Sunday, 29 March 2009

Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue 11 Mar 30-Apr 5

Newsletter for BDSM-Life!

In this newsletter:

1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair
2. Highlighted Store - Buy Master a Gift
3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting
4. Switch Corner - Cazzy
5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions
6. Grease Party
7. Photo Contest
8. Classifieds and Personal Ads
9. Events @ BDSM-Life
10. In other news.....

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1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair (by Constanza Amsterdam)



Monday, 22 March at 8:00PM SLT, the clothing fair was closed with a big BAM!

What an awesome week it was with so much to do. The great part of this week was not only that we raised a lot of lindens for Relay For Life but also that so many designers have been working together and helping each other so we could raise even more for the Relay For Life Foundation.

And yes also this fair has been a great marketing tool for Eye-Catcher to put it self on the map.

I am happy to tell that Eye-Catcher raised 16,212L$ in total for Relay For Life. The total raised money by the Relay's Raiders was 4,479,532L$ and the total campaign raised 10,706,849L$ so far this year.

I am so proud of everyone and i want to thank all the customers of Eye-Catcher for their support during the event and before.

Please do note that Relay in itself is not closed. To quote HaroldThe Burrel: “Clothing Fair is just a beginning event for the charitable fund drive that runs through July 19th.”

So you may still find kiosks and vendors around SL where you can donate funds to Relay For Life.
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2. Store Highlight - Buy Master a Gift



I met with Lectrici Vlodovic, owner of Buy Master a Gift, early Sunday morning at his kiosk in BDSM life. As he demonstrated some of his eclectic collection of creations, he explained his design philosophy to me.

"well I'm fairly new to sl and enjoy seeing how things work. When I first joined I was not impressed with the lack of mens clothes available....", " Lectrici said, "....at least BDSM themed, unless you were a sub. So in learning and playing around I made a few basic t shirts with a BDSM theme."

After being approached by several people who wanted copies, he thought there might be a business opportunity in quality men's clothing. Not only has Lectrici filled a void in clothing, but his creations are soem of the most reasonably priced clothes out there, at least compared to women's clothing anyway. All of his t-shirts are only $50L each. He has so many other t shirts available it's impossible to show them all here, so just drop by Buy Master a Gift and browse the catalog!

In addition to t-shirts, Lectrici sells these awesome black and mesh shoes. He soon plans to have several other colors available!

Lectrici next branched out into scripted furniture. Here's a picture of one of his erotic room dividers. Several different pictures are available to choose from. He should have a couple of them displayed in front of his kiosk starting Monday morning! He also created this nice side board and lamp, which lights up.

This is his new BDSM bench. Lectrici was kind enough to shoot this picture with me to demonstrate the animation. It uses lockguard cuffs to chain the slave to the bench. For only $100L it's a steal!


      And this is Lectrici's newest creation, a work in progress, his Naughty School Desk. It's equi[ped with several sit animations and the lid flips up to display a set of Teacher's choice whips should some incorrigable student be in need of a little discipline! He is offering it for half price to any BDSM Life member wearing their BDSM-Life title who makes a purchase at his store at his meet and greet session.

So, come meet Lectrici Vlodovic, on Saturday, April 4, 12 PM SLT, at his kiosk in the BDSM Life sim, near the Lecture Room. He will rez some of his awesome creations on the common area outside his shop so you can try them for yourself. And pick up one of his free t-shirts for your Master!

Hope to see you there!
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3. Bondage Awards Second Stage Voting



We need your help in this years Bondage Awards and we hope that you will help BDSM-Life.com from today 29th March 2009 until 11th April. You will need to click the banner for the Bondage awards first, these banners are at the top of EVERY Page on the site.

http://www.bondageawards.com

Once there you will need to go to the top of the bondage awards site and select VOTING

Then go to the section "Best Free Website" and select BDSM-Life.com from the dropdown menu under "Best FREE website" then once done go to the bottom of the page and click the button "Click here to submit your Vote"

You can do this once a day and we ask your support to do this every day for us and help us win this year.

We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.

Thanks for your support
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4. Switch Corner (by Cazzy Hax)



What is a switch? The label ‘switch’ means different things to different people, depending on how they live their lifestyles. Some people might be 50% dominant, 50% submissive, others might be 80% dominant, 20% submissive, and other people might be different, but for this article, I am writing from MY perspective, my own thoughts and opinions on what being a switch means to me.

I am a switch, which does not mean that I am undecided in what I want, far from it! I love being a switch, because it allows me to enjoy being on the Top as well as being on the bottom. It allows me to explore many aspects of BDSM in both roles, and it means a big deal to me, it is a role that I am comfortable with in myself. It is a journey, where there is no end, and I will learn new things everyday, both about myself and what kind of activities I like. I am mostly Domme, occasionally like to be on the bottom. I love being on the bottom, but most of the time, I do like to be on the Top, to be one in the control. I like to be flexible and if I am on the bottom occasionally it means that I will know what it will be like in the sub’s shoes as such and it will help me be a better Domme, I believe in that.

I love being tied up and is a bit of a pain-slut, and if I was a Domme all the time, I would miss that, and it will make me miserable, therefore will lead to that I will become a bad Domme, that will lead to my submissives being not happy in the relationship at all. Being a switch makes me feel comfortable with myself and makes me happy.

So that’s what being a switch means to me!

Thank you for reading!

Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.
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5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)



BDSM Life is without doubt becoming the place to obtain the very best slaves at the very best prices. As the auction grows in popularity with both Slaves and Masters and Mistresses, it is becoming the place to be at 3.00pm SLT every Saturday.

I look forward to seeing you there next week for what promises to be another exciting and rewarding auction.

Hornet Lefevre
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6. Grease Party



What with the change of date to Fridays at noon SLT, I've missed most of the recent parties at the Hard Restraint Cafe. Mother nature dumped a blizzard on the Rocky Mountain front range last Thursday though, and being snow bound for the day, I was able to attend.

The theme was Grease, with the ladies vying for Pink Ladies and the men as T Birds. $1000L was on the contest board.


Cazzy and I went shopping before hand to find appropriate costumes. She, Consie and I all wore Pink Ladies jackets.

WIth only one male contestant, the top prize of $700L went to Robyn Rossman. On the female side, I am embarrassed to say that I walked away with $100L having earned NO votes at all. Ellyssia Sexton took second place, and Chas Seetan ran away with first!

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7. Photo Contest



We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!

Females:

Sandylou Aboma
Baby Anatra (current leader)
Kore Bravin
Esha Bruun
Kathyrn123 Constaintine
Charlene Denimore
IsisRea Diavolo
Kendra Docherty
Diane Foxdale
Cazzy Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Scarelt Lacombe
Luna Lafleur
Zibber Lemon
Natalie Nightfire
Melinda Renfold
Roxy Ricantaur
Lilliana Roux
Serpentina Skute
PrincessAril666 Violet

Males:

Kodi Diesel
Tarl Field (current leader)
Bunderwahl Guise
Askalon Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Douglass McDonnell
Terry888 Melson
rm1982 Moonites
Dorian Sabra

So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*

$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!

Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?

The Photo Contest will run from now to March.
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8. Classified and Personal Ads



At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!

Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.

Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.

If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!

We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.

Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.

What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!
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9. Events @ BDSM-Life



Monday
12PM till ? - Open Discussion with Cazzy Hax

Thursday
12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject to be determined
Friday
12PM till 3 PM - Party and Dance the evening away at the Hard Restraint Cafe in BDSM life - Hosted by BDSM Life's own Constanza Amsterdam (in Cazzy's absence), and featuring Star DJ (unless his evil titler has been changed before then) Qudex Coronet

Saturday
3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie

Sunday
12pm till 3 pm SLT - Subject to be determined

Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.

We will update the blog website during the week for events.

If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.
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10. In other news......



Check out the Eye-Catcher web site Consie has been working on!
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Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at in case you have missed them.

We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)

Spread the word!

We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!

Thank you!
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Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/

Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people
Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon
Copyright @ BDSM-Life

Sunday, 22 March 2009

Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue Mar 22-Mar 28

Newsletter for BDSM-Life!



In this newsletter:

1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair
2. Highlighted Store - Princess Reform School
3. Bondage Awards
4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner
5. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions
6. Photo Contest
7. Classifieds and Personal Ads
8. Events @ BDSM-Life
9. In other news.....
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1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair



March 23rd was the last day of the Relay for Life Clothing Fair. 170+ vendors spread out over 9 sims raised almost $4 million Lindens to fund cancer research. During the week, there were treasure hunts, live entertainment, music, fashion shows galore and auctions.

Constanza Amsterdam spent weeks preparing for the event, creating 300 unique fashion items including special RLF silks. She temporarily ran a shop out of RLF sim 4 during the week of the event.

Your support was greatly appreciated. We look forward to seing you at the 2010 Relay for Life!
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2. Store Highlight - Princess Reform School



Cazzy, Hornet and I had the great pleasure of meeting Professor Sadovyncha last Wednesday evening. He is the Headmaster of Princess Reform School, which sells school role playing toys and other stuff. The Professor is something of a Second Life renaissance man, having built, scripted, and animated all of PRS's merchandise. Playing with his toys was like being back in high school again, but a lot more fun!

Here I am in detention, as always! lol The school desk is a must for any naughty schoolgirl's learning environment. Stocked with 11 unique animations, and complete with a poseball for Teacher (disguised as a pink pencil box), it has all you need to show that you're "Hot for Teacher"! It also comes with two spankies the student may activate to let out a yelp or gasp when being spanked. The school desk sells for $500L normally, but the good Professor has marked it down to only $200L in his BDSM-Life store.

Sometimes writing punishment lines is the best thing for a naughty schoolgirl! The chalkboard comes with a pose ball where a she may be foprced to stand stand and write out her punishment over and over again. Click the blackboard to change the text displayed. The chalkboard is only $200L.

PRS's teacher's desk may be used for so much more than grading papers! Guaranteed to get the teacher's attention with six fantastic animations: wiggle, bend over, fuck, fuck slow, and fuck fast 1 & 2. The Teacher's desk and student stool combined are $200L.

But the best deal on the school room collection is to buy the boxed set. You get eveything listed above PLUS a punishment pose ball, classroom set, copiable school desk so you can fill a classroom, and other accessories. The school box set is a bargain at $999L!

In addition to the classroom set, the Professor has constructed a locker room and shower area where students can earn physical education credits. lol Six delicious animations can be viewed by clicking the lockers after sitting. The bench and showers have several poses. And there're towels to snap at bare tushes and a funny "Ouch!" animation is provided for the victim. The locker room and shower set is only $600L.


Leaving the classroom, Professor Sadovyncha demonstrates to Cazzy his whip and humbling post. The whip is made of 6 prims, three in the handle and three jointed connections. The overhead snapping animation is activate by clicking the mouse, and comses with a very realistic over head animation. It also makes a very satisfying crack! The whip is only $100L.

The Humbling Post does not require Lockmeister restraints, but wear a set before attaching to the post to see a chain between the post and slave. The Whipping post comes with 12 of the Professor's amazing animations including; loose bind (which Cazzy is demonstrating in the picutre above), suck & fucked, of course, plus wiggle ass, puppy beg, masturbate, and several others that just have to be seen to be believed. The Humbling Post is $500L.

   

Princess Reform School sells an eclectic collection of other unique goodies that simply have to be seen to be believed! Neko avis will love the Neko Crack set, complete with goldfish bowl and animations for only $100L. The RPS switch suit with the Professor's patented "mixed messages" belt is a hoot, for $200L. Get the sexy shower set with male and female poseballs containing 9 interactive animations each, soap and bubbles, and climactic sound effects for $300L. The Blush Gem is an animation override with bashful sit, stand and walk animations for the shy sub. It's just $100L! PRS has so many other unique products there just isn't enough time or room to mentione them all here.


So, come meet Professor Sadovyncha, on Wednesday, March 25, from 4 to 6 PM SLT, at his store in the BDSM Life sim. He will rez some of his awesome creations on the common area outside his shop so you can try them for yourself. And the Professor will be handing out free PRS Whore Gags to everyone who drops by on Wednesday. Hope to see you there!
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3. Bondage Awards Update



Voting in stage one of the Bondage Awards has closed. Over 22,000 votes were recorded during the week the polls were open, 9,000 more than last year!

Votes will be tallied for the next week. Then those nominees who received 10 or more votes will be listed as candidates for stage two. BDSM-Life will surely be listed as one of the Free Web Sites, as I must have voted 10 times all by myself, at least!

Stage two voting begins at midnight on March 29th. Be sure to return to the Bondage Awards site then to express your support for BDSM-Life. Vote early and vote often! lol

Click here to open the Bondage Awards main page

Click here to visit the BDSM-Life web site and create yoru free profile

Well, what are you waiting for? Sign up now and meet all the great folks who are just waiting to meet you!

We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.

Thanks for your support!!!
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4. Domme/Sub/Switch Corner



Please submit your experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. Just send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.
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5. BDSM Slave Auction (by Hornet Lefevre)



With yet another full sim in attendance, there was a distinctly european feel to this weeks auction at BDSM Life. There were two slaves up for auction both speaking French as their main language. The allure of the accent was obviously great, for after a quiet start to proceedings, bidding soon built up with several Masters expressing interest in what were obviously well trained and experienced girls. Bidding peaked during the second auction as it became clear that this girl was very much "wanted" by two Masters in particular. Bids came in thick and fast to the point were no sooner had I acknowledged one bid, then the counter bid was placed.

It was an exciting auction albeit with only two girls up for auction. The two successful Masters went away very contented with their respective new slaves behind them to enjoy their contracts.

BDSM Life is without doubt becoming the place to obtain the very best slaves at the very best prices. As the auction grows in popularity with both Slaves and Masters and Mistresses, it is becoming the place to be at 3.00pm SLT every Saturday.

I look forward to seeing you there next week for what promises to be another exciting and rewarding auction.

Hornet Lefevre
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6. Photo Contest



We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!

Females:

Sandylou Aboma
Baby Anatra (current leader)
Kore Bravin
Esha Bruun
Kathyrn123 Constaintine
Charlene Denimore
IsisRea Diavolo
Kendra Docherty
Diane Foxdale
Cazzy Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Scarelt Lacombe
Luna Lafleur
Zibber Lemon
Natalie Nightfire
Melinda Renfold
Roxy Ricantaur
Lilliana Roux
Serpentina Skute
PrincessAril666 Violet

Males:

Kodi Diesel
Tarl Field (current leader)
Bunderwahl Guise
Askalon Hax
HansVan Hoorenbeek
Douglass McDonnell
Terry888 Melson
rm1982 Moonites
Dorian Sabra

So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*

$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!

Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?

The Photo Contest will run from now to March.
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7. Classified and Personal Ads



At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!

Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.

Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.

If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!

We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.

Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.

What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!
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8. Events @ BDSM-Life



Thursday
12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject: Sadism

Saturday
11AM till 3 PM SLT - New BDSM-Life Grand Opening OParty
3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie

Sunday
12pm till 3 pm SLT - Basic real restraint, rlv folder, and which viewer might suit each person, and tips and tricks with Tarl Field

Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.

We will update the blog website during the week for events.

If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.
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9. In other news......



We have a Bargain Shop right here at BDSM-Life, where you can buy some nice silks, clothes or skins at a very cheap price! Why don't you come along and have a look!
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Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/ in case you have missed them.

We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)

Spread the word!

We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!

Thank you!
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Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/

Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people
Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon
Copyright @ BDSM-Life

Friday, 20 March 2009

Relay for Life dance event at BDSM-Life

Today's dance event will be completely for Relay For Life. (20th March, Friday)

The Event starts at 12:00 PM SLT with Live DJ Qudex

In the club we will have 4 vendors with 1 RFL Silks for Female and 1 for male, one special maid's outfit in latex and one nice paddle for the Dom/mes to use on their submissives. All profit of those to will go to Relay For Life.

Also we will have a donation box.

Come along and let us see how much your care to find a cure for this awful sickness and support RFL as from 12:00PM SLT.

Hope to see you there!

http://slurl.com/secondlife/Hamchorom/31/226/803

Sunday, 15 March 2009

Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue Mar 15-Mar 21

Newsletter for BDSM-Life!

In this newsletter:

1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair
2. BDSM-Life Sim Change
3. Highlighted Store - Fnordian Furniture
4. Bondage Awards
5. Sub Corner - Journey to Submission
6. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions
7. Photo Contest
8. Classifieds and Personal Ads
9. Events @ BDSM-Life
10. In other news.....
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1. Relay For Life Clothing Fair (by Cazzy Hax)



From 16th March to 23rd March, there will be a huge Clothing Fair, for Relay for Life, in Second Life, an exciting time for everyone who loves clothes, clothes and more clothes!

There will be treasure hunts, live entertainment, music, fashion shows and auctions....(no, not the slave auctions kind!!!)

Roni Scarmon and I were lucky enough to have a sneak preview of what the Clothing Fair will look like, we got in as Press for the Weekly Kinky Newsletter!

There are 9 sims! The theme of the sims are Pirates, so there are a quite lot of little ships, cannons, and things like that. Such fun! Wow, quite a lot of land to go over, but it is fun and there are hundreds and hundreds of SL's BEST designers spread all over the nine sims. I recognise most of the best stores, as such as Je t' aime, Gutter Pup, and many others. There will be some Relay for Life special editions in each store, which will be awesome and nice, I have seen some of them, and they do look really nice.

And of course, our favourite BDSM-Life owner, Constanza Amsterdam, with her store, Eye-Catcher will be there! Eye-Catcher will be on Sim 4, the Red Sea and will have a special edition of Relay For Life silks at the Clothing Fair, so if you are a lover of Eye-Catcher, like myself and Roni, you must come by the Clothing Fair and buy the special edition, I can promise you, knowing Constanza, it will be a one of a kind!

All proceeds, from the Clothing Fair, goes to Relay For Life. Relay for Life is an organisation who helps to find a cure for cancer. By buying just one silk, dress, outfit or more your money will go towards the research for cancer.

Go on, drop by the Clothing Fair for Relay for Life, and buy loads, and at the same time, support the cause! :-)

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2. BDSM-Life Sim Change (by Roni Scarmon)



Linden Labs has unveiled a new classification system for sims that seems destined to change life for SL netizens, including many of us BDSM Life regulars. In short, the change requires sexually oriented sims be designated adult content, forced to relocate to a red light district of the mainland, and access will be denied to unverified SL accounts.

The reason LL puts forth for this change seems a bit spurious. They make it sound as though there have been complaints from some residents that it is too easy to be exposed to sexually related material while casually exploring SL. LL's loose standards used to verify resident age seems partly to blame. Relocation of adult sites to the mainland following the restructuring of land pricing also appears to be a contributing factor, because adult sites were interspersed with others.

Now it has never been denied that much SL content is sexually oriented. There are many who would even argue that sex built SL. While the BDSM newsletter has not conducted any formal, scientific polls, sex appears to be on the mind of most of the residents this reporter has encountered, at least, both in and outside of the BDSM Life sim. This policy change ultimately seem bad for business; any reduction in the number of residents granted access to adult sims seems likely to result in a similar loss of revenue, not only to sim owners, but to LL as well.

This apparent contradiction to common business sense has many speculating about a hidden agenda. Could a possible merger of the Teen Grid with SL be driving the need to ensure children are not exposed to what has, until now, been assumed to be a purely adult environment? Or is SL being cleaned up so it can be sold? Whatever the case, LL is making it apparent that our shared virtual reality is ultimately a business venture and not the social experiment we have been led to believe was intended.

This likely means more changes to our beloved BDSM-Life sim. Details are sketchy at the moment, in part because LL is waiting 6 weeks before implementing changes so that residents can ostenisbly weigh in. There seems little confidence any change can be affected however residents respond - LL is not known for considering residents' opinions even now.

See the accompanying transcript of the recent BDSM-Life Manager's team meeting for options that are being exploredAnd stay tuned to the BDSM Newsletter, where more details will be published as they are made available.
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3. Store Highlight - Fnordian Furniture



This week's highlighted store in the BDSM Life sim is Fnordian Furniture. FF carries lots of unusual and hard to find items that make BDSM Life sim such a great place to hang out!

The Fnordian Golden Love Pool is only 26 prims. There are 15 different pose balls, featuring a virtual orgy of options for males and females, singles and couples ! Kiss, dance, cuddle, or watch and play the SL day away with all your friends. Normally $300L, but it's available for only $150L at Fnordian Furniture on Wednesday, March 18th.

Here is the pschedelic Fnordian Pussy Bed! It comes with a pair of pose balls for female fun!

If you are planning an auction, consider using the Fnordian Auction box! It's onl one prim, and is copiable and modifiable, letting you set the Item, person, or service name, minimul $L bid, auction length, percentage split to share $L with another avatar, and an option to give the item to the winner.

Come meet Fnordian Link, Wednesday, March 18, at 7 PM SLT, at his store in the BDSM Life sim. He will be handing out Fnordian canes, top hats, and the patented Fnordian Rainbow Heart pose stand with multiple poses! Fnordian will also be giving away copies of his amazing sculpture
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4. Bondage Awards



There's only ONE WEEK left in the Bondage Awards! We need your help in this years Bondage Awards and we hope that you will help BDSM-Life.com starting today March 1st, 2009.

You will need to click the banner for the Bondage awards first, these banners are at the top of EVERY Page on the BDSM-Life.com website, or follow the link to http://www.bondageawards.com/

Once there you will need to go to the bottom of the "Stage One Voting" section and follow the link "Click here to Vote".

Then go to the section "Best Free Website" and enter BDSM-Life.com and our URL http://www.bdsm-life.com then once done go to the bottom of the page and click the button "Click here to submit your Vote".

You can do this once a day. We need at least 10 votes to qualify for the next round and we ask your support to do this every day for us and help us win this year.

And of course, if you have not signed up for a FREE BDSM-Life profile yet at:

http://www.BDSM-Life.com

well, what are you waiting for? Sign up now and meet all the great folks who are just waiting to meet you!

We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.

Thanks for your support!!!
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5. Sub Corner - Journey to Submission (by Lovlee Destiny)



I dont claim to know much about the BD/Sm life style, I am in the process of learning as I go. trial and error as one might say.. lets hope it is more trial then error. I will be speaking in terms of my own relationship, and its kind," female heterosexual submissive," I Poses no knowledge on any other type

I believe the most important part a Submissive can to, is to find a Dom, that they are willing to accept. Take into consideration, the things you like and dont like, and choose your Dom, according to your needs and desires. If the match is right, you can have a very satisfing and wonderful experience. Be picky.. it is after-all ur life..

I have realized that I am at my best when I am in a more intimate, and restrictive relationship, confining me and protecting me at the same time. I feel that certain relationship in my life, I can handle better and more clearly aware of what needs to be accomplished, of course making me wonder why I cant be this person when I am my own, why do I need the strong will of another to guide, and contour the paths I take. Why do I feel more fulfilled when the normal everyday things I do are for him and not for just myself. Why do I feel more content when he chooses to spend time with me, rather then a date or outing with friends. There are lots aspects of this that i am learning and researching ...to become more aware of what I am.. and what it is I need.

There is a strenght in leading, but I think there is also a great strength in following, without hesitation and without question.

BDSM Life newsletter wishes to thank Lovlee Destiny for sharing her experience as a sub with our readers. Other readers are welcome to submit their experiences as Domme, sub, or switch, for publication in future newsletters. please send a NC to Roni Scarmon or Cazzy Hax for consideration.
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6. Hornet's Auction article (by Hornet Lefevre)



It was another completely full sim that welcomed the busiest and most exciting BDSM Life slave auction we have had for quite a while. We have three excellent slaves up for auction and that was recognised by the buyers who turned out in good numbers and kept the bidding fast and frenetic. The three slaves were all snapped up by very enthusiastic Masters and Mistresses and all without doubt were very happy with their purchases.

The quality of the slaves we have up for auction is getting better and better and it is clear that in terms of value for money, there is no better auction for Masters and Mistresses to visit and make their purchase.

Masters / Mistresses - Get to BDSM Life Slave Auctions to get the very best deals for the very best slaves before the secret get too well known!

See you all next Saturday at 3.00pm SLT

Hornet Lefevre
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7. Photo Contest



We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!

Females:

Sandylou Aboma
Baby Anatra (current leader)
Kore Bravin
Esha Braun
Kathyrn123 Constaintine
Charlene Denimore
IsisRea Diavolo
Kendra Docherty
Diane Foxdale
Cazzy Hax
Zibber Lemon
Natalie Nightfire
Serpentina Skute
PrincessAril666 Violet

Males:

Kodi Diesel
Tarl Field (current leader)
Bunderwahl Guise
Askalon Hax
Douglass McDonnell
Terry888 Melson
rm1982 Moonites

So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*

$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!

Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?

The Photo Contest will run from now to March.
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8. Classified and Personal Ads



At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!

Aeonflux Llewelen has a good imagination and is highly literate. She appreciates seduction and romance but can respond eagerly to other approaches as well. This girl is wired to please and wants to make you feel like she has been longing and aching for you and only you forever. After that pleasing you in what ever way you want is what she wants too. come, let this girl make you feel like the most special person she has ever been with. Her hard limits are scat, animals, kids, blood, and extreme pain. If it turns you on, she can get into most anything else. Pleas egive her a chance to serve you, sir.

Luna Lafleur would love to have you spend time with her at this beautiful new club if you are ever so inclined. She will do her best to make your time an enjoyable experience as she does so enjoy spending it with you. She has many toys to play with, uses Xcite products and has sound Huds to make your experience as real as possible. She enjoys what she does and your pleasure is most important to her and yes she does also enjoy time spent with you in every way.

Pussyshowgirl Brianna says: Ich bin sehr daran Interessiert eine Sklavin zu werden aber am Liebsten zu einem Deutschen Master da mein English nicht gerade gut ist. An nötigen tools wie z.b. Collar, Cuffs, Slave HUD oder sonstigem was ich benötige soll es nicht scheitern das besitze ich alles. Ich Stelle mich hier ein um nict mal fr einen Tag als Sklavin zu dienen sondern auch gerne mal eine Längere Zeit. bitte PN an mich bei Interesse. Habe kein Finanzielles Interesse. Und wichtig ist RL geht immer vor. Ansonsten besitze ich kaum Tabus das wäre Deadspiele und Umwandlung zum Vampir oder ähnlichem das mache ich nicht. Wenn noch Fragen sind PN an mich Versuche zu Antworten.

Shiva Jumanya is seeking a Male Dominant, real life experience preferred. Please read The Dominant's Creed at http://www.wired-productionz.com/bri.dhe/Library.html to understand what she is looking for. Honesty and reliability is a must, should have at least 6 hours a week in SL to spend with me in order to build the relationship. Her preference is to be the only one under the Master's hand and for there to be a possibility if the relationship blossoms to meet and interact real time.

Thomas Aker wants it to be known that he and his RL wife Lily are expecting their third child. Congratulations to Sir Thomas and Lily!

Zion McBride is a trained and experienced female sex slave seeking a new domme/dom, or mistress or master to use and abuse her.

Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.

If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!

We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your

picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.

Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at

BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.

What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!
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9. Events @ BDSM-Life



Thursday
12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject: Sadism

Saturday
11AM till 3 PM SLT - New BDSM-Life Grand Opening OParty
3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie

Sunday
12pm till 3 pm SLT - Open Collar with Tarl Field

Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.

We will update the blog website during the week for events.

If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to

lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.

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10. In other news......



We have a Bargain Shop right here at BDSM-Life, where you can buy some nice silks, clothes or skins at a very cheap price! Why don't you come along and have a look!
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Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/ in case you have missed them.

We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)

Spread the word!

We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!

Thank you!
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Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/

Pictures by Cazzy Hax, Thomas Aker, Hornet Lefevre, Roni Scarmon and the Photo Contest people
Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon
Copyright @ BDSM-Life

Friday, 13 March 2009

BDSM-Life Manager Meeting Transcript

[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Ok .... let start this and get it over with :P
[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: Welcome all off you to the BDSM-Life meeting
[13:00] Lapa Vella: thanks Cons. and hello too ppl arount
[13:00] Constanza Amsterdam: before asking questions, please let me finish....... afterwards i have time for questions. :)
[13:00] Professor Sadovnycha is Online
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As some off you know or heard, LL is going to change some off the adult content policies in SL
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: What does this mean?
[13:01] Constanza Amsterdam: As far as clear now, LL will have a rating with 3 flags: PG, Mature and Adult
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: What they define under Mature and Adult is not known yet
[13:02] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Roni Scarmon! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: So the only thing we can do in that case is wait and see what happends
[13:02] Constanza Amsterdam: However.......
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: Due to the nature of our sim.... we will be rated as Adult
[13:03] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants everyone rated as Adult to move to a seperate continent.... Adult continent
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam: and that is something we dont want
[13:03] Constanza Amsterdam takes a breath......lol
[13:04] Wynter Thei: lol breathe consi breathe
[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: Lord and i have discussed all options all day
[13:04] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.
[13:04] Lapa Vella: im not see problem... why you upset?
[13:04] Constanza Amsterdam: and we are keeping a close eye on any changes made during today to the blogs, forums and everything is else
[13:05] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Talon Tunwarm! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: We have decided that BDSM-Life as it is now, cant stay here... so we are going to make it smaller........
[13:05] Constanza Amsterdam: with just a meeting area, my mainshop and that is it
[13:05] Roni Scarmon: :-(
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm kicks Sammi's chair as he trys to sit down
[13:06] Tarl Field: i am sorry to hear that
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: Landprices will drop like the econimy in the US is at the moment
[13:06] Blake Kohime is Online
[13:06] Sammi Loire: ooo talon
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: and we cant afford that
[13:06] Sammi Loire: lol
[13:06] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:06] Sammi Loire: moves it forward
[13:06] Talon Tunwarm leans over and plays with Sammi's hair
[13:06] Constanza Amsterdam: So we are going to keep half a sim
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: with my store, a small meeting area, the slave auction and lecture room
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: also Tarls shop will stay
[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: the rest will all be gonne
[13:07] Roni Scarmon: No more cafe?
[13:07] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Zeldan Blackburn! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:07] Constanza Amsterdam: Adult content Roni... we cant
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: We would love to keep everything as it is
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me we do.....
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: But LL is seeing it different
[13:08] Tarl Field: why not have a normal dance club?
[13:08] Keelar Shelman: The slave auction could be defined adult also...
[13:08] Constanza Amsterdam: It will also mean: that people without age verification or payment info will not be allowed on our sim anymore
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: or any other Mature/Adult flagged land
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We have no clue on what will be flagged as Adult and what will be Mature
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: We do know that...... sex lands with equipments is flagged as Adult
[13:09] Constanza Amsterdam: anything with sex or violence will be classed as adult
[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: So i guess you can all see what is going to happen in SL
[13:10] Blake Kohime is Offline
[13:10] Roni Scarmon: If BDSM will be labelled adult or mature what's the issue with moving tothe adult continent?
[13:10] Talon Tunwarm: yep, will need to make an account
[13:10] Roni Scarmon: More $L?
[13:10] Constanza Amsterdam: Roni? what you think about money?
[13:11] Lapa Vella thinks can send all info about RL to LidenLab... but not wish write it in her profiles
[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: We simply cant afford to move and buy another land
[13:11] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Robyn Rossman! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:11] Roni Scarmon: I understand. Didn't realize it would cost even more than this.
[13:11] Constanza Amsterdam: not only that..... a lot of people wont be able to come to BDSM-Life because they have eighter a free account or didnt varify age
[13:11] Fluf Fredriksson: Don't know how true it is, but LL were offering to assist relocations ...
[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: Fluf me and Lord have been in SL long enough to know they wont
[13:12] Tarl Field: for a price i am sure they will help
[13:12] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Thomas Aker! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:12] Kodi Diesel: But wouldnt the name alone classify it as adult, or would the name change as well, i may have missed that
[13:12] Constanza Amsterdam: ok let me give you an example:
[13:12] Fluf Fredriksson: And free accounts can age verify .. I did my alt today
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: LL wants all Adult content on 1 continent
[13:13] Wynter Thei: Be Right Back!! ツ
[13:13] Zeldan Blackburn: does payment info not automatically verify age
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: that comes with: Lag........ even more then now..... people not able to go to BDSM-Life because of free accounts or not age varified....
[13:13] Keelar Shelman: whats the idea of having all adult content on one place?
[13:13] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not worth the hasstle
[13:14] Lasynda Shichiroji is Online
[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar... we believe and a lot of other people to that LL wants to merge the Teen grid with this grid
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: What about a group to buy into the new continent
[13:14] Constanza Amsterdam: Bring in 900 USD and we can Zeldan
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: ooooooo
[13:14] Chyenne Devin is Online
[13:14] Keelar Shelman: great...SL a kiddies place
[13:14] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:14] Roni Scarmon: Is that 900 to move or 900/month?
[13:14] Zeldan Blackburn: 10 folk at 90?
[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: 900 to pay to buy land and then 195 USD tier each month
[13:15] Roni Scarmon: So same price as now AFTER move?
[13:15] Constanza Amsterdam: we dont know Roni
[13:16] Constanza Amsterdam: it wouldnt surprice me if LL makes the Adult continent more exspansive
[13:16] Roni Scarmon: I could come up with $90. But is that the issue or are you concerned about losing business if you are located on the adult continent.
[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: We have a free sex area Roni, we have been for a year. I am online most the day... the only people i see here regulair i can count on 1 hand
[13:17] Tarl Field: The real issue here is that ll wants to make money and buy forcing adult content to move to anotherserver they will make money on new land and so on
[13:17] Constanza Amsterdam: So is it worth to move a complete sim to an Adult continent for us? No
[13:17] Keelar Shelman: one continent means also one computer cluster...would be easier to make login into that harder if they want to
[13:17] Roni Scarmon: OK. Just trying to understand teh scope of teh problem.
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: It is not only us Roni
[13:18] Tarl Field: and your right consie the number of people coming here often is not high
[13:18] Roni Scarmon: Sex isn't paying the bills apparently. So this will not be BDSM any more after the change then.
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: look for example at Strokerz... he has to devide his shop into 2........ or better yet... 3 as he has PG, Mature and Adult stuff for sale
[13:18] Constanza Amsterdam: I can have my shop on Adult.........
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: but i cant have BDSM-Life on mature
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: so do we have 2 seperate sims?
[13:19] Tarl Field: well my store need to be on a adult as the outfit i make shows the nipples and sex...sigh
[13:19] Roni Scarmon: Sounds like even more $L ot me.
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Nah... we rather downscale... make a nice meeting area where we can talk and meet up and have some fun
[13:19] Roni Scarmon: PG fun
[13:19] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Kaddan
[13:20] Kaddan Yue: hello
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: indeed Roni... PG/Mature fun
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Which will maybe even attracked more people in the sim......lol
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: Heya Gemini
[13:20] Kaddan Yue: ggunleash
[13:20] Gemeni Giha: hello Constanza
[13:20] Constanza Amsterdam: and Hey Leesa
[13:21] Kaddan Yue: lbunleash
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: I know this all comes as a shock
[13:21] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Kaddan Yue! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: believe me... we werent to happy with this new nice policy
[13:21] Roni Scarmon: TO you most of all I'm sure!
[13:21] Robyn Rossman: SorryIsnt this all in disscussion stage with LL constanza
[13:21] Constanza Amsterdam: No Robyn, they let you think it is
[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: Same happend with the Gambling a few years ago
[13:22] Zeldan Blackburn: Constanza is correct that they want to link with teens
[13:22] Robyn Rossman: Ok just thats how I read the blog
[13:22] Constanza Amsterdam: and they want to start implementing it within 6 weeks already
[13:22] Fluf Fredriksson: No gambling was rolled out without warning .. this time they haev put up forum posts for discussion and invited comment
[13:22] Leesa Back: lbnadu1
[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: Not true Fluf.... it started with a similair discussing and was implemented within 6 weeks aswell
[13:23] Roni Scarmon: Got a link to the forum? I wouldn't mind expressing my opinion!
[13:23] Constanza Amsterdam: http://forums.secondlife.com/showthread.php?t=311510
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: When you read the forum, please also pay attention to the Lindens..... they dont even know what is going to happen
[13:24] Tarl Field: sounds like sl want to be a pg play area...
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: some say we have to move, others say we dont
[13:24] Constanza Amsterdam: but as we know LL.... we quess we have to
[13:25] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lilliana Roux! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:25] Keelar Shelman: what i dont understand.....kids wont bring money into SL, at least not as much as adult do. But on the other hand, many adults will leave if that happens
[13:25] Keelar Shelman: isnt LL just giving themselves the money drop?
[13:25] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar.... SL is a company who has made biljons of residents like us....
[13:26] Robyn Rossman: Well I think there is a big problem with under age kids getting into places like this
[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: the intention of LL with SL was purly to build a 3D internet and we have been the testbunnies
[13:26] Kaddan Yue: Which is LL's fault
[13:26] Constanza Amsterdam: LL has been out of touch with its residents since 2 years already
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: they wont listen
[13:27] Fluf Fredriksson: I'm with Robyn .. age verification is actually a good thing .. perhaps being badly roleld out .. but a good thing in theory
[13:27] Kaddan Yue: This is a done deal
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and they are clueless
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: people will leave my home is in a mature area
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: it is Kaddan
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: they would kick me out too
[13:27] Deanna McBride is Online
[13:27] Roni Scarmon: My home is HERE!
[13:27] Zeldan Blackburn: smiles
[13:27] Kaddan Yue: They should not have closed the Teen Grid
[13:27] Constanza Amsterdam: and a part will stay Roni
[13:27] Talon Tunwarm: love this place
[13:28] Thomas Aker: were not all lucky as you Roni
[13:28] Kaddan Yue: now they are making thier issue ours
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: So true
[13:28] Roni Scarmon: B*st*rds! <----PG swearing
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:28] Sammi Loire: lol hahaah
[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: lol
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: I hope you all can understand our action to this
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: we stay but smaller
[13:28] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Bobby Triellis! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:28] Constanza Amsterdam: loads will leave now again
[13:28] Kaddan Yue: very true
[13:28] Talon Tunwarm: bdsm...is a four letter word now?
[13:28] Kodi Diesel: I had hearda rumor they were trying to pg the whole thing to make it ripe to sell, harder with adult content
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: this my guess will be the downfall of SL
[13:29] Tarl Field: and consie if you want to stay my shop cant stay as its rated adult on xstreetsl
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: we believe so to Kodi... our guess today was that SL will be sold
[13:29] Talon Tunwarm: will be a downfall for awhile, but with new people coming in....
[13:29] Constanza Amsterdam: Tarl, dont worry for now
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: not if they cant find sex talon
[13:30] Tarl Field: new people=teenagers
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: sex sells.... in any world
[13:30] Thomas Aker: so we cant do slave auctions?
[13:30] Talon Tunwarm: so true
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: if it is not here... people will leave... believe me
[13:30] Tarl Field: i am not worried but xstreet forced my items to adult as they show the nipples
[13:30] Constanza Amsterdam: For now we continue the auctions Thomas
[13:30] Keelar Shelman: another rumor says they are trying to create an open standard for 3d environments
[13:30] Keelar Shelman: maybe another SL will pop up then...but thats a long shot
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: Like i said Keelas... SL was intented as a 3d internet envorment
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: we were just test bunnies
[13:31] Constanza Amsterdam: and i know people who are working on that one Keelar ;)
[13:32] Constanza Amsterdam: So lets make this a great PG meeting area with likeminded people
[13:32] Keelar Shelman: Working on it until L comes and buys them off?
[13:32] Tarl Field: guess i will make the bodystockings opaque and sell them as velour catsuits
[13:32] Roni Scarmon: lololol
[13:33] Blake Rembrandt is Online
[13:33] Roni Scarmon: Oh doo doo!
[13:33] Kodi Diesel: *grin*
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: Keelar, they wont be able to as the owner wont let LL buy it....lol
[13:33] Sammi Loire: hhahahahhahh
[13:33] Kaddan Yue: I see that for private sims we just have to flag it correct
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: He is so damn anti LL... that will never happen
[13:33] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan, island are lucky
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: good
[13:34] Thomas Aker: boy and i thought the TV Sencers were bad
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: okay so they want more people to buy private islands
[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: this is all due to the fact that LL wants to merge the tengrid
[13:34] Kaddan Yue: LL always has hiden agenda's
[13:34] Constanza Amsterdam: so true Kaddan
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: Teen grid is probably not paying for itself
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: they want sim sales to boost
[13:35] Constanza Amsterdam: it is even this bad, that i am quiting as SecondLife Mentor
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: well it's pretty much closed
[13:35] Tarl Field: All it comes down it is the americans double standards about sex and voilence and crap. No offence meant to people thats not hypocrits
[13:35] Kaddan Yue: has been for about a month
[13:35] John11011967 Karu is Online
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: SO true Tarl!
[13:35] Roni Scarmon: We a bunch of prudes over here
[13:35] Thomas Aker: theres a show og LL thinking teen is not paying so they make SL a kiddy grid hmmmmmm......
[13:36] Constanza Amsterdam: thank god i live in Holland
[13:36] Talon Tunwarm: only can have sex with animales in america...lol
[13:36] Kaddan Yue: that is not nice
[13:36] Kaddan Yue: all of us don't think like that
[13:36] Thomas Aker: naaaa thats Mexico
[13:36] Kitty Armband by *Sterremare Designs whispers: You look great wearing me, Islandgirl Biler.
[13:36] Fluf Fredriksson: When are you planning on shrinking down the sim then? Constanza?
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: ASAP
[13:37] Fluf Fredriksson: k
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: the new months tier has been paid
[13:37] Kaddan Yue: okay so we loss shops
[13:37] Tarl Field: so with in 4 weeks then
[13:37] Roni Scarmon: I cansee the eadline on the BDSM Newsletter....if there was a newsletter.
[13:37] Constanza Amsterdam: So a PG BDSM-Life will remain and so is my store
[13:37] Thomas Aker: guess my idea for nude Sub sky diving contest just went out the window
[13:38] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:38] Tarl Field: i need to make all the bodystockings opaque
[13:38] Silkie Muir: ahhhh. These was an item on the forums about nudity
[13:38] Constanza Amsterdam: We have to do that fast then Thomas
[13:38] Tarl Field: which destroys the idea i had with them
[13:38] Roni Scarmon: And crotched!
[13:38] Bobby Triellis: And a Mature BDSM?
[13:38] Thomas Aker: unless you sell them underground Tarl
[13:38] Silkie Muir: Mudity that is not sex related is ok for mature
[13:38] Tarl Field: they have never been crotchless roni...laugh
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: without heavy sex yes Bobby, we cant have any sex related stuff here
[13:39] Silkie Muir: so unless you are having sex while you skydive, its fine according to the linden that posted it
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: but naked we can as we will flag it as mature
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: lmfao
[13:39] Happy Hawkeye is Offline
[13:39] Roni Scarmon: Mature=nudity & adult=sex?
[13:39] Constanza Amsterdam: Dark Den will not be flagged as Adult
[13:39] Kaddan Yue: why
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: No sex Kaddan
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:40] Kaddan Yue: lol
[13:40] Silkie Muir: basically and mass murder is probably ok in PG but should be ok in Mature so long as you aren't naked while you do it
[13:40] Kaddan Yue: oh then I am a man
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: they are so out of touch
[13:40] Roni Scarmon: lol
[13:40] Talon Tunwarm: just kidnap and torture
[13:40] Thomas Aker: we need to collar LL
[13:40] Tarl Field: if sl is 18 + why do they allow kid avatars?
[13:40] Constanza Amsterdam: ok no sex stuff here then
[13:40] Roni Scarmon: Sigh
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: we keep it Mature in a PG style...... but half the land as we have now
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: wait
[13:41] Talon Tunwarm: bondage is okay?
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: does that mean Bull has to close
[13:41] Robyn Rossman: Tarl it LL double standards thats why
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: not sex then Talon
[13:41] Silkie Muir: probably not
[13:41] Tarl Field: if they rate things her as mature what is my classes they are treatign a adutl subject as bdsm...
[13:41] Roni Scarmon: Only if you're not enjoyign it
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: YES KADDAN
[13:41] John11011967 Karu: wow
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: i was waiting for that
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: Great
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: whahahahahah
[13:41] John11011967 Karu: hwehehehehe
[13:41] Kaddan Yue: sorry
[13:41] Constanza Amsterdam: lol
[13:42] Thomas Aker: hmmm no chance of renting a place in the "adult area" and set up the toys there like the Dungen we had on the island?
[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: We will see Thomas.... for now... we dont know
[13:42] Talon Tunwarm: bondage toys okay, as long they dont have sex balls?
[13:42] Constanza Amsterdam: They are not even sure if Gor will be flagged as Adult as it is not explicit sexsual
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: So if I had a private Island
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: yes Kaddan
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: and invited you to have your auctions I could do this
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: Yes Kaddan as long as your land is flagged rightly
[13:43] Kaddan Yue: yes it would be
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: but if Gor can stay on Mature
[13:43] Tarl Field: excuse me..lol
[13:43] Evil Titler: Wynter Thei needs a new title! To set it, anyone may say the text on /13. Wynter is not able to change it.
[13:43] Constanza Amsterdam: So will auctions
[13:43] Thomas Aker: this is going to be hard on us managers to tell our visiters to stay dressed and no funny stuff
[13:43] Tarl Field: gor is 99% about sex...lol
[13:44] Kaddan Yue: so that is offer I lend to you
[13:44] Constanza Amsterdam: Thank you Kaddan :)
[13:44] Evil Titler: No-one gave Wynter Thei a new title! Wynter will stay with the existing one for a while more.
[13:44] Talon Tunwarm: if you need to join a group to visit an island, that would be okay?
[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Not if its not flagged Talon
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: okay
[13:45] Roni Scarmon: An alternative could be paying for group membership to purchase and maintain land. It wouldn't be "Free" any more, of course.
[13:45] Constanza Amsterdam: Landowners will have to flag land not groups
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: 1L to join would be close
[13:45] Talon Tunwarm: i see
[13:46] Constanza Amsterdam: So i hope you all understand our way to go and will keep supporting us
[13:46] Talon Tunwarm: will do
[13:47] Roni Scarmon: Of course
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: if you have any suggestions... please let me know
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: and questions are welcome to
[13:47] Thomas Aker: as allways
[13:47] Tarl Field: consie i wont disappere
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: We will be working closly with Kaddan and Sir John
[13:47] John11011967 Karu: *Smiles*
[13:47] Kaddan Yue: excellent
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: For sex... go to Kaddan... oeps
[13:47] Thomas Aker: do I have to remove the Collar Ceremoney ?
[13:47] Constanza Amsterdam: for chitchat... come here
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: No Thomas
[13:48] Thomas Aker: yaaa
[13:48] Classroomchair5prims whispers: Hi Lapa Vella! Touch me for Menu. Say /1a to Adjust.
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: :)
[13:48] Constanza Amsterdam: any other questions?

Sunday, 8 March 2009

Weekly Kinky Newsletter Issue Mar 8-Mar 15

Newsletter for BDSM-Life!

In this newsletter:

1. BDSM-Life Sim Grand Opening Party
2. Bondage Awards
3. BDSM-Life Slave Auctions
4. Photo Contest
5. Personal Ads
6. Events @ BDSM-Life
7. In other news.....

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1. BDSM-Life Sim Grand Opening Party



BDSM-Life held its grand opening party Saturday, March 7. Hugo’s Design sponsored the event, supplying several yummy latex creations for every eye to feast upon! To the beat of throbbing rock music, Qudex introduced each of the models as she hit the stage.



This is Deanna McBride in Hugo’s Designs curvaceous latex body suit. Gloves and matching thigh high stockings complement this dusky topless set. Perfect for a little nipple nipping in a peckish moment!



Here’s Shaina Baxton in Hugo’s Designs Carbon Lingerie. The outfit consists of pants that are so tight they look painted on, a licorice bikini top, long elegant gloves, and buckled boots. She’s both sweet and sassy!



This is your intrepid reporter-cum-model, so to speak, wearing Ellen Huet’s Astra Black. Click the close-up of the corset and see the detailed straps and fasteners all down the front. Gloves are, of course, a standard with Hugo, as well as the thigh high stockings. I mixed in a pair of black Eye-Catcher Rahana stilettos and riding crop to add a little spice, although really none was needed! (These are not included in the package, btw!)

Peek-a-boob! Here’s Deanna once more, this time in Hugo’s Designs sheer suit. This full length latex body suit has openings in all the right places to show off your best features! It has the texture of liquid chocolate and looks absolutely decadent.










I was quite pleased to next model Ellet Huet’s Flux Pink latex bikini, which I am pretty sure Consie selected especially for me! All of the pieces are a bright neon pink, my favorite color, bordered by black. Lol The bottom is zippered for easy access. Black garters attach to gleaming pink stockings. I changed Consie’s Rahana Stiletto colors to match. Good and Plenty’s anyone?



Deanna shows a cheeky side in Nienna Lace. Thigh high black boots and garters match the long black latex gloves. Does anybody else have the urge to give her a quick smack?



And here I am once again in this hot red and black Soma set. Six separate buckles and straps run up the front to just beneath the bulging top. The black and red theme was complemented by Consie’s fetish ballet boots. These are not included, btw.



Each of these collections is available in a variety of colors. All these stunning outfits and more are available at Hugo Designs. Come and meet latex artist Bianka Bookmite on Wednesday, March 11, at her store her in BDSM-Life. (NEED TIME)



After the Fashion Show, everybody retired to the Hard Restraint Café for dancing, chatter and the latex contest! We all danced the night away.



The Best in Latex contest boards offered more than $2000L in cash and prizes.



Qudex was there as well, of course, supplying lots of great music as always. And Hugo’s provided a great collection of 6 freebies latex bikinis from Elen Huet’s portfolio to everybody who came!
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2. Bondage Awards



We need your help in this years Bondage Awards and we hope that you will help BDSM-Life.com starting today March 1st, 2009.

You will need to click the banner for the Bondage awards first, these banners are at the top of EVERY Page on the BDSM-Life.com website, or follow the link to http://www.bondageawards.com/

Once there you will need to go to the bottom of the "Stage One Voting" section and follow the link "Click here to Vote".

Then go to the section "Best Free Website" and enter BDSM-Life.com and our URL http://www.bdsm-life.com then once done go to the bottom of the page and click the button "Click here to submit your Vote".

You can do this once a day. We need at least 10 votes to qualify for the next round and we ask your support to do this every day for us and help us win this year.

And of course, if you have not signed up for a FREE BDSM-Life profile yet at:

http://www.BDSM-Life.com

well, what are you waiting for? Sign up now and meet all the great folks who are just waiting to meet you!

We give you this site for FREE please help us get it recognized and help us grow in 2009.

Thanks for your support!!!
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3. Hornet's Slave Auction article



To all slaves,

Are you a true slave?
Is it in your heart to serve?
Are you looking for a new challenge?
Want to show how good a slave you really are?



BDSM Life is holds its slave auctions every Saturday at 3.00pm SLT

If you would like to be involved in our auctions please fill out an application form. They are available near the Auction Stage in BDSM-Life sim.



The very best rates in slave auctions are paid to approved applicants.

I look forward to hearing from you

Hornet Lefevre
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4. Photo Contest


We have some sexy people who are brave enough to put up a picture of themselves that you can vote for, but who are they? See below! :-) They need YOUR votes! :-) Go to BDSM-Life and vote!

Females:

Sandylou Aboma
Baby Anatra (current leader)
Kore Bravin
Esha Braun
Kathyrn123 Constaintine
Charlene Denimore
IsisRea Diavolo
Kendra Docherty
Diane Foxdale
Cazzy Hax
Zibber Lemon
Natalie Nightfire
Serpentina Skute
PrincessAril666 Violet

Males:

Kodi Diesel
Tarl Field (current leader)
Bunderwahl Guise
Askalon Hax
Douglass McDonnell
Terry888 Melson
rm1982 Moonites

So, go on, don't be shy! Take a picture of yourself, show off your sexy and handsome body! *giggle*

$L5000 each for the female and for the male winners. So a lot of money……!

Come along to BDSM-Life and enter the photo contest in the Dating Centre! And at the same time, why don't you vote for your favourite picture?

The Photo Contest will run from now to March.
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5. Personal Ads



At BDSM-Life, we have Personal Ads boards where you can put up a personal ad to let people know that you are looking for someone!!!!

Zion McBride is a trained and experienced female sex slave seeking a new domme/dom, or mistress or master to use and abuse her.

Please go to the personal ads boards at BDSM-Life, and click on the name to get their notecards.

If you are interested, look for their full information cards in the neww Dating Centre & Photo Contest pyramid!

We have plenty of spaces for people to post up on the boards at BDSM-Life. Even better if your

picture is up on the boards, we will put your name and details in the newsletter.

Please either IM or send a notecard to Roni Scarmon to let her know if you have a personal ad at

BDSM-Life and she will put your personal ad in the newsletter.

What a better way to look for new lovers, new sub/slave, new Mistress/Master!
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6. Events @ BDSM-Life


Thursday
12PM till 3 PM - BDSM Classes by Tarl Field - Subject: Dominance and Discipline

Saturday
3PM - Slave Auction with Hornet and Lallie

Sunday
12pm till 3 pm SLT - Open Collar Basics

Lectures and classes are held in the Lecture Room.

We will update the blog website during the week for events.

If you have any ideas or suggestions for new events, contact Constanza Amsterdam. If you want to

lead a class in any topic related to BDSM, contact either Constanza Amsterdam or Tarl Field.

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7. In other news......



We have a Bargain Shop right here at BDSM-Life, where you can buy some nice silks, clothes or skins at a very cheap price! Why don't you come along and have a look!
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Past issues of the BDSM-life newsletter may be found at http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/ in case you have missed them.

We also have a newsletter-stand at the landing point at BDSM-Life that your friends can take if they are not a member of the BDSM-Life group. Even better yet, get them to join our group! :-)

Spread the word!

We welcome new ideas or suggestions, or writers for the newsletter! And any comments! Send a notecard to Roni Scarmon!

Thank you!
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Blog: http://bdsm-lifenewsletter.blogspot.com/

Pictures by Thomas Aker and Roni Scarmon
Articles by Cazzy Hax, Constanza Amsterdam, Hornet Lefevre and Roni Scarmon
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