[2009/03/05 12:44] Pamela McNally: you look for poossible rope burns numbmenss
[2009/03/05 12:44] Teaser Zamani: prevening water or a cellphone (but really ) loool
[2009/03/05 12:44] Pamela McNally: as in nerve damage
[2009/03/05 12:44] Teaser Zamani: prevenTing
[2009/03/05 12:44] Tarl Field: very true
[2009/03/05 12:45] FetishSarah Rae: excuse me, i have to leave. thank you... bye
[2009/03/05 12:45] Tarl Field: And if they are gagged you must never leave them alone as they can choke on some gags
[2009/03/05 12:45] Teaser Zamani: see u sarah.
[2009/03/05 12:45] Tarl Field: bye sarah
[2009/03/05 12:45] Teaser Zamani: yes Tarl...
[2009/03/05 12:45] Pamela McNally: k Sarahyou be well be safe
[2009/03/05 12:45] ciline Panthar: And possibly dryness of throat and mouth SIr?
[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: i know pam likes layering gags
[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: yes cline is what i ment with preventing water :)
[2009/03/05 12:46] ciline Panthar grins at Teaser
[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: you could solve the dryness by using a wet cloth...
[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: 'gg'
[2009/03/05 12:46] Tarl Field: But that demands that the sub is used to getting moister that way
[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: does that work while being gagged tarl?
[2009/03/05 12:46] Teaser Zamani: exactly...
[2009/03/05 12:47] Tarl Field: the sub can press the cloth with her tongue and get some water
[2009/03/05 12:47] Teaser Zamani: yes
[2009/03/05 12:48] Tarl Field: how ever when you do layers you must be extra carefull
[2009/03/05 12:48] Tarl Field: as the layers takes longer time to remove
[2009/03/05 12:48] Pamela McNally: aye
[2009/03/05 12:49] Tarl Field: so any one here that want to tell me what a layered gag can be made off
[2009/03/05 12:50] Wild Abbot: more than one gag being put on same place?
[2009/03/05 12:50] Tarl Field: true
[2009/03/05 12:50] Tarl Field: One way is using one or two pairs on the subs underwear
[2009/03/05 12:51] des Belgar: smiles
[2009/03/05 12:51] Pamela McNally: when i am gagged in rl my gf uses quick release knots when i am gagged in layers and every 1/2 hour i get some water through a straw as my gf holds the glass
[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: and then using a scarf to tie it in place in the mouth
[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: and maybe another scarf over that
[2009/03/05 12:51] Tarl Field: And you can do it as pam said
[2009/03/05 12:52] ciline Panthar: A straw works nice SIr
[2009/03/05 12:52] Pamela McNally: the packing shouldn't go in 1st
[2009/03/05 12:52] Pamela McNally: you wanna use a cleave gag then the packing then the over the mouth scarf gag
[2009/03/05 12:53] Tarl Field: thats one way of doing it...
[2009/03/05 12:53] Tarl Field: sometimes a gag with the mouth filled is more fun but that also demands more alertness from the dom
[2009/03/05 12:54] Anaxagoras McMillan: yes
[2009/03/05 12:54] Anaxagoras McMillan: might drool on Master clothes :)
[2009/03/05 12:54] ciline Panthar giggles
[2009/03/05 12:54] Tarl Field: Remember bondage is always about safety first
[2009/03/05 12:54] Teaser Zamani: nods@Tarl :)
[2009/03/05 12:54] ciline Panthar: Especially if they are flashing sis?
[2009/03/05 12:55] Tarl Field: Als there are som leathe bodybags out there that you can put your girl inside and that will make them helpless for a long period of times..
[2009/03/05 12:55] Yasmin Heartsdale is Offline
[2009/03/05 12:55] Teaser Zamani: ps : or for 'your men' ;o)
[2009/03/05 12:55] Teaser Zamani: grinz
[2009/03/05 12:55] Pamela McNally: phone
[2009/03/05 12:55] Anaxagoras McMillan: nice for a nap!
[2009/03/05 12:55] Tarl Field: well anax it will be nap where you cant move much,...
[2009/03/05 12:56] Teaser Zamani: tarl roooofl
[2009/03/05 12:56] Tarl Field: as they are tight and can be made tighter by using the straps sewn in to them... grins
[2009/03/05 12:56] Anaxagoras McMillan: smirks, i dont need to move when i nap :)
[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: Much like the insane bind?
[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: Sir?
[2009/03/05 12:56] Tarl Field: yes ciline
[2009/03/05 12:56] ciline Panthar: staight jackets...Sorry SIr I forgot the word
[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: So any questions so far...
[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: straightjackets works as well
[2009/03/05 12:57] Tarl Field: even if they allow more movement
[2009/03/05 12:58] Anaxagoras McMillan: no question Sir
[2009/03/05 12:58] ciline Panthar: No Sir
[2009/03/05 12:58] Wild Abbot: No Sir
[2009/03/05 12:59] Tarl Field: Okay any questions in general that do not have to do with bondage
[2009/03/05 12:59] Anaxagoras McMillan: request Sir
[2009/03/05 12:59] Tarl Field: anax?
[2009/03/05 13:00] Anaxagoras McMillan: would you like to do a class about limits/ no limits
[2009/03/05 13:00] ciline Panthar: Very good sis....
[2009/03/05 13:00] Tarl Field: i will read about it and then i can do a class on it yes
[2009/03/05 13:00] des Belgar: smiles
[2009/03/05 13:00] Anaxagoras McMillan: nods
[2009/03/05 13:00] Wild Abbot: Sir may I speak?
[2009/03/05 13:00] des Belgar: anaxa thats like bolting the door after the horse has gone
[2009/03/05 13:00] Tarl Field: i know what you mean anax but i would need more info to do a good lecture on it
[2009/03/05 13:01] Tarl Field: of course wild
[2009/03/05 13:01] Teaser Zamani: thats wise Tarl.
[2009/03/05 13:01] Wild Abbot: I have boughht some things and they come out in a box what's with that?
[2009/03/05 13:01] Wild Abbot: how do i open them Sir?
[2009/03/05 13:01] Anaxagoras McMillan: not my intention Master
[2009/03/05 13:01] Tarl Field: well the box is because most vendors need a box to give you all the items
[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: oh ok
[2009/03/05 13:02] Tarl Field: and you simple place the box on the ground and then right click it and choose open and then you can copy it to the inventory
[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: ok thanks alot Sir
[2009/03/05 13:02] Teaser Zamani: Wild make sure u do that on a sim where u can rezz y box :)
[2009/03/05 13:02] Wild Abbot: yes
[2009/03/05 13:02] Tarl Field: of course teaser a good point
[2009/03/05 13:02] ciline Panthar smiles and nods at sis
[2009/03/05 13:03] Teaser Zamani: we are so used to it that we forget to mention :)
[2009/03/05 13:04] Tarl Field: well thats also a point if i forget something as i am used to doing bdsm a long time let me know because things that i do by automatic thinking might not be clear to you
[2009/03/05 13:05] ciline Panthar smiles
[2009/03/05 13:05] Tarl Field: i see bdsm in oe way which is not meant that its the only true way. You all have to go your own way and if my lectures help you to make less mistakes i am happy
[2009/03/05 13:05] Teaser Zamani: :)
[2009/03/05 13:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: thats all whats it about, share
[2009/03/05 13:06] ciline Panthar smiles up at SIr des thinking of what she wrote
[2009/03/05 13:06] Anaxagoras McMillan: learn from others
[2009/03/05 13:06] Pamela McNally: back
[2009/03/05 13:06] Tarl Field: even if me and des seems to think a like we still see diffrently on some things.. and it should be that way
[2009/03/05 13:06] ciline Panthar: Very much so sis ....and being true to whom you are
[2009/03/05 13:06] Pamela McNally: i swear i am gonna disconnect my phone
[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: and always remember no mater how long you done bdsm each new relationship is as startign over in square one...
[2009/03/05 13:07] des Belgar: of course tarl you would never catch me in soo much black :)
[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: lol
[2009/03/05 13:07] ciline Panthar: Yes Sir Tarl because we as subs are all different
[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: des i just like dark colors
[2009/03/05 13:07] des Belgar: see we dont think alike always :)
[2009/03/05 13:07] ciline Panthar: Mmmmm black tis my fav color
[2009/03/05 13:07] Tarl Field: that might be why my drill sergant hated me in the army...lol
[2009/03/05 13:07] Teaser Zamani: :o)
[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: lmao ciline hate to correct you black isnt a color
[2009/03/05 13:08] Teaser Zamani: tarlrooooofl
[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: :)
[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: LOL Sir....
[2009/03/05 13:08] Tarl Field: but thats another story
[2009/03/05 13:08] Teaser Zamani: des = true :)
[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar kisses ciline on the head
[2009/03/05 13:08] Pamela McNally: aye and me being 50% Doominant and 50%subby i love both sides and am equally good at both
[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: Well I perfer it Sir
[2009/03/05 13:08] des Belgar: and then leans down and gives anaxa a huge kiss on her cheek
[2009/03/05 13:08] ciline Panthar: *prefer
[2009/03/05 13:09] Anaxagoras McMillan smiles looks at her Master
[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: if you dont have any more questions at this time i will end this lecture
[2009/03/05 13:10] Teaser Zamani: thank you Tarl:)
[2009/03/05 13:10] Pamela McNally: brb need to let doggies out
[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: Thank you for coming
[2009/03/05 13:10] des Belgar: thank you Tarl again
[2009/03/05 13:10] Wild Abbot: thank you Sir
[2009/03/05 13:10] Anaxagoras McMillan: thank you for your time, great lecture Sir
[2009/03/05 13:10] ciline Panthar smiles "Thank you SIr Tarl and tis a pleasure to meet you."
[2009/03/05 13:10] Teaser Zamani: see u soon, nice to meet you all :)
[2009/03/05 13:10] Pamela McNally frowns as shje wasn't able to contribute to the discussion like she could
[2009/03/05 13:10] Tarl Field: Its always fun to try and teach so people can have fun within safety
[2009/03/05 13:11] Tarl Field: pam you will make it up next time... smiles